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betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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TAMPA GROWN & SEXY POF MEET & GREET PARTY! 3.22.08! Posted: 3/19/2008 6:29:12 AM
I had a similiar situation-I wanted to go last week ,but had a birthday party I could not miss,and now a party this Saturday.They are all party people,so if it doesn't end early maybe I can talk them into heading over to The Chambers. It sounds like fun! I'm also working on getting another POFer to go! In any case,have A wonderful Easter weekend everyone!

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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Did anyone meet their love through their dog? Posted: 3/16/2008 4:01:43 PM
I agree with Gary-if you are a dog lover you can relate to meeting people this way! I have not met a "love interest " on my nightly dog walks,but have met alot of my neighbors this way.

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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Do you pull over for a funeral? Posted: 3/13/2008 4:39:24 PM
Absolutely, and I say a little prayer for the family as well.

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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Show of hands...How many woman here enjoy Sci-Fi? Posted: 3/13/2008 4:34:54 PM
I enjoy the sci-fi channel on tv and some of the movies. The old sci-fi movies are really comical. I grew up on Star Trek ,but never got into Stargate much.

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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how do you get rid of roach bugs Posted: 3/12/2008 1:01:50 PM
BG-You're right-a roach is a bug. Once I learned that roach eggs can be carried in the glue in paper bags(grocery) I converted to plastic or put the paper outside in the recycling bin right away. That, and having a cat has eliminated any roach concerns.

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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I could have got laid but my cat didn't like her.... Posted: 3/11/2008 5:58:55 AM
Modest Mouse, where DO You get your information? We vaccinate animals so that they can live long healthy lives. When I lived in a rural area our cat was allowed to roam at will,but came in as he wished. He was vaccinated (Luckily)against rabies .If he hadn't another cat who took up residence in our garage would have infected him and he would have died. He eventually died from an illness they now have a vaccination for-I hated to see that cat waste away.I can't believe you think it is ok not to vaccinate animals.Disease spreads through rats,squirrels,etc. It is not to protect us but our animals.. Animals DO NOT have the cure for their illnesses,otherwise they would not die from these diseases! Contact a vet and get your facts straight!

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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I could have got laid but my cat didn't like her.... Posted: 3/10/2008 4:21:47 PM
Modest Mouse,do you realize the number of cats you are bringing into this world because of your irresponsibility? You say you are allowing the cats the freedom to be outside to roam-I consider it being selfish. You never got the adult female "fixed" so she could not have kittens ,and now her kittens are out there reproducing.You don't believe in vaccinating the animals ,so if the cat(s) get infected with an illness it can spread to other cats and animals in the neighborhood. It's a good thing you don't live nearby because I'd report you to animal services so fast your head would spin.

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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Today I made lemonade from lemons Posted: 3/7/2008 4:06:19 PM
What a great "feel good" story! When you put positive energy out into the universe it will usually come back to you.Because you had such a good attitude about the car situation your mind was open to the experience of meeting this woman. Best wishes.

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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working out makes me nauseated...help Posted: 3/6/2008 4:06:51 PM
It sounds like you do not have enough food on your stomach to work out,so you crash and burn when you should still have energy to do your cardio. Your blood sugar is dropping and you are dehydrated.You will get much better benefits from your workouts if you eat a healthy snack before going to the gym.

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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What's Your Favorite Way To Relax? Posted: 3/3/2008 5:56:31 PM
Hmmm.....sometimes a warm bubble bath while drinking a glass of wine, other times getting involved reading a great mystery, or sitting outside watching my dog play and enjoying just being in the moment.

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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The Silent Treatment ... the Flip Side Posted: 1/6/2008 4:09:22 PM
kupcakes---there are women who like to go to a cave every now and then. I am one of them and have friends who do the same thing.Don't get me wrong-we do enjoy talking and a good discussion,but we certainly don't beat the proverbial "dead horse'. We do find that their are times when the only way to get our heads clear or find focus or whatever is to go to our caves. I have been totallt silent for whole weekends,so don't go generalizing about women....you haven't met all of us!

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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Did you get your pet something for Christmas? Posted: 12/24/2007 11:14:15 AM
Every year I get my pets a gift----absolutely mandatory. This year I have been out of a job for many months,so I am not exchanging gifts with my family.However,I did pull some cash together to get Syd,my dog, a Santa pull toy and a squeaky squirrel with a Santa hat on its head.She loves to chase squirrels and toys that squeak! For Sushi,my cat I got 2 catnip mice(in holiday colors) for her to flip over. I'll also break out a plastic bag for her to lick (she likes the taste of plastic.Weird!). I can handle not exchanging gifts ,but the animals in my life always get something!

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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Backrub/neckrub Posted: 12/14/2007 4:03:12 PM
Lord,I could use one right now!

betherscake

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Relationships and the holidays Posted: 11/30/2007 4:17:08 PM
I grew up celebrating the holidays just like in all the movies--making loads of cookies ,decorating the whole house,family gatherings,singing songs.Gradually my family died, my husband and I divorced,etc. The last few years I have spent the holidays alone.I have learned to appreciate the meanings of the holidays and honor the day in my own personal way. I don't ever want the days to be just "something to get through".

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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Internet dating Posted: 11/24/2007 6:39:14 PM
I have been on internet dating sites for quite some time with alot of good experiences. I have had several relationships, and remained friends with some of the people I have met on here and other sites. You don't mention if you have emailed or spoken on the phone to these guys before you meet them. You might want to take the time to do that as part of your screening process. I also would suggest you add more details to your profile about your interests and the kind of date that you would like. I would not delete my profile until you are absolutely sure the guy is the one for you.I have learned the hard way "not to put all my eggs in one basket" until time has past and it looks as though it is leading to a long term relationship.Jmo

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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am i dating too soon? Posted: 11/17/2007 8:31:45 AM
No, I don't think you are dating too soon. You have already gone on dates with other guys. One kiss at the door is fine,but I am really glad he respected you enough not to push for more. There is no rush--wait to make sure you you have more than just a physical connection before you "hop into bed". It does sound like he enjoys being with you--I like that he called that night and then asked for a date soon after. Sounds good to me.Have fun. I can understand you are nervous and excited--that's part of beginning a (hopefully) new relationship.I wish you all the best!

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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single for 9 years and still single Posted: 11/17/2007 8:22:22 AM
Mike, as the other women have stated there are many wonderful women out there. Right now it is difficult to believe that,especially with the wall you have built to protect yourself. It keeps people out,but it also does not let anyone in and you miss so much of life. Love is a wonderful thing,but in order to find "the right one" you have to take chances and that means getting hurt. I say this because I have had lots of experience.I have been divorced and single for over 15 yrs.,but have had several long term relationships.I was engaged too. Don't give the women from your past the power to control your future. Create some positive thoughts about what you want in a relationship and look for a positive woman that is right for you. She is out there and probably very different from the kind of woman you have gravitated to in the past. Take it slow and go easy on yourself. I know you will have luck in your search.

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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I NEED SOME MAJOR ADVICE Posted: 6/10/2007 8:28:46 AM
I think now he knows he has you hooked he thinks it is ok to keep you waiting. You are too special to wait for one guy! If you were that important to him he would make more than 5 seconds to talk to you. Start meeting other guys. If he thinks you are too good to miss he can call you. Please don't waste time waiting for someone who is wasting your time. Good luck!

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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Still no better Posted: 11/26/2006 6:09:15 AM
Honey, first of all , this guy treats you like this because you allow him to do so. We teach people the way we expect to be treated. You need to seek help from a professional,if not for yourself,do it for your son. Kids know more than you think they do--they are very observant. Please seek out a counsellor for help.There are many who will work on a sliding scale basis.Your son also may need help if he is wetting--a big sign that he is very stressed. I am so sorry you feel as badly as you do.I would like to know how you are doing....once you seek help.You can not do this alone! My very best for a happy and healthy future.

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 11/8/2006 4:00:24 PM
She wasn't assasinating his character--that guy did it all by himself! LOl. By the way,he may have had some valid remarks,but his tone was so vitriolic I decided it wasn't worth reading it. I have no picture --"Oh my God I'm one of those"-- for 2 reasons- 1-I absolutely detest getting my pic. taken. I have pics. from 4 yrs. ago that I have used in the past--but they are too old to use now. 2- I have communicated and met more sincere men without a picture. When I had my picture posted (not on this site) I would hear from guys who were all into looks. I have met guys without pics. and have found them to be as attractive (if not,more so) than those with pics. I have learned not to judge anyone just because a pic. is not posted.Some of you are missing out on some cool people due to misconceived thoughts.

betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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How would you handle this? Posted: 10/2/2006 5:43:28 PM
It is interesting to see how intolerant some people are about certain conditions. I have lupus,however I have never considered it a disability.No one would know I have the condition unless I told them.I work out,am on my feet all day (teaching),walk my dog every day, and have not taken any days off in the last couple of yrs.When I have a flare up I get extrememly tired and just go to bed very early or rest on the weekend.The only other difference is I have to take antibiotics before dental surgery--big deal. No one needs to take care of me--I do just fine. the men I have met have been told by the 3rd date and all are fine with it.Maybe it is the way I handle the discussion,but it has not been detrimental at all in my dating experience.

Betherscake

Joined: 5/20/2006

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It is possible to have a great date!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 9/16/2006 4:09:00 PM
Well,Kelly,I am really glad you had a great date! It sounds like you are still on a high from it.Here comes the however....you should never have someone back to your place when you have just met him on a site.I know it is possible to have a "great first date" ,having experienced some myself,but you have got to be careful. I hope this guy is super,but you need to slow down and get to know him before making that decision. Be careful and best wishes for future great dates with that guy, Beth

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