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 Author Thread: need some feedback on my profile
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
 
need some feedback on my profile
Posted: 1/5/2007 9:39:46 PM
hi everyone. I've revamped my profile a little and would like some feedback on what you guys think of it. I dunno if it is too blunt to the point of scaring women away, or if it's just not enough to attract anyone. let me know. thanks
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 365 (view)
 
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/15/2006 6:53:00 PM
well, I'm in control of myself. Sex is not the most important thing to me. Companionship is. Just being with someone you care about and either cuddling, or going out somewhere romantic. It's guys that think with their "one-eyed monsters" that give good guys like me a bad name. Unfortunately, I'm still single and looking but I ain't giving up. There's gotta be someone in my area still wanting a down-to-earth gentle guy. Sure, I think about sex, every guy and girl does. But I don't dream, eat and see it all the time like some guys I have known over the years that I could mention but don't feel like it. But like I said, companionship is the main thing I look for. everything else comes second in my heart.
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
 
finally met a great person
Posted: 2/3/2006 9:09:48 AM
thanks to POF I finally met the perfect woman for me. Me and her agree and disagree on the same exact things. we like doing stuff together, mainly cuddling, hugging and kissing. I've never felt this good before. I feel my life is finally complete. Thank you POF. And for those of you who think you won't find anyone on here, don't give up. I almost gave up, but then my match came out of nowhere and messaged me one day and we fell for each other after that. Keep at it and you will find your match as well
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Spring Hill, Florida Dateing
Posted: 8/7/2005 9:47:26 PM
I'm looking for someone inm spring hill or close to it as well to date. Been single way too long and am trying to get back into the dating game. so if there are any females in or near spring hill interested in a 22 year old man who has nothing but respect for women then by all means message me and we can go from there. what it says in my profile is all true, I can assure you. I AM a gentleman. raised to be that way and will never change. hope to meet someone soon. cyas
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 18 (view)
 
why don't anyone respond to my profile
Posted: 8/4/2005 12:40:07 PM
I don't get replys to my profile either. maybe cause my main picture looks like I'm an ex-con

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 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 10 (view)
 
I'm SINGLE again.
Posted: 7/29/2005 2:34:16 PM
lol. knew the little banana dance would cheer someone up, lol
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 8 (view)
 
I'm SINGLE again.
Posted: 7/28/2005 12:07:29 PM
sorry ta hear it didn't work out. you'll find someone else. I'm hoping to meet someone on here too cause single life for me is just WAY too hectic, lol. I know that sounds weird but eh....here's a banana dance
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 6 (view)
 
what I'm looking for
Posted: 7/27/2005 4:09:10 PM
well, to me outside looks aren't what counts. it's what's on the inside that counts. that and personality. I'm just looking for a woman that would love me for who I am on the inside, not just the outside. Someone who will stick by me through thick and thin and return the love that I convey to them. I hope to find that woman here cause, to be frank, I hate being single. this might sound corny but I just don't feel whole when I'm single. it's like a part of me is just missing. hopefully POF can change that
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 265 (view)
 
single and looking
Posted: 7/27/2005 3:45:43 PM
hello everyone. my name is derek and I'm 22 years old and living in florida. lived here 15 years. the first 7 years of my life were spent in Long Island New York. Hoping to meet that special someone on POF. cause,to be honest,being single sucks, lol.
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 9 (view)
 
IMPORTANT --> Spyware - Popups, Homepage Changing, etc
Posted: 3/24/2005 8:35:26 PM
it kinda sux but these days pretty much every program, no matter how well protectd it is, could have some type of spyware in it. So many annoying hackers who have nothing better to do then send you spyware or send you a virus. The internet has it's a dvantages but the biggest disadvantage is that it attracts morons that are so pathetic they spend their entire day making viruses to send to people. Those people should get a job..or shoot themselves. whatever comes first, lol
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 26 (view)
 
terry shiavo
Posted: 3/22/2005 9:02:19 PM
and don't get me wrong. it's not for that idiot michael's wishes that I'd want to see them let her go but it's for her wishes. It's pretty much impossible for her to make a full recovery from this, especially after fifteen years. I hope she can find peace or these moron judges can come to some godd*mned decision instead of throwing terry shiavo around like a friggin hacky-sack
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 25 (view)
 
terry shiavo
Posted: 3/22/2005 8:58:54 PM
I say the parents should let terry shiavo die. I know it will be tough on them to do that but it should be done. Terry shiavo has no chance of ever talking, laughing, or even knowing where she is for that matter. She barely has enough brain function left to survive. I hope they let her go so she can end the suffering she must be in. Even if they keep her food tube inserted she will eventually die anyways. Why not let her go early instead of making her suffer for another month, or even another year.
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 5 (view)
 
stupid pick up lines
Posted: 3/16/2005 8:03:51 AM
okay, I hear this stupid pickup line all the timeby these pathetic guys. "I seem to have lost my phone number, can I have yours?" How pathetic does a guy have to be to use that line? lol. One of those pathetic guys happens to be a friend of mine and, needless to say, he has not gotten laid yet with that line so it does not work anymore, lol
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Are there any decent, down to earth non players left in South Florida?
Posted: 3/11/2005 10:08:32 PM
I a decent guy too. I'll get struck down by a bolt of lightning before I ever even think of playing a woman. When I get into a relationship I'm in it for the long run. unfortunately the woman isn't, lol. oh well, plenty of other fish
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Which Florida girl thinks that she is the HOTTEST??
Posted: 3/11/2005 2:56:28 PM
I understand that ladydilive. If it's all about the choices we make then my ex made all the wrong choices, lol. She dumped a hard-working honest guy like me for some guy who flunked out of the 11 grade like four times,lol. Her loss though. When I end up starting my own business I'll look her up, give her a call, and laugh at her, lol. cyas
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Which Florida girl thinks that she is the HOTTEST??
Posted: 3/11/2005 12:44:16 PM
my ex thought she was the hottest woman, lol. the fact that she went through six other bf's in one month after me doesn't make her hot, no no. that makes her a slut, lol. Wish I still had her phone number so I could tell her that. she probably has like a hundred std's by now, lol
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 18 (view)
 
I still say it's genes
Posted: 3/3/2005 8:23:39 AM
no offense to you and all wayne but I still say it's genes. of course you're entitled to your opinion, as am I. I still think that it's somewhat of a genetic thing. just like marie said about breaking patterns, patterns are made to be broken. genes are made to be altered and changed.
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 13 (view)
 
the real reason girls stay with a-holes
Posted: 3/3/2005 4:13:26 AM
thanx marie. Throughout my life I've always witnesed women being neglected and abused. and that was in my own family alone. I couldn't stand to see that. members of my family have always have a history of some sort of spousal abuse and such. I learned to break that gene. If I ever get married me and my wife may have fights with each other now and then, that's natural in a relationship. But I will never hit her or abuse her in any way. I may only be 22 but I feel much older, much wiser then a normal 22 year old. thanx again for your compliments marie and sorry to hear about you being abused when you were younger. I guess the only thing we can do in that situation is block memories of the past and work on the here and now, make a new past to look back on. you take care marie, and everyone else too.
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 22 (view)
 
traveling
Posted: 3/2/2005 11:34:38 PM
I went all the way up orth to minnesota once for the supposed "one" but alas, eveything went to hell after about two weeks and we drifted toof ar apart. I don't think I'll be doing any traveling anytime soon for a relationship. I'm much better off trying to find someone here in the hellhole state of florida. If I do travel it will be strictly for fun. I've always wanted to visit my native country, Italy. I was born in america and unfortunately the only language I can speak is english. it bugs me that I don't know my own native language. eh well, I'll learn it someday.
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 11 (view)
 
the real reason girls stay with a-holes
Posted: 3/2/2005 11:20:45 PM
I think the real reason why a girl stays with someone who treats her like sh*tis because she's afraid that if she breaks up with him then, being the a hole he is, he'll beat her up or stalk her or worse. No woman in her right mind stays with a complete a hole. same as if I were in a relationship with a woman who treated me like shit. I would leave her in a heartbeat. I wouldn't go to the mall to watch girls with a hole boyfriends though cause I have a great respect for women and if I saw one being mistreated by a a hole I would make a scene right then and there and probably land myself in jail to defend her cause nothing bothers me more then a man who treats a woman like sh*tor treats her like an object instead of a human being. I'll never be an a hole toward a woman...unless she wants me to of course and she likes that kinda thing, lol. My parents fight all the time. they dislike each other and treat each other like crap. People say stuff like that is passed down in the genes and maybe someday I'll be fighting with my wife like that too. I say bullcrap. genes were meant to be broken. everyone else in my fam started losing hair at age 21. I'm the only one that didn't. my whole family has a history of smoking. everyone still smokes but me. I found a way to break my genes and I'll also find a way to break any a hole genes that may have been passed down to me. Cause if I ever mistreat a woman then may god strike me dead right then and there. I don't even treat my ex-girlfriends like crap. There are plenty of other fish in the sea and the one for me is out there somewheres. It takes many tries to finally find that one and my ex's just weren't the ones. But any woman that is with a guy who treats her like crap, may she beat his a** and leave him on the curb cause that's what he deserves. I've spoken my mind and now I'm off to make myself a late night drink and play video games, lol. cyas
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 6 (view)
 
caveman days
Posted: 2/28/2005 2:44:10 PM
if courtship today was the same as it was back in caveman days I'd be out looking for a female to club over the head and drag back to my house, lol. But oh well, I can wait for love. got plenty of other stuff to keep me occupied. my novel being the top of the list
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 4 (view)
 
never given a chance
Posted: 2/28/2005 2:33:52 PM
I'm a nice, romantic guy. The problem is that the women I've dated never gave me the chance to show them that. They were just interested in using my good nature then dropping me like a bad habit. It does make me wonder sometimes if I should just give up being a nice guy. Hopefully someday I'll meet someone who will let me sweep them off their feet rather then stomp all over mine.
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 26 (view)
 
excerpt from my novel
Posted: 2/20/2005 11:33:24 PM
this isn't really a poem or anything like that. it's an excerpt from a novel of mine in progress. In this excerpt the main character describes the woman he loves.

In this hectic phase of my life I didn't have too much to keep me sane, to keep me whole. I felt the world slipping from my grasp, felt reality warping and imploding in on itself. I felt as if my soul was being pulled from my body against my will and I had no way of stopping it......then she came into my life, and my life began to piece itself back together. Her name was Lindsey Hamilton. She was the most beautiful woman I had ever met in my entire life. Her beauty was only matched by her spontaneous and loving personality. God had graced me with a angel. Her hair, light blonde with black highlights, waved lightly in the breeze as she would walk with me on those starry nights on the beach. In the moonlight her face took on a enchanting glow and her beautiful lips glistened in the light. Her eyes were a emerald green with dabs of blue in it. Whenever I would look into those eyes I would become mesmorized. I would lose touch with reality. In her eyes I could see our future. A small house in the countryside with a couple dogs, some cows and horses, a beautiful rose garden raised with care by lindsey's gentle and loving touch. My vision would then flow a couple years into the future and I could see us, sitting on a rocking bench on the front porch. In her arms is our baby. he has her eyes and my nose. Both our personalities are poured into this wonderful creation that god had blessed us with. Whenever I see this vision I cry happy tears. I thank god for being blessed with such an angel in my darkest hours. I hold her tightly in my arms and cherish every moment we have together. I know I'll grow old with this woman, for she is my true love. She makes me whole. And when our life finally runs out we will still be together in heaven, for all eternity.

This novel is still a work in progress. it' basically a action/love story. Can't think of a proper title for the novel yet but I'll figure one out eventually. give me your opinions if you can. cyas
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 23 (view)
 
hello all
Posted: 2/16/2005 6:17:06 PM
what's up everyone? 22 year old male from spring hill, florida here. first site I've come across that actually has interesting people from my own state, lol. hope to meet people soon
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
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I think I'm done.
Posted: 12/16/2004 9:28:49 PM
love is difficult at times. sometimes it is best to be single. no heartbreak involved
 Gentle Florida Guy
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Intro: psychosis82
Posted: 9/21/2004 8:06:06 PM
hello everyone, my name is derek. I am 21 years old living in spring hill, florida and looking for a long-term relationship with someone who lives in the same area. I'm hoping to come across some luck on this site sooner or later, lol. anyways, nice to be here and I know I'll enjoy it
 
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