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goddess1972

Joined: 5/21/2006

Msg: 40 (view)

Obsolete Words Posted: 7/6/2009 11:54:54 AM
yeah but gay in the way in which it used to be used as in gay meaning happy, merry rather than somone who prefers the same sex is obsolete. records as in vinyl music is obsolete, hula hoop (the toy), space hopper, rashions, gravy stockings, winching lol loads of things the list is endless.

goddess1972

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Scottish clootie dumpling Posted: 7/6/2009 11:46:34 AM
1 pound of self raising flour half a pound of suet 1 and a half tea cups of sugar 2 good sized tea spoons of baking soda 1 tea spoon of cinamon 1 tea spoon of mixed spice half a tea spoon of ginger three quarters of a pound of dried fruit 1 gratted carrot 1 egg a little milk to mix 1 dessert spoon of treacle mix all the dry ingredients together add the egg, fuit, carrot, treacle and milk, mix into a soft dough. Dip a clean cotton t-towel into boiling water, lay it flat and sprinkle the t-towel with flour. Put the mix into the middle of the t- towel and gather and tie it at the top with string to form a ball shape, leaving room for rising. put a plate in the bottom of a large pot half filled with boiling water, put the t towel with mix in to pot on top off the plate and boil for 3 hours checking to make sure the pot does not dry out and has water in at all times, top up water as required. After 3 hours remove and leave to cool slightly before slicing and serving. In traditional times there was money added to the mix this is optional.

goddess1972

Joined: 5/21/2006

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If you could only have five.......... Posted: 7/6/2009 11:28:40 AM
black pepper, cinamon, piri piri, oregano and basil although i do grow my own basil.

goddess1972

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Where's a good place for a single girl to visit in Ireland? Posted: 7/6/2009 11:04:21 AM
It all depends if you are going to the south or the north of Ireland, also it has been said as i noticed already some of the comments that the English and Irish dont really get on. lol. If Northern Ireland, then Belfast castle is a nice place to visit as is the giants causeway. I personally prefer the Northern Irish accent lol. another wee tip if your visiting a lot of people from Northern Ireland dont like to be called Irish, i have found this out through experience and i know its a pain in the bum always having to refer to them as Northern Irish lol as its longer to say or type. Its a beautiful country and i hope you enjoy your visit. If your looking for places to visit feel free to send me a mail as I myself am Scottish and have visited many parts and might be able to tell you places to visit that may interest you. Happy travelling.

goddess1972

Joined: 5/21/2006

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Question for the ladies Posted: 7/6/2009 9:37:36 AM
I would say i was relatively attractive and i guess at times i can be intimidating as can most males and females. Its not about looks its about body language and attitude. If you are out for a night out with the girls have a bf or whatever then sub consciensly your body language changes and you can put out dont come near me vibes. Its not nessiarily the case that you are unappraochable its just that you are out on a girls night out and not to pull some drunk guy in a pub etc. I also have a friend who always has the intimidating look and never is approached by men, purley and simply because of the way she was treated in the past her natural defence mechanism makes her seem unapproachable when really she is approachable. there are many diff reasons for this, but i dont think its just a woman thing it goes the same way for men too. as for being approached by the wrong type of guys, lets face it everyone has been approached by someone they just don't like at least once in their lives........ i usually get older, fat balding drunken guys slobbering over me who really couldnt bite their finger......... this is not attractive to most women lol.

goddess1972

Joined: 5/21/2006

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What did I do wrong? Posted: 7/6/2009 9:22:50 AM
I dont think you did anything wrong, some people just like the chat or the thrill of the chase. Perhaps they have unerlying issues or memories from the past that they dont want to meet up. Perhaps she just got cold feet or got scared. At the end off the day all you can do is put it down to experience and think on it as she was not the girl for you, don't dwell on it and move on and try to find someone who is more suited to you. At the end of the day unless she gives you an explanation as to why she changed her mind, which is unlikely now then you will never know the reason why. If i was you i would not blame yourself in any shape or form, stop wondering about the if's, but's or why's and just put it down to experience think positively that there is someone else out there who deserves you.

goddess1972

Joined: 5/21/2006

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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex? Posted: 3/30/2009 2:05:26 PM
Ideally as much as was possible is all i can say to that.

goddess1972

Joined: 5/21/2006

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Women kissing after oral sex Posted: 3/30/2009 2:04:16 PM
i think its great i have no problem with it at all. and no problem performing oral after it has been inside me in fact i find it quite a turn on.

goddess1972

Joined: 5/21/2006

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Waking your partner for sex! Posted: 3/30/2009 2:03:10 PM
If its gotta be done its gotta be done lol i personally like to wake a partner by giving him oral he soon wakes up lol

goddess1972

Joined: 5/21/2006

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Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs? Posted: 3/30/2009 2:01:03 PM
I would imagine it would depend on the guy and if he is the one then it wont matter and i am sorry for your situation. I know however that i could not handle not being able to give one lol

goddess1972

Joined: 5/21/2006

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Do women like men who like Feet? Posted: 3/30/2009 1:46:34 PM
Feet are not nice but a man who appreciates my sexy high heels is a good thing just dont touch my feet lol

goddess1972

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Do you try to be the best sex they have ever had? Posted: 3/30/2009 12:31:58 PM
If you are natural and enjoy doing what you to do please another they will more than likely enjoy it to. i like to pay attention to my man and please him and in return he wants to please me therefore fantastic sex happens. Its not a case of being the best they ever had although i have been told that a few times its sharing and enjoying what you are doing with the person you are with that matters and if you happen to be the best then its a bonus, its not a competition its about wanting, desireing and being comfortable enough with someone to loose inhabitions that it becomes natural and good. Also if you concentrate on being the best they have ever had would it not spoil the moment as with like most things try to hard and it turns out crap??

goddess1972

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Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 3/30/2009 10:47:09 AM
I would never cheat i dont agree with it at all. If your that far into a relationship to get engaged etc or even at the begining of a relationship COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY!!! Be honest talk to each other about things before they get that far if you cant work it out then end it and move on. Its nasty and horrible to be cheated on, but it seems to be either in your nature or not, i am thankfull its not in mine as i have never cheated and if they cheat on you then they never deserved you in the first place. Maybe its just me but in all these posts that are on here it seems everyone can communicate to strangers about what is going on in their lives but not to the person they are with hence the need for these posts............WHY????

goddess1972

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girls, how should a guy warn you when he is about to finish the 1st time? Posted: 3/30/2009 10:39:18 AM
sorry if a guy tapped me i would just laugh especially now after reading this, bells and whistles whats that all about???? A woman worth her weight would know anyway and choose herself what she wants to do. However a subtle oh god im gonna cum soon whilst moaning is always a turn on and then gives the girl a chance to choose whether to move her mouth or not, however during penetration if its in there without a jacket and you have not discussed things before hand no point in warning now is there as would say it was already agreed where its going lol

goddess1972

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Do women like the taste of a mans semen? Posted: 3/30/2009 9:05:48 AM
The diet does affect the taste of it, spicy things like peperoni etc can also make it taste sweeter. Just ask the girl if she spits or swallows or say to her hmmm baby im gonna shoot where do you want it. i personally love it and would always swallow ..... why would you spend all that time sucking a lollypop to get to the sherbit bit in the middle then spit it out??? lol Each girl has there own preference so communication is the key.

goddess1972

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What a Kiss can tell you. Posted: 3/30/2009 8:02:04 AM
1. of course the first kiss helps and if they are good but a bit nervous kiss some more and it usually gets better but i think a kiss is a good indication if you are going to want to take it to the next intimacy level. kissing if done right is the ultimate turn on. 2. bad kisser depends if they are nervous if more than one kiss is had and they still dont suit the same kissing style as you then yeah walk away as it is a turn off.

goddess1972

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One person clothed, another naked? Posted: 3/29/2009 9:01:39 PM
i love a man being naked and me being dressed in a sexy outfit it is such a turn on. its also a turn on to have a guy rip my clothes off then just drop his trousers it heightens things and can be great fun.

goddess1972

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He couldn't get it UP, should I give him another chance?? Posted: 3/29/2009 8:58:45 PM
WHERE IS YOUR UNDERSTANDING AND COMPASSION?????????????? I have never had this happen to me before but seriously putting pressure on him by saying how disappointed you are aint gonna make the penis stand to attention and play with ya now is it????? It is common sense these things can happen for whatever reason be it nerves not used to being with another woman after coming out a relationship whatever the reason be understanding, tell him its no big deal cos really it shouldnt be a problem taljk about it try and resussitate it by massage or using your mouth but never ever put pressure on a guy to perform he is not a monkey in a circus and to be honest if you have openly said how annoyed you were it didnt happen then be thankfull if the poor guy does want to try again with you!!!!!!!

goddess1972

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How many women fantasize watching their man with another man? Posted: 3/29/2009 8:49:14 PM
ERRR NOPE never ever thought about it in fact never ever wanna see it either i like a man to be a man in every sense and that means no touchy feely femine side that wants to sick his tongue and mouth on another guys mouth or other areas.

goddess1972

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Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 3/29/2009 8:47:36 PM
yes of course it is cheating, cheating is cheating whether it be oral sex, sex, foreplay, kissing in any other way than on the cheek with an aunt is cheating.

goddess1972

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The best stimulation for any woman has to be french kissing Posted: 3/29/2009 8:37:39 PM
french kissing is good but teasing kissing without tongue can be just as much of a turn on. also it depends on the person what you both like and how much tongue and slobers are going on as its a total turn off someone slobbering that much its like a washing machine!!!!

goddess1972

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Oral Sex on Uncircumsized Penis...? Posted: 3/29/2009 8:33:52 PM
dont over think about it just relax and do as you would with any other one i dont see how the foreskin can get in the road at all especially if he is hard. If your really worried about it then perhaps cut the top off a condom and place it over a cucumber and try that i have no idea if it will work or help it was a thought that came into my head there . Sorry cant help much more as i have never had a problem giving oral sex.

goddess1972

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Not that into sex with same person. Posted: 3/29/2009 8:25:16 PM
seems to me you have issues or some underlying commitment or psychological problem seek help from a proffessional is all i can suggest

goddess1972

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Do people think and compare past lovers while having sex ? Posted: 3/29/2009 8:22:19 PM
oh yeah cos thats gonna be such a turn on NOT lol if you have to think of someone else whilst having sex then you are doing it wrong not putting in enough effort or just not compatable with the person you are with. As for my ex used to use her mouth like that or my ex used to move his hips this way so not a turn on.............enjoy the person you are with if you want them to do something for you by all means communicate and tell them what you like or ask them if they would like to but saying or telling them the way an ex did it during sex or foreplay is liable to get you kicked the hell outta bed and lucky to get any again!!!!

goddess1972

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Sleeping naked Posted: 3/29/2009 8:16:59 PM
yes sleeping naked is so much better also it lets your skin breathe without the restriction of clothes.

goddess1972

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Best sex ever, can it cause problems? Posted: 3/29/2009 8:15:17 PM
The best sex I ever had (and it was the same for her) was with the girl who I loved the most since I was 14 (long story).....unfortunately she turned out to be the worst nightmare of my life. The love I had for her and the physical oneness we shared caused me to overlook the fact that she was a totally self-absorbed nutjob with no regard for MY and my children's feelings and needs. So, yeah, it can cause MAJOR problems. How can you say the sex was the best for you and her then call her a self-absorbed nutjob with no regard for your feelings and needs. If she had no regard for your feelings or needs then i fail to comprehend how it could have been the best ever sex.......... this makes no sense im sorry.

goddess1972

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Best sex ever, can it cause problems? Posted: 3/29/2009 8:04:19 PM
How do you know what the best sex ever is until you try what is out there, sometimes the best sex ever is with the person you are with at the time, if you have been split up with someone a while can you remember everything they done to you to make it the best sex ever???? most cant as feelings, hormones etc can take over with the person you are with at the time and if they are totally crap and dont float your boat then its not the right compatability, move on and keep going until you find the someone you are compatable with. Sex is important and it is imporatant to turn each other on and keep sparks alive however the best sexual experiences in my view are with someone you can talk to share things with and laugh with too as if you are more compatable on other levels the sex will be fantastic. Also please bear in mind that the longer you spend with someone the better they become as they get more used to what you like. So if you think she/he was really good the first time you had sex it will be better the second and better than that the third time and so on and so as the more you relax with somone the more mind blowing the sex.

goddess1972

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Best sex ever, can it cause problems? Posted: 3/29/2009 8:04:00 PM
How do you know what the best sex ever is until you try what is out there, sometimes the best sex ever is with the person you are with at the time, if you have been split up with someone a while can you remember everything they done to you to make it the best sex ever???? most cant as feelings, hormones etc can take over with the person you are with at the time and if they are totally crap and dont float your boat then its not the right compatability, move on and keep going until you find the someone you are compatable with. Sex is important and it is imporatant to turn each other on and keep sparks alive however the best sexual experiences in my view are with someone you can talk to share things with and laugh with too as if you are more compatable on other levels the sex will be fantastic. Also please bear in mind that the longer you spend with someone the better they become as they get more used to what you like. So if you think she/he was really good the first time you had sex it will be better the second and better than that the third time and so on and so as the more you relax with someone the more mind blowing the sex.

goddess1972

Joined: 5/21/2006

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post orgasmic cravings Posted: 3/29/2009 7:52:37 PM
after the cuddle and cig time def more playtime and sex............... more i have the more i want sorry its just the way i am

goddess1972

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post orgasmic cravings Posted: 3/29/2009 7:49:37 PM
only thing i crave after the cuddle/ciggy is to start all over again........... the more i have the more i want

goddess1972

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Going by myself to a bar to meet a girl and her friends Posted: 6/28/2007 5:11:50 AM
it shows you have balls, however a date should be a couple or even at a push a double date not a female who has to have all her friends around her to me that shows either insecurity or immaturity.

goddess1972

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Which is much worse? Posted: 6/28/2007 5:10:00 AM
cheating is cheating no matter what gender they cheat with however i think i would beat myself up more if he cheated on me with another man after all i could have turned him gay, thankfuly i have never been same sex cheated on.

goddess1972

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Female Genital Piercing Posted: 6/27/2007 4:36:05 PM
i have thought about getting my clit hood pierced but i have heard that if you take it out or just get it in the first place you can actually loose sensation rather than gain it

goddess1972

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why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 6/27/2007 4:32:29 PM
im not afraid to admit i love sex and have a high sex drive however i do not go out and sleep with anyone i prefer long term sex with a loving partner.

goddess1972

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Men have you ever? Ladies has a man ever with you? Posted: 6/27/2007 3:00:20 PM
Nope never had a man fake an orgasm with me. and hell yeah id know..... no sperm in me , my mouth or condom kinda gives it away don't ya think. And as a female yeah i have faked an orgasm.

goddess1972

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what accent does it for you Posted: 6/27/2007 2:47:20 PM
i am sure this thread has been done before but me personally the Irish accent does it for me thankfully a lot of Irish seem to like the Scottish accent.

goddess1972

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short hair vs long hair Posted: 6/27/2007 10:28:52 AM
some guys prefer women with long hair but not all men... the reason i think men like long hair is they can pull it, which i think is inbred and stems back to when they were little boys as most little boys like to pull pig tails, also maybe because they see woman with long hair more womanly and feminine . good for you shaving your hair off, and do bear in mind some guys prefer women with shorter hair.

goddess1972

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Charity Sex..... Posted: 6/27/2007 10:23:51 AM
where most agree sex with emotions is fantastic you cant always get it that way so if u have 'charity sex' and it satisfies the need at the time then why not. a blow job is a blow job if its done right......... and yeah i have had charity sex a couple of times i couldnt let a good looking 22 year old guy go without never having a blow job now could i? lol problem was i set the standards to high. lol

goddess1972

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When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable? Posted: 6/27/2007 10:01:12 AM
They all seem to be asking those kind of questions on the internet my reply would be what size****do you have not many men funnily enough like to answer that one. when asked if i wear boots to bed i ask them to wear boots to bed and then come back to me and then tell me if they think i do. answer a question with a question and they soon get fed up although at times i do find some of the things i am asked amusing.

goddess1972

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Msg: 40 (view)

boobs Posted: 6/25/2007 9:13:49 AM
Try a gel filled bra i have huge boobs and even i wear one to give them that bit lift and fantastic clevage. they work wonders there are many things on the market that can enhance smaller boobs. think very very carefully before going for surgery.

goddess1972

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Money or Love to be Happy Posted: 6/23/2007 6:03:26 AM
I would rather have a good man by my side who will work hard as will i at making our relationship work and surviving the demands the material world places on us. Money can buy a lot of things but it makes us gready and leaves us always wanting more. It cant buy love or the happiness and warmth you feel when in love. Money is important to survive in this world but i personally feel i would be richer in so many ways sharing my life and my love with someone who loved me the same way as i love them, be happy with each other and yeah it would be great to live comfortably but i'd give up everything to share my life with my one true love (if he exists). My mum has a saying money is a curse but lack of it is worse.

goddess1972

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Just Why Do You Girls Love Motorcycles??? Posted: 6/22/2007 9:36:02 AM
nothing nicer than a manly man in front of you on the bike with someting hard and shiny and powerfull between your legs that goes fast ;-)

goddess1972

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WHEN ? OR WHAT AGE SHOULD WE LET GO OF MEETING THE ONE ? Posted: 6/22/2007 9:08:54 AM
never say never xx

goddess1972

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Who cheats more, men or women? Posted: 6/22/2007 9:03:09 AM
who cheats more men or woman???? both have the ability to cheat be aware of that, and also be aware people lie so someone could say they have never cheated but in actual fact they have people cheat people lie and im not cynical i am just experienced.

goddess1972

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Is meeting more than one on the same day acceptable behavior? Posted: 6/22/2007 8:57:02 AM
go for it its only a date not a wedding

goddess1972

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Not honest in profile Posted: 6/22/2007 8:51:34 AM
just a thought ever thought that he does not want the world to know he smokes pot hence why its not on a public profile for everyone in the world to see? if thats not your thing then your right to drop him. if he was honest about smoking when you chatted privately then its up to you whether you want this kind of relationship or not. but please do bear in mind a lot of people do not want the world to know they amoke weed or take drugs etc etc

goddess1972

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Sex longer than a minute, does it exist...? Posted: 6/12/2007 4:10:15 AM
men can get a little over excited at times and may not have had sex for a while hence the quickness be thankfull you must be doing something right and they are attracted toy ou. as for not getting it up well i cant comment as i have never ever had that problem but if i did and it was happening a lot id be looking to myself and my technique.

goddess1972

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Msg: 172 (view)

Your partner gets a lap dance from a stripper, is that cheating? Posted: 6/12/2007 4:07:50 AM
no its not cheating its dam sexy and hot

goddess1972

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Dating a women your not physically attracted to Posted: 6/10/2007 7:35:30 AM
what exactly would be the point in dating someone you are not attracted to????????????? this is a silly question sorry but there has to be an attraction and a connection for it to work..............id rather be single and happy than be miserable being with someone i am not attracted to.

goddess1972

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Swallowing - Do' & Don'ts Posted: 6/10/2007 5:19:23 AM
you do not make a girl do anything believe me i enjoy giving oral but force it into my mouth, and make me swallow i would bite it off...............if i choose to give oral the guy i am giving it to is very lucky but ever try to force me to do anything you have no chance. Have a bit respect for women. as for do women get addicted to the taste of sperm like shooters..............hahahaha hahahahahahaha i have never heard of anyone being addicted to the taste of sperm it is a required taste and not everyone likes to swallow and the taste varies from person to person and also varies by what the man eats....spicy food makes his breathe skink but his sperm taste sweet. Try your own sometime and see if you like it is my suggestion then maybe you will see things from a womans point of view.

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