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Joined: 6/5/2006

Msg: 87 (view)

Is it wrong to want a Friend with Benefits? Posted: 9/10/2007 5:01:17 PM
i absolutely agree with u . Singles nowadays have no morals and are downright skanky unfortunately i am dating these skanky guys or meeting them but once i know they want FWB i kick them out real quick . Never looked back and could not care less. The ppl dating nowadays have no morals give their bodies easily. No one i s scared of HIV?

Joined: 6/5/2006

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Is it wrong to want a Friend with Benefits? Posted: 9/10/2007 4:58:16 PM
yes i get this crap all the time as i am attractive and sexy. It is degrading , lazy and if u want the whore down the street go for it. But most gals, like me want a LTR are men too lazy or cheap they don't want a LTR? u can't get something for nothing it is our bodies and u want to just have sex and then not commit. It does not work that way for decent nice girls.

Joined: 6/5/2006

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why do men only care about sex??? Posted: 8/17/2007 4:59:02 PM
this is the generation of guys who only want sex. 12 years ago when i was dating they wanted relationship and sex. But wait, it is the women who tell me they don't want a relationship and they only want sex from guys to which gives them the idea we are all like that . I have a gf who says she only wants sex and free meals from a guy that is all she wants. WHen enough guys meet girls like her, they expect girls like us to be the same. Keep ur chin up, there will be a guy who wants u for the special person u are. I have guy friends who want a gf and marraige and they tell me the women are flaky and don't even show up for dates

Joined: 6/5/2006

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Gutless or sign of the times? Posted: 8/13/2007 3:35:46 PM
most of the guys nowadays are that way trust me but that is ok i will do the same thing back. This is a comforting thought for every jerk that breaks up with u there will be five more knocking at ur door wanting to be with u . Happens all the time . Don't take it to heart.

Joined: 6/5/2006

Msg: 331 (view)

Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women? Posted: 6/21/2006 3:50:43 PM
speaking for myself, I like to dress sophisticated not trashy. I am from SF Chinatown and pride myself on having some class. Oh by the way, Chinese are very proud of being Chinese. And most Asian women with exceptons of a few different asian cultures are pretty dominant and strong will. We rule the household.

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Msg: 330 (view)

Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women? Posted: 6/21/2006 3:48:06 PM
That is your tough luck. I am Asian and alot of guys love Asian women. They think we are gorgeous.

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Msg: 329 (view)

Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women? Posted: 6/21/2006 3:47:21 PM
Listen dude. The military men marry the whores and sluts from Asia that is why they slut around. I am an American Born Chinese and Asian American born are not sluts. You get what you pay for. I lost 2 guys bec they went to Asia. Most Asian women who are really good women don't go out with military guys . Esp in Asia. The girls who are good Asian women in asia are not allowed to date outside the race. I don't cater to any guy. They cater to me and I will not tolerate a nasty guy.

Joined: 6/5/2006

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I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... Posted: 6/13/2006 9:34:33 PM
I agree that men look horrible when they hit 40. I am Asian and I look pretty good and I prefer younger men. They look better and they appear nicer. The older guys just want sex and tell me on the first date. So rude. I have gone out with guys in their 40's and they seem like they are entitled to sex right away and I don't even know them. If you have to ask, you ain't getting it. The younger guys seem more respectful. I prefer guys in their late 20's or 30's.

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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women? Posted: 6/13/2006 8:04:27 AM
I am Chinese and I have guys always looking and wanting to go out with me. Asian women are pretty and gorgeous. I have long legs, tanned and am older but look great. I also have cleavage. What can I say? Men of all ages and races look. Some approach me and some don't. I have blacks, whites, Hispanics looking. Some come up to me and talk. Some aer much younger. Plus, Hey we are not submissive! Hell no. Chinese women are dominant and we run the show. If you don't llike white men dating Asians, what can I say? Ask the guys. My aunt is in her 70's and attract men 1/2 her age. We look good. Very little wrinkles. Actually the guys who like Asian women are irritating. They go on and on about all their Asian ex's and it gets boring. We are not the Asian dolls here. These guys think they get a cute, sweet submissive asian doll, go to asia bring home these girls and these girls are a handful. My experence of Asian women, we have a temper! Don't mess with us. Asians usually will date guys who are asians or whites only bec the culture does not really like other races. It is taboo. I give lectures on Asian cultures. I know alot about Asians.

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younger men older women and vice versa Posted: 6/10/2006 9:59:42 AM
That is not true. I am an older woman looking for a younger man. I do not treat younger men with disrespect bec he is younger. I don't care about age so long as the guy is an adult . However, I have seen older men treat older women with disrespect asking for sex on the first date like I have to give to them just bec they asked I believe younger men are more polite, not as nasty. But are younger men attracted to older women? And I have experienced where the younger guy got the upper hand on me SO no stereotypes please. We are not that hard to please.

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Friends? Posted: 6/10/2006 9:24:15 AM
I have many guy friends and some are not attracted to me. They call me big sister or little sister. These are Asians and Asians value friendships almost as if friends were part of the family. There does not have to be any physical attraction at all. That is what makes it safe to be friends NO poss of having a sexual or romantic relationship.

Joined: 6/5/2006

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Friends or lovers???? Posted: 6/9/2006 2:37:35 PM
Talk to him about how you feel, however be prepared that he may be commitment phobic and only likes you when you are not available and dating others. That happened to me, and my "friend"said he wasn't attracted to me romantically and when I told him I woud be dating other guys, he stopped seeing me or talking to me. All communications have stopped. So nothing now. So be prepared. You may have to move out.

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