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CREDIT CHECK!!! Posted: 7/7/2006 10:42:31 AM
Once you marry it will become a HUGE issue if your partner has credit problems. You will then become responsible for their ALL of their debts and vice versa. So their money problems instantly become yours and will effect your credit in the long run. I do believe partners should be up front about this and all issues in a committed relationship however, I would question a credit check. Money is always an issue, and compromise is best. Best of luck and happy hunting.

Joined: 6/6/2006

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Friday evening ..... Posted: 6/30/2006 2:07:24 PM
I know exactly how you feel. I too am tired of spending so much time alone. I don't go to bars by myself and as much as I love my dogs they don't converse very well and their table manners leave much to be desired. At least I have my Sunday bike ride to look forward to. Hope we both find someone to spend time with soon. Also, hope you have a good weekend. If you get really bored come on down to Nashville and we can keep each other company and look for cute guys to ogle.

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Older men dating younger women --- does it work?? Posted: 6/30/2006 11:43:29 AM
In my own experience..NO. My ex-husband was older than myself by 18 years. I am outgoing and active and I like to stay fit and I like to socialize with friends. His only outdoor activity was playing golf and he did not like to go out or socialize unless it was work related. I took up golf in order for us to have something to do together but it was a nightmare trying to play a round with him. He "insisted" on trying to teach me how to play properly (his way). He also was very needy and jealous. I never game him reason to be, but his insecurity about our age difference continually came up. He was looking to me to take care of him and be a nurse maid but failing to meet my needs. Finally our generational and life style issues finally caught up with us and we parted ways. At least I can say that we parted on good terms. But I also know that I will not date a man that much older than myself and one who is not as active as myself. It just will not work out in the long run.

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If a man breaks up with you because he is not feeling it for you, can he change his mind? Posted: 6/16/2006 6:30:07 AM
Thank you for the responses. I was looking for a male point of view on this topic as I have not had to face this issue before. I was very hurt by the break up but I learned a lot from it as well. In my past relationships once it ended, even on a friendly basis, it was over and I did not want a reconciliation. This time was different, I fell hard and fast and I'm sure that was part of the problem. I did want a second chance but only if it was for the right reasons. I don't see this happening. I had let go and moved on, or so I thought, when he contacted me again. I did meet with him to satisfy my curiousity. Now I know I can truly move on with an open heart and mind. NashvilleMish

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If a man breaks up with you because he is not feeling "it" for you, can he change his mind? Posted: 6/15/2006 2:09:53 PM
So my bf broke up with me about three months ago for the reason stated above. I recently saw him (he called, not me) and he was very warm, touchy feely, funny, and gave me a very LONG hug and a kiss on the cheek and a little peck on the neck as I left. Am I reading too much into this? Is it possible for him to change his mind and maybe, just maybe, fall for me, or do I just let this go and move on? Thanks, NashvilleMish

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Does the referral network work online? Posted: 6/14/2006 12:20:52 PM
Personally, being new to the online dating thing I would love a referral. Dating is hard enough and online dating even more so. Sorting thru the good, bad, and ugly with help from those who have "been there, done that" would be most appreciated.

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