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 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 146 (view)
 
No dating on a dating site
Posted: 11/11/2007 1:12:55 AM
Gosh dragon said in message 4 .........Besides, I am talking about the people on here who never want to meet in person, not the people who go to bars to hang out and party. That is not dating.


Ghost dragon is soooooooo0oo right


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Would you have an impressive Love Resume?
Posted: 8/10/2007 3:26:41 PM
I disagree about the past is the past. because if you don't learn about a persons past then ..... (or learn from your past to)

1. you don't know what your getting yourself in to.

2. if you don't learn from your past then your doomed to repeat history

how ever i go a step futher and learn from other peoples past/mistakes so I don't make the same ones

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 34 (view)
 
oh that privacy thing again
Posted: 7/28/2007 1:50:22 PM
First off race fan......

described committed relationship........ is it marriage? live in ? or casual sex?
because your if it's the second 2 then that's your 1st mistake right there...

2nd if you agreed to it and it was not a marriage then you have no right to spy on you mate or whatever this person is to you...... that is called invading his privacy...... let's turn the tables ...... if the oppositte situation was happening would you want him to go thru your numbers? I am betting the odds that the answer is no. I don't think you would want him to invade yor privacy

end of story...... next question please

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Ultimate Guy Question!
Posted: 7/13/2007 2:21:11 PM
Scorpio

it's not being a control freak it's called keeping your private life private....... after all she has the same respect from me keeping things private. I would expect the same in return.

If my partner can't understand that then she obviously is not the right partner.

end of story

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
what college?
Posted: 7/13/2007 1:04:57 AM
just wondering........

what college did you go to or cuurently are going to?

I have 3 I went to.

Mr. I



ignoe this here below............................................................................................
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Are you willing to start over if that someone has changed
Posted: 7/13/2007 12:23:43 AM
I know if one of my exs came to me and asked me for a 2nd chance ..........

(on the outside) I would say hit the road you had your chance....... but on the inside it would be hurting me allot to let her go........

but once a cheater always a cheater .......why? she broke that 100% trust I gave her.... even if she did change there will still be doubts in my gut wondering if she is going to do it again.

So in order to skip all that I would hve to say Sorry hun but we triedthat road already.

I am a firm believer once the trust is gone you can never gain it all back.

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Ultimate Guy Question!
Posted: 7/12/2007 11:46:46 PM
Jackie:

Would it be embarassing? I don't know since I have not gone through it. But what my point (from earlier) is .....

there are certain topics (As I perceive it.) SEX, MONEY, and other private issues that should be kept in between the couple and not for everyones ears or mouths (for gossip) Because it is nobody's business but the couple's.

I was also taught .... the less people know about you the better......

Finally, I would also expect it of my spouse, mate or Girlfriend to keep her mouth shut about the business that goes on in between the sheets or other private isssues. Why? Common curtosity ...... I don't tell anybody any of that business

let me repeat..... I don't tell anybody our business or any peices of our business..... I don't tell any family member , no best friend no confidant......
Why? because it's not their business

Since I don't tell anyone anything about our personal business I would expect the same from her to (nothing more nothing less as me).

Jackie does she have a right to talk about her problem ? yes....she does but only with the mate, spouse or BF not with the whole freakin world.

If she has a problem with the mate or bf then she should be talking to the bf about and not anyone else..... it's called communication in the relationship......

I am a person who prefers myself and one woman in a relationship
NOT myself one gf and a gf's friend(or more).

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Ultimate Guy Question!
Posted: 7/12/2007 12:41:06 PM
that is nobody's business outside the couple ..... and if either person in the couple talked about it to other people...... then obviously that person does not know how to keep their mouth shut and keep things private in betwwen the 2 of them....... it would make me rethink about the person (and relationship) who I am currently going with

mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
As a couple how do you .............
Posted: 7/10/2007 11:00:45 PM
Hey fut

It sounds like this problem has been rattleing around in your gut...... If you don't have any means or factual reasons to call her or ask her about it...... then sit back watch her carefully and see what happens ...

I was taught that people let there gaurd down when they think they are not being watched.......I am not saying spy on her but watch her reactions, how she says things whether if she leaves important details out watch her body language to.... that is a big key remember humans communicate 85-95% via body language......

I have also learned (from my mentor " life experience") that if it's you go with your gut feeling..... remeber when you took thosemultiple choice test back in school.... and you had the questions that you were not 100% sure of the answer? It was down to 2 choices.... for me it was going with the gut feeling for the final answer.
while remember just because you left school does not mean your done being tested...... keep using that gut feeling answer to give you the answers in the "school of hard knox"

Finally if it really bothers you.... talk to her about it..... if she blows it off like it's not that important even though it is to you. Just make sure she knows it's important)
but if she blows it off ..... then obviously she is not the one for you....... dump her like a hot potato.

there are plenty of fish out there.

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Is there an editor out there?
Posted: 7/10/2007 10:31:11 PM
Nik

forget what others are saying...... the longer the better....... it gives the men an insight of how you are and what you are looking for..... that is if they decide to go beyond the pics.

I am impressed...... you mean to say there are actually woman out there who are looking for true gentleman? your a dying breed........ You actually dress like a lady for the specfic occassion? wow where have you been hiding......

The reason why you are not getting responses is because there are very few availble "Gentleman" "We are hard to find just like the true "Classy lady" is hard to find.

Final conclusion about your profile....... be patient and keep your profile just the way it is...... Don't change one word.

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Why is everything so personal?
Posted: 7/3/2007 10:00:40 PM
Niki


Well its true...... there are worst things in life then being cussed at.... how would you like to diagnosed with cancer and there is no cure except death? or better yet how about alzhiemer's disease and you lose al of your memory.........

Now those are definitely worst than being cussed at........... my point ...... being cussed at in the whole skeem of things in life is abosoluty nothing when you could have other problems.

So with that just suck it up and move on. end of story.

oh and Mr. I does not wonder at all........... since it does not bother me (why? because I take my own advice ... I just suck it up and accept it)


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 106 (view)
 
ARE MEN AFRAID OF A STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN?
Posted: 7/3/2007 5:59:49 PM
Jackie

There is nothing wrong with being a strong indepenant lady........ but the part that scare allotof us away is the attitude of those strong independant ladies.

it's all in the attitude and flexibility I have met allot of ladies who are strong and independant but they were also witches..... I will take the 1st part defintely.... its the 2nd part that I will not tolerate.


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Would you have an impressive Love Resume?
Posted: 7/3/2007 5:46:54 PM
so what else would you put on your resume.....?

here are some thoughts how far a woman can spit...
or how fast you she can ...well never mind

besure to add some references and phone numbers to see what your past lovers would say......so what else am I missing?

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Is your favorite color is the key to your sexual life?
Posted: 7/3/2007 5:40:01 PM
You see folks it just not pink.... its that real hot bright looking pink LOLOL

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Is your favorite color is the key to your sexual life?
Posted: 7/3/2007 5:32:41 PM
My color is pink LOLOL
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
nudie bars
Posted: 7/3/2007 5:30:45 PM
no people tell me how you really feel about the topic

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Bar pickup lines/ hook ups?
Posted: 7/3/2007 5:27:26 PM
Yet I did meet 2 woman and GFs in church.

mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Bar pickup lines/ hook ups?
Posted: 7/3/2007 2:01:18 PM
Forget the bars woman are on the highest level of defense in Bars or pubs so your percentages are higher that you will be turned down pick up line or no pick up line.

The best place to go for meeting or in your case picking up woman are churches, cooking class, dance class, anotherwards places where woman are the majority and not the minority....... you have a better chance of meeting and choosing. But don't be suprised if they turn you down to.

because if you ask 100 woman out only 5 will say yes and keep the date. It's all about percentages man.

As for the pick up lines forget them all you will get is a slap in the face or a kick in the nuts

just be yourself and sooner or later you will find the one that likes you for you.


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 128 (view)
 
Your Favorite Christmas Song in July
Posted: 7/3/2007 1:52:49 PM
It's still Grandma got run over by a reindeer

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Why is everything so personal?
Posted: 7/3/2007 1:31:44 PM
Jade ...... just suck it up and move on there are worst things in life than being cussed at.


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Why is everything so personal?
Posted: 7/3/2007 1:29:37 PM

lol, my profile is soooo looooooooooooooooooong i should have a copyright on it and have it published.


wow pony girl you profile is long...longer than your hair I bet LOL
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 98 (view)
 
ARE MEN AFRAID OF A STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN?
Posted: 7/3/2007 1:21:17 PM
Ok since you ladies think you know everything then chew on this one for a while and then you might understand the male genders persspective better.


Why are woman afraid of independant men? Men who can earn a decent living....men who treat the lady right men who don't spunge off the woman
men who have hobbies, is busy with work yet willing to spend time with his lady
A male who is well rounded has plenty of friends (outside of the internet and drinking)
Men who are not control freaks .......
men who are not SOBs

anyways you get the picture....... lets hear some answers ladies

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Afraid of the sex?
Posted: 7/3/2007 1:00:57 PM
Read my answer to the alien about sexand that is my answer here to.
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 57 (view)
 
How do you weed out the crazies and find normal girls?
Posted: 6/29/2007 7:51:52 PM
no jules there are not any normal guys.... because if we were we would not go out you crazy ladies


mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
How do you weed out the crazies and find normal girls?
Posted: 6/28/2007 12:40:54 PM
ryan

The answer is vervy simple........ take it from someone who has learned the hard way...

how do I weed out the crazy and normal girls........... the answer is there is no normal girl they are all crazy you just have to choose wisely.


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
what's the most important thing?
Posted: 6/21/2007 8:30:45 PM
My professor said the most imporant thing was ...... Who was driving the bus


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
What ringtone is on your phone?
Posted: 6/21/2007 8:28:29 PM
phone? ringtone? what are they?
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Do you talk to yourself?
Posted: 6/21/2007 8:25:47 PM
No I don't. Yes you no I don't Yes you do No I dont Yes you do NO I DON'T YES YOU DO
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 41 (view)
 
If an alien kidnapped you, how would you explain sex in one sentence?
Posted: 6/21/2007 8:22:20 PM
I would say

leave earth while you can and before you had sex because it drives you to be a complete weird ignoramous go go while you still can.


why I say this is because I have met many people who have turn into ignorant weirdo after they have had sex with their partners ....... mostly my friends and people who I only know as aquintances.


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Would you have an impressive Love Resume?
Posted: 6/21/2007 8:17:41 PM
They say that resumes are suppose to sell you to get an interview....... I honestly can say I would have a very good (sellable) love resume if you want the facts and only the facts......

Facts
1. no skeletons in my closet
2 straight male
3. no ex wife
4. no kids from another marrage or affair
5. straight woman- no (bis) need apply
6. a male who learned from his past love mistakes
7. a gentleman

there is more but I will stop here and wait to tell more in the interview since a resume is only sppose to get the foot in the door the real selling process is during the date/interview.

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 51 (view)
 
ACCEPTING THE SINGLE LIFE
Posted: 6/21/2007 4:54:20 PM
Hey the single life has and currently is enjoyable for me........It would be nice to add someone to my life but if I never do.... I won't complain about it since my life is a very good.

I am the last one who can complain about life since I have minimal responibilities.... no alimony and child support to pay..... I don't have anyone to take care of that depend on my paycheck...... I can go on vaction where I want when I want to. I have good friends and family. And the list goes on

So the single life is not good ....... it's GREAT


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Is your favorite color is the key to your sexual life?
Posted: 6/9/2007 4:20:03 PM
for me to know and you to find out or for that matter some of you to find out.

mr . i
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Guyspeak: What he says, and what he really means!
Posted: 5/12/2007 10:41:24 PM
Who say that I would not be thinknig about my gf ?........... but do I actually have to call to prove it come on jackie

mr.I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Are men the weaker of the species?
Posted: 5/12/2007 10:36:40 PM
You still dont get my point about my example the younger generations are so weak beacuse what would happen should they loose their cells their emails text messaging..... I honestly think they can't and wouldn't survive. to me if you can't survive a week with out a phone call that is weak.

if you have to talk to a love one gf or bf on a daily basis...... to me that is called needy
and untrusting (checking up on the person) because you can't go more than one day with out having him/her check in with you? that is very weak, untrusting, ball and chain and that is just a bf or gf what would you do if the person was your mate have the person hen pecked to?

If I tell you everything I did every day on a daily basis you would get bored with any guy so quick that you would throw them to the sidewalk.
plus if you heard from me everyday that would give you no imagination to play with in your mind on what I am doing. that adds up to no fun for you.

last comment it is a trust issue and a weak issue when it comes to bfs and gfs sons and duaghter don't count because they have to report in to parents.

BFS and GFS come and go family obligations, jobs, friends, and other things your life usually stay longer if you have your act together.

for me GF have to gain my respect, time and have to climb a ladder of importance because they start out as strangers then build to friends then if they continue they climb to being more important than friends but not as important family then if I marry her she is just as important as blood family. which is why I don't place much emphasis on phone calls.


mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Guyspeak: What he says, and what he really means!
Posted: 5/12/2007 9:14:21 PM
Thank you racefan I am glad to see a lady can understand where us guys are coming from.

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Are men the weaker of the species?
Posted: 5/12/2007 8:55:38 PM
Mudflap has a good point


<div class="quote">
I think the question should be are american people weaker now then they were a few genarations back..

I personally think that our younger generations are weaker I can give many examples but here is a good one that my father gave me.

My father went to the vietnam war for a year and a half and the only way (my parents)they could stay in contact was by letters. let's make this clear.... hand written letters..... at that time my mom and dad were just engaged to be married. from what my dad tells me and mom they did not fool around ....my grandma tells me that my mom turned down other guys to take her out.

Anotherwards my mom trusted my dad and viceversa...... and they could not talk on the phone every day. Unlike today they have cells and email to stay in contact on a daily basis. To me that is a sign of weakness and untrusting of the other if they have to hear from them every day like clock work.

It's just like I was telling Jackie in another thread about phones calls If you can't go more than a day without hearing from me then there is no trust

oh by the way my parents when dad came home from the war married and have been together ever since.

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Guyspeak: What he says, and what he really means!
Posted: 5/12/2007 8:35:09 PM
WEll jackie that is where you are wrong old fashioned is no excuse...... it's the truth.... if you are my woman and you can't accept it then there is the door just because I am not calling to "CHECK IN" .... If you the woman can't take it that I am a busy person that's your problem and not mine..... that is called lack of confidence in your man and in trust and if he has to check in everyday then there is already problems in that realationship..... you would have to learn how to trust the other person rather than keeping him on a daily leash

you woman don't know what you want ..... we call you to much and then you say we are hovering and crowding your spacew we give you space and then you say we don't call enough...... make up your minds for pete sake.

Anyway as I said before and I see you did not(or any woman) deny that minute phone call will turn into a 2 hour call .... in this case eddies right it's called checking up and checking in I also have another word as well for it....... "hen peck"

I see this co worker at work and every 2 hours she is calling him about something .... excuse me checking on him with an excuse.

As for a face to face there is time for that why? because it kills 2 birds with one stone.... you meet the lady and you also have breakfest , lunch, or dinner.
Now you need to understand this...... Any event in this itailian revolves around food that is how I was brought up. funerals , weddings, dates, family outings, xmas eve parties the list goes on and on. (no not mc donalds food but homemade itailian food)

mr. I



 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Compatibility Test
Posted: 5/12/2007 2:04:08 PM
Most test including this one are not worth my time or energy. they are in my humble opinon are completely useless.


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Are some people meant to be alone?
Posted: 5/12/2007 1:50:50 PM

OK, now for the unpopular part......IMO, those who use the phrase "I refuse to settle..." are displaying a mix of arrogance (as to why they are single) and stubborness/laziness (in their refusal to proactvely make positive changes to their life).


Eazk..... you are wrong on this point...... Because it is not arrogance for not settling for 2nd best....... For example myself...... I know exactly what qualities I am looking for in my ONLY LIFETIME wife to be. I will not marry someone who does not meet the qualities that is not arrogance that is knowing what you want and seeking it out.

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Are men the weaker of the species?
Posted: 5/12/2007 11:51:54 AM
I think you should go back and take the time to read the posts on this thread. MOST of the replies disagree that men are the weaker of the two genders. Including mine.

Jackie and others
thank you 4 standing us men


Crimson

I saw that jackass ad and I almost lost lunch. I am not offended or mad at you it's the idea the thought that media is putting out there


mr.i
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Guyspeak: What he says, and what he really means!
Posted: 5/12/2007 10:51:06 AM
Mr. I - but tell me that you don't have 5 minutes a day to call a woman and say 'I'm really busy but i am thinking about you and will try to get together with you soon.'




Well lets See if you want me waking you up at 4:30 in the morning then yes I have a minute to call you but then again I have never met a woman yet who lets a phone call go for a minute it usually turns into an hour. No offense but you woman can't deny that.

You see I get up at 4:30 am and am on the road by 4:45 am I have an 1.5 hour drive one way. No, I can't call while I am driving since I don't have a cell .....anyway that would be breaking the law if I used it while driving. (yes some of us obey the law) I report at 6 am and work 10 hours and have another 1.5 hours get home eat prep for bed and go to sleep for the next day. then on weekends I do overtime and my second job on sunday most of the time. If you don't believe me just ask Shinx she will agree with what I just wrote.

Also read my profile on here specifically the last paragraph. then you will understand what I am saying by my last comment "I will see what I can do."

when it comes to cell phones ... i am old-fashioned If you need to talk to me you can tell me to my face or if its that important you can leave a message on my home answering machine or you can email but most of the time you won't get a response until the weekend unless it is an ER emergency type.

maybe you do or maybe you don't remember times before cellphones and email how did you stay in contact then ..... it was face to face ... landlines... answering machines.... letters in the mail remember those days?

Also, remember to that your stress was less and people were more patient as well.


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Guyspeak: What he says, and what he really means!
Posted: 5/11/2007 4:58:08 PM
While it may be crass and candid, it's also quite true. Males in every species do think with the little head before the big one. Females have the seed, males fertilize it. Men hunt, women nest. That's just the sexual nature of the human animal and that can't be changed. Men who tell you they are not looking for sex are lying to you. Now they may CONTROL the primal urge and show respect, and that's extremely cool. But as you likely see at these beer driven POF gatherings in bars every night, just add alcohol..... So yes, men will call the easy prey first.


speak for your self eddie there may be allot of guys like that but there are actually guys out there who don't think that way and yes we are straight into woman. It's called SELF CONTROL. And yes we think with our brain and not with our di**s


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Guyspeak: What he says, and what he really means!
Posted: 5/11/2007 4:49:01 PM

You go out with someone, you know you have the “spark”, and when you give a really bold hint about making plans….. he says:

Let me see what I can do.. I have to do …. This.. and this… and this…. But we should be able to do something.

What message – if any at all - is he trying to send?

1… that he is really not that interested as you thought?
2… that he is busy but him saying he would make time is a good sign that he wants to be with you?
3… that he is playing a bit hard to get and testing the pull of attraction?
4… that he is just doing a verbal “to do list” and it really has nothing to do with any of the statements above!



did you ever think there is a spark and he is just really busy? I know myself I work close to 60 hours on a weekly basis and when I say let me see what I can do I mean it.
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Are men the weaker of the species?
Posted: 5/10/2007 6:39:25 PM
just read a poem on someone's profile about women being the deadlier of the species which I thought would be an excellent point of discussion.

Have you noticed the trend in the media (commercials and movies) where men are portrayed as spineless idiots? Especially in commercials, men are portrayed as stupid with even the children more intelligent than they are. And I do have to admit that when women get together and talk, you men don't fare too well in the conversation.

Little by little, it seems that men are losing ground in how they are portrayed as not being in control and even in their own bodily functions. Have you seen those laxative commercials where the guy's wife pushes him to take the medicine? Even in the bedroom, ladies on top has become more and more the norm at least in the movies.

For me, one thing that is exciting in ballroom dancing is that the men lead. It's a wonderful thing to experience a man taking control for those brief moments.

How about it? Do you think men are the weaker of the species or are they just letting their image go?


ok Crimson you just opened up can of worms (with me at least) ........

I did not get a chance to read all the messages on this one but I have the gist of it and since I really did not see any real person standing up for the guys I guess its my now my job as a MAN to stand up for my gender.

Speaking from one persons perspective only ........... here's how I see it.

your comment about the image of men in the media and the public eye .... I have to agree with you. I rarely watch tv shows or go to the movies anymore 1. because of lack of time and 2 because I hate watching how my gender is being knocked down in the public eye.

showing the kid as more intelligent than the father or mother for that matter make our kids in our society even have a bigger ego and gives them the idea that they can even get away with even more with out having consequences.

Ok so there are men out there who do not take responsibilities...... but if we are going to mention that people ..... let us not forget the number of woman who are just as irresponsible in taking up their share of the responsibilites. why is that only the men get mentioned when it comes to this topic? after all fair is fair.

Men have been losing ground from day one of when adam and eve were put on this earth starting with the eating of the apple and the sex topic. Only it really was not noticable until present day thanks to the tv radio/media the same media who have wusses as decisions. who think if they knock thier own gender they will make brownie point with their girlfriend/wife...... which then in turns to " oh I am gooing to get some tonight.

As everyday goes by I miss more and more the good old fashioned days and ways where a handshake was worth and good as a written contract ... where when someone says "i do" that meant for life not for kicks or for a starter wife....... where Men are men and woman are woman .... men dressed like men and woman dressed liked woman .
Where Men actually acted/ behaved / and where responsible (like men)..... but then again the same goes for the woman. where both genders took pride in themselves but also in each other......... where when you had mate they where your support system and you were their support as well. Where your mate was with you and not fighting against you to see who is the better gender where you shared the responisbilites but you also shared the fun.

I could go on and on but by now I am sure you get the point

I am basically fed up with having to fight the female to see which sex is the better gender or stronger gender and when I see a comment "which is the stronger or weaker gender"
I just want to express my comments because once again you are grouping ....

When you put me the same grooup with losers and duds I take offense since I am one of those "responsible men" Rather than grouping you need to go person by person and ask that question.... and if that is ever done I am willing to bet the house that the results will come out to being almost equal on the number of irresponsible people there are male and female.

I don't mean to sound like I am coming off half c***d but you asked the question so you got the answer.

have a good day

Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Are men the weaker of the species?
Posted: 5/8/2007 5:11:46 PM
more will be coming when i have the time but there is no contest...... i will explain later

mr i
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
ARE MEN AFRAID OF A STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN?
Posted: 5/1/2007 6:46:04 PM
Whoa there

calm down .... there are guys like myself who like independant ladies

but you also have to remember there independant and there is independant.... let me explain....

1st independant (GOOD)...... you can take care of yourself.... you have a decent steady job you enjoy working hard but you also enjoy playing hard. you can make decision for yourself and you are not hoving over a guy every minute. but yet you enjoy going out with your guy and even let him run the show for a while to...... another wards your well rounded and stable. You know when to be aggressive and when not to be.

2nd Independant you are always aggressive (which can be a turn off for some guys) You always run your mouth give your opinon think your always right you think it my way or no way another wards allot of qualities that guys dislike....

I could go on an on but I will stop here .... you just need to figure out which independant girl you are the 1st or the 2nd.


Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 101 (view)
 
What song would you dedicate to your ex?
Posted: 4/6/2007 12:46:47 AM
if I kick her to the street it will be ACHY BREAKY HEART by Billy Ray Cyrus


Mr. i



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 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
ohio
Posted: 4/6/2007 12:44:57 AM
what is your favorite things about the state of Ohio?

I know there are plenty of answers


mine.... Cleve Indians/ browns the land and people what is yours?

Mr. I

Ignore this down here......................................................................................................
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
nudie bars
Posted: 4/6/2007 12:41:01 AM
ok gang let's hear your opinons on the topic of the day.......

Nudie bars, lap dances and anything else that you would find or see in that area.

I know this should be an interesting topic.... don''t be shy ladies
Mr. I
 mr italy
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Giving and Interpreting Attraction Signals
Posted: 4/6/2007 12:32:40 AM
Oh come on DSL

I don't believe that one at all that is not being able to determine body language yeah right

Mr. I
 
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