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killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

Do Men Show Emotion Posted: 7/11/2006 10:21:15 PM
WAS THAT SARCASM!!!!! I love it...back on topic...men do show emotion; some more than women. I think thats sad.

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

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Female Players, Is there such a thing? Posted: 7/11/2006 10:19:20 PM
I LOVE FEMALE PLAYERS! When I meet them I turn the tables....poetic justice.

killuminautica

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Do Men Show Emotion Posted: 7/11/2006 10:11:56 PM
Damn right trish-you need a man like me! Strong silent type!

killuminautica

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Why is soo hard for guys to approach women?? Posted: 7/11/2006 10:10:59 PM
I'm sorry blackaces.....what the hell are you talking about? Its like what killerdog says man its sales. You have to sell yourself. She has to "buy" whatever it is you're presenting. Now it's not hard for me to approach a woman because I truly believe that there is no woman alive that's too good for me. I'd hit on halle berry the same as the woman that lives across the street from me. Selling yourself, thats what it is.

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

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Defending Men Posted: 7/11/2006 10:04:45 PM
To the few enlightened women here and in the world let me say this: you are capable of finding true happiness and I wish you luck with the absolute sincerity.

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

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how many times? Posted: 7/11/2006 10:01:36 PM
maybe twice.....after that the hell with her.

killuminautica

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Help Posted: 7/9/2006 12:02:21 AM
what the hell? what happened that made you want to kill yourself? man.

killuminautica

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Hows this? Posted: 7/8/2006 11:58:42 PM
here it is: "girl you must be a piece of cake........cuz you look so sweet!" I heard a pimp named Magic Mike use that....it was hilarious.

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

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Why do guys do this?? Posted: 7/8/2006 11:55:51 PM
Before I say this I have to state a scientific point: When there's a problem and all of the variables are equal the most logical answer is usually the correct one. With that said here's why "guys" (whoever that is) did this: He wanted sex. Why do I say this? You talked on the phone, you had a party (lots of other people around) and you asked if he was coming. HELL NO he isnt coming!!! Too many people there! If you invited him to watch a movie with you alone he would've been there in a second. Think about it. The only way you could've kept his interest is if you would've had sex with him or promised him you would. It wasnt fear or a deep seeded hatred for women, he was going to use you.

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

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sometimes Posted: 7/8/2006 11:49:25 PM
It would be great if women contacted more men. Trying to generate a relationship with an email is extremely hard, some of us need help.

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

Msg: 49 (view)

Delusions of Grandeur Posted: 7/8/2006 11:42:37 PM
A certain level of complacency is necessary. You have to take the good with the bad. Some people want a high level of passion all of the time. Ridiculous. Some want romance without asking for it. Ridiculous. Some want complete honesty all of the time. Ridiculous. Some want someone to hang off of their every word. Ridiculous. Once we all stop generalizing and expecting and just let things go with the flow we'll have healthier relationships.

killuminautica

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Shyness Posted: 7/8/2006 11:35:58 PM
Man I HATE shy women!!!! I'm sorry, i dont hate them but they infuriate me and scare me. If a woman is shy that means she has skeletons in her closet. When a man is shy he isn't confident in a womans eyes and confidence equals strength and women are attracted to strength. Thats why.

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

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Why do strong women scare men so? Posted: 7/8/2006 11:30:09 PM
Like ALL humans (both genders) men want to be needed sometimes. Some women have strong woman/mouthy woman confused. Just because you have a mind of your own that doesn't make you a strong woman. No man wants a meaningful relationship with a woman that never needs them. Mr.GordonGecko put the hammer on the nail saying that the only woman a man will ever truly "fear" is his mother. For example, I know a woman who will look me in the eye and argue with me when my mouth flies off the handle. This doesn't necessarily make her strong; what makes her strong is the fact that she is trying to make a marriage work by being strong. (if that makes sense)

killuminautica

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where are all the real women? Posted: 7/8/2006 10:56:09 PM
The question on where are the good men has been addressed long ago. I find it funny that some women think they're innocent or angels. Women are (yes-ARE) more cunning and dangerous than men are. Many men have different views on what a real woman is. For example, to me; a real woman is someone I can communicate with. Thats it. If I could find a woman that can tell me what's on her mind whether she's angry or sad or happy I would treat her like a real woman instead of a...... anyway, an old addage states: "treat others as you would like to be treated." Both genders have forgotten this and do not apply it to their relationships.

killuminautica

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Agressive females (when she makes the first move) Posted: 7/8/2006 10:45:46 PM
I like it. I really dont understand why more women wont be more aggressive. Maybe because they think it makes them seem loose or desperate. Hmmmmmm...

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

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Ladies: What men REALLY want Posted: 7/2/2006 5:21:57 PM
I like this thread because its real. I couldnt agree more with the OP. But to comment on the prostitution post-men dont want a slut or a whore. They are nice to have sex with yes, but they're not women I like to go to sleep with (might wake up without my wallet.) What men and women want alike are mixtures of two extemes. Men want a lady on the street and a freak in the sheets, women want an alpha male that can identify and relate to their emotional side. The challenge is finding such a person. We as Americans are used to indulgence. There are times when I want sex and a sandwich and there are times I want to actually watch a movie and...........cuddle. Or a little bit of column a and a little bit of column b. With that being said-good luck everyone.

killuminautica

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Admit It...Your Deep, Dark, Bad Trates Posted: 6/30/2006 10:28:47 PM
I am a narcissist. Nuff said.

killuminautica

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Wrong number vs No number Posted: 6/28/2006 2:29:28 PM
But Trish you look soooooooooooooo gooooooooooood!!!

killuminautica

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Female Bisexuality Posted: 6/28/2006 2:02:50 PM
But why is it okay for a woman to just have sex with a woman for fun but a man would be a player if he did it?

killuminautica

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Wrong number vs No number Posted: 6/28/2006 1:30:28 PM
Yeah man thats all f*cked up! Thats a mean thing to do. It hasnt happened to me since 9th grade but I was hurt nonetheless. I went to school the next week and told her why I was upset and she laughed at me. I thought it was especially funny that some popular guy (more popular than me dammit!!!) had sex with her and never called her REAL number again!!!! My emotions were so fragile then.....

killuminautica

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whats in a name.. your relationship with your name.. and keeping it.. YOURS ! Posted: 6/28/2006 1:10:40 PM
I wouldn't marry a woman who wont change her name. I'm archaic and old fashion. But King is a cool last name. Yeah, I do mean I wouldn't marry a woman who will not change her name and I definitely wouldn't change mine. But that's me.

killuminautica

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Is Having Sex ever Painful for a Man??? Posted: 6/28/2006 1:05:27 PM
It is at least for me sometimes. Overuse and one girl was a little too tight (no she wasnt a virgin) I knew a girl who would be a little overzealous and nibble.

killuminautica

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The difference between dating and being g/f & b/f Posted: 6/28/2006 12:01:49 PM
This is a way for guys to say: Hey I need a girlfriend but I dont want to seem weak and incapable of leading a meaningful life without a girlfriend so BECAUSE I'm not looking for a girlfriend you should feel lucky I'm asking you so you should definitely say yes."

killuminautica

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Why all the cheatings??? Posted: 6/28/2006 11:56:43 AM
Jasmine you should wear a double breasted suit with a katana strapped across your back and a fedora with a feather in it. Or, a ballerina suit.

killuminautica

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can a cheater change? Posted: 6/28/2006 11:54:52 AM
And you are.............CORRECT!!!!! Remember ladies and gents-nothing about relationships and sex is absolute! Nothing.

killuminautica

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Getting Over It Posted: 6/28/2006 11:50:23 AM
Wow. An evolved mind. That is exactly how I feel about things and if many more people would feel that way, they would get over what makes them bitter and help them move on. Well said kaos.

killuminautica

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Whats your Veiw? Posted: 6/28/2006 10:19:24 AM
I agree totally. If a person wants a meaningful relationship she/he shouldn't expect it to be handed over. It like putting money in the bank-you get out what you put in. If you put 100% into a relationship you don't leave when it's rough. You try to work it out. If, like you've already stated, are not getting back what you put in, you should leave. I made this mistake and I lost my wife. So many people search for what they want out of a relationship but refuse to put in the work to get it. Some people want a man/woman to cook, clean, take care of them, be romantic, be more sexual, listen, talk, etc., etc.;but they are not willing to put forth the effort to receive those things from their partner. Personally I think that's selfish and ignorant. I've said it before, when in a new relationship I push past what a person has done in the past because I'm focused on the future.

killuminautica

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Need Opinions, is this too creepy? Posted: 6/28/2006 10:09:03 AM
Uhhhhh......try asking her when you call.

killuminautica

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asking your questions on a date Posted: 6/28/2006 8:44:21 AM
I recently had a date like that and she know who she is. I assumed she didnt want to know so I asked question after question. So what I did I do? In the middle of the restuarant I got up from the table, grabbed the crab leg off of my plate and "interviewed" couples at the place we where at. I sat back down and the questions poured out. Shock your date. She'll either think you're funny or an ass.

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

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What intimidates you men about us femals? Posted: 6/28/2006 8:37:37 AM
knopper got it-as well as message #50 and the guy who was talking about how busy women are while in public. The movie Hitch pretty much explains a lot of the intimidation as well.

killuminautica

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Why is soo hard for guys to approach women?? Posted: 6/28/2006 8:33:43 AM
If I was interested I would talk to any woman. I would approach any woman-no matter how rich or famous or beautiful. I would admit it's hard but rejection is part of the game-part of the hunt. If a woman doesnt respond I dont get embarrased, I get motivated. So many times I've tried to talk to a woman and she says no thank you or I'm not interested, I say cool no prob. I smile real big and if I get embarrassed I laugh at myself. Hahaha....man are you kidding? She was WAY too pretty for you! This makes it easier. At least for me.

killuminautica

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Female Bisexuality Posted: 6/28/2006 8:22:11 AM
Well let me assure you if the majority of people who enjoy violence or think they enjoy it would experience extreme forms of it (war, seeing people shot, violent fights) the fascination would wear off. At least thats what I believe. I for one am becoming desensitized to female homosexuality. Is it just me or does every second rate comedy show have a gay guy now?

killuminautica

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Let me know if you're with me on this one Posted: 6/28/2006 7:09:07 AM
That's what it's supposed to be about. A lot of people go on dates to "get back out there". But that's why I date.

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

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wouldn't most want to web cam before meeting? Posted: 6/28/2006 7:07:10 AM
Gorshkov-true. Blind dates are arranged but how many of your friends REALLY know the person you're going on the date with? I dont go on blind dates for the simple fact that I dont have time to waste and I dont trust my friends judgement.

killuminautica

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Female Bisexuality Posted: 6/28/2006 7:00:10 AM
I for one dont find it attractive to see women having sex with each other. But whats funny is I asked a girl who sometimes find another woman sexually attractive and just fcks her, how come when a man finds another woman attractive and just fcks her he's a dog or a player? There are labels on sexuality because there's labels for everything else. Why shouldnt there be a label for sexuality??? If a guy sometimes has sex with other men and still liked women a lot of women will call him gay-hands down. The reason female homosexuality or bisexuality or whatever is accepted is because the majority of men enjoy it. I dont find it at all appealing. I dont know why, it just seems strange or off to me. While I was in the service I was attacked by a group of gay/bi females. I said it was a pointless union sexually/reproductively. Not emotionally. If a person loves someone of the same sex more power to you. But I eluded to the analogy of rubbing two petals together and expecting a flower to grow. I was called insecure. Hmmmm...noooo.....I am definetely not insecure about a woman sleeping with another woman-I just dont get a charge out of it. Besides, I can do anything a woman can do (in the bed) but I can do it better. Oh and one more thing guys, the myth (yes myth) that a woman knows another womans body is false. I've dated bisexual women and a woman can be just as inept at sex as any guy can be. It's all about the person. If a man is experienced at pleasing a woman he will please women. If a woman is experienced at pleasing a woman she will.

killuminautica

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can a cheater change? Posted: 6/28/2006 6:40:15 AM
I would have to say that I disagree with almost everyone on this thread. I honestly believe that people can change. I've seen it within almost every vice there is. I've seen alchoholics recover, crack addicts recover, two time felons stay out of prison, gambling addicts recover, and so on. Cheating isn't an addiction. It's a choice and people can change what choices they make. Is it once a smoker always a smoker? No. To borrow some christian religious history, there was a theif that died right beside Christ. I'm not a pastor or minister but I always thought that this means that you can be forgiven and change can be made for the better. I may be on here defending myself but I honestly believe I can offer a woman a wonderful life with me without the fear of me cheating-but I'm a wiser man-I can wholly give myself to a person if she is willing to do the same. Instead of 50/50 it would have to be 100/100. Even though I've cheated I cannot cheat myself. In a different thread in a different forum I stated that when I start a relationship with a person I wipe her slate clean. Anything she's done it the past is not forgotten or ignored but I realize that whatever it is she did had nothing to do with me. But thats me. I hope others can try to adopt this way of looking at relationships and potential loves.

killuminautica

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What makes a woman more of a woman Posted: 6/28/2006 6:15:53 AM
I think what makes a woman more of a woman is seeing her with children. If she is good with children I feel she's a good woman. Not makeup or clothes or sex. A woman is a real woman-more of a real woman if she loves children. In my opinion.

killuminautica

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how can you beleive what people post? Posted: 6/28/2006 6:10:49 AM
Its the same as someone talking to you in person. If a guy tells you what you want to hear you should become skeptic. I've used a tactic <------(I like that word) that takes the persons skepticism and uses it to gain a little trust. For example, if I like a woman I ask if I can meet her for coffee or drinks or if I can visit them at home. Now, if I visit her at home I can visit her at home I would bring my children. This sometimes throw the woman off but I talk to her beside my car with my children in it-(windows down, air conditioning on full blast of course) This generates a safe environment for the woman and she can relax and conversate with me. This leads to more dates and possibly a relationship. Online such a feat would be impossible.

killuminautica

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The Game professional prick up artists Posted: 6/27/2006 2:48:16 PM
I was contacted by the author for research and insight. Just kidding. I never read that book. I will now. Out of curiosity.

killuminautica

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Is it Possible or Just Nuts Posted: 6/27/2006 2:45:36 PM
Put on your flame shield homey! Bill and Hill all the way!!! "she should have been the first woman to sck his dck!" "she put the security of the free world in danger!"

killuminautica

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you do u always want someone you can't have Posted: 6/27/2006 2:26:35 PM
I'm pretty sure the man of her dreams wouldnt treat her like that. I understand your emotion though lily. I like a woman I couldnt have for a month and a half. Drove me nuts. She would cheat on her boyfriend with me and everything. I woke up and got out of that situation.

killuminautica

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God Posted: 6/27/2006 2:12:39 PM
I was a christian I guess. I find religion interesting and I like to know things about the religions that interest me. I have a best friend who is a devout Jehovah's Witness. He is the most sexually repressed person I know. He, in my opinion, is a good person. He's not allowed by his religion to date anyone who isn't a full fledge witness. I think it's crazy but hey. One girl here told me she wont date outside her race because that's what God told her. ???

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

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A question of money Posted: 6/27/2006 2:01:46 PM
Let him pay. If the dummy wants to spend all of his money on a date then let him. When I offer I mean it but it makes me feel good to see a woman offer. To me that means neither one of us owe the other anything. A woman who can pay for herself is a woman I like.

killuminautica

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What intimidates you men about us femals? Posted: 6/27/2006 1:56:19 PM
The "its yours" lie. My younger bro is starting a phone service company here in Ft Worth and the girl he was dating said she was pregnant by him. He took her to the doctor and the doc said she wasnt. He was sweating bullets.

killuminautica

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Is it Possible or Just Nuts Posted: 6/27/2006 1:41:16 PM
Then let me be the person to apologize to you then greeneyez. I've been to war over this so many times here and I'm a natural born warrior-words or guns. I get bashed when I say anything about how I cheated but I always fight through. So yeah I get thin skinned about certain things but I keep my feet planted in here if you know what I mean. I had no idea that the majority of your post wasnt directed toward me-it read like it was meant for me. But the love/ in love line WAS my situation. I didnt use it as an excuse to cheat because I didnt/dont need an excuse.

killuminautica

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Lost sex Life... Posted: 6/27/2006 1:19:47 PM
I have. My ex wife and I were going through problems. We gradually stopped having sex. It was a terrible strain in our relationship-especially for me because she is incredibely attractive. It can ruin a relationship.

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

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Would you date someone with a lazy eye? Posted: 6/27/2006 1:09:54 PM
I dont know...I'd be afraid she was seeing somebody on the side! I couldnt resist. I did date a girl with a lazy eye and it didnt bother me. She had thighs that can make a mouth water and an a$$ that could not be ignored.

killuminautica

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Is it Possible or Just Nuts Posted: 6/27/2006 1:03:32 PM
I put something that HAPPENED TO ME in a forum, not my life. But.....since you want it also: I dont hope no one calls me anything-I could care less. I dont double talk-I elaborate. I dont care if you think its an injustice that I post but I do think you've been cheated on and you're still bitter, but who cares what WE think right? And suggesting something that I cant possibly do now, like breaking up with my ex wife to have sex with someone else, is pretty dumb considering whats done is done. I dont have a problem with what I did because my children are still taken care of and she's getting plenty of spousal support. So bravo greeneyes for your input but I've been through the gauntlet with my past <---(key word here) and I've come to terms with it. If it any consolation (it wont be I'm sure) I did feel extreme remorse over my actions. So what if my opinions clash with the majority. If I'm bashed about this then so be it. If I could do it all over again who knows, but for right now I'm okay. So if its rightful for me to be called a cheater? Okay, thats better than a lot of things I could be called. People here may call me a cheater but more important people call me da-da, son, big brother, friend, soldier........

killuminautica

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Is it Possible or Just Nuts Posted: 6/27/2006 12:10:47 PM
Guys like you kill me somewhere. I love my ex wife because she is a good person. How you dont understand this is mind boggling. She is the mother of my children. I'd do anything to help her short of marrying her again. How exactly are you to say how I feel about anyone or anything? Better question is who made you the authority on love and relationships? Before you label me a cheater ask yourself if you know me. I mean it would be easy for me to label you self righteous. But I dont know you-I only know what you type. So, with that being said, dont take shots at me if you're not prepared. Oh, and she cheated on me too. Not that it matters. There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. While I was in love with my ex I didn't cheat because she was on my mind 24/7. Later as things began to fall apart so did my affection toward her. I dont need to justify it because I cant and furthermore I dont care anymore. Trying to justify something I did in the past is as pointless as counting raindrops. I can be honest about myself. Just like a woman I find myself in a relationship with I take the good with the bad. I dont judge people from what they've done so any relationship I get into from here on out the woman I'm with starts with a clean slate and if they dont give me the same I move on.

killuminautica

Joined: 5/31/2006

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Play by Play Details Posted: 6/27/2006 11:58:03 AM
uhhh....no. That's a waste of time talking about things that really dont matter. Unless you have nothing else to talk about.

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