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 Author Thread: Another profile for the critiques
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Another profile for the critiques
Posted: 5/19/2009 10:22:37 PM
Wow, I swore the first edit was good but now it looks even better, much thanks!


I dont like it cuz it sems yur tring to be a bad az


Heck, really? I must have been doing something very wrong for it to come off that way to someone, lol. Seriously, I just like to have fun in life. The gym and hockey are just things I enjoy and have fun doing. Taking my own personal health a lot more seriously considering I used to be a lot more scrawny at 160lbs, so improving my strength became a goal in my life. Still the same person as always though.
Hope it doesn't seem that way now though! (never heard of a bad az nice guy before >.> well, unless it's a good thing, but that could be deceiving lol)
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Another profile for the critiques
Posted: 5/19/2009 7:20:56 PM
Ok, so i've changed up a lot of the stuff based on what's been pointed out, and rewrote some other parts all together to give it a bit of a better feel to it. So, let's just consider this the 'Good Copy' for now and go from there. Anything to say on how it is now?
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Another profile for the critiques
Posted: 5/18/2009 6:12:21 PM
I've probably made more changes to my profile than I can count, so I think I should just let everyone else pick it apart so I can keep something for longer than a week. Some of the things i've done, were just from reading some tips on the forums to improve it, but it just doesn't feel like it really hits the head on the nail. I'll keep up-to-date on responses as best possible and answer any questions.
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 84 (view)
 
is it easier for a homely woman to get laid?
Posted: 5/17/2009 2:19:02 AM
Gonna have to go with the 'unable to answer question' as it all comes down to how assertive a woman may be and how confident the man approaching them is. If they got a lower self esteem, let's assume mid-range, they will approach a more average looking woman (the homely one?) and put in a good effort and get the booty. Now, if you go in guns'a'blazin' and aim for that hot firecracker tearin' it up on the dance floor, then it goes to them.
Too many variables to consider, but I don't think it's any easier for one woman than another (there are homely... errr, can that be used as a description for guys too? lol).
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 332 (view)
 
Circumcised vs Un-Circumcised...
Posted: 5/17/2009 1:55:34 AM
I grew up thinking only jewish people were circumcised and felt terribly sorry for them because it was forced on them. Alas, what can you do about it?
All it comes down to is having better personal hygiene. Whether you're circumcised or not, if you don't clean yourself properly, you're gonna get -something- methinks, lol. Also, it seems like plenty of men decided to get a circumcision as an adult. With that being said, doing it to them as a baby takes away that choice completely (but then again, it's less traumatic at that age...)
Meh, I just can't stand the idea.
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
any ideas for masturbation ?
Posted: 5/17/2009 1:46:25 AM
Watch porn while you're masturbating... Speeds up the process me-thinks.
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Why are intimate encounters EVIL?
Posted: 5/17/2009 1:41:13 AM

Personally, I think that thos blocking people who have messaged poeple seeking intimate encounters are very foolish.

Just because I have messaged people who are looking for intimate encounters doesn't mean that's all I am after, and in fact I have never gone after someone strictly for sex. The truth is, I most of the time don't even look at what the other person is looking for, I contact them based on whether I like the way they look and if their profile displays a measure of intelligence or not.

There are a lot of people who have missed out on hearing from a great guy because they have short-sightedly (if well-meaningly) blocked messages from me.

I can understand blocking people who have listed that they personally a looking for intimate encounters, that obviously leaves little doubt as to what they are about, but again blocking people who have simply emailed someone who is is very silly.


Amen to that. And i'm not even religious, go figure. All I have to say to that is that people change over time, and what might have seemed like a fun idea then just isn't as appealing because they are interested in something more serious now.
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 787 (view)
 
Introduce Yourself Here....
Posted: 5/17/2009 1:04:17 AM
Yo, the name's Kevin. Half Canadian, Half Ukrainian but born in Canada. Lived in PoCo all my life and am big into hockey and going to the gym to work out (the gym being a more recent thing). So this is pretty much a hey to everybody out there.
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 88 (view)
 
And here is another one...
Posted: 5/14/2009 11:03:53 PM

I say both because

i want something to insert my penis into (her butt)
and while im inserting/exerting my penis (in her butt)
i also want something to grab on to (her boobs)
while im inserting my penis (in her butt)

Too brutally honest? TUFF CRAP!!


Best post in entire thread, lol.

Looking at it from an objective point of view, they are both very similar to each other in the first place so it would be difficult to pick one over the other (making my choice both, much like the quote above). Boob cleavage, ass cleavage, titty ****, ass ****. It's all good.
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
European men vs North American
Posted: 5/14/2009 10:43:23 PM
Maybe it should be European Men vs. American Men vs. Canadian Men since there seems to be an agreement among the women who've posted about Canuck beefcake being great, lmao. Good times.
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Loosing that last 20-25 pounds
Posted: 5/14/2009 10:21:59 PM
Plyometrics!
Muscle Confusion!
A lot of the things people have already recommended sound good though. Maybe even take some spinning classes and work on some more core exercises. I'm actually kind of curious as to what your workout routine looks like so myself, and anybody else can get a better picture of what you do -in- the gym and could suggest some other exercises.
Squats, Leg Press, Leg Curls, Russian Twists, Decline Sit-ups w/weights, Leg Raises, Lunges... For cardio exercises, do something at around 65% of your max heart rate. Options are limitless, just gotta put them into motion. Interested in how HIIT is working out for you so far as well.
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Food Pyramid
Posted: 5/14/2009 10:06:49 PM
Food pyramid -

Just eat smarter and exercise on a regular basis.
Here's something you might enjoy reading, there's a lot of great information here - http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=492749
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
ALLI Diet pills
Posted: 5/14/2009 9:54:50 PM
What might be a better option would be to do a purge on your body and eat natural foods that will make you go to the bathroom a lot more and just clean out your system. Just going off the top of my head from what I remember someone else I worked with doing, but all she had for two weeks was the same drink with a mix of a variety of different ingredients and drank it whenever she felt hungry. One of the main ingredients were cayenne peppers. She felt pretty fine throughout the whole process, but by the end, she ended up losing 10lbs. Another thing to keep in mind though, was that afterwards, she had to wean herself into eating more regular foods by starting with soups, and so forth until her stomach would be able to handle something normal again.
In another case, my brother-in-law did something similar for a week (he's already in good shape though), but was just very selective with the foods he ate and made sure that everything he ate was going towards the same purpose. I'm sure there's a variety of diets similar to those that you could find and just try out that could make you feel much better (cleanse is the word i'm looking for!).

Lastly, could always just eat smarter and do exercises that keep your heart rate at about 65% of your max HR for fat burning purposes. A good 45 minutes each time would be ideal and burn a lot of calories.
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 185 (view)
 
Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/14/2009 6:11:57 PM
Only started reading a bit of the thread, but I just felt compelled to say that different clothing other than lingerie could be a turn-on for a guy. I think it would be awesome to see the person i'm about to sleep with come in wearing nothing but my hockey jersey. Mmmmm, sexy. Lol. Well, a clean, home-team jersey that hasn't been worn at a game is probably better though, but it's the thought that counts.
Thoughhhhhh, for me, I love seeing a girl wearing heels, stockings, garter, and maybe even a bodice. For the most part, I would just want her to leave on the stockings though in the end, real sexy and sleek. Preferably with make-up on and such, like after a romantic dinner or something.
 Kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 325 (view)
 
Circumcised vs Un-Circumcised...
Posted: 5/14/2009 2:45:02 PM
personally, I'm uncut and wouldn't have it any other way. When getting hard, it's kinda like 'peek-a-boo!' lol
Also, I think it would be easier to keep clean since the skin is covering the head from rubbing against your underwear all day and in the shower just gotta pull back the skin and wash, voilà, done. I always thought -only- Jews did it for the longest time and felt sorry for them. *shrug*
 Kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Brainiacs Better in Bed-- what say you?
Posted: 5/14/2009 1:01:49 PM
the show 'Manswers' says yes to the posed question. 'Smart' girls are freaks in the sheets.
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 190 (view)
 
Why Can Women Critic Women but Men cannot critic Men on Appearence/Sex Appeal?
Posted: 5/13/2009 9:53:21 PM
I work out at the gym, and there's a fine line (a VERY fine line) with what kind of things a person can say that are appropriate to another guy. From what I can gather, you're complimenting strangers that you aren't even working out with, and it could come off as being rather inappropriate to a lot of people or gay like many of the others in this thread have said.
Personally, if i'm gonna say anything, it would be to my workout partner if i'm spotting them and telling them things like, "****ing awesome pump man, keep ripping that **** up." "You absolutely annihilated that set." "It's all you man, Go, Go, GO!" Just motivational stuff to really force them to put in that extra effort and get that last forced rep or something. For the most part though, if I were to say, "You're arms look ****ing awesome man, keep up the good work" i'm doing so in jest and coming off casually. It's a boost to the ego and it lets you keep that mental edge in the gym, because you know you're gonna be looking at yourself already in the mirrors most likely admiring your own results.
Otherwise, if I were takling to a stranger and I wanted to get results like them, I wouldn't say, "Hey, nice glutes, what kind of exercises do you do?" I would ask more generally, "Hey man, what kind of workout program do you do for your lower body? Got any tips I could use to improve my own results?" I'm there to learn and get better in the gym, not admire what they have when i'm focused on improving myself.
To top it all off, more often then not, me and my workout buddy are checking out the T&A on the hot babes working out at the gym with us. I mean, SERIOUSLY! The hourglass figures and toned abs, the tight clothes, it just screams SEXY! Real bloody distraction when you're trying to stay on a roll though. Maybe you should really rethink how you go about things if you are straight, though to be honest, some women prefer compliments on their body and not just their personality. Scenario, they used to be overweight and have been working out for half a year and got a killer body now. You tell them that they got... Great legs, or abs, or both. They are going to be happy about that because they really worked at getting those results. It all depends on the environment. If you don't like women who share the same interest as you (working out), that just seems kind of weird to me, but who am I to judge? *shrug*
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Are most guys only into one night stands?
Posted: 5/13/2009 9:29:04 PM
Personally, I believe in a consenting one-night-stand. Put it out in the open before she 'opens up'. Could really spare any of the drama that might entail. Otherwise, if such a thing isn't brought up before, i'd just casually ask whether or not she wants to see me again (if staying over night, I would take that as a... 'better' sign) since if it happened in a drunken stupor, it could end up being one of those 'what the hell...' nights, and you both just go your own way after without much care. Depends on the situation, but in the end, I prefer honesty. If we click on the first night, yeah, I would love to go out again.
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 273 (view)
 
Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 5/13/2009 9:10:49 PM


Do men really like submissive women?

Actually in my experience not many men do. Or at least not my kind of submission. Many men identifying as dominant seem to want a "challenge", not a "doormat". They want to best a women. They want a woman who will challenge their power, compete with them, endeavor escape so that they can experience over and over again winning the match -- only then will they value the woman's surrender.

Me? I'm a doormat. I seek to serve as support for him and do not seek to best him. I will not compete with him. I prefer he compete in the outside world. He has much on his plate in that arena and it's in my own best interest that he win against real foes, not his sex partner. My role is to welcome him, be intimate with him, empower him, not challenge him.

Am I passive? Absolutely. However this does not mean I lack passion. For those who can't hear the words they use, passion and passive are derivations of the same word which, by the way, means to suffer. So yes I am passive and I do enjoy a fair bit of suffering and am wildly passionate.

Honestly I get so tired of all the ruckus about how assertive and strong submissive people are. It's obviously sourced in shame, no two ways about it.

I am so much more pleased with myself, content, unafraid and confident when I allow myself to be passive than when I'm making some kind of an uproar about something.

Why? Because I know I'm being true to myself.

When "I am woman, hear me roar" starts escaping from me like some kind of noxious gas I know I'm afraid of something and as a result, lying.

It's that behavior that I'm ashamed of and passivity and submission in which I take pride and contentment.


Very well put.

As for my opinion on submissive women, it all really comes down to a whim at the end of it all. Sometimes, being passionate with a woman who treats sex in a manner such as the one described above is a real turn-on. On other nights, maybe you're in the mood for a 'fight' and want to challenge your partner for that dominance and force her into submission, making the sex more aggressive.
I also believe that some men may feel more uncomfortable with a partner who is more aggressive in bed because they are challenging their role as the one in charge and need to find that woman who will submit to them in order to boost their ego. It's all a matter of whether they can handle the intensity of it, or if it even turns them on in the first place.
In the end, I would rather go for a variety of different exchanges; One night it might be more suitable after a romantic dinner to have the woman be more submissive, where-in after that helluvah party at the bar could turn into a rather fiery, clawing, biting ass-whipping romp in the sheets as soon as you're through the front door, lol. It all comes down to the mood of the moment for me. But, to answer the question of the thread, I would say: "Yes." Seeing as it doesn't mean they don't like other types of women in bed as well.
 kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 116 (view)
 
are virgins a turn off??
Posted: 5/13/2009 8:58:17 PM
...Personally, when approaching a virgin, I think it depends on their personality a lot more. I think what most guys are turned off from when it comes to virgins is if the ones they have met, or been with for that matter are really shy and timid when it comes to 'giving it up' and popping the cherry. Another girl could be really excited about the idea of having her first time and just be completely revved up about it and has even gone so far as to watch and learn all they can by looking at porn and masturbating a lot. Those ones (despite being virgins) could be a freak in the bed for their first time. It just depends on how they approach it mentally. Who knows, maybe they'll just give it all up and give you their anal virginity as well. It's a toss-up, every girls different (though, those extremes I mentioned are probably more unlikely, lol).
Someone else in this thread ended up suggesting quite simply, "don't be a log." -THAT- is just plain boring. There are girls who could have screwed hundreds of guys (again, exaggerating) and are too damned lazy to do anything other than open their legs and let themselves get plowed. The ones who are just turned off by the simple fact that they are a virgin aren't paying enough attention to the whole picture probably. Can't remember where I saw it, but another person also brought up the fact that his girlfriend or partner or whatever was a virgin when they first met, but after a while, they started having great sex because she was willing to learn. There's another big factor. If you're only interested in the one-night stand, sure, maybe the virgin thing may be a turn-off, but in the long run, you could have something between the two of you that's special.
To conclude, there's too many factors to consider, but meeting a virgin is no big deal (unless you're keeping track on your cherry-popping counter, lol). Could go on, but I feel like i'm rambling at this point.
 Kms_19
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 152 (view)
 
Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 5/13/2009 4:58:30 PM

The overwhelming response is that the 'younger' women are too much into drama for the sake of drama itself


I could agree with that being the typical response, but another one that I think may have been overlooked is chasing an older woman simply out of curiosity for personal reasons such as experience and how they might respond differently in bed and/or relationship.
Personally, I would go out with an older woman but make it clear from the start that it's short term and nothing too personal. Whether it ends up being one week or two years, during that time I'd still want to be able to -meet- other girls closer to my age for the chance to start a more serious relationship. I'd want to grow up with my partner for the long run, not skip half their life. Those immature girls -will- mature (typically). There's still immature older women out there as well. Will probably say more on this later, but it's a... Different way of looking at a relationship with the famed cougar.
 
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