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 Author Thread: Absurd Questions
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Absurd Questions
Posted: 1/5/2007 3:33:49 AM
lmao no u lick toads 2 get high
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
protecting loved ones
Posted: 1/5/2007 3:28:55 AM
both good advice, thanku. we were actually gonna start kick boxing together. i have and always have had the attitude that if anyone hurts or tries/threatens to hurt my family or friends then i would intervine, it's just instinct to me, it would feel wrong not to.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
protecting loved ones
Posted: 1/5/2007 2:52:44 AM
hi, i just wondered what any of u would do if your younger sibling was being bullied?
basically my 17 yr old sister was being picked on at college by her ex's new girlfriend. the ex had been playing them off against each other and sh*t stirring, generally making things a lot worse. the girl ended up cornering my sister with a big group of her mates and threatening to smash her face in. my sister had told her ex she wanted nothing more to do with him but he joined the same course as her and is in her class so she's unable to get away from him completely, she's been so stressed out over the whole thing and cos she's just started there she doesn't know many people and doesn't really have anyone to back her up. she's ended up not eating properly and dropping down to about 6 1/2 stone and is constantly dreading going to college. i decided enough was enough and contacted this girl by email and basically told her to leave her alone. she gave me the usual mouth, which i expected, but in the end agreed that she would leave her alone. i then spoke to my sisters mum who told me to back off if she was to come out of this with any self worth at all. i explained that i didn't want to speak to her but felt i had to to protect her. i feel for my sister the same as i do for my 5 yr old son, she's my baby and i would go to any length to protect her. did i do the right thing?
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 31 (view)
 
What does Jesus Christ recommend concerning our sexual conduct?
Posted: 9/11/2006 6:33:20 PM
i am respectful of peoples beliefs, but to be honest whether you're religious or not, shouldn't it be about what you think and how you feel? sex is one of the most natural things on earth and it is, after all, what we are here for. we are here to keep the human race going, and if there was a "jesus christ" then i don't think for a second that he never experimented when he was alive, it's human nature to be curious about ourselves and others, and experimenting no matter whether you're married first or not, doesn't make it any less "pure". you wouldn't think a tree to be dirty for just being what it is would you? or if you see two dogs going at it you're more likely to laugh rather than start quoting from the bible about how they're gonna go to hell.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 726 (view)
 
Compatiblity by Sign
Posted: 9/1/2006 12:05:39 AM
your best bets are...taurus, gemini, cancer, virgo, capricorn, pisces and aries.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
anyone know this guy?
Posted: 8/31/2006 11:56:11 PM
hunni, he's not worth your energy. yes it's so easy for others to say isn't it? but it's true. we've all been there, he doesn't deserve your thoughts and he doesn't deserve your anger.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Why do guys LIKE to torture girls?
Posted: 8/31/2006 11:51:33 PM
because most of them are complete tossas. boys are stupid, throw rocks at them.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Why are some men so heartless?
Posted: 8/31/2006 4:48:06 PM
god that's awful, i'm so sorry he did that to you. not everyone is like that, i think after what he did there'l always be that doubt in the back of your mind, no matter how small, until the next guy proves it to be wrong. there's nothing you can really do to make yourself get over him, it just takes time but it will happen. you're bound to think it's something you've done, i think even though we know better we all think that from time to time. to be honest, the fact that you're already asking "how do i feel better and realise that i'm better off without him", tells me that you have realised that. it's his loss not yours, i know it's easy for others to say but i bet at some point you have felt like this before, and you're still here aren't you? remember how much pain you felt then and that you probably thought you'd never want anyone else, but you did, you're heart's been broken which is awful but you're still here. show him what you're made of and get out there with your mates and have some girly fun! no matter how unhappy you feel, you can always count on your friends.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Thought it was goin good.
Posted: 8/31/2006 4:30:03 PM
i know it's shite but you will start to feel better. i fall in love very easily and had my heart broken 3 times this year!! it feels like your world has ended for a while, but as you have less contact with the person it starts to hurt less and less. you'll get there x
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 32 (view)
 
what should i a guy do to look more attractive to ladies
Posted: 8/2/2006 2:53:35 AM
confidence.even if you have to fake it, i did and it really does get you a long way. but not arrogance. arrogance is ugly.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 90 (view)
 
pretty and rude make you ugly
Posted: 8/1/2006 12:56:55 AM
i don't understand why anyone would do this. it is rude. even if you are not physically attracted to someone, it doesn't mean you can't talk to them. looks aren't everything. and even if you did talk to someone you didn't fancy, it doesn't mean it has to go any further than just a friendly chat.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Am I a prude?
Posted: 8/1/2006 12:49:47 AM
just because you're not into that it doesn't make you a prude. i think generally men think all women find "cyber sex" a big turn on, sometimes it is, but it's also nice to get to know the person aswell as what they like. it could be that he wasn't sure what to say and he finds sex an easy subject. it doesn't necessarily mean he isn't a nice guy, he might have thought that was what you wanted, if other women that he's spoken to were into that. i would explain that it's not really your thing and see what his reaction is. just say that it makes you feel uncomfortable as you don't really know each other that well and you would rather get to know him, maybe meet up and go from there. anyway, the real fun in finding out what each other are into is in the practical, not so much the theory.
at least if you explain to him how you feel then you will find out if he's genuinely interested in you and not just your body.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Does this happen to any other girls?
Posted: 8/1/2006 12:28:03 AM
lol im so glad it isnt just me!! if someone is too rough or touches me in a certain way then the whole of my legs shake! theres nothing i can do about it, it just doesnt stop which has me in fits lol
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Do you girls find it rude when guys check out cleavages while you are bending ?
Posted: 8/1/2006 12:23:38 AM
no i dont think so, personally i would find it flattering, if a little amusing lol
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 93 (view)
 
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 7/6/2006 1:28:16 PM
i think the most important thing in life is your own happiness. this might sound selfish but you have to live your life and live it your way, no-one else is going to live it for you. isn't it better to make a few mistakes and regret things you've done rather than regret things you haven't but wish you had done? even bad experienes give you something good. live each day as if it were your last.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
aaaaaaaaaaaagh
Posted: 7/3/2006 2:10:07 AM
yeah i see what you're saying, but he's 29 and has a career. it's no excuse to mess me about like that, i wouldn't do it.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 148 (view)
 
How many women suck their own nipples?
Posted: 7/3/2006 2:06:54 AM
lol i can but that's cos my boobs are abnormally large
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 74 (view)
 
IS THERE LOVE AFTER TWO ABUSIVE MARRIGES?
Posted: 7/3/2006 1:16:27 AM
yes of course. i was with someone very abusive for about 18 months, i never thought things would get better and at the time i didn't think i could live without him. it's taken a long time to pull myself together, but 7 1/2 years later i feel so much better than i ever did and i don't give it a second thought now. you've survived it twice, you've got that far when a lot of people would've given up. that just goes to show you're strong and you've got what it takes.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
aaaaaaaaaaaagh
Posted: 7/3/2006 1:08:55 AM
yeah, but why tell me he loves me? what's the point? he didn't have to f**k with my head
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
why do people get mad at honesty?
Posted: 7/3/2006 1:04:46 AM
it's not that honesty is bad, but i think you should be tactful about it especially if it's quite personal like someones weight. yes of course if someone's big they're aware of that but it doesn't mean they want to be called a fat cow. there's nicer ways to put it while still being honest.
 pisces83
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
aaaaaaaaaaaagh
Posted: 7/3/2006 12:55:25 AM
i met this guy on here, we exchanged email and phone numbers and we got on really well. everything kind of moved very quickly and he said he loved me and wanted to be with me, it's not really like me but i found i felt the same way. however, i haven't heard from him for a while despite sending a couple of emails, and he's been on msn a couple of times but when i talk to him on there he hasn't replied and then gone offline. i decided to look at his profile on here and even though he's changed it to just looking for friends it also says he's looking for an intimate encounter with a woman. a bit confused by this i did something a bit sneaky and went on here as someone else, just to see if he really was looking for other women. i sent him a message and today he replied. my message was something along the lines of does he want to show a girl a good time, and his reply said "u never know". now i don't know what to do, i don't know if i should see how far he will go just incase he's just having a bit of harmless fun, or whether he would actually arrange to meet up with her. i don't want to move to quick because i really have fallen for him and part of me hopes that it is just harmless fun. why would someone tell you they love you and want to be with only you if they don't mean it? it's not even like we live near each other so if he just wanted to get layed he could do that a bit closer to home.
 
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