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Joined: 6/6/2006

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How Do Men Feel About Dating Virgins? Posted: 8/14/2006 12:36:39 AM
Wow...do they still exist? Sorry (LOL) I couldn't resist. But seriously, I'm not crazy about the idea, but there is nothing wrong with them either. These days, I find it hard to believe when a woman tells me she's a virgin, but if she is, I'll deal with it. Don't get hung up about it; in the big scheme of things, its not that important.

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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 8/14/2006 12:28:26 AM
Men are very visually-driven. Why do you think there are fashions that make women wear high-heeled shoes that kill their feet. Its because the shoes accentuate a woman's legs and butt. The same is true for all those different types of bras. They accentuate a woman's assets, which gets immediate attention from men. I think I have a lot of respect for women, don't treat them as objects, and women I know will back me up... but I got to tell you ... men can't help but be drawn to a woman's curves! Sadly, I think you're only solution maybe to "dress down" and hide your assets, like other women do.

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booty call or WHAT? Posted: 8/14/2006 12:05:35 AM
Hate to say it, because I think I am a romantic like you, but it sounds like a booty call to me! Earlier posts were correct, take away the "benefits", start talking about dating others, and see what happens. If he really is 'the one', you'll find out fast based on his behavior. Good Luck

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What to do guys really want? Posted: 8/13/2006 11:51:16 PM
Your question is hilarious, because I regularly find myself asking the exact opposite question to you. I suppose my answer to both questions would be someone who is honest, direct, reliable and considerate, etc. I think you get the picture.

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Are you more likely to cheat when.... Posted: 8/13/2006 11:28:28 PM
Your question is irrelevant, because if I'm insecure in a relationship, I either resolve it or leave it. I don't cheat. I was cheated on, and I would never subject another to that hell!

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Long Term, Dating or Friends Which Category Do Men Check Out for Serious Relationships? Posted: 8/13/2006 11:24:17 PM
Personally, I'm not detered by any of these terms. And I have to say, I am drawn much more to those women who say that they are seeking "Long Term". But thats me!

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Whats more important,the face ,body or personality?? Posted: 8/13/2006 11:20:17 PM
As we get older both our bodies and our faces age and deteriorate, but our personalities only become richer and more interesting! Guess which I favor...

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Please explain this to me... Posted: 8/13/2006 11:11:56 PM
Firstly, I think these guys are the IPGs (or is that PIGS?) that you so aptly described. Unfortunately, they exist, but the good news is that they make us regular guys look like superstars! A friend of mine had a similar answer as an earlier comment: "Honey, if you can only hold it in one hand, I ain't interested!" Here's a suggestion, after reading your profile I noticed that are a couple of sexual references or double entendres. Perhaps, leaving these out might make you a smaller target for these freaks.

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Guys opinion Posted: 8/13/2006 10:25:59 PM
You have to do what is true to you. If confronting him directly is not your style, then its not going to work. If writing is more in line with who you are then that's route. I'm a little shy myself, but I would try to get the message to him via a friend's help. It can be subtle. It doesn't have to be a sledgehammer. If he's not a moron, he'll catch on. Then the sky's the limit....

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How do you know when he is interested? Posted: 8/13/2006 10:17:22 PM
Darlin'...this could have been me....he likes you, but doesn't know how to say it! If you're interested, I'd say you need to draw him into a private conversation. Try making it easy for him to talk about it...

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Ladies.....I need help........ Posted: 8/13/2006 9:50:25 PM
Methinks he dost protest too much! If it bothers you that bad; pay more attention to the women you pick...

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please expain to me! Posted: 8/13/2006 8:43:11 PM
Welcome to my world! I've had the same bad experiences and as I've discovered, so have many, many other guys! Women are an enigma!

Joined: 6/6/2006

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Do women actually email men on here.... Posted: 8/13/2006 8:35:59 PM
Well, I'm a little more encouraged by this reading thread than I was before. Thanks to censhoeull & pebbles2006 for their comments. I was beginning to feel very discouraged that all I was getting was "Read", "Read Deleted", or worse "Unread Deleted". It seems that my male experience is not that unusual. I would like to also say that I agree with the earlier comment (I can't remember who said it) that I would encourage all women to show a little initiative, suck up their courage and try making "first contact". I say this for two reasons, one they'll learn to appreciate a "No Thank You" response, and two they might just be surprised. One of the best relationships I ever had was with a woman who made the "first move" and asked me out. We ended up as a couple for three wonderful years. INMHO, speaking as a guy, it can be pretty unnerving when a woman starts coming on to you, especially if it hasn't happened before! But Ladies, it must be one of the MOST flattering things a guy can experience!

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