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Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Male ED Posted: 11/20/2009 9:26:09 AM
Wonder if there could be an enviromental factor at play here? Load more people seems to be dealing with issues around infertility.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Guacamole recipes? Posted: 11/19/2009 8:46:33 PM
sometimes avocados and balsamic vinegar is just right...

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Roller Coasting Lover Posted: 11/11/2009 6:44:18 AM
really does it matter what the forum posters on POF think? You are going to do what you are going to until you choose to do something else. The fellow you have chosen as the one, is abusive to you, and you apparently are not willing to walk away and heal. Is this what you want for your romantic life? If you think this is about love, then you are really a wounded puppy, this is about power, and your lover has it not you. Love is about going over the hurdles of live together hand in hand, not about putting up hurdles and watch the other fall. Abuse happens in all types of relationships, sadly you are involved in one. Make some other choices, get some support, understand that you are playing a roll in this too, there is opportunity for growth, find it.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Biotch slap the bag lady!!! Posted: 11/5/2009 8:46:50 PM
Where are the paper bags that used to be available in stores... for free? These are environmentally friendly bags yet, we have no right to demand them? Grrrrr May I? may I suggest your nearest LCBO store for the paper bags...

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/4/2009 11:24:22 AM
Living your life to the fullest, and quietly just releasing him from your life would be the best revenge. Do not involve yourself in the drama or games... lead a busy fulfilling life without the crud.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Strange... some behavior I don't understand Posted: 10/26/2009 8:41:58 AM
Pedro, you have a turntable? That's so old school! Vote for Pedro (so rare to say this to a Pedro... ok, I digress) OP, who knows? and if she doesn't tell you, you don't know. It appears rude, and certainly does not invite any furthur contact from you... This is when you learn the healthy attitude of "Next" Keep it fun!

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Dating again after relationship ending Posted: 10/23/2009 9:47:53 AM
Messages 2 and 5 are full of sage info... listen to them. There is no timetable, and the best thing that you could do is enjoy yourself. Do things that offer you pleasure from more traveling, volunteer work, taking interesting courses to connecting with whatever it is that you call community. Confidence comes from within, you still have it, it is just underneath some anxiety right now, but it is yours to rediscover.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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From lover to boyfriend Posted: 10/23/2009 9:40:52 AM
messy, messy, messy missy... what is that saying? don't **** where you eat? another prime example of FWB just not working for the two involved. perhaps, communication at the start of this arrangement would have helped? I don't know.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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What are your thoughts on friendship? Posted: 10/23/2009 9:35:11 AM
Some feller might just read you as paranoid

Mosaicart

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Poetry Thrice Club Posted: 10/21/2009 7:59:02 PM
jamesless, ya might want to recheck your definition! a palindrome reads the same in both directions... and yes it is difficult.. you are sounding like a silly sailor who just might... murder for a jar of red rum Dennis sinned Nice work iceaxe!

Mosaicart

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A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ? Posted: 10/16/2009 11:03:24 AM
FotC says it best... A kiss is not a contract, but it's very nice, yes it's very nice. Just because you've been exploring my mouth, Doesn't mean you get to take an expedition to the south A kiss is not a contract, but it's very nice, yes it's very very nice Just because we've been playing tonsil hockey. Doesn't mean you get to score the goal in my jockeys Just because I'm in an acoustic folk band, It doesn't mean I only want poon-tang I can't go around loving everyone, I just wouldn't get anything done Oh because... [ A Kiss Is Not A Contract Lyrics on http://www.lyricsmania.com/ ] I suspect everyone has there own speed. However, by the end of a 2nd date I am not even sure I want a third... just have not met a man that I would want to be that intimate with after meeting only for a few hours. It took me ages to decide what colour to paint, weeks, hours, even months... maybe it has something to do with age? or perhaps that woman had a LTR with a good man, but did not share any of the physical chemistry? or she has an exceptionally high sex drive? who knows, but, does fit for most, I should hope.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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FWB: Mans view vs. a Womans Posted: 10/13/2009 8:52:55 AM
you assume much, however what you assume may be true for you and perhaps some of your friends, but I doubt the whole species. babysitting? leaky facets? extra cash? what are you (or friend on POF) implying? me thinks each situation is unique, there is not a book of rules for this FWB stuff... I have not even heard about it being so checked in balance... doesn't it usually end when one wants more from the other? It just sounds far too messy for me.

Mosaicart

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That's Just RUDE!! Posted: 9/16/2009 7:11:46 PM
zeek63, actually there is an option that can hide your profile when checking out other profiles.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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money inside her bra Posted: 9/11/2009 10:52:51 AM
little ipod shuffle attached to bra strap... music to my ears

Mosaicart

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22, Never had a girlfriend Posted: 8/28/2009 7:10:12 AM
Wow, you are young still and have much of your life ahead of you. Relax a little, get busy with your other ativities and let it all unfold. Sex is just not the end all be all of life, it will happen, you will meet someone and this too shall happen. oohlala21 speaks a heap of truth, reread her! my goodness drusurf06, whining is perhaps the most unattractive quality... really working the broken record there young man.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Those on again off again relationships? Posted: 8/25/2009 7:27:13 AM
maybe it is all about having a very short, short term memory? can't remember which state they are in together/broken?

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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What do you think? Posted: 8/25/2009 6:40:28 AM
They? sheeesh... difficult enough to have a relationship with one rather then the plural they! choose a gender there fellow! or are you saying that you are having a long distance relationship with more then one? Goodness, a long distance relationship is so much more about fantasy then reality, so maybe "they" no longer want to participate in a fantasy relationship. Relationships are difficult enough, with distance between it is even more so. Think local.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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No shows..... Posted: 8/25/2009 6:33:43 AM
Actions speak louder then words. There is truth to the saying that we give people permission to treat us the way that they do. His behaviour is unacceptable. If you allow this type of behaviour now, what do you think you would be complaining of in the future with this guy?

Mosaicart

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Fresh Sweet Corn Bread - Amazing!!! Posted: 8/16/2009 3:21:42 PM
what is 'pepper jack cheese'? not sure i have seen it before? is it a name brand? soft cheese. hard cheese, much like another cheese? tried to email you but your filters block me... drats and this is up for deletion (and may i ask why?)

Mosaicart

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Venting on Facebook! Posted: 8/15/2009 7:09:08 AM
Prime example of stupid people being everywhere!

Mosaicart

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Cant cum through sex? Posted: 8/9/2009 12:55:46 PM
he sounds like friend material, not boy friend material.

Mosaicart

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Need advice about choosing hobby Posted: 8/9/2009 12:02:50 PM
have you considered Geocaching? kinda like a treasure hunt, but you can drive to different areas, while in those areas hang with others on a geocaching quest, eat at local spots or hike along different trails. google it. ~~why is this up for deletion? is it not a valid question?

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Is there life on earth? Posted: 8/3/2009 11:15:25 AM
generally phone use is the height of rudeness and a whole heap of nothingness time wasting behaviour. more stuff to track and maintain. certainly they do have a use, but are so overused and expensive. that said, sure are handy for those few times needed... so portable!

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Need advice on Ex girlfriend issues. Posted: 8/3/2009 11:10:08 AM
ex's are ex's for a reason ... you are not ready, but you do sound a little lonely and nostalgic about your ex-girlfriend. hopefully she is healing and thinking of her future life and not her past. you however sound like you are on a bit of an emotional yo-yo. I do not think that she is playing with you. let her be, and sort yourself out.

Mosaicart

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Too much baggage to start a new relationship ??? Posted: 8/3/2009 9:06:38 AM
Listen to your friends, they have a persecptive that you lack presently. This fellow is not being up front with you and you have already allowed him to mistreat you, stop that. Be kinder to yourself.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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whats up with women and being confused? Posted: 8/2/2009 8:23:37 PM
might be worth pondering... what is it about you that attracts this type of female?

Mosaicart

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Telling someone not interested Posted: 8/2/2009 8:09:56 PM
Best of Luck in your search

Mosaicart

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Quotes From Scientists/Philosophers You Like: Posted: 8/2/2009 8:08:21 PM
As this is a dating site, I choose these two... "Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." - Rumi The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed." - Carl Jung

Mosaicart

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Is it fair to be friends with your ex? Posted: 8/1/2009 7:56:56 PM
Every situation is different, so why blanket every relationship with your insecure judgement? Sounds like it is your issue and abilities to trust. However I cannot speak to your experience, but I am grateful that I had the experiences, the growth, the joys, the not so joyful times and the past, it has help me become the person I am today. How one speaks and thinks about who was an important person in their life, really offers insight to that person. After looking at your profile, I do wonder why you are on this site? Not enough drama and stress for you at home? Need a bit of an audience? Sheesh.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Do most woman want a guy that doesnt have kids? Posted: 7/29/2009 8:57:48 PM
how do you figure that one woman could speak for "most" women. what might be more to the point is ... is the woman you are interested in have any issues with you being a parent? perhaps most women want a man who is interested in her, and she interested in his. not so much what he or she has, but who they are is what is of interest, and how balanced life is.

Mosaicart

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Good bars in northern Ca? Posted: 7/24/2009 10:56:45 AM
is there such a thing?

Mosaicart

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Texting while on a date Posted: 7/24/2009 9:18:07 AM
Texting and talking while on a date... Sheesh... it is rude... and there are reasons for it, or are they excuses? Recently, the gentleman agreed to meet, but was he in the middle of finalizing some plans... he took at least 3 calls (between 10:30-12) kinda late for business me thinks. At lest he walked away from the table to take the calls. I too noticed later that I had 2 texts, and one call, however perhaps my attachment to the phone is not so chronic. Is time for a meet and a drink just not part of the busy schedule then perhaps neither is dating. Why is it we think we can multi-task so much and not have any fall out from it?

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Crossdresser Posted: 7/24/2009 9:04:59 AM
after months of wooing, he is what living there and his kids on alternative weekends? no reason to settle nor be a doormat. just how long has he been living with you? the fact that he is a cross dresser really has nothing to do with the issue of crossing your boundaries. your home, your space. he has no options. change the locks. careful what you bring home! sheesh! company, like fish, have a three day limit.

Mosaicart

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What do I do Posted: 7/24/2009 8:43:19 AM
Is that to say that you have only what, talked to her? written with her? Have you met yet? Slow down, good to have such an ability, but what is your hurry?

Mosaicart

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please tell me Posted: 7/22/2009 10:30:27 PM
Are you looking for a pot head from Rosman? or someone on POF from Rosman?

Mosaicart

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Younger men wanting sex chat Posted: 7/22/2009 9:16:56 AM
The reasons for the behaviours are unique. What motivates them is more about the ego stage they are in, like how could anyone their Mum's age not be totally smitten with them? Maybe the boy children have spent years being in company of their Mum's and never had the opportunity for any potty mouth conversation without being put in their place. I am thinking it has more to do with their issues over not having a sexual voice with their Mum's.... I just have such a laugh thinking that these children are younger then a pair of boots that I own and still use. It might work for some, perhaps they are playing the odds, wishing and hoping that the urban legends are true. However, it just seems that whole immature thing is highly overrated. Similar's attract.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Breast reduction! Posted: 7/17/2009 8:27:28 PM
You are young now, and this may not be of much bother for you, but... 10-15 years down the road, you just might want to have a child, and you might want to have the option of nursing. speak with your physician about retaining this very important option. there are different methods that the surgeon can decided upon with this ability still a viable option, it does take more skill and time, but you know it is worth it. speedy recovery.

Mosaicart

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older women , new experiences Posted: 7/17/2009 7:48:59 PM
from a 20 year old male... It helps them feel young again. from a nearly 40 year old male ... It's on their bucket list hahahahahaha... from a nearly 50 woman, who has thought that generally if that is what a man wants sexually, well then it really does not matter which gender he is with, a male partner might be more interested then I. It is a one way exit site, bacteria and microbes there need not mix with other parts of the body. I am sure many women are still not interested, regardless of age.

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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This is an awesome quote Posted: 7/14/2009 6:25:24 AM
there are some threads with this very quote discussed or shared already. seems like this thread is on its way out. however, it is still a wonderful, clever, and important perspective to keep in mind... not only about people but of careers and the like.

Mosaicart

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The First Werewolf (ch 3, 1st draft) Posted: 7/14/2009 5:55:45 AM
consider using some pronouns

Mosaicart

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25 Things My Mother Taught Me Posted: 7/13/2009 7:07:35 PM
your Mum too? My Mum and Aunties... they had a few of those ideas to share... must have come with the now extinct parenting manual!

Mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006

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Should in be advised before you go on a first meet if he/she is physically deformed? Posted: 7/13/2009 11:00:13 AM
maybe it is important for you to know that you are not a special kind of person... consider putting a new statement on your profile. sheesh.

Mosaicart

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Catch of the Day (on the Interstate) July 10th, 2009 Posted: 7/10/2009 11:15:34 AM
LOL... needed this today! Thanks Keep it goghing, love from Auntie Way-to-Gogh

Mosaicart

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Oppertunity, relationship or both? Live then, love? Posted: 7/5/2009 7:50:25 AM
the story of your life is not written, and no one can live it but you. if you are fortunate enough to find love at a young age it would not be settling! it would be what you and your partner decide it to be, it would be the story of you. you can still explore the world and have love at the same time - it is not mutually exclusive!

Mosaicart

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What now? What next? What do you think? Posted: 7/5/2009 7:44:42 AM
what now? ~ there is no now for this man... what next? ~ there is no next with this man... the thing you must sort out for yourself is why would you allow someone to treat you this way? consider this experience an opportunity for some self growth. it is not about him... it is about you. somewhere in your life you missed a lesson, it is not too late to learn.

Mosaicart

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Marriage Counsellors for Unmarried Folks Posted: 7/5/2009 6:16:04 AM
I am very grateful for the couples counselling I have had. Our counsellor was able to 'call a spade a spade' and helped us release each other with grace and dignity. I was a 15 - 20 year relationship (there was some on/off while I traveled and he studied), we went from teen years to mid 30's... he was a really good friend, but we were just lousy at the relationship moving forward part. We were able to separate with some true loving kindness for each other, and more importantly for ourselves. We thought that we were going to counselling to gain skills in making our relationship stronger and closer, but it was not the end result.

Mosaicart

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Death and the age of 50.... Posted: 7/3/2009 6:46:07 AM
Everyone has an expiration date... its just not stamped on our foreheads. LOL! and your first name tattooed on your hand would be helpful too!

Mosaicart

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persian men Posted: 6/26/2009 6:55:43 AM
I do not think that this type of behaviour is limited to a culture, more of a state of mind (a state of ignorance) and is found across many cultures. "Do yourself a favor. Stay with your own kind. I agree with all OP. Persians, Iranians, Pakistanians, etc... are 99% Muslum." (quote from sagman4u) Where do you get your information? Why so narrow minded? Now many who identify as Iranian are Muslim, perhaps... still where do you get your stats? Your attitude on this thread SadMan4U is very unbecoming. Zoroastrianism, Mithraism, Manichaeism, Mazdakism, Yazdanism, Bábí Faith and Jewish are religions that have been active in the area known as Persia... it is my understanding that has been a mixed bag in that area for religion and cultures. Pakistan and India have many people of Christian, Hinduism, Jainism, Buddhist, to name but a few of the religious leanings. It is sad, man, that it appears you do not know, or read and retain opinions outside you narrow view. Thank you, My favorite things... yes you could very well be a favourite of many... what are you a UU?

Mosaicart

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Replies? / New Date Night Feature Posted: 6/24/2009 11:17:30 AM
Date Night Feature? Have not heard or read anything about it... Is it a local thing? Virtual thing? Interesting... will search threads for it... Unfortunately, it does sometimes seem that folks here are hiding from manners... some weird online etiquette stuff... no real rules.

Mosaicart

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Advice needed please Posted: 6/22/2009 7:29:58 PM
you are really young, and this relationship still sounds like high school drama... and maybe that is ok since you are really young. but know that you cannot change anyone but yourself. do you want to be treated like this? is this how you want to treat another? you do not have to be in a relationship. when you decide to be in one it really ought to be more about bringing out the best in each other, and having shared interests and activities. listen to yourself, the words you wrote, the situation... is this what you want in your life? show yourself some love, take care of your needs, create the space of peace all about your interactions with the ones you keep close to your heart. think about going over hurdles in life with a kind and loving fellow, not one who wants to knock your stride off, but one who wants to hold your hand, and one who wants what is best for you. life is a struggle enough, seek to be with one who adds more peace in your life not strife. this boy one is all about red flags.

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