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TearsAreCool

Joined: 6/16/2006

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After Marriage She is in Horror -- 1968 Posted: 9/13/2007 5:41:07 PM
You seem like a good kid. Could you write to me personally. I've been waiting for a post to pull me away from my forums sabbatical. Jackpot.

tearsarecool

Joined: 6/16/2006

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How important is a pic for the profile? Posted: 3/11/2007 1:42:05 PM
Very important. I am willing to reply to exchange emails/messages with a woman without a pic, but until/unless I see a pic (and it's a pic that I consider to be of an attractive woman) it's not at the same priority level. I don't email women on my own very often here, and I almost never initiate contact with women that don't have a pic.

TearsAreCool

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When you read long term... Posted: 2/14/2007 12:43:00 AM
I am not entirely closed to having a long term relationship with the right person (the "right person" part is, naturally, the tricky part)... but when I see "Long Term" it gets me a bit jumpy. I don't date anyone for any other reason than to get to know them and to look to have a mutually agreeable time or series of experiences. While "Long Term" can mean different things to different people, I see "Long Term" and I think that the person is looking for a husband or will want to be excusive after 3-5 dates, and that's planning too far ahead for me right now.

TearsAreCool

Joined: 6/16/2006

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serious question for only women Posted: 2/6/2007 9:49:19 PM
I've never felt an incredibly urgent need to inhale in the middle of a sentence I was reading. Until this thread.

TearsAreCool

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First Messages Posted: 2/6/2007 9:47:17 PM
So dont call her honey and dont sign it Love Ya, when you dont even know her. Excellent point, sweetums. Forever yours, TearsAreCool

TearsAreCool

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What if your just a chicken @#*t? Posted: 2/6/2007 9:42:52 PM
I'm not a girl, but I was (and kinda still am) in a similar situation to you... long-time gf/marriage/sheltered existence, and then brought into the "real world" with few or no skills or defenses to cope with meeting women. Experience is key. Take yourself out of your "comfort zone" and don't get discouraged in a systematic way... meaning expect to be disappointed occasionally, but don't go into any conversation expecting to be disappointed and don't let disappointment stop you from future conversation.

TearsAreCool

Joined: 6/16/2006

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Why are women hipercritical? Posted: 2/6/2007 9:38:25 PM
What is "hipercritical"? Do you mean "hypocritical"? Or "hypercritical"? I can't tell from the body of your post.

TearsAreCool

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Why won't you let me quit? Posted: 2/6/2007 9:33:47 PM
I don't drink, but I don't seek out other teetotallers... I think that it's entirely normal and healthy for a person to drink socially, and if I restricted myself to other non-drinkers, I'd be reducing my potential dating pool to very few women, indeed. With that said, while I can imagine being surprised at a woman who doesn't drink (and therefore I might ask some of the questions the OP is asked), I can't see myself ever pressuring her to drink.

TearsAreCool

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Where has the art of writing gone? Posted: 2/6/2007 9:28:37 PM
Where a 14 year old could easilly read and understand, just the same as an adult. And it does make sence, inthe process however you will be cutting out alot of big words,...but then again...alot of people use them just to "sound" intelligent. And some of us use them because "big words" aren't always direct synonyms with words a 14 year old can understand. Many more-complicated words can convey different shades of feelings and can make implications that simpler words cannot. They also change the cadence of sentences and can provide texture to writing. Writing for 14 year-olds isn't necessarily a bad thing, and being able to write at multiple levels is certainly challenging. But in the VAST majority of my life I have little or no interest in communicating with 14 year-olds, and I have little or no interest in dumbing down my writing for people with the education level or patience of children.

TearsAreCool

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Cute or Hot? Posted: 2/3/2007 2:59:39 AM
Cute, in my world view, is very, very good. I call women that I find attractive who have some sort of spark to them "cute". I tend not to use "hot" except in rather intimate settings. This might sound like some sort of feminist position, but I try not to objectify women (especially ones I know and like) and "hot" seems to be speaking too much to them as sexual objects for me to use it casually. Plus, it feels... uninspired as a compliment. I've called women beautiful, as well, but very, very few (I can count them on one hand). To me, "beautiful" is about the highest compliment I can pay to a woman's looks, and I don't want to cheapen it by using it with every female that I find to be nice looking.

TearsAreCool

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why cant he come Posted: 2/3/2007 2:09:27 AM
I agree with the mutual masturbation thing. Both in this particular instance and as a general proposition. One time someone asked me how to prepare a turkey to keep it moist and I suggested mutual masturbation. Not only was it entirely unrelated but, now that I think of it, it was kinda fowl. Ah, fun with homophones. Um, yeah. I need to sleep now...

TearsAreCool

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How to Meet Guys at Church Posted: 2/3/2007 2:02:34 AM
Meeting people at church--or through church--seems like a good idea to me. Especially for people who consider their faith integral to who they are and what they want in a partner, a shared church probably is a reasonable indicator that they're on the same page there. Now, if someone like me started going to chuch to meet chicks... that'd be ****ed up. But if they're already plugged into the church scene, that's different.

TearsAreCool

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Where has the art of writing gone? Posted: 2/2/2007 9:34:31 PM
There's certainly an area somewhere between chatspeak and Chaucer (see what I did there? A bit of alliteration (and see what I'm doing here? I'm pointing out that I KNOW I'm spoiling whatever cleverness I showed by highlighting that alliteration)) that I think many readers would appreciate... why don't people go there? In the writer? A lack of talent, a lack of discipline, and a lack of patience. Also, probably an awareness of a lack of discipline, a lack of patience, and a lack of discernment on the part of the vast majority of readers. In other words, supply and demand are as important as anything.

TearsAreCool

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What have you heard? Posted: 2/2/2007 9:10:38 PM
Oh! Oh! Oh! Pick me! OK. Now that I've got the floor, I've got a couple. These are BOTH from the last two weeks. I really don't know what they were thinking. Hi. I am bored:(. You said you are funny. Make me laugh clown. That was the entire message. I hope she was drunk when she typed that. Second one? Ok so I don't remember you being such a major dork on your profile She had another sentence about how she thought dorks were cute, but... it was too late. My face contorted and my loins girded and there was no ameliorating the damage that was done. :) I get the occasional "Hi wanna chat?" emails, and I find those hard to reply to (although I try to get to everyone)... a flat "no" seems so mean. But the answer is almost invariably "no" if that's all that a chick can entice me with as an opening salvo.

TearsAreCool

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Do you girls actually read profiles? Posted: 2/2/2007 9:00:40 PM
As for me, I read profiles. I stop reading if they're filled with LOLs, run on sentences, and general douchebaggery. This is pretty consistent with the results of my rather extensive studies. In response, I've decided to go with several specific items of douchebaggery, rather than the general approach in the previous iterations of my profile...

TearsAreCool

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Women's idea of a recently divorced man? Posted: 2/2/2007 8:35:03 PM
Not a woman, but IMO: -- don't bring it up. Don't lie, and answer questions if asked. But don't bring up your marriage, or your ex- or your past with her (good stuff OR bad stuff) -- when answering questions, don't be detailed. Or, if you're detailed, don't be verbose. At least in MY experience, I wasn't aware of how much I was talking about the whole situation until I was told after the fact Once you get to know a woman more, these rules can be relaxed a BIT... but, really, nobody wins when you talk about your divorce except insofar as basic curiousity is filled.

TearsAreCool

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he has admitted to liking someone else.... Posted: 1/30/2007 3:11:30 PM
I know lots of guys that would love to have a girl like this. I could hear it now... "it's ok, honey, you go explore your feelings for your friend thats a girl... yes, it's ok if you sleep together... I just want you to be happy..." I think that "explore things with her" means "get the **** out of my life", rather than "go see how it works out and I'll take you back in if you want."

TearsAreCool

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Some of us don't want sex: we want love... Posted: 1/30/2007 12:30:48 PM
I don't understand why anyone would be so quick to pity women for being smart, as the OP does. ("...I can only pity them like I would a child who doesn't understand how to ride a bike, falls, and gives up biking for life rather than trying until success...". More than a little condescending.) The fact is that there are a LOT of guys out there who are total *holes. Some of those holes are handsome, and some of them are charming, and some of them are smart. They are willing and able of taking advantage (intellectually and otherwise) of a woman who takes things at face value. As a guy who is not an hole (or at least my *holedness is stated up front, when it occurs), I cannot and DO not worry about the guard that almost every woman keeps (and MUST keep) up. It's part of who they are and part of how they protect themselves. Asking or expecting a woman to lower that guard altogether is asking or expecting too much until/unless the relationship becomes very, very serious.

TearsAreCool

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what do you think of the Viewed Me section Posted: 1/30/2007 11:38:20 AM
The one thing I want to know is that if you look at someone's profile more than once, does it keep showing up that I looked again? I really don't wanna look like a stalker. As one who has mastered, at many levels, the art of stalking: I do NOT believe that multiple views show up. Unless no one has, since the inception of the feature, looked at my page after someone else has. Which I suppose is possible.

TearsAreCool

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why are we always compared to your exes? Posted: 1/30/2007 9:58:37 AM
Well, you are like her. You have tattoos and she has tattoos. Of course, presumably you both have vaginas, as well, but hopefully he's able to get over that similiarity and date another woman. Guys sometimes get slammed for keeping their feelings bottled up, but then when they say something they often get slammed for that, too. The dude has some baggage, but assuming he really doesn't like tattoos... should he not mention it? Or should he be honest as a way to open up?

TearsAreCool

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guys....what's with this??? Posted: 1/29/2007 5:03:03 PM
I currently have a few pics of me smiling (although all but one are into a Web cam, and I haven't mastered the art of smiling a real smile into a Web cam just yet). But I try to mix it up a bit by posting some pictures of myself looking goofy in other ways, too. I don't have a motorcyle or pictures of myself base jumping so I have to make do...

TearsAreCool

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Is dating outside of your race TABOO??? Posted: 1/29/2007 4:55:33 PM
but i do have a weakness for sheep.. That's baaaaaaad.

TearsAreCool

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Is it a culture thing or just a changing world? Posted: 1/28/2007 10:15:33 AM
There's not more lying now. There's always been lying. We just weren't around to see it and feel indignant that others aren't as upright and ethical as we, personally, are.

TearsAreCool

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Why do you have to end the friendship? Posted: 1/28/2007 2:52:41 AM
Well, there are two ways to "end a friendship" here that I can see: -- established friendship, one person wants more. Other person is unsure, and so the friendship ends because the asymmetry is too painful/awkward. -- new friendship, one person holding back from becoming more. Other person moves on. It sounds like you're talking about the latter case, OP. Some guys aren't going on dates looking for friends... they're looking for women to sleep with and/or have more than friendship relationships with. While it's pleasant to think of a world where no one can have enough friends, the fact is that some people already have plenty of friends, and if the person they're dating isn't willing to be anything more than it's easiest (and perhaps best) for them to move onto someone else.

TearsAreCool

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So I got stood up... Posted: 1/28/2007 2:49:12 AM
Allow me to add to the chorus of comments that indicate he is, at minimum, a flake... and probably closer to "***hole" status. Even if he got cold feet, he could have taken 3 minutes to email you, saying "I'm sorry. I can't make it. I don't think we should communicate any more." But people, including some guys, can be noncommunicative SOBs.

TearsAreCool

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Girls and TXTSPK Posted: 1/26/2007 10:28:56 AM
Improper English while berating another person for their lack of linguistic skills is somewhat ironic in my world view, as my definition of irony is - What about improper English when commenting on someone's grammar while berating others? Or, since I think you probably wanted to use a colon instead of a hyphen to introduce your definition of "irony", what about a grammar error in calling something ironic that someone used improper English when commenting on someone's grammar while berating others? Obviously, it's all metacriticism at this point. Jasmine said, in essence, "Don't throw stones if you live in a glass house." If someone who lived in a glass house cannot give that advice, then the advice can never properly be given. I find no irony inherent in someone giving that advice as a general matter, and so I disagree that her post was ironic.

TearsAreCool

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Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/25/2007 8:57:00 PM
I've never had that happen with a roommate, but I would have almost without hesitation said that I would have found it hot to overhear that... But I had a recent experience where I could hear some homeless people having sex in the alley outside my place. I couldn't really tell them to get a room, but it was DISTINCTLY unhot. Eek.

TearsAreCool

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An erotic story, nothing more Posted: 1/25/2007 1:06:34 PM
I move that all suggestions on this story made by lypiphera to JasmineKai be done in a public place. Or at least cc me on any email.

TearsAreCool

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Girls and TXTSPK Posted: 1/24/2007 6:11:34 PM
1n7@n37 380~!cS! 943@R t3h 1n7@n37 380~!cS! Wow. Does that say "Internet ebonics! Hate the internet ebonics!"? Something like that? I'm curious...

TearsAreCool

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F*ckbuddy question Posted: 1/24/2007 12:49:27 PM
If he likes **ing you on Saturday nights, he might really like **ing you on an occasional Wednesday, too. Unless he's got other things (work, travel, a needy dalmation) that keeps him from seeing you during the week. Or you seem to be escalating things emotionally and he's not down with that.

TearsAreCool

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Girls and TXTSPK Posted: 1/24/2007 12:34:38 PM
Sometimes it is easier, quicker and cheaper to actually call the person rather than send however many text messages. The use is different. Phone calls are more disruptive to send (not that sending a txt can't be distracting, but it CAN be done more discreetly than talking into a phone). SMS txts are like email in that they accumulate for the recipient and can be sent to multiple recipients at once. It's hard to argue with the statement that SOMETIMES it's easier and quicker and cheaper to call, rather than txt. But that statement doesn't render txts worthless. And I have to say that I find most people who use text speak tend to be from the Chav community. I don't know what the "Chav community" is. I looked it up, but even with urbandictionary.com it's not clear to me. (Edit: I love wikipedia. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chav . I think I understand now, although I can't speak to the accuracy of the quote, above.)

TearsAreCool

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Girls and TXTSPK Posted: 1/24/2007 12:30:00 PM
Please re-read my post! I am asking what the increased cost is that warrants the use of text speak in a letter i.e. correspondence. The kind you put in an envelope and send somewhere - hence the reference to paper and ink. Sorry. I misread that part of your post!

TearsAreCool

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Girls and TXTSPK Posted: 1/24/2007 12:04:57 PM
What increased cost is there in a letter... unless we're thinking about paper and printer ink. What use when posting/Im'ing... maybe to reduce wear and tear to the keyboard? There is a 160 character limit to SMS. Many phones break a longer sent message into multiple messages (or "pages") but some simply cut off the message. And, depending on one's service plan, additional messages can cost the sender and/or recipient additional money.

TearsAreCool

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Girls and TXTSPK Posted: 1/24/2007 11:49:14 AM
What prompted some idiot to decide "da" was an appropriate abbreviation for "the", Been becomes "bin", that and then becomes "dat and den". Sorry... have to chime in here a bit more. The point of the lingo is to (a) reduce the number of characters, and (b) speed up the entry time. (There is a cultural "(c)", of course, involving intentionally different spelling... maybe that's the real issue you have with it.) Like it or not, "d" is the closest we have to a single letter for "th". Similarly, "bin" IS how most Americans say "been"... we just don't say "bean" :) "Yoofs" saves a letter over "youths" and is closer phonetically than "yoots" or "youds"... and the double "o" is faster to enter than the "ou". If it makes you feel better, pronounce the "i" in "bin" like a long "e"... actually, I think that lingo would be less annoying if the naysayers wouldn't read it literally, but would instead decode it into "real" words. With ALL of this said: I prefer to keep it to txt messages. Email or even on IM? I find it a bit annoying. (And, honestly, I tend to txt in complete words, proper punctuation, and good grammar. I can't help myself!)

TearsAreCool

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money Posted: 1/24/2007 11:39:59 AM
One account. When I was married, I trusted my wife more than anyone else on the planet. If I couldn't share my money with her, then I really couldn't trust more important things with her, either. Even though the marriage ended up not working out, it wasn't because of a lack of trust. It had nothing to do with money... we were able to disentangle our finances without any problem. If/when I marry again, I still don't want to be in a position where we don't each trust one another to put our finances in a shared state.

TearsAreCool

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If she gave you biracial children? Posted: 1/24/2007 11:35:31 AM
As others have said: the only way I'd be upset if she "gave" me biracial children is if both of us were white. That would be a bad situation, I'd think. Race barely even registers for me, and if I were having a child with someone who's not white it's absolutely ridiculous to think that I would worry about our child having "non-white" features.

TearsAreCool

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Lapdances.... Posted: 1/24/2007 11:12:36 AM
Talking about how to lapdance is a bit like humming an algebra equation... sometimes you just need to see it. With that being said, I'll chime in with what others have said with this: get close, but don't touch except in non-sexual ways (leg rub occasionally, or putting your arm against a shoulder as you get your other bits and pieces close to him). Keep his hands at his sides. I'm sure that there are people who are far more qualified (in giving and receiving) as far as lapdances go, but the atypical distribution of power is one of the keys... just as much as the actual movements or what you're wearing. Actually, it's a typical distribution of power (look but don't touch for the guys), but the woman is more overt in her teasing. :)

TearsAreCool

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Girls and TXTSPK Posted: 1/24/2007 11:05:38 AM
I'm embarrassed for my country! I am, too. The UK has long been a point of personal shame for me, in spite of the fact that I've never been there. Now that I've done my daily Brit-bashing, I will say that there is a REASON for the txtspk, and that reason is the limited number of characters that a txt message allows. &, of corS, dat I hav so mNE ****es 2 txt & so ltl tym.

TearsAreCool

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Caring about appearance vs. high maintenance Posted: 1/23/2007 6:37:40 PM
I care how a woman looks, but I don't really care how she gets there. If she wants to spend money on weekly pedicure? Good for her. Doesn't matter to me one way or the other.

TearsAreCool

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Why Don't guys understand Just Friends Posted: 1/23/2007 4:09:18 PM
You know what it is... I am Lonely I need adult conversations I need to get out of the house. I have spent at least 10 years living through other people (spouse and kids) I am trying to figure out who I am because I didn't exist outside of my family I had no friends and no interests that were my own I had no opinion and no voice. I am lonely not for sex or love but for companionship for conversation. This might seem weird, but you might want to consider being friends with women right now. Many men have difficult times being friends with (especially unattached) women under the best of circumstances, and a woman who's so clearly alone and in need of assistance? It might not be right, but it's totally predictable that many guys would get feelings mixed up over you.

TearsAreCool

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Do some guys think that being a metro is a positive? Posted: 1/23/2007 3:25:00 PM
1500tc sheets. Read it and weep.

TearsAreCool

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when you see married? Posted: 1/23/2007 2:57:47 PM
I would not date nor have any sort of more-than-friendly contact with a married woman on this site or anywhere else. Unless I'm married to her. Then I'd make an exception, perhaps. As to what I think? I don't don't know her and I certainly won't judge her. But I try to do what I think is right for me, and that's NOT getting involved with woman married to someone else.

TearsAreCool

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Why would a man say maybe if you ask him out? Posted: 1/23/2007 2:33:34 PM
Maybe can mean a lot of things... as others have said: maybe he's already got plans, and he's seeing if he can get out of them. Or maybe he's hoping to get off of work. Or maybe his cousin is in town and he either does or doesn't want to get stuck with him. The company party IS particularly tough, too... surrounded by strangers that a date knows in a semi-professional atmosphere? It could weird some people out.

TearsAreCool

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Obama's Muslim background Posted: 1/23/2007 1:11:01 PM
Radical Muslims want to kill all non-muslims, not just apostates. Reasonable Muslims are just that--reasonable. I don't see the issue. That's not accurate. Well, it might be that you don't see the issue... or difference between how the Koran views infidel (kafir) and apostate (murtadd). Of course, there IS such a difference, whether you see it or not. Both in the Koran and in common sense (absence of acceptance is different than rejection). The Koran, understandably, treats them differently.

TearsAreCool

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He's a loving Christian with me, But just found out he bedding my friend Posted: 1/21/2007 10:35:18 PM
That sucks. But let it go. Don't waste more mental or emotional energy on the jerk than you already have.

TearsAreCool

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Is it really a good idea to be yourself''? Posted: 1/21/2007 10:32:43 PM
Everyone should "be himself/herself"... but let's be real here. When we post pics of ourselves on our profile, we TEND to post ones that we think are good (except for people like me... for some reason I keep putting up pics of myself that make me look like I have Down Syndrome). When we date someone, especially at first, we need to put our best foot forward. We need to try just a BIT harder to be nice and to be polite and to be "good". Do we need to fake it? Not exactly. But we do, IMO, need to be ourselves just a little bit better, because the expectation is that everyone's going to be doing that on the first dates, and if someone is "just" themselves, they risk being discounted by first dates inflation normalization. OK. This post is especially jam-packed with hot air. My apologies. I need some sleep...

TearsAreCool

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Guys, would you watch the game with your gf? Posted: 1/21/2007 10:27:43 PM
Has anyone answered "yes" yet? Because my answer is "yes".

TearsAreCool

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Would You Help An Ex In Need? Posted: 1/18/2007 3:40:49 PM
My ex-wife and I don't communicate that much anymore, but if she called me for help with an emergency, I'd do everything I could to help her. I know she wouldn't call me unless she simply couldn't handle it herself, and I would hate to not help her out in that situation. Would I ask her for help? I can't really see it. Of course, she would probably say the same thing about asking me for help :)

TearsAreCool

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Damn it Posted: 1/17/2007 4:04:03 PM
Age has little to do with anything you know... That's nonsense. People who have less experience act differently than those with lots of it. Younger people tend to have less experience than older people. Maturity is something that happens over time, and the odds of a 22 year-old being immature are higher than, say, a 42 year-old. Does it mean that all younger people are immature? Of course not. Does it mean that all immature people are ***holes (like this guy appears to be)? Certainly not. Ignoring age as any sort of factor, though, doesn't seem realistic. Even if it's not a determinative one, it's a likely explanation at least in part.

TearsAreCool

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Tell me why bringing up sexual topics is disrespectful Posted: 1/16/2007 9:00:35 AM
I don't find it offensive. I find it insulting to my intelligence. Do you honestly think I'm not going to see through the line of BS? Yes... ? Oh, wait. No. I mean, No. Yeah, "No." With most women, it takes at least 10 minutes of conversation before I start discussing my giant ****. If a chick's particularly hot sometimes I accelerate things a bit.

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