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 Author Thread: Liking asian girls
 cc28bm
Joined: 6/29/2006
Msg: 500 (view)
 
Liking asian girls
Posted: 4/28/2009 1:52:29 PM
Well amen to that thwipp89 i couldn't agree more!!! I do find asian women very attractive and not just physically the women that i interacted with were very polite,strong and had a sense of principles about them.They weren't concerned about the materialistic things as much as they were with having a strong supportive partner who would be there for them and could make them happy.I really admire those ideals and morals in such an immoral time that we are living in where everything is give me and show me and more they were about having less quantity as long as it meant quality.That is really hard to find now and days and not to mention their beautiful eyes,hair,skin and fashion sense.Thats a nice package but i again state this is my experience and opinion the aforementioned things can and do apply to all ethnicities afterall beauty is in the eye of the beholder and there is beauty in every race.
 cc28bm
Joined: 6/29/2006
Msg: 499 (view)
 
Liking asian girls
Posted: 4/28/2009 1:28:39 PM
Well if your interested enough you can find dating services that for a fee just like e-harmony or any of these other matchmaking services can introduce you to asian women that are willing to date outside their race.I think its something to consider if your really interested and at least you'll have an opprutunity something you dont have right now.Just do some research and you will find some opprutunities websites,forums (etc).But sometimes perceptions can hinder our ability to move forward if you go into the situation believing as a black man asian woman just arent going to be interested then that perception can become reality eliminating you before you even try.Most rational people will respond to you the way you respond to them and if they sense any sort of discomfort or lack of confidence or chip on your shoulder when you deal with them they will respond the same way.To give yourself a chance you must be the eternal optimist and not be discouraged go into your approach as relaxed and openminded as possible then its up to them if things dont work out its not your fault but you'll be surprised at what the right mind set can do in these situations so stay strong and good luck !!!
 cc28bm
Joined: 6/29/2006
Msg: 497 (view)
 
Liking asian girls
Posted: 4/28/2009 10:14:39 AM
Its true every one has a preference but i for one think that when people say i am not attracted to a particular race thats ridiculous.If you think hard enough im sure there has got to be at least one black woman that you would say is attractive maybe beyonce or halle berry,megan goode, i mean come on.I mostly date outside my race but thats not because im not attracted to black woman i just seem to attract more attention from the other races.I've dated white,hispanic and asian women and i find all three of those groups very attractive but it would not stop me from dating a nice black woman if i were to meet one that i liked.It really comes down to the person ultimately there are always going to be naysayers and racists that will try to discourage you or disapprove tell you about all the alleged pitfalls of dating outside your race and its all hogwash.Just look at Tiger woods,Lenny kravitz and even of greater significance president Barrack obama.The relationships i experienced with those women were some of the best i ever had and in the end if you pass up an opprutunity to be with someone that really makes you happy over something as superficial as race thats a choice you will have to ultimately live with and can haunt you for the rest of your life.I suggest choosing the best person cause your dating them not their entire race or anyone else choose someone who is going to make you happy and that should always be the main reason for that choice everything else is secondary.
 cc28bm
Joined: 6/29/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
What are women really looking for?
Posted: 4/18/2009 3:49:52 PM
Well thank you for that observation so thats it?All this time i was wondering what it was....well guys theres the answer all you guys that havent been getting many responses on here grab your pens and number two pencils and lets get to dotting our i's and crossing our t's and our inboxes should be filled in no time lol for some reason~ Lady~ i really dont think that thats the reason and anyone whos going to judge me on that basis wouldnt(oops), would not be my type any way thats like judging someone because they abbreviated a text message to you instead of writing out the word.I dont think many of us have the time to type on here with our dictionaries by our side to make sure everything we write is in the proper text or grammatically correct.Unless the persons writing is not legible or what they write doesnt make any sense you should judge it by the content or whether or not theres any substance or some similarities not a few grammatical errors and trust me there are plenty of profiles with grammatical errors on here.Just because someone may write better doesnt mean that their a better or worse person besides i think thats getting off the main topic.Damn guess that means i blew it with the english majors.
 cc28bm
Joined: 6/29/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
What are women really looking for?
Posted: 4/16/2009 1:55:09 PM
Ive been on the this site for awhile left because i got into a relationship and came back when i was single again with some updated information new pictures and hoped that i might be able to meet someone that shares similar interests has some of the qualities that i like similar tastes and low and behold i was impressed.Reading and going through many different profiles i saw alot of women of different ethinicities,ages, backgrounds that seemed to share alot of the same interests and were looking for some of the qualities i know i have and i thought ok i have a shot.Im not mr optimistic im mr realistic so i figured with all these women i should be able to at least talk to a handful of them maybe we'd be friends or maybe we just wont hit it off lol never even gets to that point because......they have to respond first lol and it never ok maybe not never but close enough happens.All i see is read delete or read with no response and i wonder WHAT ARE THEY REALLY LOOKING FOR!?I mean i know im a regular guy but im not a loser work plan on going back to school in the near future pay my own bills have a sense of humor try to stay fit e.t.c.(checkout my profile)lol and yet i get back nothing?Honestly im not one of those guys thats looking to hook up with the prettiest woman on here and those are the ones im after then it would make more sense im after regular attractive women who seem to be looking for and want the right things respect,honest ,sense of humor a guy that sends decent messages and asks real questions and not just about their bra size and yet nothing?My question to the women on here is then whats the deal?Is it race,money,height,weight....ya'll get the picture lol and to the guys is it just me thats having this problem or is this the norm ?Please enlighten me.
 
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