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What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 8/14/2009 1:51:04 AM
There are more people in hell than on earth, so the odds of you finding your love there are greater!

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So tired of hearing this Your true love is waiting on you Posted: 8/14/2009 1:48:14 AM
I know, I keep hearing it all the time... I joined that club a long time ago, so your not alone there buddy.

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What kind of man would do this? Posted: 8/14/2009 1:44:02 AM
I like the "ex+you" picture you got on your profile... A smily face covering his... I thought you would do some devil horns on it lol.

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Are there any girls who... Posted: 8/9/2009 12:36:25 PM
Ah finally someone who understand what I was trying to ask. Thanks for your post. Yes it is very hard to find, and I apreciate the quitting of smoking or drinking and I admire it as well. It's not that I would not relate to someone who quit those bad habits, but I was asking if there such people who did not try at all. Sort of "am I the only one?" kind of question. But yeah, I guess it is hard to find these days. I wonder if there is some website or dating network for people who are a bit... sanctimoniously boring :D

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Are there any girls who... Posted: 8/9/2009 12:05:45 PM
As for the people giving the usual "hahaha but your fat" quote, just show the immaturity you have. You don't know all aspects of the story let alone judge it. My question was simple, are there any girls who NEVER did those sort of things. I don't care about past or present or the future. Past is past, true, but if there are some people who always managed to say no, I am sure there are girls as well. I was just curious to ask, that was all, no need for the obesity bashing...

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Are there any girls who... Posted: 8/9/2009 6:08:32 AM
... never smoked, never drunk and are also atheists ? For some reason it returns as 0 results. Am I the only guy with enough willpower to never have tried drugs, smoking and drinking and who happens to be an atheist ? Weird, but it is so hard these days to find some girls that are actually conscious of their well being enough to have said no to all these things, since the beginning. Any answer is well apreciated! :)

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Do nerds actually have girlfriends? Posted: 8/9/2009 2:37:10 AM
You Sir, are not a nerd. I have never seen any respectable nerd who likes 50 Cent.

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Nice guys finish last is a sad truth... Posted: 5/18/2009 1:00:07 PM
I don't think anybody is suggesting that people who do what is right are wusses. However, a lot of "nice guys" think they're doing what is right, when what they're really doing is trying to goosestep around what is right because they're terrified of doing something to upset others. Then they talk about how nice they are because they don't directly hurt anybody without realizing that their actions actually cause a lot of indirect hurt. For example, let's say a guy meets two women at about the same time and both of them fall for him. He decides to start a relationship with one of them. Doing what is right means that he needs immediately to tell the other woman about it, sever the relationship quickly, and allow her to move on. A "nice guy" would prance around the issue and probably string her along because he's afraid of hurting her feelings. What he doesn't realize is that by not telling her straight out what is going on, he is hurting her feelings even worse. All the while, he thinks in his head how nice a guy he is because he is so considerate of her feelings. Herein lies the difference! Doing what is "right" is sometimes subjective. In the example you gave, if you met 2 friends and fell in love for one but did not express how you genuinely felt towards the other, "saving" her from the "pain", you are actually doing what is wrong. Always keep in mind here that you should ALWAYS strive to do what is the best interest for you, others around you and ALWAYS be conscious that directly or indirectly the consequences that might bring. Yes, that requires a lot of reflection and yes that is not achievable at all times, but you must strive to. It is such a long way to actually change how you do things and how you think, that most people have an invisible barrier in front of them not allowing them to see and think this far. But trust me, it is achievable and this is exactly what I have been trying to do all my life. And I am happy that I can say that my conscience is clear in what I do. Though we can never be perfect, there is also something of a "percentage" of perfection, you can have a higher or low level of it. It is complex to explain, but I am happy to know some people who think like this and I can only wish I meet a female thinking likewise. So to the OP, do what is right, but also do it in every aspect, not only when it is convenient for you. Much love and peace to everyone!

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Nice guys finish last is a sad truth... Posted: 5/17/2009 11:10:40 AM
So you said that nice guys are "approval seekers" ? I think we ought to understand first the definition of a "nice guy". I won't describe what to me is a nice guy, I have my own definition. I just hope you idiots stop portraiting people who do what is right to do, as being a "wuss". Some people in this thread needs some serious time to reflect.

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Nice guys finish last is a sad truth... Posted: 5/16/2009 2:18:45 PM
It is the sad truth, girls are attracted to the worst possible characters. My advice is, try to be happy alone. I did it, so can you.

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Ever feel like your going to be alone forever? Posted: 10/10/2008 1:27:33 PM
I think I will. I am too good to be true, and that scares all the girls.

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/5/2008 1:33:43 AM
What if people google a picture and post there ?

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Are there any men looking for true love for a lifetime? Posted: 10/4/2008 12:03:20 PM
I am every day. :)o

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all guys wants from me is sex.. but not a relationship... why is that? Posted: 10/4/2008 11:59:30 AM
Do this: No sex until they hit 1 year with you. See how many will get that far.

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Why do so many teenagers get pregnant? Posted: 9/30/2008 1:17:11 PM
Because they cannot keep their knees close. In other words: lack of intelligence, self-respect and bad upbringing in general. Oh, and dont come up with the excuse they dont know what a condom is, these kids these days know more than my parents ffs.

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How do you kill your emotions? Posted: 9/25/2008 1:45:08 PM
You kill your emotions and you will never be able to love again. So dont do it.

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The happy guy within me is dead... Posted: 9/24/2008 11:11:20 PM
"So is it my fault that I let her in my heart way too much.." QFT. :( Your not alone there.

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Why do guys always want to be friends with me Posted: 9/24/2008 10:57:24 PM
I could ask the same question for girls. My advice would be to stay single as hard as it is and let someone come through. Because if you go after, you will only hit a hard wall... :( Happens to me all the time.

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A 1st for me; anyone had this happen? Posted: 9/22/2008 11:45:22 AM
If he misses you as much as you miss him, he would find even a 1 minute break to text you back. Those types of excuses are generally a bad sign. :( I wish any girl would be "clingy" with me, the feeling of having someone caring and thinking about you all the time must just be thrilling. How can people despite that ? Good luck there! :)

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How often per week is a normal sex life? Posted: 8/23/2008 5:41:00 AM
1 in 24 years, I feel proud of myself! :)

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no sexual advances Posted: 8/19/2008 4:24:46 PM
My consistent respect for women always tend me to be placed in the friends area. Will I change ? No. I think respect is important in all levels. But if she gives me the hints of being "frisky", ohhh yeah! RAWWR! lol

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Re: Why do some men act interested, then pull back? Posted: 8/18/2008 8:47:55 AM
Hey MzSomebody", pardon me if its just monday, but I did not understand what you mean... If what you meant was that if I would end the correspondence with the girl if she just saw me as friend, of course I would never do that. :) As I said, they are now my very good friends, and I have no regret at all that it went that way. Though I am still to understand why I pass to the "friend" status so damn quick... Hm... Please explain more :)

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Re: Why do some men act interested, then pull back? Posted: 8/18/2008 3:56:56 AM
I would ask this same question to women... But then again, my experience of them "pulling back" on me is that they now are my very good friends... It is a curse really.

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Single and happy: Open questions. Posted: 8/17/2008 3:22:20 PM
Thanks for the replies and insights. I have some things to add though, maybe due to a bad/different choice of words on my first post. Ok, I am not alone per se. I have a wonderful family and a big bunch of friends that are there for me. Though I am happy the way it is, I feel that I could "ADD" to my life, another level of happiness that a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship can offer. I am sure most of you would know how to distinguish this step up on the happiness ladder, and that is exactly what I want in my life. As for what " Its Better Together" said, yes I am happy and yes I am single because of circumstances. The circumstance is somewhat simple, I have not found yet a person who can see through the heart. And as you said, my "bigness" is not my excuse not for wanting a relationship (quite the contrary) but it is most certainly a shield, a barrier that it is hard for girls to overcome. I am quite happy as I am, though the problem arises when "potential girlfriends" do not see me as a "potential boyfriend" but as friend only... This is somewhat buggering me because I do not know how to create the barrier, I am 100% friendly from the start and because of my way of doing and saying things, they then consider me a good friend. Now, I have noticed that it is their way of giving me the hints that they are not "physically" connected with me, and this saddens me alot. How can I be warm enough to be friendly, yet cold as a stranger to give them the feeling I want more than friendship ? On the other hand, should I really worry/think about this or you think the more we try to find, the more it slips away from us ? Thanks everyone!

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Single and happy: Open questions. Posted: 8/17/2008 8:24:58 AM
Who else is still feeling single and happy ? Got any life experience to share ? Thanks for the replies!

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Why is a great person like you single? Posted: 8/17/2008 2:25:24 AM
I would say because of my body type. Girls do not like cuddly guys. Appart from that, I have managed to learn, polish and constantly improve my character to the point that when a girl finds me, she will have a treasure on her hands, my heart. It is a matter of time now. :)

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Use of LOL - Ever mean it? Posted: 8/17/2008 2:13:27 AM
I now use "kek" or "bur". I am clean now though...

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What's with the hatred of video games? Posted: 8/16/2008 4:49:14 PM
People who play Second Life play it because their first life is boring. Simple.

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Are Scientists too Selfish? Posted: 8/16/2008 11:29:23 AM
Couldn't have put myself better "The philosophygirl". It is outrageous that these people are getting paid to entertain the masses of idiots this world has came to breed. If I had the power to, I would change rules and bend backwards to make sure that professionals in the area of medicine, science, etc... Would be the ones receiving incentive and heavy funding! I have to breathe now, this subject takes me out of seriousness really... it is so unfair! Maybe we should start a revolution!

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What's with the hatred of video games? Posted: 8/16/2008 11:20:46 AM
I still think that Quake 3 was my first and only love... The evening doing trickstyle jumps... The grenade jump perfectioning... The rocket jump/boost fest... Oh, these were the good days!

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Is being an intellectual no longer attractive ? Posted: 8/16/2008 11:12:53 AM
These days here, the feeling I get from a given number of random people I normally speak to and befriend are that yes, intellectual individuals are at a very low attractivity level. Female friends talk to me that, we are "boring" and that we do not deliver the thrill that let's say, a bad boy/idiot delivers. Plus, one of my dearest friends confessed to me that girls like to feel a bit superior, so if she finds one that has an IQ higher than her's, she might be put off if he decides to randomly talk about something and she has no opinion due to her lack of culture/intelligence. I dont know, I find this weird, but that was what she said to me... And thats why I say: SUPPORT BACTERIA! It is the only culture some people have!

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female nerds Posted: 8/15/2008 11:32:47 PM
Humans are strange, cannot compute!

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Do you still have faith in love? Posted: 8/15/2008 3:37:21 PM
I believe in Love! I love myself, I love my family and friends, and I most certainly will embrace and love my future lover. So with that in mind, I know I am not the only one in the world thinking like that, and the very thought that I am not unique on this makes me know that out there my true love awaits.

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Is it ok for a 38 year old to still use a baseball cap ? Posted: 8/15/2008 6:26:47 AM
To clear some facts, he uses not for professional purposes or "sport" preference, but purely to look young and cool. Having those into account, is it acceptable ? What you all women out there, would think if you dated a guy that wear a cap on a date for example ?

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Is it ok for a 38 year old to still use a baseball cap ? Posted: 8/14/2008 3:03:35 PM
Well as the question basically say, is it ok for a mature 38 year old individual still use a baseball cap to "look young" ? This is actually a question for a friend, so he would like as many opinions as possible. Girls and guys alike too! Let us know what you think about of a guy that age that still uses a cap for vanity reasons as an everyday item to cover his bald head/gray bits.

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Are Scientists too Selfish? Posted: 8/14/2008 2:45:34 PM
Selfish is the football industry/players earning money that should have been going to research for years!

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would guys date a female cop? Posted: 8/14/2008 2:40:25 PM
If she could do a "blind eye" on my collection of pirat.... oh sh1t!

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Adam & Eve & the snake Posted: 8/14/2008 2:33:00 PM
I think the question should even be: Why the hell did god had to put an evil snake in there ? That is like placing a ferocious wolf in your childrens playground, and hope they have the discernment to either think it is a cute puppy or just run back inside home. The joy of the bible nonsense.

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Rape victims compensation cut because they had been drinking Posted: 8/14/2008 12:48:27 PM
Can you imagine the amount of problems that would be solved by people not drinking at all ? Stay safe, stay sober. That will make your brain cells live long and prosper!

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Attracted to same body type as your own???? Posted: 8/14/2008 12:25:40 PM
That is so Darwinian, Renaissance Man 1950. But well put. Indeed some of it are instinct and some by trial and error. But what you said there, is the correct state without any circumstancial side effects. In other words, that would be the state without the media's finger, without the magazine's touch, etc... Youth (and some adults) today, have such distorted views of reality that what they think is atractive is not from their male/female species instinct of "survival of the fittest" but from norms that were imbued to them by society. Clear example of this would be self-induced anorexic teenagers and those younglings already having face lifts and boob jobs. I mean, seriously, what the hell ? lol PS: Oh and MagicalMary, who would be fool to miss you there huh ? ;) You deserve a hug! hugs

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Attracted to same body type as your own???? Posted: 8/14/2008 2:07:57 AM
If your mind had control over your matter, you would choose mind over matter on the person you love. I guess most of you have to define a body type and say: "Hey, that attracts me!". But what is exactly your concept of attraction ? Where did it come from ? If it came from somewhere else, is that really your opinion ? Stop, think and clear your mind of biased judgements you have intrinsically on it. /m3lt

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Whats the longest you have waited Posted: 8/12/2008 6:32:53 AM
25 years and counting!

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What name do you call it? Posted: 8/12/2008 6:27:32 AM
Billy Sastard!

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Why Do Men Overlook Good Women? Posted: 8/12/2008 5:53:45 AM
Attraction is in your eyes. Eyes can deceive. Deceipt is what you get when you let your eyes speak louder than your heart. Mind over matter is what is all about, and if you find someone good, even if you are not visually attracted, I would say go for it, because in the long term you might find what wonderful person you would have missed if you had given the last word to your eyes. And remember, physical attraction is all in your mind, and that, you can change. ;) Good luck there in your future endeavours.

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ETHNIC ATTRACTION... Posted: 8/8/2008 1:27:16 AM
You all need to learn what is the difference between "PREJUDICE" and "DISCRIMINATION". Prejudice are your ideals or preferences as for a particular race or single out a particular race. This applies to gender, sexual orientation, etc... Discrimination is when you turn those ideals of preferences into actions. Anyways, I dont have any ethnic attraction, whatever hits the net is certainly a fish! LOL

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Pray at the Pump? Does God Really Care about the Mundane? Posted: 7/29/2008 2:19:37 PM
Hell-el'u yah!

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Death of a 24 yr Marriage Posted: 7/28/2008 3:14:54 AM
Was it WoW you played ?

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Strap-on dildo Posted: 7/25/2008 12:23:43 AM
A basic MAN rule for those who like to be called MALE should be that on that hole, its a one way exit only! Personally so it should be with women as I dont see the fun in doing it there, but some ladies like it as some men like it... oh well

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Proposal of Marriage!! Posted: 7/23/2008 3:49:00 PM
By text message! "Oh hai der! Can I haz ur babeiz ? kktnx"

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Thatcher - Dead? Posted: 7/22/2008 12:17:53 AM
We need someone like her to tackle these knife crimes in London. Seriously guys, if I was in charge though, I'd put every single freaking youth that has done a criminal offense in a permanent criminal list, put them to do hard labour and then send them home straight. They are too soft with these people these days... "Kids and youth" my bloody arse, they very well know what they are doing.

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