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Msg: 68 (view)

The 3 Day Rule Posted: 8/1/2008 11:46:07 AM
I couldn't agree with you more....there are no RULES.....go with your heart and let your feelings flow ,if is there let me know and I will do the same. no games no guessing just pure love....

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Meatloaf even meatloaf haters will eat... Posted: 7/21/2008 9:16:46 PM
you can use rice also it's great..........

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Meatloaf even meatloaf haters will eat... Posted: 7/21/2008 9:15:00 PM
If you dont like ragu, chunkey sauce is great...

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Meatloaf even meatloaf haters will eat... Posted: 7/21/2008 9:12:57 PM
Sounds great I love to cook........

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What do you make of this? need some perspective Posted: 7/21/2008 9:11:55 PM
Whatever???????

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What do you make of this? need some perspective Posted: 3/27/2008 5:56:14 PM
Well maybe he found a job,or someone else to (talk) to, you know how guys can be here today, gone tommorow. So can women, I'v had people that I thought were really special in my life just vanish off the face of the earth. Not letting me know what happen or anything. So life goes on, no promise anyone will be there tomorrow. So enjoy the time you have with someone while your together and set them free when they are ready to go, if they come back to you then maybe you can have something together. He's a big boy and has to make his choices in life you can't save him or change him or control any thing about him. Sounds like you have a full life so go and enjoy your kids and your life and make your self as happy as you can be, The only person you can truly trust to love you, and always be there for you is "yourself" So love yourself and make your self happy and if someone comes along to share that happiness with you great,just make sure they are a happy person and can love you, and bring joy to your life ,not problems. You are on the right track going to school, and I think you will go far and have a great future with or without anyone. Don't let someone else put problems on you, and get you to worry about them. You have enought on your plate with children to take care of. Make yourself and them your worry. OK? Much happiness to you and the kids......

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Prostitution: a Prep School for Marriage? Posted: 1/6/2008 4:28:52 PM
Well why would a prostitute WANT to get married??? When she makes all that money,and doesn't have to wash his dirty socks,and cook all thoses meals,clean his house, and be at his beck and call and serve him his beer in front of the TV???? DUD she would be stupid....Knowbody pays a wife a thousand dollars just for a good time .

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Best places to meet people after 45 Posted: 9/17/2007 9:57:44 AM
I think classes are a good idea....and just putting yourself out there would help..

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Meatloaf even meatloaf haters will eat... Posted: 9/16/2007 12:41:45 PM
A great one need to try this.....Thanks for the hint....

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Super Fudge Brownies Posted: 9/16/2007 12:40:19 PM
A must try.......

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pie crust for idiots...(like me) Posted: 9/16/2007 12:39:29 PM
Very good, I tryed it and was great....

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what good or bad food do you remember from childhood? Posted: 9/16/2007 12:37:47 PM
I guess the Sunday dinners I liked best...Chicken and the works....

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i want out of this alcoholic nightmare Posted: 8/28/2007 10:11:35 AM
I have been in a few drinking relationships, it started with my step dad, and have been in a lot of friendships and love relationships with the drinker. I divorced 2 drinkers and got right back into another relationship with a drinker, so it's my problem not the drinkers ,Ichoose the men, they choose to drink. So it's about my choices. I needed the help to make healthy choices. I am in a relationship right now and he did drink out of control at one time. Now to save his job, his driving, and his life he choose not to drink for now. Not saying he will never go back to that life it's not for me to say. But I do know he is a very hard person to live with, and very angry at the world. So even thou he is not drinking the moods and ways will get to you. As bad as a person that is drunk. I think in AA they call it a dry drunk. What ever, it is hard to live with both a drinker and a ex drinker. So I need to work on myself and not judge him. I will never make him happy or get him to be loving. I can only get help for myself to find out Why I don't choose a healthy loving person to be with. And in time I hope to be healthy enought to find a healthy love......So bless everyone who has lived with the person that has problems with or without drinking.....We all have our crosses to bear and out lifes problems to work on...Who ever is reading this and has NO problems, be the first to cast the first stone. So I need to close now and work some more on myself.

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Women, what do you want from men other than money ? Posted: 7/22/2007 8:36:55 PM
We WANT a good looking guy that owns his own home and car a good job and treats us like a queen,is a good lover and thoughtful, never forgets our birthday, takes out the trash and helps with dinner, takes us out once a week for a date night and never cheats or lies to us. Now what we GET........A guy that is to cheep to take us out and wants his food on the table when he walks in the door. Never takes us out to a movie and only rents red box movies and it must be something he likes. Never dresses up wears old dirty T-shirts and will not shave unless he is going to see his friends, lies to us and cheats when ever he thinks he can get away with it...........So what we WANT and what we GET are two different things.........

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It Happened to Me for the First Time at 48 years Old. Posted: 6/21/2007 7:58:59 PM
Yes we should be able to get information on people before we go out with them, Wish I could contact the ex girlfriends and wifes maybe it would have saved me a broken heart and 2 years of my life, We never know someone till we date for a while and then it's to late to save us from the pain. My boyfriend's other women called him while he was at my house and he would not answer his cell phone I ask him why, he said oh it's nobody. Well I found out he had gone out with her and she just wanted to know why he didn't call he like he said he would, well he was cheating on both of us. When I told him I would not put up with cheating he said Well I have to think about this he said I'm not sure if I want to put up with this( he said I was nagging him) Boy turn it around on me and try to make me feel wrong. What kind of mind game is that? Boy some of you guys have nerve, and then some are honestly out there and do tell the truth. So I will not give up yet on Love, I will just try to be more careful next time. June

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eHarmony...STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE!!! Posted: 5/2/2007 11:36:49 AM
Hi E Harmony, the name said it all ...Harm/on/y just add/ou on the end and that says it all, I got matched up with a 75 year old from southern Iowa, about 600miles from me, we talked on the phone and found out he wanted a free nurse to live with him,since thats what I did for a living I told him I already had a job,and could not work for free. he said well he would buy my food. I hung up, and now I will find my own guy and hope I will not have to nurse him back to health, just for a date.......EEEEEEECCCHHHHHarmony is a rip off Please stay away from them.....only out for the money, and taking peoples money who just want to find real Love, I hope someday the right person gets them in a court of law........

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To all the ladies of POF Posted: 11/21/2006 11:09:47 AM
Well if anyone on here feels bad because they were (dumped) That's not the way to look at it...I feel if someone finds the relationship is not working for them they should move on to something else....knowbody gets dumped it just wasn't right at that place and time. So you move on, and maybe the next relationship it won't be right for them so they move on.....but it's not being dumped, if it was we would all be in the dump yard and somebody would take us home thinking we were worth keeping and not trash..trash gets dumped....people move on to something else.....maybe someday wishing they would have stayed knowing too late it was the best they will ever find....We just do our best and give our love, and treat people the best we can, and hope that somone will find that is good enought..and we are worth loving and keeping. Sometimes the answer is no,sometimes the answer is not yet, sometimes it's I have something better in mind for you...........so what ever,or who ever you pray too you get an answer.. Love and peace to you, and for the guys and girls over there fighting, lets not forget them this Thanksgiving........... June

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do you fellow your gut or heart? Posted: 10/27/2006 2:28:58 PM
I followed my heart.....in one relationship and we are still together.... I followed my head in another one we are now apart.......so if I get hurt and my heart gets broken...then I will use my head and call the other guy back.....is that wrong or what??????

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When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?. Posted: 10/16/2006 7:16:57 PM
Well the leaving the seat up would be better than leaving it down, and leaving it wet.... Try sitting down on a wet seat in the middle of the night and then having to take a shower....after your thru with all that...you are awake and a little mad...so guys if you want to break up a relationship leave the seat down and wet on it....

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what was the one thing that made you fall out of love with someone Posted: 10/4/2006 6:42:04 PM
Well sometimes it just takes time till you start feeling the love fade,if both partys are not doing something to keep it alive then like a flower that you don't water and take care of it just dies......so what ever you want to keep in your life you need to do something everyday to make it better..take care of everything in your life you want to keep around....easy enought...RIGHT well some people just don't get it....and take things and people for granted and just stop trying so be it a job, a relationship, a house, a car, a child ,anything,,, take care of it and you will keep it and enjoy the rewards....so Love to you all and take care of yourself and the ones you love...........

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How do you get a cute girl to dump her bf? Posted: 9/21/2006 4:51:02 PM
Well if the guy is not treating her good then she will dump him in time, and if he is treating her good then you should be happy for them and move on to somebody else.....just be sure that when YOU are in a relationship with a cute girl, you treat her the best you can ,so she keeps you around and won't DUMP you for someone better............sounds like something to be learned here............................

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found someone Posted: 9/20/2006 2:25:26 PM
I'm sooooooooooooo Happy for you it's not everyday we find somebody to love and that loves us back....but it only takes one day to find the right one......Hope my one day will happen soon but for now I'm happy for anyone that has found the right one....I'm Happy with my life right now and having fun....... but would like to find someone to share that happiness with.....we will have a ball.....and have lots of love to share.....So hears to you... Have fun and never stop showing your love for your special someone.............

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Do emotions mean anything anymore? Posted: 9/13/2006 7:28:00 PM
So are you saying you have to feel sad to know love is real???????? well I guess I had o lot of (REAL LOVE)??? in my life but then if it was real love why is it over???? now my head is really messed up..........

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Men on a Marriage Strike Posted: 8/22/2006 1:22:32 PM
Well I think if a man gets married to someone and has kids with her....he should get the house and kids and the women should be free to PARTY every night and find a new honey to have a good time with....and he should have the job of the house and kids....bet the guy would think twice about being stuck with a house to clean and kids to stress over...so guys don't get married to someone you don't plan on staying with for life....or you just might get stuck someday with what we women have been doing for years....LET"S All just Party and have a good time....and try to get along and LOVE each other we are all we have...their are no other sexes out their just a man and a woman....so the choice is up to us.. marry or not but do it with the plan to make it a good life for everybody.....kids need a dad and a mom..and we all need Love....so what ever you do, just do it with Love in your heart and you will never go wrong......

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How Do I get her to break up with me? Posted: 7/27/2006 5:42:55 PM
Well you could tell her you need to go for your aids test....since you are having signs of aids...I think she would be happy to leave.....dishonest I know....Well I know how to get a guy out of your life...just tell him You love him and want to marry him and have his baby...he will do skid marks down your driveway.......

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Why Do Men Want Us To Fit Into Their Lives Only? Posted: 7/9/2006 3:48:59 PM
(quote) great guy

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Why Do Men Want Us To Fit Into Their Lives Only? Posted: 7/9/2006 3:42:09 PM
WOW what a guy....He's thinking about both partners....and that's the way it should be....he is my kind of guy......

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What is Love? Posted: 7/9/2006 2:02:39 PM
True we all feel Love or something like it at one time or the other,be it for a family member a pet a friend or for things....we feel a want or a need to be close to someone...at some point in time ....that's what makes us human.....and sex brings us as close as we can get to someone....without either I guess we are just as good as dead.....so love is being alive and sex is what keeps us alive........I know I never felt more alive as when I was having sex with someone I felt love for.....

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Do people only want looks? A perfect girl or guy? Posted: 7/4/2006 11:22:03 AM
Well don't think ALL GIRLS WANT A TALL GUY I LIKE MINE SHORT>>>>>I"m 5ft 4 and it hurts my back to dance with a tall guy and trying to kiss a tall guy standing on your toes is awful so give me a short guy any time, I can hold him close and be face to face....YES thats what I like......come down to my world and we can make wonderfull music together Baby

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2 Short Erotic Stories Posted: 6/16/2006 4:05:08 PM
Could I print this out and send it to someone I know.......I call him the 2 min man......... he could sure learn something from you....good guys finish last...........

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Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 6/14/2006 1:22:31 PM
Gee maybe we have dated the same guy... I had a guy drop out on me after 2 months and he did say he loved me......well after 3more months went by he called and said he really did care so we got back together on new years eve.....well after a month I told him that it's not working out....after his true self came out....I saw him as someone else...not the guy I thought he was...(that can happen after you know him for a while)....well hun just maybe you should send him a Thank you card for leaving......you will be better off with a REAL man...not a baby that runs away....so hang in there I hope their are some real men left out there for the loving women we are...........Hugs to you.....

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