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Is it my imagination or are women getting better at cheating on their partner than men... Posted: 3/10/2007 8:24:27 PM
Maybe it is because most men are more trusting of their wive than wives are of their husbands. Imagine my surprise after nine years of marriage to a woman who I thought was totally in love with me, when her boyfriend's wife called me to tell me about their affair. She divorced me to be with him.Then I, the idiot, remarried her several years later. MISTAKE...I will never get over it to the extent that I can forgive and forget. I told her that I couldn't do it anymore. She swears that she was wrong and always loved me. Doesn't really matter anymore because I lost the feelings. I found that when you lose the trust, everything else goes with it.

Joined: 9/17/2004

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 3/10/2007 8:10:36 PM
Sometimes it is hard to make it through all the fluff. Some women write a novel, many times with no paragraphs or punctuation. It is hard to get through. We know that you are a free spirit. Spiritual, but not religious. Looking for you soulmate. Not looking for someone you you can live with, but someone you can't live without. Do you have a handbook of how to write a profile. Remember, men are simple. Sports, sex and food. If it is not included in those categories, we probably don't care enough to read it.

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Wife Cheated Posted: 3/10/2007 7:59:43 PM
My wife left me for another man. She divorced me, but after several years we remarried. It was hell on earth. She swears that she always loved me, but whenever we had problems, the scab was pulled off the wound. It is hard to forget what she did and although I thought that we could work through it, it didn't happen. I lost the trust that I had and don't know that it well return, or if it even matters. My advice to you...move on. If she had one lapse, it will happen again down the line. Someone who finds it easy to cheat once, will do it again and it will be no less painful the next time. There is someone out there who you can trust, just not someone who has proven her inability to do so.

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Nice guys finish first sometimes.......but they just don't get laid a lot Posted: 3/14/2005 4:35:45 AM
When I was divorced after many years of marriage, I found myself having to learn to date again. I got dates easily enough but when I started off too nice or brought flowers I never saw them again. I eventually gave up trying to be nice and just acted like I could take the woman or leave her. I rarely called back the next day, or I waited until she called me. I wouldn't contact her for days and the women seemed to be more interested. I was treated better and got more return dates after I developed an attitude of disinterest. Women seem to want what they can't have and if it is too easy, you're no longer of interest to them.

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