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 Author Thread: Male question about female B/C
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Male question about female B/C
Posted: 8/23/2006 10:19:12 AM
You gals have some good info on here. I will talk to her about this and maybe go to the doc with her if she is comfortable with me going. I told her the other day that her wanting to guard against pregnancy was a good idea but it isnt worth what she and I have to go through (side effects).
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Male question about female B/C
Posted: 8/23/2006 7:56:35 AM
I knew it was the pills, she didnt see it and thought she was fine but I knew without a doubt they were causing her to be a royal pain in the ass.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Is he accidently letting me know he wants me?
Posted: 8/22/2006 12:57:39 PM
Would you sleep with him if he asked?
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Is he accidently letting me know he wants me?
Posted: 8/22/2006 11:28:00 AM
Would you have sex with the guy if he asked?
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Male question about female B/C
Posted: 8/22/2006 11:15:13 AM
She says she is going to go back on it and i am dreading the idea of that. ^^^ you are correct though that it does change a womans attitude for the worse. I told her I would prefer getting snipped compared to her starting the pill again. I told her lets try other things. Maybe a combination of using spermicidal inserts, spermicidal condoms, and me pulling out. The inserts give her no side effects at all.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Do christians have the right to impose their views/values on the larger society ?
Posted: 8/22/2006 7:32:29 AM
Christians are pretty much idiots. They tend to judge others who are not chritian and look down upon them. They tend to press there beliefs on you and tell you that if you do not follow there beliefs you will go to hell.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Have men got feelings?
Posted: 8/21/2006 1:32:27 PM
I have no balls! My woman took them from me and said I can have them back when I get some feelings.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Why don't men cut their toenails?
Posted: 8/21/2006 10:42:11 AM
I dont cut my toe nails. I like letting them grow out long and then I file them to a point and go around and kick people.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Why don't men cut their toenails?
Posted: 8/21/2006 10:41:35 AM
My gf's cat is named Toes.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Have men got feelings?
Posted: 8/21/2006 10:39:07 AM
What are these things called feelings? I have no such thing. I kicked my neighbors dog across the yard this morning because he looked at me and I told an old dude at work that he needs to hurry up and die because he is to old looking to live.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Nigerian Scams
Posted: 8/20/2006 1:21:11 PM
You are a complete idiot if you fall for these scams. If you have that type of money to just blow like that donate it to a charity rather then giving it to some scam artist half way around the world.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 102 (view)
 
Satanism
Posted: 8/20/2006 9:03:22 AM
I hate it when people dress all different such as all black and then whine and cry about why people look at them differently and judge them.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Nigerian Scams
Posted: 8/20/2006 8:32:08 AM
I had a woman saying she was stuck in a motel in Nigeria and the owner would not let her leave until she paid the balance and it was 19 a day to stay there. She also said she madly loved me and wanted to be with me and asked me for money to pay her hotel room balance a plane ticket here to the states. Well I told her I had sent her by western union a 1,000 dollar check to get back here. I gave her a false account number and some other various false information. She emailed me the next day and asked me how couldl I do something so mean to her. She said the Western Union office said they would have her thrown in jail if she ever come in with a false claim like that again. Well I told her in another email that your not getting a dime from me and your scam is not that convincing and here are the reasons why. First you dont tell a person you are madly in love with them on the second email, second you have been saying you need 1,000 to get a plane ticket to the U.S and to pay off your hotel balance and the plane ticket alone is about 1400.And third you never asked me if I am madly in love with you which I am not for your information.

She kept emailing me after that and I would be all nice and compassionate to her and then another email I would call her the scum of the earth in about 5 to 6 paragraphs. She finally got the hint and quit emailing me.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Trying to get bigger
Posted: 8/20/2006 8:18:50 AM
Well right now my diet isnt the greatest. I dont have a lot of time to prepare anything but many times I dont eat anything for breakfest and for lunch at work I may eat a grilled chicken sandwhich and I may snack on some mixed nuts throughout the day, for dinner I may eat some pasta or a sanwhich. I know your thinking what a pitiful diet but I really dont eat that much food. I probably eat less than 1500 calories a day. Right now I am about 210lbs. I got big because I used to eat a lot of fast food and I got a desk job lol. I do drink a lot of water though. During my 8 hour shift at work I probably drink half a gallon. I usually mix it with a little sugar free crystal light.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
help me please
Posted: 8/19/2006 3:19:38 PM
These people you call friends are not friends at all. You need to tell them to butt out and if they want to hang around you then respect the fact that you can date whoever you want and when you want and that you know what is best for you and not them. They dont sound like good friends at all. I had a friend once who try to steal my gf. I thought we were good friends but that changed when he tried that crap. I should of whooped his ass with a big stick lol.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
men leaving their current woman for another woman
Posted: 8/19/2006 3:02:41 PM

Why do some men leave a nice good looking woman for another woman that is not as nice as the one they have at home I mean pretty inside and out. Such as Prince Charles leaves lady Di for Camilia. Or clinton out with Paula Jone she not attractive and chubby Monica. Why not just keep his wife she not very pretty either but if men are going to cheat at least pick on someone better. I am sure some women do the same. I think maybe some men could be doing it just for the new excitement of sex with some one new. Is a new sex partner worth the sadness it is going to cause, losing the current relationship?


This is just proof that looks do not mean everything. People want a life partner. You can date a person who looks gorgeous to you but is missing evertying else such as attitude and personality. And besides just because the person doesnt look that great to you doesnt mean the same for them.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
For Bigger Men: What would motivate you to go to the gym?
Posted: 8/19/2006 2:57:28 PM
Tell the people that they wont have to worry about people on www.plentyoffish.com making fun of them if they go to the gym and get in shape.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Who should make the first move?
Posted: 8/19/2006 2:21:50 PM
There is absolutley nothing wrong with a woman asking a man out. Forget what you may think customary or traditional is. If your a woman and see a man that your interested in then ask him out. Otherwise if you hold on to the belief the guy (who usually is scared to ask a woman out) is supposed to always make the first contact then there is no telling how many good guys that women have missed.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
A Perfect World - What Price Would You Pay?
Posted: 8/19/2006 2:14:48 PM
Personally I would give up all of my posessions and everything I had to live in such a world. I actually wouldnt mind a simple life where everyone respected and actually cared for each other. Hell these days people just want to kill each other and find any way they can to take advantage of another person. In todays world it isnt what can I do to help my neighbor out, it is what can I get from my neighbor.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Trying to get bigger
Posted: 8/19/2006 2:09:56 PM
Wow I tried doing free weights today because I am getting good at the machines and I must say DAMN! I am sore now. My arms are shaking at times. Free weights are a hole lot different than machines.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 100 (view)
 
Satanism
Posted: 8/19/2006 9:52:19 AM
If you dress in all black, have the piercings all over, or the spiked collar then expect to be looked at differently.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Hello from Alabama !!
Posted: 8/19/2006 9:45:21 AM
What part of Alabama are you from?
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Do straight guys secretly yearn to kiss another man full-on?
Posted: 8/19/2006 9:35:47 AM
Hell no! I would never kiss a dude! I would rather kiss a dead Mooses butt!!! lol Truely straight guys never think about kissing another dude.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Trying to get bigger
Posted: 8/18/2006 9:37:19 AM
I am trying to get bigger from weight lifting. I dont want to be huge but I want to look good and toned. I am confused as to what kinds of foods I should eat. Someone at my gym told me try eating as much low fat beef and chicken for each meal as you can. He said the protein in the meals along with weight training will do the trick.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Why do guys do this stuff here?
Posted: 8/17/2006 11:03:39 AM
I read the other persons post and for some reason and I guess it is the way it is wrote but it made me laugh really hard lol. I guess it was the "Hey you want some nasty pics of me" or however it was said lol.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Gas prices
Posted: 8/17/2006 10:59:08 AM
I realize that a national boycott would not happen. But suffering a few days with no driving and no transportation of goods would send a strong message and would the inconvenience be worth it? HELL YES! We have been suffering with high gas prices for a few years now and the gas prices are making other prices go up so yes the inconveniece would be worth it. I mean sure it is obvious that rescue vehicles could not participate in the strike. But if everyone went on a 3 day boycott employers are not going to fire all of there workers. And kids would just have to have 3 days out of school.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 45 (view)
 
D-i-s-a-p-p-o-i-n-t-e-d
Posted: 8/17/2006 10:55:07 AM
I dont profit from anyone from the hurricanes. I have noticed the other disasters and dont know how Fema responded but the news has also made Fema sound a lot worse than they are. Everyone I knew said Fema came, resolved there issue and were gone in a timely fashion. Fema reimbursed everyone I knew who bought chain saws, generators, gas for the chain sawys and generators. All you had to do was show a receipt and you got a check. The news agency got the nation so pumped up and scared about hurricanes because it was the big news at the time. you are always going to have people who complain no matter how good of service they receive from an agency. The government could announce today they are going to send every American a check for 1,000 that will be tax free and you will have some who will complain that they arent getting it fast enough, or it isnt enough or whatever.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Gas prices
Posted: 8/17/2006 10:13:36 AM
I strongly think a boycott would work. Wouldnt it be great if somehow americans quit driving for 3 days to show we meant business. Boycotts do work though. The poster above is correct and they do have the American people by the balls because we love our cars to much. I also notice car manufacturers are building cars that are worse on gas mileage and not better like they claim.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
D-i-s-a-p-p-o-i-n-t-e-d
Posted: 8/17/2006 10:09:22 AM
So SoTexMan what do I have to learn? Also I notice that so many forums turn into President Bush bashings. Why is that. We get it dude hardly anyone likes Bush. He will be out of office in a couple of years and willbe history. Drop the Bush crap. You sound like a hateful little man who cant get his way.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 89 (view)
 
What caused your break up?
Posted: 8/16/2006 5:58:09 PM
I broke up with my ex because of her family which were religious fanatics and it confused the hell out of her. Her dad had a termite business and he was doing great at it and the business was growing wiht no end in sight. Well he was a religious fanatic and and god talked to him daily and told him to sell the business, become a pastor and start a church in a city about 30 miles away. Well he sold the very profitable business for half of what he was asking, got his house forclosed on, went in bankruptcy. He couldnt find a building to start a church so he said god told him to start a church in New Orleans. Well his wacko church was supporting him in New Orleans and eventually stopped because he couldnt get anything started and couldnt find a job. Well then god told him to move to Birmingham, AL where he got a job with a pest control company and rented a house from a man who was a pervert and watched them through the windows and they lived in the middle of nowhere. He started a church and no one ever attended. He sucked my gf's savings down to nothing after telling her he needed to borrow money for gods will and never paid her back. He convinced her I was not a good person because I didnt go to church. After 18 months and dont ask me how it lasted that long I said to hell with this. My current gf is awesome. We have been together for 18 months now and things are great. Me and my ex wanted to move in at the time and her parents told her no and said they had authority over her life until she was married and no one would marry her unless he approved. She was 24 at the time and did not live at home. I swear some parents need to realize that there children are grown and can make there own decisions.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Lara Croft Body.....just not yet!
Posted: 8/16/2006 5:32:24 PM
^^^ Just because you see a healthy man or woman with a large woman or many that does not mean they are desperate. There are people who prefer a certain body type.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Should I Tell Her I'm a Virgin?
Posted: 8/16/2006 3:31:57 PM
What is the shame in being a virgin? I am 23 and was a virgin until I was 21. Big deal your a virgin... If she makes fun of that then kick her to the curb and find someone else who doesnt mind. I told my woman who was not a virgin that I was a virgin and she didnt care and we got it on lol.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Dissapointed
Posted: 8/16/2006 3:25:50 PM
My whole point is that the news builds these things to be much worse than what they are. I talk on the phone during work to people all over the country and get sick of hearing and asked "How can we stand living here with all the storms". I just tell them that the news pumps them up to way more than what they are. Ever since going through Opal I have wanted to become a weather chaser for a news agency or maybe something like the Weather Channel. Seeing and being in the eye of a major hurricane was something I will never forget. It was windy as hell and then when the eye come over it was blue skys with birds flying in the middle. That was an awesome sight and I do it again if I had the oppurtunity in a heart beat. I just wish I had a camcorder at the time but I will never forget it in my head.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
D-i-s-a-p-p-o-i-n-t-e-d
Posted: 8/16/2006 2:47:08 PM
I hear a lot of people attack me on age. What does age really have to do with anything? If you have been through them then you can talk whether you are 18 30,40, or a 100. I havent lost really anything in a storm because they really arent that bad. If I do loose something I wont have a problem getting it back because either insurance or Fema will pay for it. The idea to attack someone based on there age is ignorant. Many people actually benefit from the storms. Hell I have a brand new generator in my shed from the storm that cost me nothing from Katrina. I think I will change the age in my profile just so I wont get so many ignorant people wanting to attack age right away.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Lara Croft Body.....just not yet!
Posted: 8/16/2006 11:26:10 AM
Why do all women think they have to look like a super model to get a guy??? Do women realize that men love women of all shapes and sizes. My current gf of 18 months was worried what I would think about some extra padding on her. I told her how can I judge when I dont have a perfect body myself. I actually prefer a chubby woman over a really skinny woman myself.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
it makes me wonder
Posted: 8/16/2006 10:49:29 AM
You almost sound like a bitter old man because you havent had much luck with anyone. People go after relationships because it is human nature. We want someone to be at our sides and to comfort each other and to have a sense of being and happiness. Sure people break up all the time but in the beginning they thought it was going to last. You have to just keep moving on. If you hold on to the negative things from your past things most likely will not get better.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
sex on the first night = no respect?
Posted: 8/15/2006 2:25:17 PM
I am a guy and wont judge a woman just because she likes sex. I say if you like it then go for it! us guys do it because it feels good and girls do it because it feels good so just go for it if you like it!
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Gas prices
Posted: 8/15/2006 2:21:04 PM
Well around here the tax on gas is right about .50 cents a gallon and the price is around 2.85. I see oil companies making record profits and yelling the demand of oil world wide has gone up. I dont think the demand has nearly tripled since 1999 when i remember paying .92 cents a gallon. The saudi's and Opec are to blame for this gas crisis. Opec influences how much oil is pumped. They could easily pump more and lower the cost of gas. But why would Opec and oil companies want to do this when they are making 37 billion a quarter and getting away with it?
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Will You Be Able To Retire 'Comfortably', ALONE?
Posted: 8/15/2006 11:37:04 AM
If you want money to retire on then stay away from credit cards and loans. Credit cards wreck peoples financial lives and keep them from saving money. People seem to rather make the bank rich than save the money for themselves.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Why do Men get to choose?
Posted: 8/15/2006 11:20:20 AM
It is personal preference. A lot of people like dating chubby or fat people. But one tip for ya being as obese as you are will hurt your chances but at least take down the pictures of you flipping the bird. That right there would be my number one turn off from you. That is very disrespectfull to most people. If you dont like that guys wont date you because of your weight then join a gym and in 6 months you will be half of what you are now. But the pictures of you flipping the bird gives me the impression right away you have a bad attitude.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Phone calls and no talk
Posted: 8/15/2006 11:05:08 AM
Women naturally talk more than males. Males are not talkoholics like females are. I female may say 50 words to a guys 12. Women will get all frustrated and mad when a guy isnt saying much but the guy thinks nothing at all is wrong. I have the same problem with my woman.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
So do tell me
Posted: 8/15/2006 11:01:19 AM
Rule 1 Give head on the first date lol. But seriously dont set rules at all or the guy make think to to uptight to have fun. Dont sleep with him on the first date either and do not rush to say things like "I am falling for you", or you may scare him.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
On how a guy dresses
Posted: 8/15/2006 10:56:12 AM
I am comfortable dressing just like I am. My ex tried to get me to dress different. She took me in a store and I felt so stupid and over dressed when she finished with me. I like my shorts, sandals, and t-shirt. I dont need an undershirt, button up cotton shirt, etc.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
The money problem...
Posted: 8/15/2006 10:41:51 AM
I have got a friend who works and his woman is demanding and wants everything and doesnt care about finances. After being fired from 5 jobs she finally has a job that she is working and hasnt gotten fired from yet because she has no direct supervision at a local small motel. She gets her check and helps out with nothing. He is struggling and often his mom helps him but she doesnt care and relies on his mom to help them. That B*tch would be kicked to the curb is she was with me. I would never live with a woman who would not work unless she had a really good reason. Also if she could not work she would be doing all the house work for her part during the day while I am at work.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 33 (view)
 
The money problem...
Posted: 8/15/2006 8:36:02 AM
I think it should all be based on how much each person makes. If the guy made 50,000 a year and the woman made 25,000 a year or the other way around I dont think the person making the 25,000 a year should have to pay half the bills.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Dissapointed
Posted: 8/15/2006 8:33:56 AM
The news makes it out to make everyone think every person hates hurricanes. You would be shocked at the amount of people here who think they are no big deal. It really does not matter how much I wish them to come or wish them not to come because if they are coming they are coming and there is nothing you can do about that. If they do come and your right on the beach or in a flood area then move somewhere else. The government will take care of you and pay you for anything you lost. Like I said before if the weather says the storm has 135mph winds your not going to get 135mph winds on the ground. I have been there and done that. I was in the eye of hurricane opal in Pensacola, FL so I went through the worst. Yea there was damage but most damage is from the storm surge. The wind blows of shingles and uproots some trees but that is about it. After the storm you see insurance companies flooding the area, supplies rushing in, and fema handing out checks and keys to homes.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Dissapointed
Posted: 8/15/2006 7:08:44 AM
The only reason New Orleans got it so bad is because people ignored the aging and poor levees there. New Orleans itself is sinking in the ground and the distance New Orleans has sank compared to when the levees were built made them much weaker. Fema is awesome in my opinion. They are better than the insurance companies. We bought a generator for our home and they come out and wrote us a check for the cost of the generator which the check was more than what we paid for it because they do it in increments and then they wrote us a check for gas usage, also gave us a check for food we lost and they base it on how many people are in your house so we got way more than we had lost. People who I know said Katrina gave them relief. The storm come through and flooded there homes and some of them were condemned and fema wrote them checks for there homes and asked them what they estimated there belongings to be worth without any receipts and wrote them a check for that, put them in a home, gave them food and let them keep there condemned home which they sold and some were able to pay cash for a new home and get out of a mortgage. The hurricanes clean out bays and waterways, create jobs, rid places of old crummy houses. Katrina wasnt to bad for us maybe category 1 hurricane but I have been others and it isnt to terrble. The news pumps them up way beyond what they are. The news does that about a lot of stuff.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Gas prices
Posted: 8/15/2006 6:58:49 AM
The poster above is correct. The average tax per state is about .50 per gallon. I do agree that if we did the tax idea most of the money would not make it to the states. I strongly believe though that if the American people boycotted one gas station it would force gas prices down. But like the poster above said you do sound like an executive from the oil companies. I think it is an idea that would work but would never happen. People can do something about gas prices but there not going to do anything about it but complain.
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Gas prices
Posted: 8/14/2006 7:21:28 PM
^^^ Those are some interesting figures there! But gas is all I am concerned about.


Here is one for ya! Super Glue .07 oz $1.50 - $2,688.00 per gallon
 Iluvtofish
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 178 (view)
 
Air America says Experts Say U.S. Losing ‘War on Terror’
Posted: 8/14/2006 7:18:30 PM
You cannot negotiate with people who want to create destruction. These people like to cause trouble. I say we defend our own borders and let them know if you come here you will be harshly dealt with. If you want to kill and blow each other up over in BumF*ck Egypt then go ahead but dont you dare bring it here.
 
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