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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: Met my first POF member today  trance731 Joined: 9/18/2004 Msg: 22 (view)   Met my first POF member today Posted: 11/25/2004 10:03:17 PM hey, Im not married!  trance731 Joined: 9/18/2004 Msg: 15 (view)   The 7 year itch and monogomy...do you think its true!? Posted: 11/25/2004 9:46:41 PM One word ALCOHOL, Chances are if there is signifigant drinking in a relationship thoughts of infadelitys will creep in. Plus drunk relationships never last, there must be substance to last, common goals ect.  trance731 Joined: 9/18/2004 Msg: 8 (view)   go out and flirt with someone today ! wink..smile Posted: 11/25/2004 9:30:26 PM Go some place like the DMV where its easy to find somthing in common to talk about, HOW F--king stupied the pepole are working there.  trance731 Joined: 9/18/2004 Msg: 9 (view)   How long does it take................. Posted: 11/25/2004 9:21:23 PM w/up dude, been there myself. 5yrs together and things never seeemed like they would get better. to tell you the truth the only real releafe i found was working on my self. I had to get healty for me and no one else. its taken 2 and a half years and i still think about her and what she may be doing but im thankful evey day that we split for it gave me a chance to really go after what i wanted in life and its become clear now that she was not the girl i would of wanted to spend the rest of my life with unless she had made some serious change to hers. So the best advice i can give ya really is just to cut all ties w/her thats when u will start to heal, at least untill your stronger because to tell ya the truth there ia nothing less attractive to a girl then a heart broken guy w/low self esteam. Also try picking out some reasons she may not of been the one for ya ,And trust me dude you will start to see the beauty in other girls soon. O yea a rule of thumb is it takes about half the time you spent together to heal from true love. Hope ya feel better T reply if u wish   Show ALL Forums