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First, they kill the IM and now they are frezzing me in time...  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 1 (view)   Age Profile Rollover Posted: 8/7/2009 1:42:36 PM Anyone on here have the same problem that I am with POF not updating your age on your profile when it goes past your B-DAY?  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 583 (view)   Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By 3rd party Vendor Posted: 6/5/2009 1:40:28 PM Absolutely, we need to make an e-petition demading a new IM be added to POF....  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 9 (view)   POF Halloween Party - November 1st At Payton's in Aurora! Posted: 10/20/2008 7:30:26 PM Anyone know what band is playing that night?  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 190 (view)   Why are women attracted to musicians? Posted: 12/10/2007 7:25:52 AM Don't forget us guitar players are really good with our fingers...  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 79 (view)   Are men more attracted to women that play hard to get? Posted: 11/30/2007 7:35:29 AM "But it all comes down to the man who pursues you. In the end, even if you think about him a million times a day, if he doesn't call - he doesn't wan't you. He's not too busy, he's not involved in work, he isn't having family problems - he does not want you. If he calls, he wants you. And if he calls again - return his call. :) " Except that you are describing mutual effort by those involved. The original example is that of the guy making all the effort and the woman playing hard to get by showing no effort. All people you end up dating pursue you since they would have to show effort to do so. Playing hard to get is a game for insecure people who feel attended to by the pursuit of the other or they simply don't know what they want. Who in their right mind would risk scaring away someone they are interested in if they know what they want and that person is it?  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 70 (view)   Are men more attracted to women that play hard to get? Posted: 11/29/2007 7:39:03 PM Nah, I make my interest known and if a girl plays hard to get I am gone. You shouldn't have to WORK to get to know someone. You either know what want or you don't....  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 359 (view)   Dating Someone With A High IQ Posted: 11/20/2007 8:11:52 AM "Wow and I thought I was special! This is the same crap I got when I disagreed with him.. Just changed a few words...lol" You are special...little yellow school bus special.... "I guess it's like Einstein! Every suit he owned was the same. That way he wasted no time to figure out what he should where that day.. Time and thought saving yes! Yet so unoriginal" Even more unoriginal is how you fail to refute the arguments put forth in this thread just like you did in the other thread. That suit you mention must be really comfortable, but dirty since at least mine is clean and CONSISTENT. Yes, objective reason is still a struggle for you. Should I post the same post from the previous thread that will predict your response? Here, let's work your "reasoning" into our analogy since this should show according to you the crap that exists: Me: "Two + Too = Four" Teacher: "learn to spell if you are going to BS" Me: "So it doesn't equal four?" Belly: "Ahhh, he said the same thing before in the other class I was in" Me: "Ok, so it really doesn't eqaul four now?" "~Belly~" Hmmmm......Me thinks Belly thinks with his Belly too much. Best to stops your belly achin "I have met many with an extremely high IQ, yet dumb as a door knob.. Helpyourself2 understanding what that means....lol " Yes, better still is when the door knob thinks it knows a high IQ when someone turns it........only door knobs would think Einstein's consistent fashion wear would regulate his thinking to being invalid since logic iself is based on the uniform element of universalism in it's application....your feet must be bloody raw appendages from all the chewing you do on them....you know you can't claim disability from self inflicted wounds....  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 275 (view)   Play dumb ladies, Don't show how smart u really are, you might get a man that way. Posted: 11/20/2007 7:46:15 AM Smart women who can arouse your intellect with dialogue is the equivalent of good foreplay. Ladies, don't EVER dumb your self down for a guy or anyone for that matter. If you find a guy who can't handle it then you have found a control freak riddled with insecurities or they are simply slow to the draw on your mental faculties....  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 342 (view)   Dating Someone With A High IQ Posted: 11/16/2007 9:11:22 PM "Looks like canhelpu read a book...try Dissonance , intelligence, etc ..If you are going to BS , try to learn to spell ....' Sorry, some of us were working and have just enough time to type and post. Hmm, don't see a spellchecker on here either. Also, when did misspelling automatically make an argument BS? Note, it's usually the ones that can't refute the argument that reach for the rhetorical grab bag and spill it's contents..... Let's try your preposition in an analogy here: Me: "Two + Too = Four" Teacher: "learn to spell if you are going to BS" Me: "So it doesn't equal four?" Better still is how your reply actually shows the theory of dissonance......way to play it's mascot by putting on the uniform....  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 328 (view)   Dating Someone With A High IQ Posted: 11/16/2007 11:59:48 AM This is correct since there are varying types of inteligence. One of those types is introspection/metacognition, which we atrribute to a high emotional IQ. The ability to examine your own thoughts in compare and contrast to others is what defines it. A higher IQ usually has a spill over effect in that supports at least an average to above average likely hood of a higher emotional IQ even though this is not a gurantee in all situations. Also, the other side of the fence must be considered here too when looking at an average IQ person involved with a higher IQ person. There are probably a good chance that the average person may not comprehend the higher person due to cognizant dissonace and different schemtic mindsets forming counscious state parameters.  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 320 (view)   Dating Someone With A High IQ Posted: 11/16/2007 9:19:05 AM I love smart women since intellectual dialogue to me is a form of foreplay. So no intimidation here....... if anything I would encourage you to never dumb yourself down ever.  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 318 (view)   Dating Someone With A High IQ Posted: 11/16/2007 8:16:24 AM There is a vast difference between an intellectual and someone with a high IQ. Most psychology recognizes 8 different kinds of intelligence....  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 36 (view)   Should a guy be up front about his desires to be a cuckold or wait till later to confess it? Posted: 11/12/2007 10:45:54 AM The only problem with this is that women may actually not mind your fetish, but I have a feeling many woudl not be honest for fear of being judged early on so they may so "no" and actually be open to it. Many women fear being judged, disrespected, or think they are being tested by the guy to see if she is off center and thus more likely to act out. Many of those women later on might express their openess to it once they feel thy can be sincere and not worry about the aforementioned possibilities.  canhelpu2 Joined: 6/21/2006 Msg: 54 (view)   why do nice guys finish last? Posted: 6/21/2006 6:44:50 PM Simple, nice people are appeasers, they do anything to not rock the boat. People don't realise you can be kind and not sell yourself out to stop "rocking the boat" By being kind you keep your intgerity and sense of actualized self while not being a floormat to make others happy ....   Show ALL Forums