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DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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What should I do about this....? Posted: 11/8/2009 8:35:01 PM
Call him and express your condolences. Ask if there's anything you can do to support him.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Why Are Men Over 30 Drama Shy? Posted: 11/8/2009 8:33:17 PM
It is because older men (at least in my case) have had to deal with drama and the people who attract it to themselves. Since I am drama-free with effort, it is nice to have someone in a relationship who feels the same way.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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How do I move from a one-night-stand girl? Posted: 11/8/2009 8:30:05 PM
I would just not do the one night thing. Any man that thinks you are worth it would respect your wishes and stick around if he wants more.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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What does it doesn't have to be complicated mean ? Posted: 2/16/2009 4:15:55 PM
Why don't you ask him for clarification?

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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what do i do if my boyfriend is feeling moody & insecure Posted: 9/23/2007 9:35:52 PM
I would be upset and pissed off if a woman lead me on also. Shame on you. It must be hard to look yourself in the mirror.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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how long will you wait for sex? Posted: 8/28/2007 11:54:13 PM
I would wait until she was ready (me too of course).

DrewBond007

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Msg: 48 (view)

Will someone tell me why I have such a hard time finding Mr. Right? Posted: 8/28/2007 11:53:36 PM
It is the same for men. Good quality people are hard to come by.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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What Drives You Away From A Woman? Posted: 8/28/2007 11:51:49 PM
When she can not keep her mouth shut when it is appropriate.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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What made her 'unforgettable' Posted: 7/20/2007 9:40:53 PM
I usually can forget the one woman because there always seems to be a better one.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Hottie at work...yikes! Posted: 7/15/2007 2:24:43 PM
Thank you for all the advice. No, I am not going to put my interest in her over my job. The game plan is done at this point and I am going forward, but not in a way that will get me in any trouble. Yay!

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Hottie at work...yikes! Posted: 7/13/2007 7:14:52 PM
I should have been more clear. We work at the same place, but work for different companies. She has to make the move first so there is not any unwanted advances on my part and that will keep me from getting in any trouble. The plan is to make myself available and if she is interested we can go from there. If she is not interested then she will not make the move.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Hottie at work...yikes! Posted: 7/12/2007 9:11:35 PM
Hello there ladies, So there is this woman at work who was giving me signals and I find her attractive as well. Now I do not need advice on how to date her after I get the phone number, but what do you think about a good way to be sly about getting the number at work? Right now I am playing it cool because there is a very small margin of error in all of this. The basic plan is to wait around a week and see if she says something to me. If she is interested she should do so. Then once she makes contact I need to know a slick way to get the number without throwing myself too far out there. Normally I would just ask for the number, but again this is a new situation for me since it is at work. If she does not say anything to me, I will make contact in around a week and go from there. I suppose a good dating war story would be to not get a phone number and in trouble for asking! Yikes! Thank you.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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How do you explain this in 'boy language'? Posted: 6/29/2007 9:53:05 PM
If he will not listen then go out with his best friend. You may lose him as a friend, but at least you can find someone else who hopefully will not turn you off. And yes, I am kidding about the friend part, but you get the general tactic.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Dogs in the bed Posted: 6/29/2007 9:50:07 PM
Dogs are wonderful creatures. I would rather give a dog a spot in the bed over a lot of people I know.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

Msg: 69 (view)

What makes a man not want sex? Posted: 6/27/2007 8:10:48 PM
What makes a man not want sex? Usually the female's mouth and the words that come out of it. And you are not telling the whole story.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Ever feel like your going to be alone forever? Posted: 6/24/2007 9:42:25 AM
OP, The last time I looked caskets only come for one person at a time. Unless of course you prefer the mass graves where you will be alone anyway. Get the hint?

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Double Standard on Financial Matters in Relationships. Posted: 6/19/2007 8:15:00 PM
I will clear this up for you. There are gold digging men out there.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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What does a guy mean by attractive? Posted: 6/19/2007 8:13:29 PM
Why are you even concerned about it? He c ould be calling you ugly you know.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Why do men ruin relationships with video games? Posted: 6/18/2007 9:39:55 PM
haha! Sad when a game is more appealing than a woman. Oh no, the guy spends 3 days alone doing what he wants...you should tar and feather him! You should know your answer by reading your message over and over until it dawns on you.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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I hate groupies Posted: 6/18/2007 9:37:30 PM
handle your own insecurities and get a man with integrity. you know the other woman can read it getting to you and will mess with you just for that.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Do GUYS discriminate on basis of job? Posted: 6/18/2007 8:48:50 PM
Why should someone care? As long as you ar e happy then that is all that matters.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Why do you Call someone Fat??? Posted: 6/18/2007 8:47:21 PM
I label someone as fat if they are really overweight. The problem is that you state that you do not care, so that is a big turn off. If you did not care then you would not bring it up and please do not look for pity here. You are responsible for your own health.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

Msg: 29 (view)

Camping Posted: 6/18/2007 8:43:18 PM
Oddly enough I was thinking about how nice it would be to have a chick who stills looks good sweaty and dirty after a day of playing outdoors. It would be a turn on for me. p.s. there would be enough drinking water for washing the teeth and key areas of interest. I may like an adventure, but there are limits to everything :).

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

Msg: 239 (view)

Masculinity is a good thing! Posted: 6/16/2007 11:37:19 PM
True enough. Today there was a stallion in a fence and then there was a horse with his cough parts removed when I went to a barn. It was amazing how calm the horse was with no cough, but the stallion was aggressive, macho and altogether masculine. Enough said!

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Need a man's point of view... Posted: 6/16/2007 11:26:00 PM
Ok... When the HECK does respecting yourself equate to being a prude? Tell them to keep their dam hands to themselves and end the date.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Am I just not normal Posted: 6/16/2007 11:22:38 PM
Welcome to the joy of dating.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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How strong do you come on to someone you are interested in? Posted: 6/15/2007 8:41:20 PM
Let me put it like this... If he is turning you off already then he knows nothing about women. If he knows nothing about women then why waste your time?

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

Msg: 40 (view)

Fellows, do you believe you need or require changing? Posted: 6/10/2007 8:50:52 PM
Short answer: Feedback is always welcome because every person on this planet can be better in some way. On that same note, if the feedback for improvement was turned down then she would have to be mature enough to deal with it or leave. Who wants to be worked on like a FRANKENSTEIN?

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Girls who don't talk much Posted: 6/10/2007 8:47:08 PM
Considering I do not talk all that much, then having someone who does not talk a lot would be nice. What is that Thoreau statement modified to 2007? Just because you can speak online with someone across the world does not mean there is anything important to talk about? Also, do not consider it bad social skills/anxiety. There are introverts and extroverts in the world. And keeping your mouth shut seems to lessen the odds of a foot going in there sooner or later anyway. As many girls who like to call and talk for no reason, one who does not like to talk all that much would be a welcome change lol!

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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If you were my guy, would you…. Posted: 6/10/2007 8:41:52 PM
After a couple of years and when you were pregnant with my kids then sure.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Why Don't You Call Us!? Posted: 6/9/2007 10:18:30 PM
I do not call a lot because: 1) Body language says a heck of a lot more than verbal words. And women love to use the phone to their advantage because they can speak circles around men. 2) See above 3) There is a lot to get done and not a lot of time to get the important stuff done! I do not want baggage, the ideal woman will have a lot going on too. In no way should a woman expect a man (or vice versa) to be their phone talking buddy. If you are lonely or otherwise I suggest dealing with it. I love this post, a woman trying to call out a man over phone games. OP, I hope you were sincere.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Your best romantic moves????? Posted: 6/9/2007 10:11:54 PM
I keep my hands to myself while she jumps all over me. That is about as romantic as it gets. Otherwise they get spoiled and no way is that going to happen. It is a heck of a lot easier to not start a bad habit than fix it.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Clues that he's an online player .. Posted: 6/9/2007 10:10:15 PM
If they act like you want them to for the most part then they are players.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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How do be confident with women Posted: 6/9/2007 10:07:50 PM
1) Imagine you are a Japanese warrior in WWII taking a one way trip in your plane. 2) Take a deep breath 3) Go up, talk and then ask for her number.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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How often do you call your current dating partner? Posted: 6/9/2007 10:05:38 PM
Once every two weeks or so. Telephones are not a good place to talk.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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how long should a girl wait before having sex Posted: 6/9/2007 10:04:34 PM
Would it be old fashioned to wait until after you are married? Or at least a few months.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Being stood up. : / Posted: 6/9/2007 10:03:10 PM
Try being a guy. No offense, but guys get stood up a ton more than women. Just move on in my opinion.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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STOOD UP BUT WHY? Posted: 5/31/2007 9:10:15 PM
with no phone call with a reason, I leave at the time of the date or try to find a replacement. if that person does not call then 1) it is disrepectful and 2) it is disrespectful. That is all you need to know.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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love Posted: 5/31/2007 9:07:22 PM
Maybe he is a man and does not like to talk about his feelings. What do you mean you are pretty sure he does? You know and my bet is that you are insecure. Men do not like to talk about their emotions. Period.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Getting hung up on someone Posted: 5/31/2007 9:05:53 PM
You are projecting your feelings and becoming emotional instead of rational. Good luck.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Your View on Traditional Roles and Housewives? Posted: 5/31/2007 9:00:36 PM
You have no idea how nice it would be. Now do not get me wrong, if she wanted to go out and do WHATEVER then that is her right. If she wanted to stay at home and raise the kids and even homeschool them, as long as we could afford it, I would be game. Raising kids is hard and in no way would I think she was being lazy. It would be nice to get kids raised by parents instead of T.V. and sitters anyway. Congrats to you for fighting all the feminist brainwashing. Women are built for a reason and are naturally better at raising children in my opinion due to their social skills and nurturing side. If you feminists have a problem with what I say, then my advice is to get a grip on reality.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

Msg: 67 (view)

Why is it like pulling teeth to find out what a guy does? Posted: 5/31/2007 8:55:49 PM
HAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAA *Why can't you guys be more honest about it? Due to women like you!

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Dating a vegan/vegetarian Posted: 5/31/2007 8:55:02 PM
Hello there, I would respect her wishes, but at the same time she would have to respect mine. If I wanted to eat some meat and she did not like it, then that is something that would have to be taken into consideration by her on the date and dating. No, I would not change my eating habits if someone did not like it, but I would make sure the restaurant had vegan meals. You have to love the freedom.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Is a man ever worth heartache? Posted: 5/1/2007 11:49:23 PM
When you get mean things get a lot easier. Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaannnnnnnn.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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How much of a factor does your love history play in your present Posted: 5/1/2007 11:48:13 PM
Why do people pick the same anyway? It is call "Free Will" for a reason.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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Just wanted to say....... Posted: 5/1/2007 11:47:33 PM
I do exist, but you live too far away! (haha!)

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

Msg: 250 (view)

women friends and warnings... Posted: 5/1/2007 11:31:32 PM
I am no lawyer, but you may get problems with libel. It is not like you can not use personal email for that. Good move by the admin honestly.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

Msg: 197 (view)

love and weight gain Posted: 5/1/2007 10:06:15 PM
If it was a problem and she wanted help to lose it, then sure I would stick around and help. If it continued then she would lose appeal and she would have to go. Healthy body = healty mind for the most part.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

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To the masters... Posted: 5/1/2007 10:01:41 PM
Who cares? Just ask for her number. Getting rejected in new and funny ways is what being a male is about. And if you drink it can win you a ton of beers.

DrewBond007

Joined: 6/27/2006

Msg: 64 (view)

What's up with the men SNOBS anyways???? Posted: 5/1/2007 9:57:11 PM
If they do not respond back, it may be because they do not want to talk with you for whatever reason. Scary thought for your ego, but true regardless.

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