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Msg: 37 (view)

black or white Posted: 1/6/2007 6:19:34 PM
I was raised and grew up with a Black or White mind set but I am slowly and continually finding myself accepting the Grey areas of life. In the end I believe you can't just be one or the other you need to learn how to balance the both. Because we are not immortal beings there are times to think "right or wrong", "life or death", "quit or persist" etc... but then there are times to be compassion, understanding and what not... How's that for a Grey answer

Joined: 9/21/2004

Msg: 26 (view)

What's your take on Public Affection? Posted: 1/6/2007 6:01:17 PM
I'll keep it real with y'all and say I hate it...especially when it involves two dudes.

Joined: 9/21/2004

Msg: 26 (view)

your VERY FIRST POF contact Posted: 1/6/2007 5:48:23 PM
This post reminds me of a conversation I had back in High School (probably in grade 10) with the fellas. It was in regards to each others cherry and I now find myself responding in the same manner (only without the stutter) I'm responding to the question of "who was your VERY FIRST POF contact": "It hasn't happened yet...I'm holding out for that special someone..." realising no one in the room is buying it Ok ok the honest truth is I'm a bit old fashion and a tat pessimistic (long story) with regards to meeting (no disrespected intended) women online. As a result I've managed to be content myself with lurking, participating in forums and chatting with people. If the opportunity should ever present itself, I will keep an open mind but until then I'm using my virginity like...like Jessica Simpson (hhhmm that might not be a good example)

Joined: 9/21/2004

Msg: 73 (view)

What is your favorite SLOW dance song/music? Posted: 1/6/2007 4:33:06 PM
Ah man you done did it asking that question! lol A lot of thoughts have gone and are going through my mind in the attempt to narrow my list down to a top 10. One thing is for sure, and the same time I will use this opportunity to pay my respects to, Gerald Levert may he rest in peace (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gerald_Levert) would have a strong presence on that list with his song "Can't Help Myself" in the top 3.

Joined: 9/21/2004

Msg: 1243 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 1/6/2007 2:23:27 PM
Oh wow seriously good for you! I'm happy things worked out for the both of you that way and you wrote a testimony about it. It's nice to know there are people on POF who are genuine in meeting people as opposed to playing g "win-lose" games with the opposite sex. I remember reading a dos and don't article about online dating that suggested avoiding people (especially men) who didn't have pictures on their profiles. According to the author the reason why a man would not put his picture on his profile is likely because he was already in a relationship and he didn't want to be detected by his girlfriend's single friends. As true as that is/can be it's a shame that author had never met me or that pilot you had the fortunates of meeting. Interestingly enough, the person who introduced me to POF (we don't talk) had a nice profile with a few waist height picture on it. At first, the part you might find confusing about his profile is how dude put down 6 feet as his height while being 4 feet (with shoes on) shorter then me (I'm 6 feet). As I got to know him I realised he was an habitual liar (he was raised that way and sometimes I think would be unable to tell the truth if his life depended on it). To answer your question yes I would meet someone who didn't have a picture on their profile provided I felt they were the genuine type and of course had what I was looking for in a woman.

Joined: 9/21/2004

Msg: 29 (view)

when do you slow down or stop? Posted: 12/13/2006 8:03:21 PM
Speaking for myself, I would say 3 mins (give or take) after the girl I'm dating and I have made mutual decision to be in a monogamous relationship. Why 3 mins? cause that should be enough time for us to seal the deal with a kiss and for me remember and say, "oh wait! I got a bit of cleaning and deleting to do" Again I'm only speaking for myself cause I have heard of couples who are cool with each other still having dating profiles up just marked with single/not looking. So to answer your question, to each couple their own on that one. I just feel sorry for the ones who can't communicate that views with each other.

TallDarkCasanova

Joined: 9/21/2004

Msg: 49 (view)

A real eye opener.... Posted: 12/11/2006 6:35:17 PM
Changes mail setting to no longer default the subject line to "hey" Wow, that is an eye opener! By the sound of things all this online technology did was improve the ways for women to get attention

TallDarkCasanova

Joined: 9/21/2004

Msg: 100 (view)

how to spot a nice guy! Posted: 12/10/2006 8:43:05 PM
Not to be an a$$hole here but I don't think you can simply spot a nice guy or a nice person for that matter. They have to be revealed (out of lack of a better word) to you with consistent actions (ex:. like that person who's always been there for you when you needed them).

TallDarkCasanova

Joined: 9/21/2004

Msg: 119 (view)

Fave Canadian Bands? Posted: 12/10/2006 8:26:36 PM
I don't know if I'm the only Hip Hop head here responding but talent is talent and deserves to recognized. For me I'd say: D.L. Incognito Classified (and a crazy load of un-heard off names from the Maritimes) Blok B. (Montreal) KOS Muzion and...ah man! did you say only five?

TallDarkCasanova

Joined: 9/21/2004

Msg: 42 (view)

If you could change one thing about Canada... Posted: 12/10/2006 8:09:38 PM
I would improve the relationship between French and English Canada.

TallDarkCasanova

Joined: 9/21/2004

Msg: 52 (view)

Why can't men make up their minds? Posted: 12/10/2006 7:56:46 PM
...men just say things to make us women happy, and to shut us up. Are we talking before or after marriage? From what I've been told by my married friends (the ones who've been in it for the long run) that's just something they do for survival.

TallDarkCasanova

Joined: 9/21/2004

Msg: 12 (view)

Honesty about porn Posted: 12/10/2006 7:51:00 PM
I think dude (through no fault of yours) just didn't get it. Just like the player who doesn't the agreed up restrictions of a monogamous relationship. He probably figured there was a Grey area in the whole "no porn" agreement you'd be ok with if he presented his case. I going to agree with the many suggestions I've already seen on this board, which is find a guy who's not into that (which btw contrary to what your ex said, do exist)

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