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 Author Thread: Masturbation=cheating
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 177 (view)
 
Masturbation=cheating
Posted: 11/15/2009 5:06:29 PM
ive dated a girl who didnt want me to do it because she felt it was her job.
but someone who doesnt want to do it AND doesnt want me to do it?
get the hell rid of the selfish loser.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 158 (view)
 
snowballing?
Posted: 11/15/2009 4:18:53 PM
you think that is "ewww"?

thats nothing compared to "feltching".

as per the urban dictionary, feltching is..."to suck cum out of another's as$/vagina using one's mouth".

Bon appétit .
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 53 (view)
 
opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 11/15/2009 3:52:26 PM
re:

RickyGR: "The fact that you are still friends leads me to believe it's just a matter of time before you both start flaming. "


i am not gay in any shape or form (not that theres anything wrong with it). just a good friend.

rickygr, are you just trying to be funny or are you really so superficial (not to mention homophobic) that you would no longer be friends with someone whom you even suspected might be bi?
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 49 (view)
 
opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 11/15/2009 2:33:00 PM
ELGALAWAAT, as i said, he DOES have a gf now. and he doesnt have (and never had) a problem cuming - neither with her nor by himself.

ASYDNEYMALE, the way he brought it up is usually, when he/we are watching a movie (or porn), and he sees a beautiful young girl, gets in the mood, and starts touchin himself, and then he just asked.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 44 (view)
 
opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 11/15/2009 1:33:53 PM
ive gotten many responses saying things like: "the important thing is how you feel about it." and "if the OP is even considering it, then HE is bi."
well, the answer is that i didn't consider it, i didnt do it, and my friend can ask me any freakin question he wants to...cause he's a good guy and because im pretty secure in my (hetero)sexuality .

i was just trying to figure out if most people would consider him bi (which ive told him he is, and he absolutely, completely says he is not) and thought i'd ask for opinions. believe me, im not a naive person but, knowing him, i really do not believe he is bi. i do like to play devils advocate though (and try to convince him that he is).
but he is not attracted to men in any way, he has no desire to kiss them or hug them, or get anything stuck inside him.
btw, its not like he asked me often, or begged me, and he hasnt even brought it up in many many months (he has a gf again now). he did ask a couple of different times tho a while back.
in my opinion, he did not want the complications/complexities/responsibilities of a relationship and sometimes just thought it would be cool to have his d%^k stimulated by another.
not possible?
(please see message #20 for my other comments)
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 584 (view)
 
do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina?
Posted: 10/25/2009 2:44:44 PM
"nasty" ole kitty? no.

musty scent of my beautiful girlfriend's flower in heat? YES.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 580 (view)
 
do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina?
Posted: 10/25/2009 8:39:12 AM
smell, taste, look, feel,...heck, even sound. i love everything about it!
sometimes i start just by goin down and sniffin around for a few minutes.
that gets me sooo turned on (and usually her too) until i cant take it anymore and im so workd up that i MUST partake.
oh, and i dont want to be sniffing perfume, soap, or store bought products down there. i want to be sniffing my girl - and her natural beautiful scents - after they have been "basting" unbathed for at least a while. and i DONT mean days! she must be hygeinic; just steeped in her natural juices sometimes and not always freshly showered.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Do you prefer to be on top or bottom
Posted: 9/12/2009 12:40:17 PM
i prefer to be on bottom. i love a girl on top of me.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 79 (view)
 
how many women have orgasms whil giving head
Posted: 9/12/2009 7:18:53 AM
my girlfriend does too!
i was never 100% sure if she was telling the truth about it so i was always curious about this question too.
but i do trust her and i guess other people apparently orgasm from it too.
very COOL!
im happy.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 136 (view)
 
What do you all think about golden showers?
Posted: 8/31/2009 4:37:52 PM
never tried it.
but i would try almost anything at least once.
and if the girl is hot, ill probably like it too!
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 355 (view)
 
HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 4/24/2009 6:10:05 PM
O...M...G. whats better than cuming right into a girls mouth. NOTHING. its the best feeling on this entire green earth!
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 124 (view)
 
what about GUYS performing oral sex?
Posted: 4/24/2009 6:02:47 PM
yeah, i agree. nice to see someone who feels the same way about the bald women. its soo unnatural and just...like...overclean. i like my girl with a nice runway or triangle to feel, play with, and yes, even smell. its so much more....natural and sexy. very very sexy.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
what is the difference between kinky and freaky to you?
Posted: 4/17/2009 6:11:23 PM
maybe this?:

kinky = whoa!
freaky = ewwww!
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
what is the difference between "kinky" and "freaky" to you?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:55:16 AM
i think in reality they are almost synonyms (they have pretty much the same exact meaning). but ive heard some people claim that there are subtle differences. any thoughts?

(there are already threads about how kinky r u? or do u like to be freaky? im NOT asking that. im asking about the difference.)
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 106 (view)
 
what about GUYS performing oral sex?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:43:43 AM
so far we have 105 responses to this thread. and only 1 (you know who you are) single male said he does NOT like to perform oral sex. only 1. out of 105! i dont get it. what is the difference between guys and girls? there are sooo many more girls who dont like to give oral (luckily i have not met many) and almost no guys. do guys really taste so much worse? is the texture of sperm so much different in a bad way? why do so many girls think its "gross" or not enjoyable - to give but almost all guys LOVE to give. why really is there such a difference between guys and girls in this respect? ???
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
people who cant give themselves an orgasm
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:00:23 AM
update: im happy to announce that one of the 2 girls recently told me that she "figured out a way" that works. (i think she uses some device. hey, whatever works). the other girl is still unable to.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Men receiving oral
Posted: 4/16/2009 5:56:41 AM
these are good questions.
in terms of swallowing, i must agree that its not so much how it "feels" as it is the psychological aspect of it. i love to make my girl happy. that means that ill do things that i might not normally enjoy - and ill enjoy it. i enjoy it because its her body, her fluids, i know SHE enjoys it, and i like making her feel as good as possible. i would never tell a girl that she MUST swallow; i would only request. but between you and me, its so much better when she does, that its almost a deal breaker if she doesnt. and not only should she do it, but she should either like to do it or she should learn to like to do it - because she knows i love it.

as far as the deep throat goes, its not as important for me as swallowing but i understand why people like it. sure the tongue and suction can cause more "detailed" pleasure. but sometimes you just want to feel completely"enveloped" - throughout the whole "length". u wanna go in and out of a (warm, wet) tunnel. not a small whole. u know what i mean? (oh man, im turning myself on here). also, when you hit the back of her throat with each thrust, that causes a nice sensation too.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 194 (view)
 
Cum placement
Posted: 4/15/2009 3:50:00 PM
whats sexier than a girl who wants it in her mouth. nothing!
anyone ever let it go in a nostril? ill have to try that one of these days. my girl is very open to anywhere at all.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 128 (view)
 
holding in the gas
Posted: 2/15/2009 5:38:38 AM
twister239, thats funny. pretty sickening, but funny! thanks.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 164 (view)
 
do some guys really like a really big AZZ?
Posted: 2/14/2009 2:32:32 PM
ok. to all you "don't knock it til youve tried it" people out there....
ive tried it.
i can honestly say i dont especially like the really big butt. im not saying i like a
"scrawny" one, but i definitely prefer the "tight", "cute little" butt (like j alba, j biel, or C Diaz) and still just dont get why people like the huge ones. "full"(k kardashian, jlo, beyonce) i like too. but NOT the "big" (fat/celluilite) ones. just dont get it!

but to each his own.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Deleting P0rn
Posted: 2/14/2009 1:50:08 PM
...................................................habit.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Body Odor...can it be a turn on for you?
Posted: 2/14/2009 1:23:10 PM
absolutely. huge HUGE turn-on. thats why i had started this thread:

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts8240357.aspx
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Cum placement
Posted: 1/31/2009 8:51:01 AM
doesnt ANYBODY like it in th eye?
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
what about GUYS performing oral sex?
Posted: 1/9/2009 6:43:22 PM
yeah, i know that guys love giving oral. but are there ANY guys who dont like it?

there are so many girls who dont like to give oral. why is there SUCH a difference?
is a guys taste and consistency sooo different? or is it something more? i dont get it.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
what about GUYS performing oral sex?
Posted: 1/9/2009 5:37:14 PM
there are sooo many threads about girls giving guys oral sex - is it a deal breaker if they dont do it, do they swallow or spit, should they swallow, do they enjoy it. etc...

NOTHING on the opposite topic though:

so guys, do YOU all enjoy giving oral sex? are there actually guys who DONT do it? dont enjoy it? dont like to "swallow"? is it a deal breaker for the girls if they dont?
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 62 (view)
 
How Would You React To Someone Spitting In Your Face UN Expectedly While You Are Having Sex?
Posted: 1/9/2009 4:12:18 AM
check out this similar thread:

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts8992455.aspx
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Difficult sex with new girl--frustrated
Posted: 1/3/2009 12:26:24 PM
i am a physician.
i can tell you that although other types of blood pressure medicines can cause ED, ace inhibitors do not routinely cause ED (erectile dysfunction).
i can also tell you that years of "sky high" blood pressure can definitely cause ED. the best thing you can do is continue taking your BP meds and make sure your BP is well within normal range.
i do agree, tho, that there is likely an added psychological factor involved - simply because you are able to "function" on your own but have problems only with another.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 178 (view)
 
Not even spit, so forget about swallow....
Posted: 1/3/2009 12:13:42 PM
ive had at least 20 girlfriends over the years and almost all of them swallowed. some didnt like to at first but they did it for me and eventually came to actually like it. thats my experience. for me, the whole experience is soo much better and more of a turn on if you know they are waiting for it, wanting it, craving it. ive met some pretty great girls over the years.
my current gf, however, LOVES it. she actually has an orgasm just from doing it to me. ive never seen anything like it. amazing!
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 820 (view)
 
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 5:38:38 AM
>>i cant beleive this thread going on this long lol <<

people feel very strongly (one way or the other) about this topic.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 815 (view)
 
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/3/2009 5:00:46 AM
well i for one can say thats its very important to me. in fact, ive always said that aside from: age?, smoker?, height?, etc, they should have a category on everyones profile of : swallows?
what do you think guys?
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 774 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 11/29/2008 1:13:29 PM
i guess some can and some cant.
for the record....i cant.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 488 (view)
 
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 11/29/2008 1:12:08 PM
some hair makes a girl so much sexier. its just so....natural, its more instead of less, its something else to play with. a little runway or triangle shaped nicely is sooo sexy. so much better than bald - eww.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
where does the cum really go?
Posted: 8/22/2008 4:01:07 PM
thank you to all those who answered seriously. i really do appreciate it. the question may sound ridiculous (and maybe it is) but i'm asking seriously. i would sincerely like to know what usually happens.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 32 (view)
 
where does the cum really go?
Posted: 8/22/2008 3:26:30 PM
anyone else with experience willing to fill me in on your answer/preference? thanks.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
people who cant give themselves an orgasm
Posted: 7/5/2008 9:26:28 AM
thanks. both these girls were in their early 20s. they both have had sex with at least a few people so they must have some idea about what they like. also, neither one grew up in an especially religious or strict home (as far as i know) so i doubt either is convinced that its terribly wrong. i wish i could give them advice or help them out somehow. i remember both of them telling me the same thing - that when they touch themselves, it just doesnt do anything at all for them.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
people who cant give themselves an orgasm
Posted: 7/4/2008 5:44:01 PM
anybody else?
has anyone experienced something like this?
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
people who cant give themselves an orgasm
Posted: 6/28/2008 2:36:32 PM
in the past decade i've dated 2 different girls who told me they've never been able to get themselves off. i've never before seen this. they can orgasm thru sex (both oral or regular - i can vouch for that) but have NEVER been able to do it on their own. has anyone else had this problem or know of someone who does? just girls or are there guys like this too?
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 138 (view)
 
spitting during sex
Posted: 6/28/2008 2:06:39 PM
yes, i think Anazdaddy has a very good point.

(and we're not talkin hockin loogies [eww]! we're talking just saliva)
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 99 (view)
 
do some guys really like a really big AZZ?
Posted: 6/28/2008 1:53:49 PM
hi. im mike and i started this thread.
i am so surprised that so many people really do seem to love the big butt. im still a little suspicious though whether people really understand that im NOT talking about a FULL (ie. J-LO, Beyonce, Kim Kardashian) butt (which i agree can be very sexy). im talking about a huge (FAT) one. this is such a turn off for me that i still cant quite appreciate why some people like it. i mean most magazine covers and pages advertise celebrities who are thin for a reason. i thought this is what the public likes! i know i do! most models are quite thin. not fat. would you prefer jennifer hudson from american idol or syesha mercado? Halle or Mo'Nique? Kirstie Alley (before) or kristie brinkley? i would think the answers are so obvious but i guess not. im soooo confused. can someone who likes big butts PLEASE explain.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 29 (view)
 
do some guys really like a really big AZZ?
Posted: 6/9/2008 6:29:53 PM
Kim Kardashian? No, i'm not talking about some extra cushion! I'm talking about FAT:
like...Anna Nicole, Carnie Wilson, or Star Jones - before they lost weight.
I'm so surprised that so many people seem to love this. I have nothing at all against it but I dont understand it at all. I'm sooo much more turned on by a nice beautiful little a$$ like jessica biel's or cameron diaz's. I can't understand what could possibly be attractive about extra rolls of fat on a huge butt. I just dont get it.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
do some guys really like a really big AZZ?
Posted: 6/9/2008 7:57:00 AM
i love girls. i love them in many shapes and sizes. BUTT (and no offence to "big" girls), im not attracted to a girl with a really big a$$. maybe someone with a JLO backside which is a little "full" or has a "little extra cushion" can sometimes be kinda sexy. but a real fat one - NO.
i've heard of people who do love a really big a$$. it seems to be mostly black guys for some reason. i'm wondering if this is true or not. i cannot personally understand WHY anyone would be attracted to loads of extra fat in any area. can anyone enlighten me?

(* i'm sincerely not trying to insult anyone of any color or shape. just wondering about something that has truly stumped me for a long time)
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Pedophilia Reconsidered
Posted: 6/9/2008 7:14:22 AM
i actually agree with you - in certain respects. i dont know that there is anything inherently wrong with a 19 year old marrying a 14 year old. however, in todays culture, with so many crazy, sick people, we do have to set some kind of rules/limits and pick an age/number below which sex with an adult would be illegal. i agree that there have been many young (13..15...17 years old) brides over the centuries (and even currently in different parts of the world) who have had nice, long, loving, successful marraiges. i dont think there is necessarily anything wrong with this. i also know that if i personally had a 14 year old daughter who wanted to get married to a 25 year old boyfriend, theres no way in hell id approve.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/9/2008 6:36:02 AM
i thank you all for your feedback.
to answer the last 2 posters...
it really doesnt bother me so much if he asks. its not like we spend all our time talking about it. we hang out a lot, and just every once in a while when he's very horny, he may ask. i have no intention of doing it. im a pretty laid back guy, i dont think i have a gay bone in my body, but i have nothing against gay people. AND, im still not convinced my friend isnt heterosexual. if someone has no desire to have anal sex with a guy, watches only naked girl porn, does not act feminine at all, and loves women, im still not convinced he's automatically "bi" because he "needs a hand/mouth". it could be a machine, for all he cares. agreed, maybe he's a little strange, but gay/bi, i dont know.
as far as a prostitute goes, he has no desire to risk getting arrested (he's a well respected professional) OR to risk getting a disease.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/8/2008 6:42:18 PM
lol thorvin.
............................................................................
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 11:35:13 AM
I just got in an arguement with a female friend of mine. i thought id ask what people on here think?:

A guy whom I'm good friends with, who I know loves girls, is currently 42, single and without a girlfriend (for the past 4 or 5 months).
Sometimes, when we hang out, he asks me to "get him off" (with my hand). I always decline. I tell him (half jokingly) he's gay and he swears he is not, loves women, but just needs some stimulation. He says he's NOT interested in having sex with a guy (he's had many girlfriends in his life, and has never asked a guy this before), he's very attracted to girls (I've caught him many times watching porn - and its almost always girl on girl) and not attracted to guys, and if he had a girlfriend, he'd prefer to be with her. But, he says, right now that theres no girl in his life and he and I are very good friends, he thinks it would be cool if I used my hand (or even mouth) on him. He just wants to feel good and cum and has had enough of his own hand. Its about another hand or mouth making him feel good and not about whom its attached to.

Do you think he really is "bi"? or just desperate for stimulation? thanks for your opinions.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Serious question I have never ever asked...
Posted: 5/1/2008 3:14:54 PM
um, yeah, what older man would possibly be at all interested in a much younger girl?
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
small breast appreciation
Posted: 5/1/2008 3:09:50 PM
i HATE implants.
small, medium, big, all good. just not fake!!!!!!! SUCH a big turn off.
sorry, thats just my opinion.
the sexiest thing for me is someone who is happy and proud, and comfortable with the boobs they have.
actually, small to medium is probably even better than medium to big in general. but it does depend on the specific boob and the specific individual (body).
and i happen to be an expert on these matters.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 99 (view)
 
Licking underarms - weird fetish?
Posted: 4/27/2008 3:55:49 PM
i'll go so far as to say that not only is it not wierd, but that its even better if sometimes she DOESNT take a shower first. i like to appreciate and enjoy my partners body with all her natural juices, tastes, and scents. im not always interested in tasting something freshly cleaned. sometimes i want to taste my partner herself.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 66 (view)
 
The rusty trombone
Posted: 4/27/2008 3:37:16 PM
filching. lol. gotta love that urban dictionary.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 31 (view)
 
what kind of porn
Posted: 4/27/2008 9:21:26 AM
easy......................................................bukkake
 
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