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Msg: 98 (view)

What's in a kiss? Posted: 10/21/2009 1:22:58 PM
What is in a kiss? Well, I would definitely like to find in a kiss: passion & tenderness, desire & playfulness but hey, one can encounter a novelty while , why not?

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How to tell if a woman is horny?? Posted: 10/21/2009 1:04:15 PM
She is definitely an action girl

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The Longer it takes To Get Her in Bed..The Lousier the Lover? Posted: 10/16/2009 12:22:30 PM
Ahhh ... I wouldn't bet on it.

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Virginity for Sale Posted: 10/14/2009 1:49:34 PM
Hmmm ... back in those innocent pinky rosy days when unknown was going to be unfolded once for good ... and go boldly where no one has gone before ... well, on my horizon there was other excitement in my body & mind than a tag supposedly attached. Since then when mystery turned out to be wonderful and the best escape from reality I STILL would not trade excitement with any amount of money

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Dancing Strictly for poofs Posted: 10/5/2009 12:29:58 PM
Yep, that' my programme on Saturday night and nothing comes between that! I love judges' comments - especially Bruno's passionate ones (I do miss Arlene Philips though) and when it comes to men who can dance - that's a pleasure to watch thinking what a mover ~ what a groover ~ what a .... he could be

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Another kissing question... Posted: 10/4/2009 5:58:12 AM
Quite right Ali, as your words,intution,body language,instinctively have projected a Ahhh ... this kind of action vs reaction would indicate a match made in heaven

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/3/2009 9:06:59 AM
I don't think so that meeting a "blind date" is being brave. What comes into my mind is the fact I live by: "Treat others as you would like to be treated" and if I don't have qualms to put my pic on here - and sure my profession keeps me non-stop in public eye - why should I be "brave" and go to meet Mr Incognito?! I have plenty of excitment in my life and adding to it looking for someone with a red rose in his hand or newpapers folded under his arm well, I leave it to others who need this kind of game. IMO, it takes a certain dose of courage ~ will ~ hope and hopefully budding chemistry to go and meet Mr Right in flesh. Relying on mental picture of him and scanning the place ... is fun enough

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 10/2/2009 11:56:26 AM
It's her confidence.

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people in small towns...how do you find dates? Posted: 9/30/2009 9:58:16 AM
Now, that's my scenario but I don't despair. When meeting someone means to happen it will happen as life doesn't always revolve around small community. One has to venture outside usual quarters from time to time (beach, cinema, swimming pool), businness travel gets one meeting people, believe or not - shopping centre is a place to meet people - and occasionally I pop in my local pub for a pint of Guinness (iron deficiency ).

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Another kissing question... Posted: 9/30/2009 9:45:38 AM
Ahhhh ... I would never let depend on anyone's rules. Another thing about date & kissing is that towards the end of time spent together one or both parties have that tingling feeling as to whether instinctively go for a kiss or not. Body language and intuition never failed in my life.

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Sex with no strings attached, is this possible? Posted: 9/28/2009 12:47:56 PM
But then, I like the strings, and tie bows in them. Not too fond of loose ends. Loose dangling ends are not my favourite either. Sex with no strings attached I think I have seen that in life but the scenario feels alien and very cold to me.

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Why do women equate sex with committment... Posted: 9/28/2009 12:30:13 PM
I broke the rules, I have also bent the rules on many occassions but since some silver-y strands appeared in my hair I tread water more carefully. Hmmm ... did I answer the OP's question?

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Is it a good idea for a couple to tell each other how much money they make? Posted: 9/27/2009 1:09:17 PM
I think, in the process of getting to know each other, both parties will get pretty good picture of each other's financial situation. It translates quite well when out & about, lifestyle gives also a bit of "food for thought", taking initiative ... all boils down to how much one can - financially - jump. Hmmm ... if one is able to keep on even keel also own finance department, welcome to my world

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need to drink alcohol to enjoy sex? Posted: 9/27/2009 12:52:56 PM
A glass or two never hampered "routine" or "performance" <div class='quote'>but when two have eyes wide open,it can and be ,divine... Hmmm ... in vino veritas

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What makes you sigh... and say I wish Posted: 9/26/2009 2:35:04 PM
No, it's not a Jackpot in National Lottery. My wish is pretty simple => finding my best friend ~ companion ~ lover ; yeah all three in one :sigh:

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Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? Posted: 9/24/2009 1:04:55 PM
If you could be free of this urge, would you make that choice? You know OP, this desire has developed gradually so I would let Mother Nature take its course. As for stimulating body I would not narrow the focus to the only one. Actually, once mind is ignited ~ body is on fire.

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does anyone still write love letters? Posted: 9/23/2009 1:00:21 PM
To some people writing is a therapy and love letters definitely capture one's heartbeat, emotions and desire (as Mr Lobster Tales indicated) . I too still keep some letters of the past ... as one lady said, they reflect on the good times and if the distance had to keep us apart, a written monologue very often felt like soon to happen dialogue

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How Many Seek Love Over Sex? Posted: 9/22/2009 1:44:14 PM
Ahhh ... not taking shortcuts in this delicate department P.S Nurture ~ relish ~ cherish

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does anyone still write love letters? Posted: 9/22/2009 1:36:40 PM
Hmmm ... my letters weren't scented and didn't carry contours of my lips but they were full of innuendos. I love and loved an ignited mind P.S. Letters have been replaced by love songs I listen to when driving.

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Did you expect to be single this late in life? Posted: 9/20/2009 11:51:45 AM
Not really but if I take in consideration that I was in my early 30s when I got married - (never felt urge or society pressure to be one of my married friends) - I suppose ... in my case ... journey is just not plain & simple for feeling and being "hot to trot"

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being good in bed Posted: 9/18/2009 2:31:08 PM
Ladies, what do u look for in a guy to be good in bed? blending element

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How do you get a woman to talk? Posted: 9/15/2009 1:26:22 PM
Compliment her on something she said, is wearing or doing ...

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Do women like being approached in public for a date ? Posted: 9/15/2009 1:20:34 PM
If you think about it - is there a right place to be approached for a date?! Nope. When and where it happens is irrelevant as long as it happens

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Is it possible to be romantic without opening one's wallet? Posted: 9/15/2009 1:18:16 PM
Gentle grip of his warm hand would make my heart jump with joy. Money and true feelings don't mix well together.

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what do women want in bed??????????? Posted: 9/14/2009 1:12:50 PM
To find myself in his arms. And then, let body do the talking

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Self concious of being on top Posted: 9/12/2009 12:55:23 PM
Bouncing is for teenagers. whytwater, you seem to be on something here lol IMHO, being on top is not about bouncing ... shall we say it's about profoundly exploring and one's 'forte' would turn another in 'a pronto' But hey, who likes shortcuts?

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When did we become old fuddy duddies? Posted: 9/12/2009 12:38:33 PM
buzzing-buzz over here. No time for fuddy duddies, not to mention fuzzy buddies. Life is too short ~ time precious. But there is a little advice, friend - should you feel like "under the weather" get your swim gear and get your heart pumping at your local swimming pool or if you that lucky - in the sea. You might wear out your body but you clear your mind

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Is anyone on here serious?? Posted: 9/11/2009 12:32:43 PM
I think that most people that do online dating are here for an ego boost Perhaps, there is an element of truth in it but by majority of what I read on forums there are plenty of serious lurking in deep and shallow waters. And hey, they not necessarily wear shiny "identity tags"

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Health Benefits of Semen Swallowing Posted: 9/11/2009 12:23:44 PM
Our elders never lie people And their advice I always keep at the back on my mind

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Do men think women women wearing glasses are sexy? Posted: 9/11/2009 12:04:16 PM
Ahh ... really? Never thought that spectacles could have such an impact on a man? But there could be more to man's liking for it: - specs have to be removed ... at some point - then focus is very close - switching off the sight = turning on other senses Hmmm ... anticipation ...

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How important is a THREESOME??? Posted: 9/11/2009 11:44:11 AM
Is it really? Maybe for some. As far as I can remember there was not a dull moment, blank expression in eyes and moist skin said it all. Yep, one to one

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Experiences with cuddle guys Posted: 9/9/2009 1:21:08 PM
men who put things in their profiles about liking to cuddle, snuggle, give foot rubs, whatever I think that these gentlemen give a wee preview of what they are like behind the closed doors but hey, to get to these doors take some time Surely, if there is more of some substantial 'entree' information in their profile and the correspondence also indicates some other public activities and hobbies, then maybe even 'meet & greet' stage may happen and yet ... still quite a way to these closed doors ...

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What is your favorite type of sex? Posted: 9/9/2009 1:06:12 PM
Well, I have never looked at 'hands on' or 'on hands' as a particular type but as long as I keep glowing and the other party is perspiring ... ahhh ... I'm convinced that whatever IT is would be OUR favourite.

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Sex while talking? Posted: 9/6/2009 12:16:37 PM
As long as you stay on topic, fire away!... - "you're never too old to learn new tricks" even in department.lol But then, I cannot guarantee kiss of life that would let other senses speak loud

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Dating in the Dark... would you do it? Posted: 9/6/2009 11:49:19 AM
Do you think that the chemistry with someone could be the same if you never saw what they looked like? Ahhh ... that would not work with me. I love eye contact; just to get the feel how confident the other party is, how much their eyes say or give away, how the size of their pupils change ...if ever lol. But then, quite later on down the line ... providing all is more than hanky-dory ... light or dark would not make any difference when touch play its forte

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Men over 45 and facial hair Posted: 9/6/2009 11:30:25 AM
Ahhh ... I love to feel his smooth - baby skin like - face, smelling fresh and turning pink with joy :blush: . And the rest could get as hairy monkey

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Compromise or no? Posted: 9/5/2009 1:30:49 PM
I just don't want to get to a point in the relationship where I'm invested and dissapointed. Oh man, I know what you are trying to say but hey, even if petals are missing, scent of a flower with its sweet nectar will be there. (Back to my "Mike and the Mechanics/Nobody's perfect" )

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Why do YOU still make the effort. Posted: 9/4/2009 12:40:56 PM
Because "the fire" inside me hasn't gone dead.

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As you've gotten older, are you more sensitive regarding suffering in the world? Posted: 9/4/2009 12:34:01 PM
Interesting OP, I feel the same. Just recently I've told my son not to share with me graphic description of what he has read about his long gone hero, the same goes for gory headlines in papers and the news on telly make me shiver when depicting youngsters finding themselves in the courts for utter cruelty and twisted minds. I think that all experiences I have encountered so far in my life, some not even thinking of that could ever happen to me, made me more appreciate uplifting ~ smile bringing ~ inspiring stories just like people with sunny personalities.

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acceptable time to ask man about sex? Posted: 9/4/2009 12:10:42 PM
Msg 36: ... took words out of my mouth. If two people are into each other ... body language gives more inkling than any beforehand prepared questions could answer. And then just to go with the flow

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sex is a good thing people Posted: 9/3/2009 1:17:52 PM
how many people here can honestly say that they like sex without feeling shameful... What is there to feel so negative about? Au contraire, my friend. A healthy appetite energises you and beside, it feels sooooo n a t u r a l & s e n s u a l

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secret languauge of dating? Posted: 8/30/2009 12:51:48 PM
he says "we must meet up" does he mean it literally... OP, if your online chat went well and you both progressed to text messages/cell~mobile phones and he suggested the above, then call his bluff & suggest where and what time! Whether he is true to his words - time will tell.

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celibacy in late life Posted: 8/29/2009 10:32:29 AM
Well, I cannot say that my mind was celibate in the recent years but my body did and does get plenty of heart racing situations, pink cheeks and broad smile on face. But it doesn't involve "gooey" stuff. Why is it so hard to find anyone willing to trade in all that gooey drama for warmth, companionship and true friendship? Perhaps, because I know myself better than a few decades ago and finding someone on the same or very similar wavelenghts requires honesty ~ effort ~ tact & jolly good dose of enthusiasm. Back into my bay

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One person clothed, another naked? Posted: 8/28/2009 1:39:46 PM
I am not sure if I could stay clothed for too long.. Nor me! Actually, I'm pretty sure that piece after piece of attire would simultaneously found its way on the floor. Nothing beats skin : skin!

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Night of hot sex Posted: 8/27/2009 6:02:02 AM
Since our connection with each other is new I'm wondering if he'll go back for more. OP, did he have a smile on his face when he kissed you goodbye? I bet, he did even say something affectionate prior walking out of the door. Don't despair OP, every passionate ~ breathcatching ~ and ... take it to the limit one more time ... night is unique in its own way. No reason to think why he would not come back

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Men? We Like It Gentle Posted: 8/25/2009 9:51:11 AM
I have heard it many times that women are like flowers. Turning to someone who warms them up, opening heart & mind to someone who is worth it and blossoming beside someone who reciprocates TLC. Slowly and gently? A gourmet doesn't gulp down

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Men? We Like It Gentle Posted: 8/23/2009 1:08:10 PM
First of all - I would like to say - different strokes for different folks. Surely, she can tell him ~ guide him ~ or even demonstrate if necessary... But the best indicator would be the rythm - as one - and even breathing would feel as coming from the only one pair of lungs.

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Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older? Posted: 8/23/2009 12:44:07 PM
was always a pleasure to me just like a pleasure to give and share. Age has nothing to do with why I would like to seal - our unity - with a kiss.

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If you make her cum orally shouldn't she return the favor? Posted: 8/22/2009 1:15:38 PM
Whatever scenario 'on hands' or 'hands on' is never only way street in my books. Double joy!

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Has anyone met someone from this site and what happened. Posted: 8/22/2009 10:56:33 AM
^^^^ and of course there exists the across the pond potentials Of course, Mr Lobster but hey, lets just be realistic. When one was single with no commitments, professional roots were not that deep down, when one believed totally in happily ever after and moved the mountains in the name of love ... yes, I have done it and know jolly well its pros & cons . At this stage in my life - potentials from the across the pond - it is just not an option for me, nor even remotely to contemplate anything that would involve long distance romance. But thank you for suggesting

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