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BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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tug of war with my son Posted: 12/20/2012 8:29:27 PM
Nikki... honestly .... this is NOT gonna create any kinda bad blood between the two of you.. he is boy that don't wanna clean... he expects his mama to nag him to clean and he gonna find any kinda way to get out of it.. but this truly is just a blip in the road of life.... keep on his lazy butt and keep making him clean... it'll be a constant fight,,,, but that's ok.... he's still just a kid... he won't hold it against against you... unless you burn cigarettes on him to get him to clean !! don't back off mama !!!!

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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brother in law Posted: 12/19/2012 11:00:49 PM
brother in law ?? is he married to someone in your family ? I'd say leave it...

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Quite the story---Need Advice Posted: 12/17/2012 5:45:24 PM
OP 100% (minus checking her FB) you did the right thing... man up and leave a relationship if a girl is letting some other dude screw her kudos man (hand clap hand clap)

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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When conversations turn to sex....? Posted: 12/17/2012 4:13:05 PM
OP - here's a hint... everyone has their own ideas on sex and when they want/expect sex to happen ... some are glad to jump into the sack straight out of the gate and others are willing to wait... you are a grown adult... you choose the people who you want to spend time with... and you are definitely old enough to understand many/most men want sex first before a relationship...

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Is she playing games? Posted: 12/17/2012 1:31:37 PM
Well I say that because nobody has treated her how I do. I treat her like a princess there are plenty of women who truly do not find this an attractive way for a man to treat her...its not always how they wanna be treated... and I do not stalk her I just checked up on my hunch twice and no more than that well, that's technically called a ""drive by""....it has to be more than 5 drive bys for it to technically be considered stalking I believe...

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Is she playing games? Posted: 12/17/2012 11:20:54 AM
OP... seems highly likely that the ""friend"" was a MAN as in a date... IME... when a woman is really into a man...and wants to be with him... she doesn't seem to have time for anyone or anything else (save for her children)... best recourse on your part is to not listen to her excuses cuz that all they are... find another...before you find HER with another... many women are terrible at actually breaking up with a guy....saying it and cutting the chord

boondocksaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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?? for men making the first move Posted: 12/17/2012 7:16:44 AM
Miss Chris.... that doesn't make any sense... especially for your generation even more... guys have virtually always had to make the first move and yet somehow someone is telling you that suddenly you have to make the first move, merely cuz its online dating ?

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Date: First Contact Posted: 12/16/2012 4:43:07 AM
OP >>> don't say you're a ninja if you get nervous being around a woman.... you absolutely MUST get over that.... especially at your age... and as the man YOU are the leader/driver of the ""relationship"" women will get turned off by those things if you don't ""MAN"" uPP

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Douche Posted: 12/15/2012 4:33:46 PM
i LOVE this THREAD >>>> OP... don't worry.... plenty of POFers are totally OFFENDED about the smallest thing EVA... any and ALL sorrts of criticism and perceived criticism is all vitriol in their minds... some women STINK... that is a FACT.... so what is up with thaT ?

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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sex and dating- not aggressive enough??? Posted: 12/15/2012 2:52:02 PM
OP.... whenever a girl OFFERs your body and sex to YOU... u GOTTA take her UP on it.... cuz the gentlemanly THING to do is to ROCK her world at that point... often times you never get a second chance with her

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Douche Posted: 12/15/2012 8:31:28 AM
One woman once asked me why sex smelt so bad? I didn't have the heart to tell her it didn't but that she did. why would you NOT tell her she stunk ? why continue having sex with her at that point ?

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Douche Posted: 12/15/2012 7:46:14 AM
what's so senstive about it OP ... some women think they keep their coochies really clean and some actually DO.... its a form of BO... and its disgusting if a woman stinks down there ??

BoonDockSaint73

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Should I stop waiting? Posted: 12/14/2012 5:45:49 AM
OP.... it is NEVER a good idea to talk to a woman about how you FEEL about her..... ESPECIALLY when the TWO of you are not even dating or haven't even had sex yet... chalk it up to youth and move on... she SHOT you down... which means """no Bren... i am Not attracted to you NOR will I EVER sleep with you - you JUST totally CREEPED me out by telling me all that stuff about how you felt about me,,,YUCK""

BoonDockSaint73

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Messaging guys first never develops into a date Posted: 12/11/2012 9:04:35 PM
OP - i have had plenty of girls on here messsage me first... and the ones I find most attractive and interesting... i take 'em out...

BoonDockSaint73

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Sweating during sex is it a bad thing? Posted: 12/10/2012 10:05:17 PM
OP ___>>> its not prolly a thing MOST gals get HOT over.... but i know plenty that DOOO..... even some that BEGGG for me to let my sweat fall on their body... aside from them... you seem like a sweatbox.... sooo turn the AC down to 50 degrees

boondocksaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore... Posted: 12/10/2012 7:26:47 PM
OP ..... sounds like your gf ain't all that attracted to you either... why are you still with her ? 5'8 160 is not puny/scrawny... you maybe a lil on the short side but nothing you can do about that... hell ... some guys are NEVER able to gain much weight... my old man worked hard azzed construction when I was a kid and he never got over 160 pounds....he ate like a horse and the job was very strenuous with a lot of hours, but his metabolism just never allowed him to pack on the pounds....even though he was quite strong and didn't have an ounce of fat on him till he was almost 50... some people are just like that.. you are too young to be dealing with this from a new gf... i'd kick her sh1t to the curb and find another dude.

BoonDockSaint73

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Should I state I am a submissive in my profile Posted: 12/9/2012 8:39:58 PM
OP ... U could.... but the vast majority of women will find that to be a turnoff... >>>

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Dating my neighbour! Need some advice please!!! Posted: 12/9/2012 4:28:55 AM
OP.... DUDE...in the beginning a MAN should always be less communicative with a woman than SHE is with HIM... if in the near beginning a woman EVER pulls back from a MAN.... he should ALWSAYS pull back EVEN FURTHER... so DUDE... pull back let HER come at YOU ....>>>

boondocksaint73

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SIngle dads with kids full time. Posted: 12/2/2012 4:04:09 AM
You know I would have to agree with you. I'm also a single dad to a 6 year old daughter and find it near impossible to meet anyone. And my last relationship ended because "I'm too good of a dad." She broke up with me because she couldn't compete with my kid for attention. Lets face it, I'm a dad first then a boyfriend. well i am a single DAD of twin 6 year old daughters and I can't keep 'em away with a stick,... even WHEN I let 'em know I a single daddy... last 2 weeks, i been offered 2 menage a trois and 2 girls wanting to help me raise my babies... i think MOST of u single daddies.. need to lighten up when it comes to dating and just let it be when u are OUT with women... quit putting pressure on these girls,,, EVEN IF u think u r not... just date women like u r single.... the ones that WANT to b with you ... they will b with you no matter what u working with... yall ruining yall's dating prospects...IMO...

boondocksaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Guys mentioning sex too soon Posted: 12/2/2012 2:25:06 AM
ironic how SOO Many woman complain about DUDES talking about sex in the first few minutes/emails... yet SOO many women on here are JUST as desparate for a relationship that they mention relationships on the first few minnutes/emails... guys angling for what they seek...while women angling for what they seek... hell i have had/met women on here that advertise themselves as wifey material only to dayumned near beg for sex on the first meet... it is what it isssss

boondocksaint73

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Texting this girl i really like. Posted: 12/2/2012 2:19:20 AM
OP... u KEEP a woman's attention ( in the beginning) but GRABBING her attention off jump... then NOT communicating with her 1000 times per day.... give her time to let HER mind go crazy wondering WHY you ain't interested in HER... so call a girl.. be funny, interesting,,, cool and sexy... make her LAUGH... HUGE... gotta make her LAUGH... then once she truly is laughing and enjoying ur CONVO.... SSSLLLOOOOWWWW down on the communication... she'll have been waiting/wondering WHY you aint' been blowing her phone up and wanting to be with HER...

boondocksaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Your Definition Of A Real Man? Posted: 12/2/2012 2:16:35 AM
OP... bottom line... a """real man"" is a man who don't b1tch don't cry.. .don't BUG a woman for her azz/coochie and is a MAN... meaning -- he is screwing other women in the time he is allowing another woman to get in line with him.. and has doesn't even care if he gets her... cuz he ain't all pent up and dying for her coochie... sometimes men can pretend to have that attitutde even WHEN we aren't screwing the entire neighborhood... but IME.... most times... when I am with other women regularly... MORE women are knocking on my door, answering my calls.. answering my whatever to b with me... why ?? cuz if that girl and I get together,,, great... if not...i still got it going on... but IME women read it as... hell he ain't even trynna get between my legs... so i gotta get him to get between my legs... why ain't he after me likes that ?? when in fact i have other women on the side at the moment to relieve the pressure/angst a normal man carries with him when he is pursuing sex... it don't make sense to us men...but there it is... u gotta embrace it and go with it...

boondocksaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Pick her up at the door and risk it? Posted: 12/2/2012 2:11:26 AM
OP... chill dude... hell, ,there was gal that she n I were just fukin...nothing else... and i went to pik her up one time and she was draggin or something,,, i dunno, cuz I was a bit typsy... went to her door and her moms answered and was looking at me like WHOTF R U crazy white man knockin on my door at night... as the girl was texting me NOOOOO dont' come to the door... moms was telling me, naw she ain't here... and when she heard my name ( moms) she immediately dropped her guard and was like oh ya... she at xyz and is coming back in 2 minutes.... evidently girl had told ol' mama how I had done her and it was all good things...

boondocksaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Why don't most women like cumshots? Posted: 12/2/2012 2:07:44 AM
who needs CUMSHOTS ... when you gotta girl that will swallow your entire load ?? saves ALL that trouble in the world of getting it on ur skin ladies ?? prudes... it washes off.... just like it washes off sheets/walls/head boards and washes of us men when we jerk ourselves off in the privacy of our own bed...

boondocksaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Man not wanting WHITE HOT too soon Posted: 12/2/2012 2:04:30 AM
i am a man... WHITE HOT... kix AZZZZ no matter WHEN it cums.. cuz it almost ALWAYS makes me cum buckets more than normal and the sex is off the charts... but many times women have WHITE HOT with me when i aint' even barely warmed up... cuz she ain't that hot and aint really doing it to me... hell i gotta gal right now that is WHITE HOT for me... wanting it ALL... offering me a 3 WAY ....telling me how BAD she wants to be with me,, etc etc... but am I feeling it that much ? naw.. nto really or daddy woulda jumped already,,,, right ???

boondocksaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Single Woman and Older Married Man are friends Posted: 12/1/2012 11:44:19 PM
OP... getting MOST women to turn down $$ and attention is akin to most men turning down free sex.. no matter who the company is... there are plenty of older guys out there (60s plus) who actually are OK with taking out younger women and entertaining them...merely for company... no sex involved... and so long as the guy is not an azz... plenty of younger women are FINE to accept a man's """generosity"" with no strings/sex attached... even IF the man truly WANTS sex with her... often times, he's been married to the same woman since he was 20 and he doesn't know HOW to close the deal...

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Extremely sensitive issue: what to do when all is not kosher Posted: 11/29/2012 10:28:13 PM
hell...i had that happen to me once, faked an orgasm and got dressed before she stopped cumming... booted her outta the bed, ripped off the sheets, tossed 'em in the washer and flipped the mattress over right then and there with her chin on the ground...

BoonDockSaint73

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Asking a girl out too soon? Posted: 11/29/2012 10:26:08 PM
OP... i have met girls on here, talking and have gone out with them the next day...and it was good. i have also met girls on here who like to talk and take their time before meeting... everyone is different and u just gotta play it by ear and work within what feels comfortable for you.

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me. Posted: 11/20/2012 6:16:51 PM
OP... sounds like a scam to me get her to PROVE she has the herps from YOU !

BoonDockSaint73

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Dating a guy who's far better looking Posted: 11/20/2012 12:53:42 AM
i date girls all the time who to many are ""better looking"" than me.... but my game and my sh1t is tight so they know I'm doin it right with them. i would NEVER date a girl that I was better looking than... cuz I'd neva respect her... she ain't a challenge.. the challenge for me is dating the women I want to and then either bouncing on them or getting them to wash and iron my clothes... its that simple...

BoonDockSaint73

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Girl stood me up, have I made the right call? Posted: 11/20/2012 12:48:25 AM
i cannot even read all of this if you wanna get with a girll... ask her out.. if she don't say YES daddy... move onto the next one if she stand you up... move around.

boondocksaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Sexuality standards Posted: 11/19/2012 7:02:57 AM
BS man. You wanted the guy to sniff your pickle so you let him. What's your next thread gonna be ? " I woke up with a****in my ass, but I was too tired to make him stop ". dude i just spit my coffee all over my computer screen... that's too f''kin funny... I'd never have a MFM 3 way, cuz I dont' even like the idea of accidently crossing swords... Screw THAT>... sounds like the OP actually IS gay and just hasn't realized it yet... still buried deep in the closet... ""I was supposed to stick it in HER pooper, and when I opened my eyes, i realized I had stuck it in HIS Stinker....so i said what the hell...and just went with it... i even came in his mouth, since he was right there with his mouth open and she didn't swallow"" smh

boondocksaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Older? Younger? Same Age?? Posted: 11/18/2012 8:16:59 PM
well I date women of all ages... i find that most women who are closer to my age,,,more of them I actually get along well with, convo, discussions - life, etc... sex is plenty good. i find older women IME tend to be harder to date, even the hotties.... they got too much experience, sotospeak...lool hadn't been with too many, but sex is fine i also date plenty of younger girls/women and while the age difference can be noteable with some,,,many/most women are able IME to blend with the man they are with maturity wise and are open to it... sex is plenty good.... only difference is with younger women, bodies tend to be more in line with what I enjoy, even IF I might not bring that to the table with them !!! lol but I bring other things... so it all depends on the two people at question IME... i can b with a woman my own age and I can be with a younger woman. yet...for me... I like to have the option of having more children some day....so while I do date women my age and a bit older... i tend to date more women who are going to be fertile long enough for us to be together and start a life together before we have kids IF i get to that point...

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Where do girls go to have guys talk to them? Posted: 11/18/2012 8:04:40 PM
^^^$500 a pop ?? Don't be a fool... u NEVER gotta pay that much when you need to eat... lmao

BoonDockSaint73

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Where do girls go to have guys talk to them? Posted: 11/18/2012 7:08:34 PM
OP...since u rotate around a lot... until you actually find someone...perhaps you are looking for at least some fun every once in a while... hint: where there's alcohol and money.... there will be women... at least for every 4 months or so... lol

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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I can't figure this out! Posted: 11/18/2012 6:57:24 PM
OP well, by your not responding... you will NEVER be able to figure it out... so chill out, relax and at least answer someone who you find attractive and at least like his profile... or wait for a guy who writes a great, funny message to you who you don't find attractive... just jump in... the water's warm...

BoonDockSaint73

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Sexuality standards Posted: 11/18/2012 3:38:06 PM
there are 2 types of men in this world... guys who give bjs and guys who don't you accepted one which means at some level you might have some leanings towards it... if i were you...i'd keep that info to myself when discussing things with women UNLESS you are wanting it again...

BoonDockSaint73

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Gonchies to bed? Posted: 11/18/2012 7:14:15 AM
WOW.... OP... are you serious ??? the only thing that has changed in the relationship is that he put his undies on during bedtime ?? gosh...a thing such as that...soo miniscule... brings a gf back on a dating website... smh...

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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HE DELETED ACCOUNT MID-ARRANGEMENT!!! Posted: 11/17/2012 12:10:18 PM
next time... exchange phone numbers asap.... lol maybe his GF deleted his account for him !?? !!

BoonDockSaint73

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Where do I go from here? Posted: 11/15/2012 3:21:02 PM
OP... no ifs, ands.. buts about it... when a woman boots a man to the curb... its because in her mind,,,she has exhausted all avenues in her mind of the two of you being """FOREVER"" don't waste ur time dude..

BoonDockSaint73

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How to make him like me again? Posted: 11/15/2012 3:02:07 PM
OP.... have you had sex with him yet ? try that...

BoonDockSaint73

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Dating men with kids Posted: 11/15/2012 5:49:11 AM
OP... here's the deal... you are in your 30s... gee MOST women in your peer/dating group have kids... so why would women be turned off by you having children ? imagine this: you ask a girl out, take her on a date...and she constantly talks about her children, etc etc... would it turn you off ? It would turn me off... Girl: Do you have children ? you: Yes Girl: do they live with you ? you: Yes, now - lets go have a drink... Girl:, ok but I am only looking for a one night stand... you: but i have children Girl: i want you to shag me rotten you: let me send you their pics... you'll love 'em... Girl: hold on a sec, my mom is calling me right now..lemme call u right back...

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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LADIEs: Why are short guys such losers Posted: 11/15/2012 3:55:18 AM
OP.... its cuz short guys tend to be whiners... and the rest have a Napoleon complex... women reserve whining for themselves... but they hate it in men...

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Date lives 1 hr away & wants to come over for sex, but I have kids... Posted: 11/14/2012 11:21:58 PM
OP... have him get a room... duh... if you decide to lay with him...then yall do it in the room...then you go home.. then come over for breakfast the next morning... simple, yes ? if you choose NOT to lay with him you go home alone...

BoonDockSaint73

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I don't want a boyfriend or anything? Posted: 11/14/2012 7:29:52 PM
don't wanna bf or anything... when you hear that... go for her booty... sex... if she doesn't jump then it really means she's not into you...

BoonDockSaint73

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hung out with a girl couple times now does not want to talk Posted: 11/14/2012 4:34:46 PM
OP... you need to learn more about women and early dating, etc... anytime a woman wants sex... and she offers it to you... by god you better give it to her or you will never get another chance with her... girls like/love/need sex just like we men do...some are more open about it... but you missed it with this one... hell -I had a gal that i'd been chatting with IRL... lemme know one time that she wanted to screw my brains out one night... i said, great...I'm about to get off work here shortly (it was around midnight) and I'd go home, shower clean up and we'd get a room..she was like come on daddy... got home, shower shaved, etc... sat down to have a drink before I headed out and next thing I know... its 7 am... i talked to her the next day....told her what happened... that was 2 months ago....i've seen her plenty in the clubs, etc...facebook, etc... do you think she has let me get her again ? N O W A Y she wanted it then... felt as though I'd snubbed her... DONE..

BoonDockSaint73

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What is WRONG with me? Posted: 11/13/2012 12:58:08 PM
I also tend to attract/go for aggresive guys, guys that use drugs regularly and guys who move around a lot. well hint: girls who use drugs regularly and move around alot tend to have sex quite easily and quite quickly... so don't you think the guys you are attracted to and dating, if they use drugs are used to having sex with women rather quickly ? if you don't wanna have sex with someone too fast,,, as you call it in your book.... you might wanna start dating guys who are harder up for sex... not men who get sex at the drop of a hat or when they share a joint or some blow...cause those things makes a woman's panties drop faster than you can imagine...

BoonDockSaint73

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Ever Wish an Ex Good Luck Finding True Love and Happiness? Posted: 11/13/2012 5:32:10 AM
not really... but I'd REALLY like for my ex wife to FINALLY get her some dude to f..k her in the worst way so she'd stop trying to FWM... smh...

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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To persist with this girl or move on? Posted: 11/12/2012 7:27:31 PM
OP... women STILL love the idea of MEN driving a relationship... get off TEXTing and actually start taking this girl out for more than an ice cream social... quit thinking.... start acting....and then judge her reactions... if she can't find time to date you... she ain't interested...

BoonDockSaint73

Joined: 3/29/2010

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Panties!!! Posted: 11/12/2012 10:59:15 AM
I love it.... never had a complaint ... really sexy... also, if we are onna date and she's wearing a dress...I like to sometimes have them go into the bathroom and remove their panties and bring them to me.. that can be fun for her... guys listen...when you are with a woman - it always helps to do new, different and exciting things sexually with her to tweak her imagination in ways no other man has.. makes her hotter for you and the things you are doing....to get into her head...

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