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 suecott1
Joined: 9/8/2004
Msg: 12 (view)
 
LOG IN PROBLEMS
Posted: 9/16/2006 1:36:57 PM
Why can i get on POF under my name on her computer, and i can get on my POF on my computer, but Startingover///////////// cant get on either computer.

I will sign off and try and sign her in and we constantly get the same message.???? i dont think it is the computer i think it is POF, but we cant contact them to either delete her or fix her?
 suecott1
Joined: 9/8/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
LOG IN PROBLEMS
Posted: 9/14/2006 5:19:06 PM
thank your for your imput.. we did do everything they told us to do.. I just tried to sign her on and it woulnt work,, but i was able to sign in under my profile? on the same computer.
 suecott1
Joined: 9/8/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
 
LOG IN PROBLEMS
Posted: 9/14/2006 3:48:22 PM
I Have a girlfriend that is a member of plenty of fish, Her pc broke and she hid her profile until she got her pc fixed.

Now she is trying to sign back on to plenty of fish and the sign on screen keeps coming back tell her to go to tools to do certain things.

She came to my pc and tried to log on and it does the same thing. I can get on under my name, but she cant sign on under her name.

so she tried to make another profile but it tells her she is already a member. What is wrong and how can we get her back on pof.
 suecott1
Joined: 9/8/2004
Msg: 37 (view)
 
well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 8/23/2006 3:14:18 PM
Great answer .. I tried to communicate with you. But i am out of your age range.. You nailed it. It doesnt matter how much you have , but if you try and are a good person on the inside that is the most important.
 suecott1
Joined: 9/8/2004
Msg: 31 (view)
 
She Said: Right One/Wrong Time
Posted: 8/7/2006 8:03:13 PM
I just found this area of Plenty of fish. I have to say that for me. I divorced my husband of 20 yrs. It was the hardest thing I ever did, But it was necessary to stay alive.

I want so badly to find the right man for you. someone i have that feeling that is so deep, If i would find him, nothing time or space would keep me from developing that relationship. Because finding someone that you could possibly thing could be the one, dont let it go. Chemistry, attraction and desire to learn and be with the one special person is very hard to find.

Im scare just like most, i am also scare to put my heart out there. i am scared to not find him, i am scare to find him. It is hard to be dating again at this age, Is that special person out there.

I have also found out internet dating, people have a perception of what they think they are meeting and dont really take the time to get to know that person in real time. It is meet and then you decide right then it is a yes or a no. You really dont no that person until you get to know them inside and out. Its a hard thing.

Is my special person on Plenty of Fish, I dont no, But i have met some nice people and being divorced at this age, men and women, most people are married or already have formed their friendships, for me, my friends were my ex's friend, i had no one but me, I am making friends now, but it is still hard out there alone.

Thanks for letting me say my piece.
 suecott1
Joined: 9/8/2004
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Re: So Confused and Lost
Posted: 9/12/2004 5:35:49 PM
I live in a small town. And I thought I did, I thought I took time. After chuck I took several years and I am a totally different person that I was when I was married. When I finally left my ex. I never thought I would make it. I am better than I ever was with my ex. I Have a full time job, a small business that is killing me (working to much) and a home and two cars. I have friends for the first time in my life. The only thing now is the love of a good man that I can love back. It has been since 99 since my divorce and I have been to counseling and I tried alanon when I was married. Back then I was to shy and backward to join in and felt very uncomfortable. but I feel good about myself. Its really isn't about me, its about what is available in this world or this little town of mine. I am not a total prude, I do have a bit of a wild streak in me, and I enjoy doing things I didn't or couldn't do when I was married. I just miss having a man in my life. Someone I am compatible with, someone I click with. Believe me the Nights get very lonely and I have been alone for a very long time. When women leave there men good men because they are bored and they think the grass is greener boy I just want to shake them. Thanks for all the responses.
 suecott1
Joined: 9/8/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
 
So Confused and Lost
Posted: 9/12/2004 10:23:30 AM
I am 46 yrs old soon to be 47 yrs old. I was married over 20 yrs to a man I loved very much. Sadly he loved his booze and drugs more and I had to get out before he killed me. During my divorce process, I met a man at first I didn't care for him much, he was arrogant, and thought all the women wanted him. I had actually met him off the Internet, he was local and usually the people I chatted with were to far away from my area.

He started showing up at places I would go to. Eventually I started to like him a lot, but of course how the story goes as soon as you get what you want, you don't want it any longer. And he didn't want to date me after a few months, because I found out he was sleeping with many women and also was hooked on drugs. It broke my heart to think I followed the same path twice. After about a year I was fine, Actually today he is clean and we are friends. I lost contact with him for a few years, in the mean time I met another man.

We became friends, at first all I wanted was to be friends nothing more. He was OK with that. We did everything together.and then I found out he was married, so I ended that relationship,, not right away, but I did, I had never had a man be so good to me, But then he had two lives. He told me that if I didn't break it off he would leave his wife, and I believe that, but after I stopped seeing him, I realized it wasn't love, it was nice to have someone with a kinda soul and treat me good.

When I got the divorce, I met a man off the Internet (Michael) that lived in the same town I did when I was married, We met but for me I. Just didn't want another man. I had been single and burnt by the Player. He was nice, but he wanted to date and I didn't, this is back in 1999. Well, recently after being single, lost contact with chuck and dropping the married man, Michael had been constantly asking me out. So one evening I decided to go. And we started dating after that. this has been two years.

When Michael and I are together he is very nice, when he isn't drinking. He doesn't drink all the time, just in the evenings he will have a couple. But for the past two years, he constantly asks me about my other relationship he has actually written down word for word or email or ims that I have said to him. Now knowing me, I have the worst memory in the world so I tell the truth, so I don't have to worry about lies. After I started dating Michael Chuck started calling me and I ran into chuck with Michael one night, and I introduced them, I don't hate chuck and he is fun to go out with just not a man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Michael hates him and doesn't understand why I want to remain friends with any men. He says that when u are in a relationship, there should be no one else in our lives but us. He doesn't want to share. I told him he is the only man in my bed. That everyone wants and needs friends. Chuck isn't a bad guy, he just needed to grow up and he never did. But anyway over the past two years, I cant even count how many times we have broken up. He will get drunk and call me and say terrible things to me, and call me a liar. But I guess I am, once chuck called in the middle of the night and I told Michael that it was my son, because I didn't want to upset him, I told chuck not to call again, that we were in bed and had to work the next day. Michael knew better and left anyway.

Well, we broke up again, Now he is wanting to try one more time, I care for him but after spending two nights with him, I enjoy him so much during the day, doing things with him, I wonder if my heart is in it, IM scared and I am tired of the roller coaster ride. I guess because I am not a jealous person, I feel that if someone is going to cheat there isn't a thing you can do about it and it is their loss if they cant be faithful in a relationship and eventually that will come out.

I am scared and tired and sick of all the crap of dating. Its hard for me to meet a man let alone a good man, because I work a lot of hours and I rarely go out to where I can meet them, Should I. Let Michael go and not try again or should I see how my heart feels. I know inside he is a good person, but like his sister said, he is a child in a mans body, wanting all the attention, he is insecure, and very controlling, HELP ME IM SOOOO CONFUSED. All I ever wanted was one good man to love and for him to love me for the person I am.

Suecott
 
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