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jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Do women always lie just to keep a guy? Posted: 7/2/2008 9:23:34 PM
yes, women sometimes change their entire personalities to suit the guy.... and will say pretty much anything to keep him. it's really sad.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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cake and eat it too ? Posted: 6/15/2008 9:41:42 AM
Please don't let this thread get you down..... yes you are the other woman but people here will be really mean to YOU about it, forgetting that there's this jerk in the picture making this situation even exsist in the first place. I'll say again that you deserve better, and if you can, try to open your heart and date other people, just to see what's out there! Let your taken man know too, I'm sure he won't be happy about it, but then maybe he'll know how you feel.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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What if Prostitution was Legal? Posted: 6/15/2008 9:22:18 AM
When dealing with prostitutes, men are not paying for the hookers to have sex, they're paying for them to leave after having sex. you got it, Chef Prostitution is technically legal in Canada, although most don't know it since we just assume it's the same as in the states where it's illegal, and it hasn't made Canada fall into chaos. It's been proven that making it legal doesn't really do anything, except make that whole process/job safer..... for EVERYONE who choses to be involved. But instead of saving lives, they pick to save so called "morals". I'm sure that really helps a poor beaten up hooker to sleep at night, having people think she's a sinner..... instead of regulating something that she was doing anyway.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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cake and eat it too ? Posted: 6/15/2008 9:12:10 AM
Yup......you would be the other woman! You know about HER, but if she knew about you, he wouldn't have 2 gf's on the go! If you are ok with sharing him like that, knowing that at any moment he could drop you like you are nothing... then the relationship you are in right now is for you! There are soooooooo many guys who would date you, and just you! You deserve it!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Do women avoid contacting married men? Posted: 6/15/2008 8:58:50 AM
Wow, are people ever mean and closed minded on here! "Go away, single people only! Go find friends somewhere else, this is to find love or sex ONLY! No one else allowed!" Give me a break! All the bad married guys looking for an affair have made it SO bad that it's ruined for everyone else. I get harassed and yelled at (some guys get really upset) since I'm not here to find someone to ****, and that means I should leave? Screw you! By that, most of the men on here should just leave and go to that adult FF place..... but it won't happen. oh, and if you're looking at "single & divorced" people only, I'm betting most of those 'divorced' guys haven't signed the papers and are still living with their wife..... who doesn't know about that pesky divorce part!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Do Women Really Believe All Guys Are Liars & Cheats? Posted: 6/15/2008 8:47:44 AM
Most of them think this cuz some guys are, and they've come across a lot of the bad ones!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Okay I think I need to advise/trying to get back on the horse. Posted: 6/10/2008 6:32:15 AM
AWWWW! Your story made my heart hurt There's lots of crazy horrible women out there... (believe me, my friend is stuck with one & I know his pain)... you were just unlucky enough to meet two of them! By my count that makes you due for a good one ;) When you meet the right one, all of this will be part of your path to her and make it all that much better. I know it's difficult, but you'll have to keep trying! Don't settle or give up and you'll find your match! Make sure to tell us of your updated happy story (I just saw this thread is from a few months ago, hopefully it's getting better already!)

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Would you date someone on a Special Diet ? Posted: 5/23/2008 11:35:11 PM
same here! I think it would be huge pain to date someome who was either a veg/vegan, or someone on a crazy stupid diet (like atkins, etc). If it was something out of their control..... then it wouldn't matter to me what they could or couldn't eat.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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SPANDEX - Will it make a return? Posted: 5/4/2008 4:26:11 PM
spandex.... uhhhhh, no. I sure hope not anyway! Leave spandex to the figure skaters and gymnasts thanks!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Why don't girls try playing video games, rather than complain? Posted: 4/26/2008 2:48:20 PM
i'm not very good at them, but I try! I like watching as well, to a point, as in I wouldn't want to every day. I am only pretty good at the original nintendo, which is why I bought one and a crap load of games! Yay 8 bit! lol

jessikaowl

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Would you marry a man if he wanted you to sign a pre-nup? Posted: 4/24/2008 7:15:36 PM
I won't get married UNTIL I sign a pre-nup..... ...... "If you aint no punk holla 'We Want Prenup WE WANT PRENUP! ' ".... Gold diggers are just prostitutes but a wee bit smarter (or evil, whatever). You marry someone for them, not what they have.

jessikaowl

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What inspired you to get into shape? Posted: 4/23/2008 12:51:38 PM
for me I was just feeling 'under the weather' and sort of sluggish. I knew I wasn't eating healthy & too much of what I WAS eating! I started eating right, healthy & not quite as much. Within weeks I felt way better, had more energy and have been eating like that ever since!

jessikaowl

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Has anyone used Proactiv?? Posted: 9/24/2007 10:01:33 AM
If your skin isn't bad, it might work pretty well. I think it's overpriced for what it is & doesn't work for most people (or they have bad reactions to it like the others have posted). You can find the same system in pharmacies & places like costco for about half the price!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Why don't any woman like guys who do drugs? Posted: 9/23/2007 4:59:48 PM
dear lass..... get off your high horse and read something that wasn't vomited on you by a religious or government group sometime, you might actually learn something. Even at your age you can still learn things right? Or can you really NOT teach an old lass new tricks? Save your name calling for someone who gives a crap.

jessikaowl

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Why don't any woman like guys who do drugs? Posted: 9/23/2007 4:38:32 PM
Yeah the company that made it (Sandoz) likes to keep that on the DL ;) If you're a good person, you're a good person.... if you smoke up or not. One of my friends smokes up about twice a month, and I sure as hell hope a girl wouldn't pass him by or not like him because of that! If it's not a problem for him (if he's not a "stoner"), it shouldn't be a problem for her. Casual, once and a while pot smoking is not a flaw, but it's seen as one by lots of women. Too bad for them I say! london lass, you look VERY silly, and have no idea what you are talking about..... maybe you should do some reading and then come back when you aren't talking out of your ass. If you don't know the difference between pot and crack.... I feel sorry for you. FYI, there has never been a death by marijuana overdose. In fact, marijuana has NEVER been stated as the primary cause of a death. So ummmmm, stick that in your pipe and smoke it. aaaaaa ha ha ha ha READ about something if you don't understand it.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Why don't any woman like guys who do drugs? Posted: 9/23/2007 4:08:18 PM
alien space tourist - it's not really illegal in some places. At least in England (and Canada) they won't send you to jail for it or anything crazy like that, it's not really a legal issue. big sister - way to be mis-informed! his post was anything but paranoid & was a very valid (and good) question! london lass - maybe a girl who wasn't stuck up and ignorant? EB1 - finally a decent answer! THANK YOU! so seizure.... looks like you need to work on your profile in general, but for the drugs thing, those girls who don't like it can go screw themselves. If they don't know anything about weed or refuse to let anything except the outwright lies and propaganda fill their silly little heads, why would you want to date a mindless drone idiot that won't ever experiment or accept people who do? I don't drink, do drugs, or anything else..... I know I know, boring eh? But I'm not going to dismiss someone because they smoke weed if it doesn't interfear with their life, job, or the company they keep. Although, and I know this is going to sound bad...... if they smoke cigarettes, they can get the hell away from me cuz I'm not going anywhere near them! lol But unlike pot, smoking is awful for you, WILL kill you (pot will not), and will make you smell like poooooooooooooo!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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What makes a good friend and lover to you? Example: Hello Dear how was your day? Posted: 8/14/2007 11:16:30 AM
I know this sounds like a cop-out but there's sometimes that "you just KNOW" factor! Sometimes you can look at someone and if you are friends with them or just meeting them, you can be like "WOW, I want to be with them!"..... if that makes sense. But the "hi sweetie how is your day going?" text/email/VM/call every day is a nice touch too!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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The Dilema is When? Posted: 8/14/2007 11:06:41 AM
You sound sweet, she sounds sweet! What you're doing so far sounds wonderful. Just remember how you felt during your own separation and be prepared for her to be hurting. Sometimes she'll take it out on you, sometimes she'll need you to cry on. If you can handle letting her do that and understand that feelings don't just dissapear, so if she talks about her ex a lot or is upset about stuff he does, it should be okay with you in order to be in a relationship with her. Just don't do anything tooooo fast (like, don't move in with her after a month)... and let it flow at a nice slow pace. She'll be glad she had you there during her hard times! Good luck!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Low self esteem? Posted: 8/14/2007 10:56:08 AM
I think it depends on the guys and relationships she has.... Even if she's like you said, likes herself & is confident, etc.... she could still have a guy at home that treats her like dirt or cheats on her. I think after a while she believes this is normal and "what she deserves" or something, and the low self esteem kicks in. I think the cycle can be broken, but she would probably go through a few guys that are good before finally getting in her head that how she used to be treated was actually wrong. Hence the not accepting compliements. Then hopefully she'll get MAD, and work on herself on the inside instead of just the outside. Only after that can she even hope to look for a normal relationship. I know people now who are on both sides of this coin, the low self esteen girl and the guy who takes advantage of it. When he throws her away, it will take her years to figure out the damage that was done by him.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Should I Feel Like A Jerk? Posted: 8/12/2007 12:40:33 PM
You're 26 and all your friends are married?!?!?! Consider yourself the only SANE one. You will probably end up getting married at about the time some/most of them end up getting divorced..... then who will be jealous?

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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a question about porn... Posted: 8/12/2007 12:35:04 PM
I wouldn't have a problem with it, but I think some women would. One of my best friends did that EXACT same job and met his wife through "the industry" behind the scences distribution type stuff and they are soooo great together! They both have the highest sex drives I've ever seen, but maybe that's just them ;) I think that if you treat it like a job, she should see it as a job. Unconventional maybe, but still just your day job!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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What's the best way out of this situation? Posted: 8/12/2007 12:31:26 PM
You have yourself an office wife! Well, maybe she's not that to you, but certainly are her office husband. I'd take it for what it is, and try and talk about her husband whenever you can. Avoid physical contact but enjoy the connection and friendship you have with her! Try not to be akward about it, she'll think she's done something wrong. If she tries anything on you, or if you feel she is using you for an emotional relationship (perhaps because she doesn't get it at home), then sit her down and tell her it can't continue. Good luck!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Should Smokers and Non Smokers Date ? Posted: 8/12/2007 12:16:38 PM
I think it would become a problem, so it's a good idea to say you are looking for the same when it comes to smoking. It's a habit that if you don't do it, it's disgusting and eventually they will try to make you quit! Which now that I think of it, might be good for the smoker! But from what I've seen/heard, a smoker and non smoker will only last a date or two before that issue gets in the way.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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A guy that does not want kids Posted: 7/2/2007 12:08:42 PM
nope! I wouldn't date someone that was against having children. It would become an issue if we ever got serious so why would I put myself through that? I'd rather be with someone I knew I had a future with that I wouldn't have to sacrafice my goals/dreams for.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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12 months and he hasn't said he loves you. Posted: 6/26/2007 5:29:16 AM
For me, the guy always tends to say it first, and it's always too soon for my liking. But I say you stick around for 5 YEARS, put up with all his shiet..... then when he says he loves you after that long of a time, you just accept it and are super happy like a huge idiot and it makes everything better after he's cheated on you 23957 times.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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What is the most useless university degree? Posted: 6/21/2007 1:31:08 PM
Law schools like engineers..... the way they think ends up applying well to law. (And I mean REAL engineers, not the people who go to school for a year after high school at some random college and get a certificate that has 'engineer' in the title.) And here I was taking law classes in my undergrad like a sucker!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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unable to message men w/the no pic no message setting? Posted: 6/21/2007 12:02:40 PM
They choose that option for a reason, accept it. If your not married or on here looking for something on the side, I fail to see ANY valid reason not to post a picture. You can go with the "their loss" option as well.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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What is the most useless university degree? Posted: 6/21/2007 11:58:35 AM
ummmmm..... art? lol art history? and agreed with the poster above me..... most people I know who've gotten a philosophy degree did nothing with it or are pretentious jerks.... he he

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Would you ever date a guy with a gap between his teeth? Posted: 6/21/2007 9:55:44 AM
Hey, that was just the physical attributes that are a no-no... I haven't even gotten to the other stuff. LOVE your posts! do you have all this stuff on your profile? you should..... any guy that writes to you is either really dumb (didn't read your profile/didn't get it), really perfect, or has a great sense of humour!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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dancing Posted: 6/21/2007 9:51:46 AM
if a guy can ballroom dance, hell yeah that is a HUGE plus for me and lots of other women I know! get your butt to some classes! Ballroom & salsa to start.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Making Someone Who Doesn't Love You Stay Anyway Posted: 6/21/2007 9:44:08 AM
sometimes BOTH partners stay in a relationship they know isn't working, for years. yes, it IS sad, and it's depressing to watch from the outside too..... seeing your friend waste away in a doomed relationship. no one can tell someone else what to do, so if they choose to stay in that crap relationship, let them make their own mistakes and try to be supportive as you can.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Facial hair...do you like or not? Posted: 6/21/2007 9:32:34 AM
hate any facial hair especially goatees (BARF!!!!!) my boyfriend has a 'baby face' and needs to shave every couple weeks... which is nice. my best friend gets his face lazered, he hates shaving and he thinks it will get him younger girls, lol in any case, if I was single I wouldn't consider guys who had facial hair.

jessikaowl

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Would you ever date a guy with a gap between his teeth? Posted: 6/21/2007 9:24:26 AM
It would Depend, on how large the gap was...... but to be honest, with today's denistry, that could be corrected...... I know Many People who have had various dental work as they got older......it's expensive, but it's worth it......:) you said it sister! I'm paying 8 grand to get my teeth fixed, even though everyone told me they were fine.... I wasn't happy with them so I'm getting them fixed! That being said, if you don't like it enough that you think girls will not date you because of it, then get it fixed (gaps are easy to fix and are not really expensive). If you don't care and are fine with it, then don't worry.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Are you waiting for me to contact you or do you like my pic? Posted: 6/20/2007 3:01:56 PM
Why are women so caught up in the old fashioned notion of being approached? says the hot girl..... lol also, my reply to this thread is it's 20 replies of girls telling the guy he's hot...... nuff said.

jessikaowl

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Girl on girl without flannel shirts? Posted: 6/20/2007 8:53:21 AM
depends what you are looking for...... if you are looking for yourself, they are out there (and looking for you!) if you are looking for her to join you and your S/O, then no, they don't exsist.

jessikaowl

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Annoying Marriage Proposals Posted: 6/20/2007 8:25:05 AM
I didn't have an ex propose..... but I did have one ask me to move to be with him when he knew full well I had a serious boyfriend! I told him no, and thankfully was able to continue being friends with him without any akwardness. I don't know what posesses them to do stuff like that..... I hope in both your situations the girl didn't leave you for her ex!

jessikaowl

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Sexy American/Canadian Accent???? Posted: 6/19/2007 5:20:19 PM
I can say with total certainty that the Canadian and American accents are very much different I like accents, but mostly Australian or English. I worked at a place for a while and talked to Americans all day, it was NOT sexy. lol

jessikaowl

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Why is it hard for women to Date men with kids? Posted: 6/19/2007 8:30:43 AM
The only thing that would make me mad is if he lied about having kids in the first place....... other than that, women should be happy that you love and take responsibility for your children (with TIME, not money.).

jessikaowl

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Why Posted: 6/18/2007 3:06:51 PM
body shot(s)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! whenever I talk to my guy friends they always have a horror story of meeting a girl who ended up being enormous. They only had head shots at certain angles, close up, etc. Now they are much more careful and ask for body shots (not naked, just showing more of their whole body) or to see them on webcam....... saves a lot of hassle. I don't know why people (cuz guys do it too) lie..... seems silly and very deceitful, and who would want to date someone like that!

jessikaowl

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The Ex-box Posted: 6/18/2007 2:52:22 PM
All of my ex's taught me something and I came away a better person from all of them..... do I keep a box of their old stuff? no. But I do in a way (in my head). My boyfriend has a current box of stuff he keeps of stuff from us... no idea what he'll do with it if we ever break up, lol! I think it's okay to keep stuff though... not too sure about the 'frilly box', heh I also think pictures are okay as well.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Should a man freely tell you,,, Posted: 6/18/2007 2:41:27 PM
I'd tell them once I started dating the girl in real life, but no real reason to tell them right away, and for sure it doesn't need to be in your profile. It's only really an issue if you have a problem with dating a girl that has dated a lot. As long as you don't feel as though you missed out on anything if you end up with someone for a long time, it should be fine and really isn't a big deal. Don't worry! :)

jessikaowl

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Pic or lack there of...... Posted: 6/18/2007 11:18:26 AM
^^^^^ oh SNAP! lol (my message is too short but that's all I wanted to say!)

jessikaowl

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Pic or lack there of...... Posted: 6/18/2007 11:07:48 AM
I agree with the others, there are no obvious (or vaild) reasons for not having a picture on a dating site. No pic = not a woman OR morbidly obsese OR very unattractive.

jessikaowl

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Do you read down or left -> right? Posted: 6/18/2007 10:18:21 AM
I read the first column down, then to the right (and down), etc.

jessikaowl

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Why do women look down on men.... Posted: 6/18/2007 8:13:37 AM
I didn't read the replies, sorry...... but if a single guy wants to pay for it, he can go right ahead. As far as I know, that hobby (yes, they call it a hobby, LOL!) is safe if they go through proper channels, whatever those are, he he If there wasn't a demand for it, girls wouldn't do it I suppose. Supply and demand baby, welcome to capitalism! As long as the guy doesn't treat a girl like a ho when he gets a gf, or expect her to act like that in bed, it should be okay.

jessikaowl

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When it comes to physical attractiveness... Posted: 6/18/2007 7:50:18 AM
Thanks! okay Jordana Brewster for sure....... and for a guy...... I dunno...... my boyfriend? lol What? I think he's super hot! I prefer the 'natural beauty' look with girls.... and the tall/dark/handsome look on guys.

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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if he is still living with his parents Posted: 6/18/2007 7:39:10 AM
under 25..... I could probably deal with it...... over 25..... he'd have to have a DAMN good reason as to why he's still at home. over 30...... hells no.

jessikaowl

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He's driving you nuts. Posted: 6/18/2007 7:35:01 AM
I usually insist on driving myself..... but when the time came and you drove like an old man who doesn't know the real rules of the road...... I wouldn't return your calls. Sorry, but true! Good post though, I didn't even think of that in the 'deal breakers' kind of questions. Bad/slow drivers are as bad as smokers (if the girl hates smokers)!

jessikaowl

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Interacial dating Posted: 6/18/2007 7:30:36 AM
I don't really care. Hot is hot. But, I have a friend who dates interacially and she has come across a LOT of problems (mostly the guys family). I see what she goes through and it makes me question if I'd be able to go through that!

jessikaowl

Joined: 6/15/2006

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When it comes to physical attractiveness... Posted: 6/18/2007 7:27:42 AM
are you asking which person(s) are attractive, or in general? please explain! and just in case, when I think of beauty I automatically picture someone like Jodanda Brewster.

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