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High School Crushes Posted: 6/13/2006 4:06:44 AM
Yeah this is true.. The only defining difference to me was that when I met my wife I got those tingling sensations and I just knew that she was going to be the one.. I physically lost my breath.. When I left the other girl she was really sour about it and caused my wife alot of grief over it.. Then again we were only 15yo's and pretty immature about relationships..

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High School Crushes Posted: 6/13/2006 3:50:24 AM
Opportunity usually only knocks the one time for most people.. It knocked 4 TIMES for you and you passed it by.. My wife and I are highschool sweethearts and we are still together.. So I can't really say too much for advice... but let sleeping dogs lie.. and take opportunities as the come... but I could understand the temptation to follow this crush.. I was with someone when I met my wife and I dumped her for my wife.. but I got lucky.. It is your call, but we think you should leave him alone..

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Would you stay married.. Posted: 6/12/2006 8:20:38 AM
We Salute you mate.. You have done the most honourable thing, but you have lived a lie for too long.. You have done your tour of duty and it is time to move on.. Have you done the wrong thing, Absolutely not.. We are stunned that you had to coherse your wife into showing affection towards the kids.. That is unforgiveable, my wife is shocked to the bejebus, and so am I.. That sort of thing should come naturally.. Go in peace my friend.. Your nightmare is over... Thank God.. and Love your kids.. Your kids must be really proud of you..

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Socceroos Aussie Aussie Aussie Oi Oi Oi !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/12/2006 7:56:31 AM
What a great game against Japan.. 3:1 Absolute Corker Mate!!!!!!! Cahill and Aloisi the Super Subs !!! CAHILL GOT 2 CRACKERS (ONE FROM AN ALOISI ASSIST) ALOISI GOT 1 AND IT WAS ALL CLASS!! Can't wait for the game against Brazil.. GO THE SOCCEROOS.. YOU GOOD THING... YEHAAAAAR!!!!! HOW CONTROVERSIAL DO YOU THINK THE JAPAN GOAL WAS??

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Deal Breaker? Posted: 6/9/2006 12:38:54 AM
Why would anyone be narrow minded and trivial about music tastes.. Breaking up over trivial issues is insane !!! What about compromise and respect.. Obviously there was none there to begin with.. I have different music tastes to my wife, but we give and take and will listen to each others choices willingly.. We like different radio stations in the car, but I'm not going to split up because of a silly thing like that.. My God!! What a fickle bunch we have become...

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a question for the ladies Posted: 6/8/2006 9:36:34 PM
Yes we are.. A couple... I am posting as well as my husband..

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a question for the ladies Posted: 6/8/2006 9:33:01 PM
Real man = Someone who is REAL about life and scenarios of life.. Someone who is sensitive to the needs and wants of a relationship.. Someone who can Love unconditionally and return this love.. Someone who can take the lead when required and be submissive when needed.. I married my husband because of these things..

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is there such thing as a fake affection? Posted: 6/8/2006 6:09:07 AM
We would have to say yes.. but people who do this are totally immoral and without scruples... Friends of ours have had this done to them, and it is usually to get to someone else they know.. We feel very sorry for the victims... but such is life.. Sick...

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What makes men want to be sexual with a women? Posted: 6/8/2006 5:57:19 AM
My wife grabbed my ass... That was all I needed..

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The Husband As Anti-Hero Posted: 6/8/2006 5:42:31 AM
We both provide for the success of our family.. It is a will and a want.. HEROS, absolutely not... Role models, maybe... Our kids can look back and see what we have pioneered for them knowing that we did it from the love that we share and the want to better our lives as a family.. We were young when we married and have all the things we need to function... We have been successful because we share a common goal.. The biggest asset is your family, and every member of this family is a Hero in our eyes...

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Ladies Look and Learn Posted: 6/8/2006 5:20:11 AM
Well Maria, half your problem is over knowing that you have one.. Now for the other half of the equation.. He is not right for you.. You will find someone who is a giver too, and be happy with them.. To us a relationship is give and take.. I am going to get shot for this one but anyway.. I wanted to go and play golf one day with my friends.. I forgot to tell my wife and she made surprise plans for us.. The night before we had an arguement about this, at first I did not know about the surprise plans she had made for us, and argued vigorously my case.. After a little bit she explained the surprise plans to me and I felt one inch tall and spoilt the surprise she had for us.. Boy did I fark up bigtime.. Anyway I did not go to golf and we went on the surprise weekend and I made it as special as I could to make up for it.. She gave and I took from her the element of surprise.. All because of communication breakdown.. So I gave back to try and square it up.. I still cop it today..

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what you people think is the best age to get marry ? Posted: 6/8/2006 5:03:55 AM
We say when you think you are ready.. You will know cause you just do.. We got married at 18.. and if we could have earlier we would have.. Most people marry in the mid 20's and there is no age that defines this.. some are ready before others..

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What Has Been Your most Romantic Memory????? Posted: 6/8/2006 4:50:28 AM
Oh yeah... What a night that was... We went out for dinner one night at the observation city hotel at the ocean.. We had the most awesome meal and a fair bit of wine.. At this stage we were pretty aroused and my wife said to me lets go for a walk on the beach.. It was a hot summers night.. We went to the bottle shop and got some more wine and headed to the beach.. I had a blanket in the car so we grabbed that and walked and talked for a while.. We sat down and after the bottle was drank, made the most erotic love on the beach that we had ever had.. The best thing was there was not a word spoken it was all being said with our eyes, and the background was amazing.. The crashing waves the sultry night sky, the moonlight and stars... The other thing that made it special was the fact that we conceived our first child from this night.. What a wonderful Romantic experience that was...

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Friends or lovers???? Posted: 6/8/2006 4:33:11 AM
Sounds like he's a flake to us, and living with him makes things very difficult indeed.. We envy your road ahead, it is going to be full of potholes by the sounds of it.. My wife says tell him you want a commitment, and if he can't give you a straight answer, then cut of the intimacy.. This will tell you either way if it is the sex he is after or your personality that he seeks.. I agree with my wife.. Try it, you have nothing to lose... If you do lose his friendship, it was never worth having in the first place..

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Do you know what your really want??? Posted: 6/7/2006 9:37:25 PM
Already got what we want..

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Love and trust... Posted: 6/7/2006 9:35:31 PM
Geeez.. Very good point.. You are still looking to score in a major way.. Has she seen you advertisement for sex.. My wife thinks it is shameful.. and I agree with her totally..

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Would you forgive a wife who cheats ? Posted: 6/7/2006 9:28:29 PM
If someone is cheating in a relationship, then it is time to fix your backyard first.. It all starts at home, if they were happy with what was going on at home why would they need to stray.. My wife and I could never forget or forgive this.. It is immoral and cruel..

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friends or more then friends Posted: 6/7/2006 9:10:04 PM
Sounds to us like a friends with priveliges scenario.. Don't be his YO-YO on a string, have some self respect and move on...

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Love and trust... Posted: 6/7/2006 9:06:04 PM
If you have no Trust then there is no respect.. Bad chemistry..

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Married but attracted to best friend.. Posted: 6/7/2006 8:57:31 PM
We think that you should leave this one alone.. If she thinks it will be a better option we think it will be wrong.. Picture this.. Something got the first 2 people together in the first place.. What's to say that it all starts out rosey and then he turns out like the husband.. When people feel comfortable with each other, it is the true you that emerges, faults and all.. Relationships is about respect and acceptance of all faults.. Communication helps understanding these faults and learning to adjust to them.. Sure he may have faults, but don't we all.. Stand by your man, and better the devil you know than the devil you don't.. Our advice to her would be fix what is broken first, if it can't be fixed then it is futile.. Divorce him and follow your heart..

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dating an attractive girl Posted: 6/7/2006 9:22:55 AM
Don't waste each others time.. If you are not that into her let her go.. Do the both of you a favour and let this one slide.. Opportunity is at every crossroad and if you are saying that you are good looking, you will sow another seed and continue on your merry way... If you are looking past the looks and can see her personality fits you like a glove.. Then go with it and drop the I'm better looking shite... It is your call dude...

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Making your sex life better for your partner.... Posted: 6/7/2006 8:57:26 AM
Great thread Loved the responses so far.. We say that if it is mutual and enjoyable.. Why not.. At the end of the day it is what ever turns your crank !!

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What would you do Posted: 6/7/2006 8:47:07 AM
We would tell them to get a life of their own.. For christ sake man, be your own man are you (Whoever) gonna take the parents on the honeymoon and get them to approve the sexual relationship as well.. What is she doing earnest... I don't know dear but it looks good.. Give us a break...

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When the relationship is one sided????????????? Posted: 6/7/2006 8:32:01 AM
Nailed on the first post.. We totally agree with angielah...

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What's the number 1 thing in a woman's personality? Posted: 6/7/2006 8:28:10 AM
We both say RESPECT... Without it you are doomed to fail....

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Difference between love, hate, and apathy Posted: 6/7/2006 8:12:45 AM
Re: TheDevilsAdvocate Geeez Maria.. You have an excellent analytical mind... You have hit the nail right on the head with this one..

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When a woman says a man must be financially secure. What does it tell you about her? Posted: 6/7/2006 8:07:21 AM
We would have to say that if she demands this of her partner she is most likely gold digging and materialistic as hell.. We say that a marriage is equal input and unless the 2 of you can provide for the finances, it will be a lop sided relationship and put too much strain on things in the future.. We both work and provide.. Neither of us are dependant on each other for finances.. It works wonders and helps you to grow immensely..

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Frazzled Posted: 6/7/2006 8:00:42 AM
My wife says Neither.. Find someone who can meet you half way... Why compromise.... I say go with what suits you.. and follow your heart.. Just our thoughts..

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sneaky, stupid or toughtless ?????? Posted: 6/7/2006 7:51:42 AM
Geeez.. I don't know about the others, but I get on here for the forums only and my wife knows and participates with me.. Shit we LOFAO off just reading the stuff that comes up.. I do it sometimes when she goes to bed, but I am trusted and I am happy and so is she.. Sit in on a forum session with him and check his mailbox or something.. If you don't trust him that is.. My wife thinks that he is being cool.. So check him out.. There has to be trust and you know he is doing it.. We can't see too much of a problem with that..

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player, or friend? Posted: 6/6/2006 11:47:08 PM
Driving nails into the souls of the tree of pain.. I would move on and not look back. You have your integrity in tact and being friends and hoping things will change is going to cause you pain..

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Guys: Just how does a woman get to 'Second Base' with you? Posted: 6/6/2006 11:38:13 PM
My wife got to second base and bypassed first base. She was resourceful enough to get my phone no of a friend of mine and ask me out on a date. The rest was history

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