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Sircoyote

Joined: 6/16/2006

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Could Cry Again Posted: 12/14/2007 5:01:23 PM
You know what?? I was kinda in a similar situation a few years ago, and now that I'm over all that, I came to one conclusion: The last thing you have to do right now is crying. Wondering why?? Because if his fiancee is going down to such childish games can only mean one thing: she thinks you're a menace to their relationship and is doing everything to take you down... Does it make sense? She thinks you've got enough power by yourself to take down that relationship.... BUT that doesnt mean you have to. Just live your life and let them live theirs... None of them is worth your friendship anyways! Just look at yourself as someone to be taken care of... a young powerful woman that can do anything she wants to do! Feeling bad and sad is only hurting yourself.... you wanna hurt them?? Ignore them, let them know you dont need either of them in your life, you're worth much more than that! Show them you've got more interesting things to do with your time than thinking about a bunch of idiots! Francisco (Sorry if somebody said the same thing I did, I've read noone's posts! blushes )

Sircoyote

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Men's Hands Posted: 12/14/2007 2:19:20 PM
Now that's a topic I never thought I'd find!! haha. Personally, I like soft hands with thin fingers on women... I guess, I havent really thought about it till now!! About myself, well... played the piano since I was little, so my finger are kinda long and thin... but strong (thanks to basketball)... Well, I cant really describe them!!

Sircoyote

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Gents: How do I communicate emotional need? Posted: 12/9/2007 10:44:45 AM
Would you feel better if he said those things you like to hear, but did nothing?? Just tell him what you need to hear those things from time to time... but at least he's acting with interest, which means something bigger to me!! He could be telling you all that you want to hear, but not acting the way he does... and, I believe, that'll be even worse, right? Just my point of view!! Francisco

Sircoyote

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I Feel Half Alive But I Feel Mostly Dead Posted: 12/7/2007 7:46:48 PM
OMG, Issy!!! I didnt mean to tore you apart more with that!! (DuH... that was a not-so-smart move!! ). I wish I knew how to bring to life 'mostly dead' people... Do I have to slap you or something like that? (like when you're unconscious... dont get me wrong!!!) Honestly, it's almost Xmas time and the last thing you have to be doing is drowning yourself in all that 'unnecessary' sorrow of yours... Now, to cheer you up, listen to Diego Torres's 'Color Esperanza' and start smiling!! Life is 2 days long... are you going to spend one of those days feeling sad & depressed?? NO!! That's not what you want! (I guess nobody wants that, right?? ). I'm the kind of people who thinks that loneliness is not a bad place to be, but it sure is the worst place to stay... (hope that made sense!) Cheer Up, Girl!! Besos! xxx Francisco

Sircoyote

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I Feel Half Alive But I Feel Mostly Dead Posted: 12/7/2007 7:11:36 PM
Firstly I have to say that the song you posted is such a great song. True that it's a lil 'old', but it's been one of my favorites for many years! I know a few more 'makes-me-want-to-walk-in-the-pouring-rain-and-cry' kind of songs. (Sade - King of Sorrows, Sade - It's Only Love That Gets You Through, Diego Torres - La Ultima Noche..) That last song (Diego Torres's song) is in Spanish, so unless you know how to speak Spanish, you might not understand the lyrics... I would translate them if needed! (Even though this songs makes me cry every single time I hear it... The lyrics are just so deep to me! Hey, dont look at me that way... Have you never seen a hopeless romantic?? ). Regarding to the questions, all I can say is that noone can answer those questions for you. Depends on a lot of things (the reason why you broke up with the last one, how long you had been with him, etc. ). Every person is a whole new world, so you cant really compare what you had before and what you have now... it probably wont be the same, but that doesnt mean it's got to be something bad. Maybe you end up learning more things about yourself! (Things you liked that you dont like anymore or viceversa, new things you'd never heard of...) You will always miss what you had before, not all the time obviously, but on certain moments you might wish you were in the situation you were before... but I'm a firm believer that if someone doesnt make it to your future, they have to be left in the past... (did that make sense at all? I'm trying to translate from spanish!! blushes ). Well, didnt mean to write such a long post!! But I hope it helped you to open your eyes and live this crazy life we have in front of us, since you never know when it might end! Forgive me if you see any (or many!! ) mistakes with my writing, but I'm still trying to improve my english! Have a great winter !! Francisco

Sircoyote

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My cheating alcoholic ex-wife Posted: 9/20/2007 9:34:45 AM
Seems to me that this 'Jerry' is the guy that's paying for your ex-wife's drinks, right? (from what you said that he's always drunk). Maybe that's why he got in the middle of all this, get my point? I know a drunk person is not rational at all... but if we're talking about a woman with an alcohol problem and a guy that's sharing her same interest in drinking... it's kinda obvious something like this was going to happen. Thankfully, I'm too young to have problems relating marriage, children and stuff like that... But I also had an episode of a regretful ex-girlfriend (even the reason of why I got to this site a year ago??) and I know it's a tough spot to be in... Well, you've seen all the advices you got up here! A guy raising 4 children? Good luck with that, man... If there's a will, there's a way!! . I dont know the states too much (just got here a month ago) but there must be some kind of help for a person raising 4 children, isnt it? Whatever you do, dont let go. Good job leaving your feelings to your ex-wife aside... Keep it up and become the greatest father for your children. You know you've just shown us how to be a man with self-respect, right?? . Best of luck to you, buddy! Francisco

Sircoyote

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Does distance really matter? Posted: 4/18/2007 2:03:29 AM
Personally, I find distance as a very important topic for a lot of people... Usually, distance is not a big issue... but most people think of a relationship as something more than chatting online, phoning... They need to feel a hug, a caress, a look... and that's something you cant get over the distance... OP, an advice could not be given to you at all... It really depends on you. Do you think that woman's worth it? Then do it. But whatever you do, have no regrets... Think carefully of what you want, what you want to find and try to look further, because decisions like these could change your life! Maybe it's the change what you're looking for...or maybe not! It really depends on you...from my point of view anyways!

Sircoyote

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Knowing Thyself Posted: 4/18/2007 1:55:58 AM
I guess I agree with the above! I've always been taught that "Happiness is our path, not our destination", so getting to know oneself is knowing how to take the right path for your own happiness, getting to know your strong points and the weak ones, knowing what you want in your life... You have any goals you want to achieve? That could be some kind of motivation, following your dreams, making efforts to respect everyone and feel respected as well... To sum up, to feel great fir your own self... Just my point of view anyways....

Sircoyote

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Plentyoffish turns 4 years old today. Posted: 3/2/2007 6:08:10 AM
Happy Birthday, POF! And Admin, thanks for creating such a wonderful site! Fran

Sircoyote

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Women of today? Posted: 1/30/2007 5:16:16 AM
Moontress: There are guys that a girl could hand the condom and say 'you HAVE TO use this!' and they'll still stick their**** in her without it and be like 'oh just for a minute...' and that can be enough to get her knocked up. It's the same thing I said before, right?? If you allow him to do whatever he pleases, it is because you let him! Imagine a little kid (A) hitting another kid (B). If you let A hit B, A will think it's alright because nobody told him it's not! If you punish him, even though it's a punishment, he'll understand that it was a bad action. Same happens in this case in particular. If the guy says something like that to a girl, and the girl allows it...B00M! Surprise!! But if you instead leave him with the hard on because of such a lousy behaviour, I'm sure he wont do such a thing again... and if he just dumps you because of that, was it worth risking? There's only one key for that: SELF-RESPECT.

Sircoyote

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Women of today? Posted: 1/29/2007 11:09:51 AM
LOL!! Not trying to be mean, but...hell, I felt this is some kind of attack to myself! (you know, all that generalizing and stuff....) Dammit, do you women (and I mean those from this topic) hate men THAT much?? Young men aren't taught anymore that they should respect women, that women are more than 2 boobs, a hot ass, and a** (not that too many young men care about the girls pleasure anyway) (and that's only from the last post). The way a youth grows depends on a lot of things: education, surroundings (being friends,where he/she lives), likes & dislikes, interests... Every person is a single person in this huge world, who are we to put them all in the same sack?? I may not be the best one to speak about older times, but...isn't it obvious that times change? The way sexual issues were focused has changed A LOT since our parents and grandparents. Because of the media? Because of education? Because of politicians? WTH...who knows??? I remember a post someone very known in these kind of topics (I ain't gonna say his name, just in case) said once, and it kinda convinced me, or at least gave me another point of view to the same thing. It was something like: "We all know that when women want to have a freaky night (when they want to have sex, to speak clearly) they can get it from barely whichever man they want, that's why they're called whatever they're called afterwards. On the other side, we got men. For us is more like a challenge, since most of the girls obviously refuse to that kind of invitations! That's why a guy who's been with a lot of girls rocks, but a girl who's been with lotta boys is a slut." I'm not saying it's right or it's not, but you've got to agree that is somewhat a logical explanation. I also have to say that education starts at everyone's home. (I dont know if it's well said, I just tried to translate from a Spanish statement ).Personally, I've been lucky since my mum works in a hospital and is very related to the drug scenes and the illnesses scenes, so I'm full of info about those and maybe that's a reason of why I have NEVER EVER tried a single cigarrette (to give an example!). By telling this I'm not saying that everybody's wrong about the way they raise their children, and again I'm not trying to be mean. I've been taught since I was very little that I can be whatever I want to be (just like Nas' song). If I want to be a killer, I can be a killer; If I want to be a cheater, I can be a cheater; If I want to be a good guy and respect whichever women that comes close to me, I will... mostly because I put all my efforts in it. We're all adults enough to know when something's right or when it's not... If a young woman gets pregnant and that guy dumps her, well.. too bad, but it was your fault! Did you know that guy? Did you use protection? ... Whatever the questions are, the obvious thing is that IT WAS YOUR RISK, AND YOU KNEW WHERE YOU WERE GETTING INTO... Those guys will go like: "Ok, the damage is done so I better be leaving now".. and know why?? because YOU ALLOWED HIM/THEM... Now this is not a lack of education or whatever excuse you may invent... that's plain and simple lack of SELF-RESPECT, and there's nothing anyone can do about it but the person itself... You think ALL MEN think woman are 2 boobs, a hot ass and a** ?? Dammit, you're what you want. You can be whatever you want to be... do you want to be nothing but 2 boobs and a hot ass? (Guessing the answer is "No").. then WORK FOR IT, because THAT will not be a heavenly gift... I hope it helped! Fran

Sircoyote

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Guys...help me please understand. Posted: 1/22/2007 1:46:20 PM
Then... well, you better have a serious talk about it with him... Love isnt about two people looking to each other, but two people looking in the same direction... know what I mean?? I'm sorry, I really spend a tough time trying to translate Spanish idioms into English!! Fran

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Why is there a price on Love? Posted: 1/22/2007 1:44:25 PM
Well, I'm in process of getting one, because I'd love to get a scholarshpi to study in the US. I found something about a basketball training camp that might help me to find it, BUT I need a visa in order to go to Florida, where the camp's being done.. BUT... my "problem" is that mum was born in Africa and because of that my "second last-name?" (you know, in Spain we have both the father's and mother's last name) is African... I heard it might be a problem, because of the tough times between USA and north-african & west-asian countries... I'm kinda scared about it. I'm so close of making my dream come true and because of my last name it could be turned down... I hope everything goes well, both for me and for you also, cuteazabutton! Wish you luck! Fran

Sircoyote

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Dealing with a lack of experience Posted: 1/22/2007 1:33:23 PM
I know I'm not a girl, but I hope I can be helpful to you! Well, there are 2 major ways: 1st - The most common, the HARD way. 2nd - ummmm... you can always use money, you know Ok, jokes off. Personally, first thing to work on to start dating is building up your own self-confidence. You might not trust me, but hey! Women smell our lack of confidence SOMEHOW!! That doesnt mean that you can't be shy, actually it could play to help you out! The fact of having barely no experience doesnt mean you'll be rejected all the time! Actually some girls find this kinda attractive, so that's by your side too! Man, you're such a rough diamond that they would like to pulish up!! (Remember, confidence!! ) Well, there are other things to talk about, but I believe that could have been helpful!! Good luck, dude!! Fran

Sircoyote

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Guys...help me please understand. Posted: 1/22/2007 1:22:26 PM
^^^^ Agreed with ubkobalt. (Damn, he just took the words outta my mouth! ) If that's not what you're looking for, then why are you so worried about it? why does it have to be HIM if he's just not like that? Communication is the key, and you both have got it...then USE IT! It's free! Tell him exactly what you feel, and see how he reacts. That way you'll know what does he want from you.... up to you if you can deal with the answer! Fran

Sircoyote

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When it comes to the opposite sex, what is your weakness? Posted: 1/21/2007 5:03:30 PM
An unexpected wink with a big smile...or a kiss on my neck... or Both!!! damn, I'd fall on my knees after that.. Those are certainly my weak spots!

Sircoyote

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Flirting, how does it work? Posted: 1/21/2007 4:59:59 PM
There's not a real "trick" to flirt with someone. It depends in the kind of guy you want to approach, the kind of relationship you want to find... But that's just weird! Usually women manage to get whichever man they want without a problem, the fact that you dont tells me that you're not putting all your efforts in it, could it be?? Just a thought, not trying to be mean! Fran

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ttyl? Bullsh*t lol Posted: 1/21/2007 4:55:22 PM
Agreed with belly18dancer (as usual!) I wouldnt make a mountain out of a single rock (or however it's said in English! ). What I'm trying to say is: Take it easy, man!! Havent you got a hobby? something you can do instead of talking endlessly to girls from Ottawa - Ontario? You know, your great catch is out there, just keep on fishing! What's the rush? Not trying to be mean, but if they dont want to talk to me...who cares? Think about it like this: "They're missing to meet such a nice person that I am!! Shame on them!" Hope it helped!! Fran

Sircoyote

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ttyl? Bullsh*t lol Posted: 1/21/2007 4:35:53 PM
I just find it awesome that you managed to talk to 99% of women from Ontario between 18-22.. Maybe it's something about you? I'd be worried if 99% of 18-22 women told me the same thing over and over!! Anyways, C'mon!! Maybe you've been unlucky...until today! Think about it this way: Once there is a single woman that tells "ttyl" AND successfully does, you'll enjoy her accompany/chats waaaaay better, trust me! "Good things come to those who are patient enough to wait".. (did it make sense? it was supposed to be a Spanish idiom (translated, of course )). Good luck in your search, dude!

Sircoyote

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Do the Axe commercial annoy you? Posted: 1/21/2007 10:00:10 AM
Well, it's true it's only a commercial... but, hey... smelling good is a great way to catch a woman's attention (at least it's better than smelling oddly, don't you think? ). I swear, it's not as "women attacking me everywhere I go", but when I'm wearing a good cologne (it usually is Paco Rabanne's BlackXS, man...it rocks!) I notice some women looking back to stare at me walking by... I may seem**** or selfish, but it helps a lot. You know, there's only one "first impression"...giving it in triumph is quite a challenge! Fran

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the perfect get over someone Posted: 1/21/2007 9:52:46 AM
hey, OP.. You'll get over it, trust me! I know from first hand that in situations like these, we use to think "What am I to do with my life?", but hey!! The answer to that question really depends on you!! Personally, I dont believe "time is a heart-healer", it is WHAT we do with time. What I mean is staying at home watching TV like a coach potato is NOT going to get noone's heart and fix it all of a sudden! Find a hobby, go out with some friends, whatever you please!! We've got only one life, are you really going to spend it being sad and thinking about those who doesnt deserve it? I promised myself I wont waste my one and only life with bad thoughts and feeling heartbroken, because I'm sure that it won't be fixed magically, get my point? I hope it helped!! Cheer up!! Fran

Sircoyote

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Inside the heart or good looking? Posted: 1/20/2007 4:23:51 AM
The most important thing is the inside, that's for sure. You behaviour, your actions, your feelings, your thoughts... that's how we really know how a person IS instead of how he/she LOOKS.... BUT...On the other hand we got the physical appearance... think about it as if you were going to buy something, ok? Will you buy something that looks disgusting, so old and horrible instead of the same item but looking great, so tasteful, catching your attention... I dont know if you understand what I'm trying to say, but, to sum up, I'd say both the outside and the inside are important. How important?? That's hard to say, since it really depends on the person itself! Just a thought anyways! I hope it helped! Fran

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Flat tire Posted: 1/13/2007 2:14:12 PM
I guess you picked a winner!! I know a little about car repairing to be honest.. (took me an hour last time I had to change a tire... Holy F***! ). But it's like "car repairing" = related to guys... and something like...ummm... cooking? it might be related to women... THAT DOESNT MEAN THAT MEN MUST REPAIR CARS AND WOMEN COOK, I just said it's more related to them... Of course there are women who repair cars better and faster than any man could! As well as there are awesome male cooks out there, so what's wrong with it? So unlucky to have a flat tire on a date... NOTE TO SELF: Check the car's status before going on any date! Fran

Sircoyote

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Can men genuinely fall in Love with someone they have never met? Posted: 1/11/2007 7:14:00 AM
It's hard to say, mostly because every person is a different person with their own beliefs. It IS possible, of course it is... but not everyone can!! I wonder, why do us get related with sexual things?? I mean, sex is NOT in our minds 24/7!! To sum up, I say it's possible!! Just have to be lucky and find a man who believes that too! Good luck in your search!! Fran

Sircoyote

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This would annoy you too, wouldnt it?? Posted: 1/10/2007 10:43:54 AM
ummm... I'd think..... she's insane!! RUN!!!! Nah, enough jokes . Maybe she's just testing you, testing if you really like her, BUT that doesnt mean that you have to be kissing her feet ALL DAY!! Maybe she wants to ask her friends before? Just in case they know something about your friend she should know... I dont know, girls are kinda weird, you know? It's really hard to understand them/you! Hope it helped, at least a little!! Fran

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Guys, what does this mean? Posted: 1/10/2007 10:37:38 AM
If it were me, I'd say it as a compliment to your beautiness. HE finds you attractive and tried to let you know that way, instead of saying straightly. Hope it helped! If you like him, go for him!! Fran

Sircoyote

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What if you really liked the girl but the sex was terrible? Posted: 1/10/2007 8:39:07 AM
You liked the girl before having sex with her, no matter her body! Why would it be an issue now? because you had sex with her and didnt like it? I guess I'm with heyitsdoug with this. If it's something you cant fight against, then what's the fuss? You knew something like that would happen, right?? Or expected her to be a sex-bomb even with her disabilities??

Sircoyote

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What if you really liked the girl but the sex was terrible? Posted: 1/10/2007 8:16:00 AM
Personally, sex is a very important issue. It's not THE MOST IMPORTANT, but it is something to take care about. Anyways, if I loved her, I'd give her advices of what things I like, what things I dont... but without being mean. Something like: "Why dont you try moving like this instead of like that?", "And if we try something different like..." and that kind of things... If you two are in love, she won't regret doing that little changes if they make you feel better, as well as she could give you advices to see what does she like more and that sort of stuff... Communication is the key, and it's free!!!! So why don't you use it? winks I hope it helped! Fran

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dating questions Posted: 1/10/2007 8:07:10 AM
who cares? It may help to someone else with the same issue and lazy enough to avoid using the search bar....

Sircoyote

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dating questions Posted: 1/10/2007 7:56:53 AM
hey OP, all I can tell you is: "Take things slow". Dont expect the first woman to come your way to be your one and only love, get my point? There are plenty of girls out there, and it seems you need a little "training" before finding true love. You'll never find it if you've never been heart-broken, for example. You won't know what you got until you fear you're going to lose it, you must feel like you're floating, also feel the opposite... (yeah, it's hard to understand maybe.... but... is there anyone able to describe what's "love" about? ) Take it easy, man. You're not in a hurry, are you? Enjoy life, you've got only one! So live it to the fullest! Good luck out there! Fran

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Forums as a use for dating? Posted: 1/10/2007 7:46:41 AM
It was moved. It was originally posted in recipes and cooking. LMAO! I wonder, dating via forum... sounds like a BIG macro-date!! Actually, it'd be so hard for me because of the place where I live... It sucks when you live in a place not many people know about!! (In spanish we use "macro- " when we're talking about 150+ people at the same place, i.e. macro-party = a big party involving over 150 people, and so on...).

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I broke up with my jerk of an ex, don't know where to go from here? Posted: 1/7/2007 12:23:50 PM
Have you got any mirrors at home?? If you do, get close to one and look at yourself... What do you see?? Do you like it?? If the answer to the last question is "no" then, do you want to see yourself like that? Hell, you're 20!!! What's the point of feeling depressed for such a...."man"?? You know, we all got dark chapters in our lifes, histories that we'd love to forget and never remember again.. but... cant you think of that situations and gain some wisdom from them? F* that SH*Y guy, does he really deserve to see you depressed? Will you allow him to have that pleasure? Cheer up, you've got a HUGE world outside and a FULL life ahead to discover it all!! Happiness is not the goal, it's the WAY!

Sircoyote

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Why do you guys always throw away the good girls? Posted: 1/3/2007 3:09:10 PM
Why do you girls always generalize? Listen, SweetAngel... I've never considered myself as the "typical" good guy, I'm just me... Both the good things and the bad things. It's not me the one to judge if I'm a good guy or not. What I'm trying to say is that maybe you're the most awesome girl around here, but... you just weren't his perfect girl, besides the fact that you're a good girl or a bad girl, get my point? My advice is to get over it, enjoy life! If only I felt down everytime my heart was hurting...If you look deeeeep into my written posts, you'll see that I was almost a kamikaze, willing to suicide because of a broken heart... but, hell... what will I gain feeling down? Will I feel better being down?? (that's such a nonsense, right??) Will I give the others the pleasure of watching me down?? 'Course not! You'll face it, get over it, and show those guys what they've let go and never get back... Be yourself, live YOUR life and, show them what a japanese friend told me once: "Tooku made zutto mitsumeteitene" (I hope I wrote it right! ) which means "Keep watching me until I'm out of sight" I hope it helps! Good Luck out there! Fran

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Other Relationships Posted: 1/3/2007 11:51:46 AM
Fetishes and stuff?? WTF, never heard of that "kind" of people under "Other Relationship". Could it be that they're people who dont really know what they're looking for? Just a thought anyways... Fran

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I need help with this one Posted: 1/2/2007 1:27:24 PM
Maybe she's talking about 2005 NYE??? then THAT would be a problem!

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How do know if you love him Posted: 1/2/2007 11:09:43 AM
The only thing I can say after reading this topic is that you're such a lucky girl...and messed it all. Hell, I tried to forgive a cheating issue...for the girl I loved the most in my short but awesome life, and I couldnt. Cheating on someone is a betray for his trust. I'm not trying to be mean by saying this, but I think your man is a little dumb. (well, you a little bit more, since you've betrayed such a good boy, or so it seems...) Anyways, I've got no advice to give you...I'm sorry...Good Luck with your inner argue, but I'd say its better for him that you left him, because you said you didnt love him... Let him go, so someone treats him like he deserves. Again, not trying to be mean... Just honest truth. Fran

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Would you go back to sum 1 that cheated? Posted: 1/2/2007 7:20:23 AM
"Once a killer always a killer". Would that make sense? Propensity to kill is there in all of us? A killer CAN change, he/she can indeed.... but... would you trust him/her if he/she tells you he/she won't kill again? Now change "kill" and put "cheat"... What's so different? Cheating is a betrayal, not only to someone else but to that person's feelings...

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Movie Love Posted: 1/2/2007 7:06:18 AM
Why would anyone want a "movie love" if movies only last 2 hours? Just a thought, anyways

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Would you go back to sum 1 that cheated? Posted: 1/2/2007 7:00:15 AM
NEVER! Even if you get back with her, you'll never forget her kissing/being/doing whatever with another guy behind your back. Yeah, you may forgive...I did... And then I kept thinking she was out with that guy while I was at work/studying... It'll drive you nuts, because you won't be able to trust her again... I couldnt after almost 2 years of relationship...and never will. It's still today, after 4 months since we definitely broke up and I still think about her being with that guy... You know, I dont like being betrayed and treated like trash, do you? Fran

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HELP LADIES Posted: 1/2/2007 6:46:07 AM
I know I'm not a girl (actually it's obvious, I just have to look down ) but, I have to ask you, OP: Do you find any problem in dating older women?? (I guess the answer is "No" so....) What's the point of asking such a question? Of course, dating older women has a few problems like: "Do you want something serious?A one night stand? Have you thought of the fact that older women usually have kids? etc, etc, etc." BUT, from my point of view, there's not a problem in dating older women. Good Luck with your search! Fran

Sircoyote

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just need some cyber-hugs Posted: 1/1/2007 9:10:34 AM
I don't know what to say or what to do to cheer you up. Personally, I know from first hand what you're going through. It's not easy, but it's the way it has to be. Whatever you need, feel free to cry on my shoulder, available 24/7! We're all here to help, don't forget that! No matter how, no matter where, no matter when... just call us if you're in trouble and we'll be there (at least, I will! ) I'm so sorry, but deep inside yourself, you know your friend would like you to be happy because of all the good times you spent together, instead of being sad about her loss. Cheer up! Fran

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Msg: 27 (view)

voting break down Posted: 12/30/2006 2:07:43 AM
lol. I dont know what to say about a topic like this... What I'm trying to say is...well, my pic is rated under 5...SO WHAT?? There's people who'll think you're a 10, so...why are you worrying about those who think you're 2? Know what I mean? Of course there are more important things in life rather than rating someone's pic...What the hell matters if someone WHO DOESNT KNOW YOU give you a 3? I bet it is because they don't know you, or else they'll be voting 20+... Screw the ratings, just get it for fun! Anyways, the cool thing would be that those who rate "high" for someone, leave a message or something, y'know? It might be a cool way to meet new people! Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year! And for those who are spending these days alone (like me), don't forget to eat the world before it eats you! Fran

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Msg: 11 (view)

Broken Heart Posted: 12/30/2006 1:29:28 AM
Getting married?? Lol, that's kinda fast, isnt it? I broke up with my girl a week before we made 2 years together... (She was dating another man, so it's kinda understandable I broke up with her). And the next thing I knew after crying, missing her and all that stuff is that she took away the money we saved last summer (900€ ~ almost $1200). Actually it was me who saved that money, since it was me who was working in summer while she had to study I feel such a dumb! What I'm trying to say is, when it's over, it's over... Dont try to push it further because the pain will be growing and growing until you realize that it's gone. You'd better go on your own, both of you (Just from my point of view anyways!) Cheer up and Good Luck!

Sircoyote

Joined: 6/16/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

Guys! Older women are for real relationships or a notch on your belt? Posted: 12/27/2006 11:01:44 AM
Personally, I find older women more attractive, but not "only" sexually. I just get on better with older women than women my age (of course, it depends on the woman herself, but it's just the average). But the real point is: do older women REALLY see in us (younger men) a serious relationship? Again, it just depends on the womam herself...but usually it's THEM who see younger boys as "flash relationships"...

Sircoyote

Joined: 6/16/2006

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msn messenger Posted: 12/22/2006 3:07:48 PM
That's a kinda weird situation! Anyways, everyone's not like that... Everyone is a different one! Some people just enjoy being/acting weird, I guess we gotta live with it!!

Sircoyote

Joined: 6/16/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

how do i survive the 1st christmas on my own? Posted: 12/22/2006 3:03:20 PM
Well, personally..this hasnt been the best year for me: broke up with my 2-year gf, my best friend and a girl I was starting to date with died a few weeks ago, I'm kinda watching my child-dream fading away... it's kinda tough. But hey, I've got my own "advice".... I mean, I got THAT sentence that makes me look up and fight against all this pain... that sentence/question is: "And if I died tomorrow?" Not trying to be mean, it's just to think to myself that I must do whatever goes through my mind, be impulsive and never look back, since it's better to regret doing something than regretting not doing it, know what I mean? I just ask myself that question whenever I'm lost/confused... Some people think it's not good, but... is it good to be doing nothing, looking back in time instead of facing the present? Christmas on our own... well, I might not be very old and might not know what you feel about spending christmas alone, but I do know that looking back will not make us feel better... It's just a personal thought anyways! Merry Xmas everyone! Sircoyote

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HOW SOON ? Posted: 12/19/2006 7:08:46 AM
fraises: think I'd prefer to meet someone right away, instead of communicating through messages and chats. I've only met one person from here, but he suggested coffee in his second message. It took us about another week to actually go for coffee, but it worked out rather well, and we had plenty to talk about in person (I've found that the longer I talk to someone online, the more they know about me/my life, the harder it is for me to meet them in person). Well, that's kinda hard if you live somewhere like in the Canary Islands, right? You know how expensive it is to move to anywhere from here to meet anyone!

Sircoyote

Joined: 6/16/2006

Msg: 9 (view)

wierd Posted: 12/17/2006 8:55:00 AM
Slide your tongue through your lips, with an evil look in your eyes... The girl will go " Whoa!". Trust me, it works

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Msg: 123 (view)

After love making... Posted: 12/16/2006 12:09:30 PM
A shower! I just love to have a shower after making love (with the girl I made love with, of course...). The fact that we're both nude, together, in the shower... better get ready for round 2, right??

Sircoyote

Joined: 6/16/2006

Msg: 5 (view)

Wow I need help Posted: 12/16/2006 9:59:33 AM
You need to if you both feel it. It's quite alright if you didnt want/not used to it, she might understand. You can always try on a second date if you both are interested... Agree with the above, bad move rejecting her phone number...(mostly because SHE OFFERED IT). Anyways, everything's not messed up... Good luck, dawg. Just forget past, live present and think about (close) future . Enjoy every little moment, because you never know what you got until it's gone... SO NEVER LET IT GO!!

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