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notadumblonde

Joined: 7/3/2006

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How to Make Your Next Relationship Work... Posted: 7/8/2008 6:00:29 PM
This OP is a very smart lady We should not hold anyone responsible for somone else's wrong doings. I try not to do it and have tried to tell some people I care very deeply about not to...............but alas sometimes it doesn't sink in.......or they just don't want to hear it...........or they will never change. It is very sad because as we live and learn we all find out that love does not conquer all. Unfortunately................ I guess all we can do is just keep trying and give those people all that we have to give and unless they emotionally abuse us too badly........keep loving them. Now I'm not saying ignore these hypothetical red flags of course, just these people that we love having a hard time ignoring past hurts. Have I confused anyone here? Sorry

notadumblonde

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Do women trade up? Posted: 5/28/2008 5:01:34 PM
Wow do you like yourself, which is probally a good thing because once women find out your personality you'll be alone.....so have at it. Honey, you might think you are better looking than 90% of the men on here; but that is your opinion, not mine or I'm willing to bet alot of the other women on here. Also with that winning profile "drink more than 3 times a week......prefer not to say on more than 50% of the rest" what do you think you are going to catch anyway. Now to answer the question........NO I would not and do not trade up!!!!!!!!!!!!! If the man treats me well, why would I dump him for someone with more money or better looks or whatever. I have had my shot at lawyers, and a couple of doctors and they were so shallow (kinda like you) that we didn't get past a couple of dates. So it's not the money or prestige or anything, but what is inside. So maybe you had better learn that when you grow up. Oh yes and to edit this; MEN DO IT TOO!!! (trade up I mean)

notadumblonde

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Does True Love Ultimately Require Marriage? Posted: 5/16/2008 6:07:45 PM
This is truly a thread that requires alot of deep soul searching. I am going to say no it does not require marriage. Now that is my choice because I have been married twice; have my children; and don't want any more. I have seen the devastion of divorce (still going through it) and once it is over.........never again. But I do want to be in a serious one on one relationship again. From what I have learned, marriage does not have to be part of it now for me. I would be quite content to live with someone after my boys are out of the house and on their own. But that living arrangement will only be after alot of time and learning about the other person. There is no reason that two people can not be together and be happy without marriage. I do want to have the deep truly commited love that comes with being in that type of relationship. As long as there is that kind of love, commitment, trust and comunication I believe a relationship without marriage can work. But it does take work, not just taking off at the first sign of trouble or the first younger, cuter member of the opposite sex walking by. That is why it takes time to get to that point. It should also take that amount of investment if you're getting married too. Too many relationships are disposable today. No one seems to want to take the time and work to make it last. Now sometimes there are extenuating circumstances where you can't save the marriage......such as abuse, or whatever......but if it is just because the SO isn't as attractive as they once were.............. or the mid life crisis thing is in full swing ...........then I think people should try to work the problems out. Just my opinion though.

notadumblonde

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holding in the gas Posted: 5/16/2008 11:19:39 AM
This has got to be the funniest thread I have ever read. Even better than the humor section. Had to stop reading so I could catch my breath.

notadumblonde

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for the ladies....can you TRULY say money ain't a factor? Posted: 5/13/2008 6:39:38 PM
Thanks racer, I guess I should clarify when I say a poor guy,,,,,,I don't mean destitute. Money to pay the bills and food but doesn't need to have tons left over. There are times when I have heard that having alot of money creates problems. (Not that I would know personally, lol) So who knows but the everyday blue collar guys are much more real and down to earth so they will always get my attention first.

notadumblonde

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for the ladies....can you TRULY say money ain't a factor? Posted: 5/13/2008 12:53:53 PM
OK racer, I will come on. The guy who drives the shiny Corvette could end up being a jerk......and the Pinto guy could be a real gem. I will choose the one I am attracted to, have chemistry with and have fun with. I will never turn down a wonderful man who is poor. Of course, like alot of women on here have said; he has to have a job that pays his bills. Money isn't everything. Yes it is the root of alot of issues in a relationship but the two people involved have to be on the same wave length as far as spending out of their means. I don't have to be showered with alot of things............I just want a man who loves me for me and that I honestly can get along with. The whole idea of a relationship is the compatibility. If you are happy staying at home watching movies or just being together; who cares how much money they make. As long as the bills are paid, you can have a great life doing all the free things in life. Going for walks, picnics, watching TV, anything as long as you like being together. I was brought up very poor and I continue to not need to be impressed with material things.

notadumblonde

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I just lost one of my best friends to suicide.... Posted: 5/8/2008 4:32:53 AM
Anenigma I am so very sorry for your loss. Please try to realize it's not your fault, if you can talk to someone of authority, therapist or whatever with your children to help them also. Suicide is a terrible thing to deal with, but there are people who care. Sometimes the pain never goes away, but it does become bearable. Keep your faith.........sometimes that is all that gets us through at times. Listen to the kind hearted people here, and let the others go in one ear and out the other. If you need someone to talk to, email me please. I know alittle about this first hand.

notadumblonde

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I just lost one of my best friends to suicide.... Posted: 5/8/2008 4:26:51 AM
Alienware........I think you should be alittle more sympathetic. I realize at your age that could be asking alot, but this woman is in pain and doesn't need someone slamming her. People need time to grieve. Did your mother never teach you "if you don't have something nice to say....don't say anything at all"? If not maybe you should go watch the movie Bambi..............Thumper's father taught him that.

notadumblonde

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Do Christian Women Scare You Off ??? Posted: 5/7/2008 6:16:12 PM
^^^^^bucsgirl is right on the money here. I am a christian/presbyterian and I go to church fairly regularly. I do try to live my life morally.........the way I was raised, etc. That does not mean that I do that 100% of the time, for I am far from perfect and have many flaws. I personally find comfort in believing that there is a god out there somewhere looking after me. But that is MY belief, no one else has to agree or dissagree with me. I am not a bible thumper, nor do I try to shove my beliefs down other peoples throats. I rarely even discuss religion. I do what's right for me and feel that other people are intitled to their own beliefs.

notadumblonde

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Does nail polish have any hidden meaning? Posted: 5/5/2008 3:25:48 PM
Red does not equal whore. Why is this man on this site? I love to wear red in the winter, and paler shades in the summer......like cream or light pink. I also like French tips, but they wear off so quick, I tend to stay away from them. I'm not very adventurous so I stay away from the brights.....I do love to see them on other women and usually tell them that I like them. Oh, and no I don't like red just because of the devil outfit, but did have devil red on that evening

notadumblonde

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Modern Romance Posted: 5/2/2008 11:31:42 AM
Sleepless when women say they want a man who knows how to treat a lady, I think it means the man being a "gentleman" . Opening doors for them, holding a chair when they sit down in a restaurant, walking next to traffic on a street. Those kind of things. I do agree with you on the different strokes for different people. What one women may think is romantic, another might think is not. But I think the longer you are with someone you learn what they like. I have heard alot of women on here think that flowers are stupid. I don't. But I am happy with a bouquet of daisies, as opposed to roses because I realize a bunch of roses is ungodly expensive. One rose to me says the same as a dozen. Most of the time, it is the thought that counts. Remember quality is sometimes much better than quantity.

notadumblonde

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Modern Romance Posted: 5/2/2008 9:29:06 AM
^^^^^Life of leasure. I don't care one whit about his book. And have no intention of buying it. I just agree with what he is saying. In my profile it also says that if people ( men and women alike; for we are both guilty of this) would stop thinking of relationships as disposable, and try to remember what you fell in love with this person for.....and no I don't mean the first intense sexual attraction......which fades over.....the keeping and staying reasons you loved this person for; and work; yes WORK to keep the flame alive and realize that most things we all break up over; can be worked out. Now I don't mean abuse, mental or physical, cheating or the really BIG things. Most people just think that there is something bigger or better out there. Well there might be............but there might not be. Most of us women....and men..... do want to be reminded that we are still in the race for their affection and that we do appreciate what we have. In today's crazy, hectic world it is so easy to let the little things slide. But it's not that hard to take 5 minutes to look in each others eyes and let them know that we still love and care for each other.

notadumblonde

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Marriage, men are stupid for entering into this(proof) Posted: 4/24/2008 2:53:28 PM
^^^^^^^in response to slider.....no disrespect to you sir.......BUT it generally is a known fact that most men think with the "head" that is not on their shoulders!

notadumblonde

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How much time is necessary for a relationship? Posted: 4/13/2008 1:50:57 PM
This really depends on the situation and the people involved. My so and I have been together 16 months and usually only see each other every other weekend when my ex has my kids. Sometimes he comes up during the week depending on his schedule, because he lives 35 miles away. I would like to see him more often because I miss him terribly, but he calls every day depending on work or I call him and we chat for long periods of time. And we are doing great. So I guess it just depends on the situation and what you are willing to put into it or put up with considering the specifics.

notadumblonde

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Diamonds Posted: 3/19/2008 6:09:42 AM
Diamonds are not that important to me. I have some CZ's that almost everyone thinks are diamonds. You get to have more of them and if they are good quality no one knows. I also prefer other gemstones like the amethyst and the emerald and the sapphire. But what it all comes down to is who gives you what. If a gift of jewelry is given to me; I don't care what it is...........I care about who gave it to me and the feelings behind it.

notadumblonde

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Do Women really like mustaches Posted: 3/12/2008 8:42:50 AM
Sorry for going against most of you women out there................ I LOVE BEARDS AND MUSTACHES!!!!!! As long as they are trimed up nicely with no remains of yesterdays lunch. To me it is almost an instant turn on.

notadumblonde

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Romantic gestures .... Why are they needed ?? Posted: 3/6/2008 4:53:28 PM
I guess I should add that sometimes it is nice to get a rose or even a daisy from the field across the road. Like on birthdays or sometime important. But most of the time I just don't need the things you can touch or hold in your hand. It's the memories of the special times spent together.

notadumblonde

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Romantic gestures .... Why are they needed ?? Posted: 3/6/2008 4:46:39 PM
Like so many on here have posted............romance is not the gifts that you buy............it is how you treat each other. Holding hands, cuddling, just letting that signifnicant other know that you care. If you have to do that with monentary things, it's just not the same. I can feel alot more romance just from the look in his eyes.

notadumblonde

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why be on a dating site if you dont wanna date or meet ppl??? Posted: 3/6/2008 4:20:34 PM
I started out on here to find someone to date.....and I have but I don't want to resign and not be able to be involved in these wonderful, insightful forums. So I am upfront and say right on the first line of my profile that I'm not looking anymore and am just here to participate in the forums. ^^^^^^^yea.....what she said......see I'm not the only one

notadumblonde

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Men not making plans or attempting to make plans on Valentine's Day? Posted: 2/15/2008 6:04:56 AM
^^^^^^See I just don't get this; being offended with getting 6 roses instead of 12. What is wrong with some people. I am so darn happy when I get one. It's more than I had before. I'm happy with one daisy or a handful of wildflowers from the field across the road. I mean get over it girls......Why does everything have to be in bulk.....Less sometimes really is more.

notadumblonde

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Men not making plans or attempting to make plans on Valentine's Day? Posted: 2/15/2008 5:54:30 AM
Nona: yes he should have at least achnowledged the day; even if it was just a call to say Happy Hearts Day. But maybe he was really stressed as to what was expected of him. I have know alot of men like that. Ladyken and Cowboy You guys are right on the money. Why make such a big production out of this day. Get together with the special someone in your life and cook dinner together. In my opinion this is "alot" more romantic than going out and you have to keep up the moral appearances in public. Cooking together can be sooo much fun and very erotic if done by two people who care about each other. Just make sur to turn off the stove if other things heat up besides dinner. At home you can just be yourselves and lots more romantic. Have a couple good movies, a bottle of wine (if that's your preference) cuddle up and enjoy each other. I'm not doing anything with my guy till this weekend because he had to work, so all the better; we have the whole weekend.

notadumblonde

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Super Fudge Brownies Posted: 2/4/2008 6:22:50 AM
These sound heavenly!! Can't wait to try them. Do you happen to have a recipe for cake brownies? My guy likes the cake kind better than the fudge ones. Thanks. V

notadumblonde

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If You Could Go Back and Fix ONE Thing You Regret .......... Posted: 1/19/2008 1:01:24 PM
I would go back and tell the boyfriend that I dumped in college that I was wrong and still loved him, even though the day I almost did; I saw him walking around and holding hands with another girl. Then less than 2 weeks later they announced they were getting married. But then my whole life would have been changed and I wouldn't have the two wonderful sons that I have and wouldn't change for anything. Granted I would have had other children but I wouldn't change having had the two I did have. I guess things happen for a reason, and I'm glad they do.

notadumblonde

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Whats an instant turn on for you Posted: 1/19/2008 11:31:29 AM
I think we should resurrect (sp) this thread. More people need to react to this.

notadumblonde

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10 Reasons Why We Should Have Sex !!! Posted: 1/19/2008 11:08:08 AM
in answer to op's #9 Every time I have a tremendous O I have to stay laying down for several minutes because if I get up right away I have a thunderous headache. So sometimes it gives you a headache! Just my experience, B ut I'll take the headache every time.

notadumblonde

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SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/19/2008 9:41:00 AM
Well I am 46 (I hate that number) I still feel like I'm in my early 30's. Anyway, I could stay in bed all day, I absolutley love sex. No more cares about birth control, just fun whenever you want. It does help that there is a wonderful person in my life that I'm having it with. Now the early poster who said it has to be with the right person, was absolutlely correct. Once I got rid of a crap piece of husband, it was amazing how fast the libido came back. Let's hear it for over 40.

notadumblonde

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Cooking as Foreplay! Posted: 1/17/2008 11:21:52 AM
One of my sons was conceived on an evening of shrimp scampi over angel hair pasta and wine. So what can I tell you...........

notadumblonde

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Have never dated how to get a girl? Posted: 1/10/2008 7:12:00 AM
[/Most women, like most men want someone who is well adjusted, confident, well balanced, well rounded, interesting... someone who is kind, who is a good listener...someone who will cherish them and will be there for them through thick and thin. This is very good advice.........................not many people will stick with you through good times and bad.

notadumblonde

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Have never dated how to get a girl? Posted: 1/10/2008 7:04:09 AM
Steve, don't listen to the porn and hookers. You are quite attractive and cute....you remind me of Harry Potter (I guess I should say Daniel Radcliffe. You also have very good morals, seem like you were raised religiously, which is a hugh plus. Hopefully you will not end up like one of the stupid "players" on these sites. Just stick it out, email some nice sounding girls in your age group and keep trying. I agree that you should redo your profile, it seems alittle lenghtly and maybe not so many scripture quotes. Theres nothing wrong with it, just maybe not quite so many. Also sometimes good things come to those who wait, and they come when you least expect them. Good luck and keep fishing.

notadumblonde

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Foreplay techniques Posted: 1/4/2008 9:46:04 AM
I love to have my boyfriend gently run his fingers up and down my back and the backs of my legs. Followed by his tounge. Gets me every time.

notadumblonde

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Is it better to be alone Or settle for someone that is not Your type. Posted: 1/4/2008 8:55:19 AM
It is always better to be alone. The reasons: 1. you will end up hurting the one you are "settleing" (sp) for because even though in the beginning they may be very happy that they got you; they will end up figuring it out. 2. you will always end up hurting yourself because you will know deep in your heart; or maybe not even that deep, that you could have found the love of your life out there somewhere. I have been there I know. I had two very wonderful men love me very deeply, neither of whom I was married to. I tried very hard to love them because I knew that they cared deeply. I knew they would try to give me the world, if they could. I just could not do it, I couldn't lie to them and then make their lives miserable as I knew it would turn into that. So I stayed alone and lonely untill I could find someone that I could care deeply about.

notadumblonde

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Modern Romance Posted: 11/20/2007 4:02:41 PM
I agree 100% Great post. Now if half the people in the world would try to follow this advice maybe we would have less divorce. Problem is nobody wants to do or give anything in the way of feelings to their significant other. They feel its too hard or not worth the time or trouble. People need to realize that love makes the world a whole lot better place to be in. Makes you want to get up in the morning. Being alone is great (sometimes), but for me I like to have someone in my life that I can care a great deal about. Just my opinion.

notadumblonde

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When you start using the 'L' word. Posted: 11/2/2007 11:32:23 AM
I agree with msg#3 and#17. It is so hard to sit back and not hear it. BUT in reference to hearing it said, having them do things that do mean they care deeply for you should be able to get you past the point till they do. And if they never do, I guess you have to decide if you can live without the words. Actions do speak louder than words, but sometimes you do need to hear them.

notadumblonde

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The Meaning of Love....out of the mouth of babes. Posted: 10/17/2007 10:21:07 AM
Children are so wonderful the way they see and understand things that we adults seem to have forgotten. That last one got me all teary eyed. And Jessica is right we shouldn't say "I love you" unless we mean it and then we should tell that person all the time.

notadumblonde

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Is love a decision Posted: 10/12/2007 10:05:26 AM
I don't think so...........you either fall in love with someone; or you don't. I have dated some really nice guys, one in paticular that was a great guy, but I tried and tried and just couldn't find, grow, cultivate, even force any feelings of love for him. I felt terrible, because I knew he loved me, would do anything for me, and would be a wonderful partner, if there were only sparks and fireworks there. But you, or should I say I, just couldn't settle for not having that make my knees weak passion, so I walked away. Then there are the ones you can't stop thinking about, want to be with all the time, miss like crazy, and yes; do make my knees go weak. So I guess I don't believe it is a decision. It either takes you by storm; or it doesn't. But I also think, because I have learned this the hard way, that once you have that love and if, God forbid, the fireworks start to dim, you should work to try to get them back. We only have one life, with which to do as we please. And if we choose to be alone, ok, don't work on that relationship that at one time was all you ever wanted. But if you want to love, and be loved, don't just throw it all away. Unless there is something really bad you can't get past. Try as hard as you can to make those knees go weak again. Because in my book it's better to have someone to spend my tomorrows with, than to spend them all alone.

notadumblonde

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how to raise the passion in romance Posted: 10/2/2007 3:58:12 PM
I think anyone who has had their heart broken, I mean really broken, it's very hard to learn to trust again. I guess to me it seems that you have to weigh the options out. Do you want to be alone and safe; or do you take a chance and maybe find happiness again. Remember "it is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.": love: Good Luck

notadumblonde

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HAVE YOU EVER DATED YOUR OWN SIGN? Posted: 4/13/2007 9:59:29 AM
I am dating a man now who is the same sign, and we seem to be very compatible. I hope it stays that way.

notadumblonde

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Move Over! This Is My Side Of The Bed! Posted: 4/13/2007 9:56:02 AM
I sleep on the left in a king size bed with 500+ thread count sheets (so soft and comfy) with 5 king size pillows. One under my head, one on each side of me, one on the other side, and an extra in case one gets lost. I love to cuddle up with them. Now when I'm not alone, it's whatever side he's not on and definately cuddled up to him with a pillow on my other side. Is it time to go back to bed yet??!!

notadumblonde

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Should women stop wearing sexy underwear at age 35 ? Posted: 3/27/2007 3:50:17 PM
I am alot well not "alot, alot" older than 35, and yes I still wear sexy underwear and not just for a date or whatever. I wear it because it makes me feel like a woman. Even in jeans and a sweatshirt, I feel special, even if it's just for my benefit that day.

notadumblonde

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Smiles, what do you benefit from making someone else happy? Posted: 3/27/2007 3:45:41 PM
By making someone else happy you in turn feel better. Nothing feels better than seeing someone or hearing someone become happy by something you did or said. It takes so little to smile, and it almost always makes the recipient smile back. And remember ladies, it takes less muscles to smile than to frown; so why add all those extra wrinkles

notadumblonde

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The One ....you might be suprised. Posted: 3/27/2007 3:34:18 PM
I think we all spend too much time and energy "looking" for "the one" to appreciate what we have. If love or whatever is going to find you; it will; not because you you spend every waking minute tracking it down, but because it just happens. You know the old saying " if you love something, set it free; if it comes back to you, it's yours; if it doesn't it never was." It is very true, someone very dear to me recently made me see that you can't fortell the future, just let things happen the way they will happen. It usually works out better that way. And you do usually find what you are looking for when you least expect it.

notadumblonde

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Dating Someone With A High IQ Posted: 2/1/2007 5:17:12 PM
I was married to someone with a high IQ (or so he said), who lacked terribly in common every day relationship things. Like compassion, consideration, understanding, fun and kidding around. But then like I mentioned HE said his IQ was high, so he could have been inflating his IQ as much as he use to inflate his ego.

notadumblonde

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could you love and not be loved in return? Posted: 1/29/2007 2:41:51 PM
MSG #63 [LoveNeverFails] Ah.....yes, unfortunatley. it does. I was married to someone who said he loved me and when I got sick after giving birth to our first son, let on that he was mr. wonderful and had me completely snowed for 8 yrs. and another son. Finally when we split, he told me he had been trying to hold the relationship together for 8 yrs. Talk about being blown away. I use to tell everyone what a wonderful man he was and how I couldn't imagine anyone else caring for me in that situation. Even after I got well again, he still was "I love you, but I can't live with you". It still took me a long time to stop loveing him even after that. So, yes.....Love does Fail. But have I given up, no....I'm just going to be alot more careful next time. "There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love."

notadumblonde

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I still love you but I am not in love with you..... Posted: 1/26/2007 12:22:27 PM
That's funny.......I got the "I love you but I can't live with you" Just goes to show that love does not conquer all!!!!!!!!!!!!

notadumblonde

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Whats an instant turn on for you Posted: 1/25/2007 5:28:55 PM
turn ons.....coming up behind me and gently kissing me on the back of the neck....kissing and nibbling on my neck and back of my knees absolutely makes me melt. A guy fresh out of the shower in nothing but a towel slung low on the hips with droplets of water on a beautiful hairy chest that disappears into the towel. Tight blue jeans, no shirt and bare feet....clean cut beards or goatees and OMG cologne that takes my breath away.....smoky, sexy looks that say he wants me now....slow deliberate love making for hours and hours..... hard, fast love making for hours and hours........feeling his weight on me........long looks from across the room. I guess I have more than I thought. offs......macho, he-men who think they're God's gift to women ......arrogance, racism, big egos.....

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would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure? Posted: 1/19/2007 4:45:05 PM
I am not now, nor will I ever be someone's trash! I was married twice and am still trying to get rid of the last one. In my opinion he was the "trash" because he was the one who didn't hold up his end of the vows "in sickness and in health" when I got ill and he couldn't handle it. So you tell me who is the "trash" here? Also, unless you have a spotless life OP, "people who live in glass houses, shouldn't throw stones".

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