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papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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If He Never Checked Out My Forum Posts Is He Not Interested? Posted: 8/15/2006 6:53:39 PM
Well didn't he email you or talk to you somehow? Otherwise how would you know if he didn't check out your forum posts? If he emailed you or chatted with you is that not showing interest?

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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When should I tell the kids? Posted: 8/15/2006 6:47:51 PM
Why Tell the Kids? Why not just do what you are comfortable with and if they ask, is he not your new friend?

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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Feast or Famine Posted: 8/15/2006 6:42:45 PM
Seems as though you are "Putting out the Single Vibe!"

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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guys input Posted: 8/15/2006 6:37:51 PM
Well aren't we all interested in sex? Men or Women? Truth is if there is more to someone than sex then most of us guys are all about getting to know someone. What more is there to you? Did you talk alot on the dates about important things? If a woman has a lot to talk about and is fun to be around, conversations and activites have a way of steering the dates in different directions. If the conversations were about how you are the best ever in bed then he was just trying to find out. It's not just us guys either, Women too sometimes are just as ansy when it comes to sex. On another note though, Men don't associate the same feelings towards Sex that women do, so while you are looking for Romance and Relationship things to build to get to Intimacy, Men sometimes use Sex as a way to get to Intimacy. Think about why you are dating and find guys that fit that profile, instead of guys that occupy the space in front of you and you may have more luck. Not all of us guys only want Sex, but all of us guys do want sex. Are you Women any different?

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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lying about living arrangement Posted: 8/2/2006 6:00:29 PM
How would you deal with something like that? Never believe anything they say again or just forget about it? I am more inclined to date a woman who lives on her own, or at least out of her parents house, but that's more of an age thing I guess. Never believe them again? Not quite sure about that, It doesn't apear to be a huge lie, probably motivated more out of embarressment than anything else. Though it would be a pretty severe discussion to explain what Honesty means. May cause her to loose a lot of respect in my eyes though, and in the dating scene, respect really does go a long way. I know at my age I'd be pretty embarrest to be living with my folks. Perhaps age could have been an important variable, all be it though the lie was fairly incriminating.

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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Define a respectful honest man Posted: 8/2/2006 5:53:34 PM
OP: So what... Do we all win a prize if we guess the riddle? Pizza, beer and Gold stars or what?

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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Why the obsession with sex??? Posted: 8/2/2006 5:48:52 PM
^^^ Adam it happens, had one hand dry up on me the other day. Had to have them make up by having one put lotion on the other one..

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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When should a girl offer to pay? Posted: 8/2/2006 5:44:52 PM
If I ask her out I pay. I feel it's only fair since i'm going to pick the agenda for the evening, I'm taking her out. I pay. If she takes me somewhere she pays. I'm kind of old fashioned in that as a guy I usually feel guilty letting the woman pay anyway, but i've come to terms with it. It seems to work out. It kind of goes like this for me: I ask her out - I pick up the tab. She asks me out - I bring enough to cover it, but I would bring it up if she doesn't at least offer or pay for it. Just Friends thing - Dutch She takes me out for dinner and it goes well.. She hasn't other plans for the evening I'll take her for dessert or something eventfull and I'll pay. Somewhere though in the back of my mind, possibly words echoeing from my mother so long ago... I feel guilty if she pays.

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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Why the obsession with sex??? Posted: 8/2/2006 5:13:50 PM
WOW ^^^ Notta Understands. Woman talking guy into sex = Hey What's your name.... Your cute.... I'm kind of horny tonight. Situion solved. Guy's try to the same thing, come on now. I dare you.

papajay

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why hang out? Posted: 8/2/2006 5:10:45 PM
Nottaprincess R-E-S-P-E-C-T Really Extraordinary Sexual Positions Everyone Cums Tonight? I'll have to check on that definition... What's up with that respect me in the morning thing... I sleep through the mornings

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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how many guys get this Posted: 8/2/2006 4:50:59 PM
Yes... Ahh.. The Swamp a55 factor. A factor of 1 = One minute from outisde or in your car to S.A. A factor of 2 = Well you get the hint. Here in Phoneix lately with the humidity it's been less than one, which.. Is less than desireable.

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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Please, explain this one guys....... Posted: 8/2/2006 4:47:06 PM
Awwww.... Screw it. OP (Moon strucklover) You may as well give up. We ALL want Barbie. You should stop now. That way we wouldn't have to keep being over sensitive to this same thread every time someone goes on a date, mis-represents themselves and feels rejected. Meanwhile please don't tell any of your friends that are not with Ken and are not Barbies themselves that you know this information. Get a Cat maybe more than one and sit at home and feel special.... OR Put on a smile, your favorite "Going out Dress" a positive thought in your head and climb back up in the saddle again. If you have a beard, wax it off. If your goiter is noticeable, see a doctor. If you can't get out your front door, have some friends bring by some salad and a gallon of ranch dressing and loose a little until you can get out. Take the Anti-Depressants, put down the crack pipe... whatever it takes and try it again!

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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Why the obsession with sex??? Posted: 8/2/2006 4:38:23 PM
What's the difference between a guy that is looking for Romance and Sex in a relationship and a guy that doesn't push for it? Any of you guys out there that have a lot of Women "Friends" or, to Women are only "Friends" want to answer this one?

papajay

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Understanding Men Posted: 8/2/2006 2:30:38 PM
Rune3 The most evil thing a Man can do, is leave a Woman up to her own imagination. You Women are far more capable of pissing yourselves off, and confusing yourselves then us Men have ever been.

papajay

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How would you want to be approached by a woman? Posted: 8/2/2006 2:28:22 PM
I have one that really always makes me laugh. I've figured out now that it's based off an old joke, but i didn't know it at the time. I'm laughing now just thinking about it.... She approached me at the bar and said "Would you like to see my tatto?" I asked what tattoo? She said I have a tattoo of a mouse right here... And she preceeded to slowly pull her jeans down a bit in the front just almost to "Happy Land" down her navel, then she looked at me with a surprised look and said "I had a mouse.. Oh I guess my pu55y ate it! hehe" Maybe a little forward but I definately remebered her.

papajay

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Why the obsession with sex??? Posted: 8/2/2006 2:23:24 PM
I completely agree with Ubkobalt on this. Not all men who get sex on the first date only care about sex or wouldn't go out with the same woman again. That type of belief really screws up Friday and Saturday nights. I believe that love thing takes a lot longer, but SEX? Come on guys, why blow smoke? Do you honestly think SOME Women do not have the same feelings? UBKOBALT so far has through humor expalined almost to a "T" how the majority of us men think about sex throughout this and other posts. Adam has expressed almost the exact opposite, but still true definitions. While I side more with UB's philosophy, Adam's philosophy is also very prevalent amoung a different type of Guy. I can't speak for all guy's but as far as trying your best to understand how men think, these two Men have pretty much explained both sides of the male sex "coin"

papajay

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Understanding Men Posted: 8/2/2006 2:15:07 PM
Damit Kaos, that was to simple! I read Councellortroi's post and got a headache. oowwwww... As I read the different Women's and Men's posts, I see they are still trying to interpret things... Women are still just to incapable of simplistic thought. I believe that since they usually have a pointed conversation or alterior motives they believe that we do to. Possible but highly unlikely. Off to grunt, think about work and check the sports sites for the latest scores....

papajay

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Understanding Men Posted: 8/1/2006 10:37:53 PM
Women know how they think. The think of all kinds of scenerios, constantly question everything. They assume Men are like this. Women are wrong. Men are NOT Complicated. What we said is what we meant. Guy sitting on couch watching TV, is not contimplating relationship issues. Guy eating dinner is not thinking about realtionship issues. Guy talking about sex is not thinking about relationship issues. Guy going to sleep is not thinking about relationship issues. Come to think of it.... What the hell are realtionship issues? Um... huh. Anyone Hungry?

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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Why the obsession with sex??? Posted: 8/1/2006 8:40:36 PM
Could you guys help me as to why the games just to get sex? Please Enlighten us all, What else works as well? We're all Ears....

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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Dealing with someone in denial about their feelings Posted: 7/31/2006 5:17:44 PM
Hey Rudeguy, that is usually a sign of someone trying to date because they are lonely and need the affection, but emotionally still not quite ready to date. They believe that they are, but it has been my experience that in dating them when they are like that, it hasn't turned out pretty. This is kind of a warnign sign to me, and it makes them friends real fast. You can't push them, they must get there on thier own time. If you really like her, try being her friend for a bit, but this can come back to haunt you.

papajay

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Crowd scenes as your profile pic? Posted: 7/31/2006 5:06:57 PM
Good Post Joe, I too have wondered this. Here's a fun one. When you email them tell them you like'd all the women in the picture. Could she tell you which ones are single? This always gets a positive response!!!

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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what do i need to do to get the man i want? Posted: 7/31/2006 4:24:27 PM
From your profile: BRAINLESS , ARROGANT ,EGOCENTRIC IMBECILES NEED NOT APPLY. Damn!!! I found your problem!

papajay

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Do Guys Need Their Space? Posted: 7/31/2006 4:20:20 PM
I like a conversation whenever there's something meaningful that TWO people can talk about, I love affection when appropriate. I think most men appreciate sharing some moments and some conversation. Just like women we like to feel special and return a phone call here and there just to let you know we're thinking of you. If we're not solving a problem, planning something or in genereal don't have something special going on, I'd appreciate it all the Calls Recieved weren't yours for the whole list though.

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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Question for the parents out there... Posted: 7/31/2006 4:11:14 PM
Boys will be Boys. At that age I was doing the same thing. It's just a thing. Yes he will probably grow up liking Boobies (Not a bad thing) but, HE'S 12!!! You know that phrase..Grow Up. Well....He's 12! You're not doing it on purpose to tease him, he's to young to know that it's bugging you. I'm quite certain some girls his age, especially when he gets to High school are going to help him "Learn his Manners," all without your help, embarressment and a possible conflict with his folks. Perhaps you may mention it to his father... If he's capable of looking up!

papajay

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Why do guys complain and then do something like this? Posted: 7/31/2006 3:54:25 PM
I didn't know it was the first meeting, didn't get that from your post. Now you may understand "What special needs means." He may have read it, but not having experienced it himself, probably had no idea what to expect. Being though that it was the first time it wouldn't matter. Possibly he may have found someone else being that the two of you hadn't got together yet. You cancelled, he found someone and ran short of time. Honestly If a Guy breaks off a first date with you, do you go out of your way to call back? If you had more than one person interested, would that not move the next person up on the list?

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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question for experienced guys Posted: 7/31/2006 3:48:19 PM
In person, then screw his brains out. You break it off, become the "Ex" then take care of the re-bound all at once!!! Pick up your clothes, look right at him, tell him you are serious and that you are gone, then leave! You'll always be a smile on his face, and he'll be just fine.

papajay

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Why do guys complain and then do something like this? Posted: 7/31/2006 3:31:17 PM
Hey While it is VERY true that you needed to spend the time with your son, How many times have you blown off dates with him? I have a son, and I've dated women with kids. I did break up with one woman who re-scheduled 6 dates in two months. It was not that I didn't like her, nor was it that I thought I should come between her and her son. It's easier then that. If she can't make some time, she doesn't have enough time for a relationship. It happens, and when dating and looking for the right person you need to feel that it is working. If you feel frustrated then it's not for you. Obviously he wasn't working for you, nor you for him so he moved on. No harm no foul. Different strokes for different folks.

papajay

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How do you deal with the distance? Posted: 7/31/2006 12:06:58 PM
Adam It's real Tough Bud. When My "ex" and I were doing the whole college thing, she went to one on the East coast, and I went to one here in AZ. We came up with a couple things. We wrote letters and sent them via mail. Nothing more fun then waiting for the mail, and getting a letter. Sometimes we'd put pictures or a small something in there for eachother. Use your imagination. In both locations we had simialr or the same type of restaurants, IE Taco Bell, Olive Garden, Red Lobster.... She'd sit in her town and call me, I'd do the same from here and we'd "Have dinner apart" We'd send eachother recordings to play in the car. Women usually always steal a shirt or some piece of clothing from your place, so I would just send her a Shirt for bed or something. The ocassional card. Little Things, It's about all you can do.

papajay

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bar scene Posted: 7/31/2006 11:06:21 AM
Interpreting the mind of the single guy... I'm going to the bar tonight = I'm looking for Chicas (Girls) I'm going out with the guys = Because that's what I always do. (I'm Broke) I've got to go check on my mom = My Laundry is really piling up! I'm bored = I'm broke and so are my friends Interpreting the guy in a realtionship I'm going to the bar = Because I can't stand listening to you anymore I'm going out with the guys = Because John got paid and I'm to broke to take you out I've got to check on my mom = I screwed up and want to tell her before you do. I'm bored = What the hell are you doing?

papajay

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where are the men ? Posted: 7/31/2006 10:43:49 AM
the ones who want a woman who will except them for who they are and not for what is between their legs.... Well If you truely feel that you wouldn't do well with the guys by posting your picture up on your profile because they wouldn't like your looks, try posting a picture of that other thing and proving your self right? Many speak of this personality thing, and yet If it was possible to "Photograph" a personality, some would loose their other excuse....

papajay

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what to do Posted: 7/31/2006 10:39:26 AM
Well, he gave you the rope to hang yourself if you wanted too. I'm not going to speculate on whether or not he is really that into you or not, I'd have no way of knowing that based on the info given, all I can say here is he's not trying to control you or run your life. He's making sure that you are making your own decision on what it is that you want. Perhaps you will know more when he moves.

papajay

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poo murals?? Posted: 7/31/2006 10:34:28 AM
Nikki, Sounds like you are a little pee'd off about this crappy situation. It's just part of Kids, Mine once did the Happy Indian Crap dance at 4:30 in the morning. After cleaning him up I looked so lovingly at my son with Duct tape in hand, thinking to myself, "Should I duct tape the child to the bed so I can get back to sleep.." or "Should I duct tape the diaper on him so he can't get it off?" I got lost in thought for this for a moment.... Then I started making him wear underwear over his diaper at night for bed. The problem seemed to go away. Then we worked on potty training and though he's not 100% yet, it seems as though my walls have been left... without murals, and my bedding hasn't needed to be thrown away.

papajay

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lost my way. need help getting back Posted: 7/27/2006 2:42:26 PM
Sparkster, there are a Million of them in Phoenix. Try the City of Tempe anywhere on Mill Ave, The Buzz in Scottsdale, Sixshooters... Your 25, take one or two classes at the University or any Junior College. Try Coffee Plantation by the Biltmore Fashion park. Most of these are in the Phoenix Metro Area. The Phoenix Zoo is a Single Mother wading pool!

papajay

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got myself into a situation Posted: 7/27/2006 2:31:49 PM
ok, i had been going out with a guy for 4 years, i then wen to university... I'm going with this is might be a little fictitous?

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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looks? Posted: 7/27/2006 2:25:41 PM
I'm going with personality. I kinda got dealt my looks, but I do have complete control over my personality. I expect those that I date though to have an interest in both.

papajay

Joined: 7/4/2006

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Why do men feel threatened by girls that party harder than them Posted: 7/27/2006 12:38:37 PM
Who said that Men feel threatened? Merely you weren't what they were looking for so they moved on. You are who you are, much in the same fashion they are what they are. If you have particular tastes and you meet someone who has a different outlook on what he wants and he leaves you, it does not mean that he is threatened. It means he is seeking something different in his lifestyle and you did not match it. The type of Lifestyle and what you find fascinating right now may not be something to build a relationship on, so Party while you can.There is no big deal. Settle down when the time is right. No harm no foul, but the Men you label as "Threatened" were probably looking for something deeper in a relationship than what you currently are offereing. They weren't threatened, they just weren't interested anymore.

papajay

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lost my way. need help getting back Posted: 7/27/2006 11:07:49 AM
When meeting a Woman express who you are with confidence, not arrogance. Look and listen to what she says. Most woman do not like to lead things, they are much happier following and analyzing. When falling into the "Friend" catagory I often found myself in situations where I was doing just that...acting to much like a friend. She is interested in that special something that is you. When a Woman says be yourself, she actually means it. With pride and Confidence...Be yourself. Allow her to experience that which you are. Add to that "Flirting" and she will think of you as a lover. Treat her like a lady and incorporate into that a strong self-esteem for yourself as well as a respect for her, this is the mark of a good guy. Doing the exact same thing as I just mentioned without self-respect and self confidence will land you right in the Friend situation thus making you a "Nice Guy" rather than a "Good Guy." Corny pick-up lines are not needed. The ability to walk up, introduce yourself and not be afraid of what she says, but rather look forward to what she says (confidence) is what's required. You are already everything you need to be to attract what you want. That is all I have figured out in my 30 years.

papajay

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Tools of the trade to getting laid ? Posted: 7/27/2006 10:29:13 AM
If getting laid is what you want, simply find a woman who wants the same. Strangely games are not needed for this, and surprisingly there are solutions to every problem. Where do you go to find what you are looking for? She's probably there too. Try not to get so self absorbed in what you are thinking and listen to what she is telling you. Sometimes there just isn't a game that needs to be played. If you want a fast car don't look at minivans. Being deceptive might get you what you want, but the cost of getting it might not be worth it. There are many kind hearts on here that have fallen victim and become bitter and resentful from such deception. Whether or not you handed her Roses, or bought her dinner would make no difference if the overall presented package of looks, personality and charcter were not to her liking.

papajay

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I don't get this guy at all. Posted: 7/27/2006 10:16:40 AM
With as many posts on here about no return emails, He's probably happy that you emailed him. He probably didn't return your email and by the time he got back to it, saw you responded again. Then he had the time so why not...Annoy the crap out of you? Apparently it worked. Why would anyone delete people on their Favorites List? What does this list mean anyway... and why would it bother you so much?

papajay

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What happened to the foreplay? Posted: 7/26/2006 3:13:15 PM
Foreplay is fun, there are some of us that still know what it is.... "Brace Yourself Baby... Cause I'm Ready!!!!"

papajay

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How many times have you actually met someone ? Posted: 7/25/2006 9:19:23 PM
I have met 6 people on here, one of which I've been dating now for almost a month. I haven't been on here all that long either. Only thing I can say is the Forums helped me to show who I am and gives people a conversation piece to talk to you about. All I did was read through some profiles. Check their profiles for information about who they were. If I had questions or wanted to know more, I just asked. Some responded, some didn't. I found that the emails I sent asking questions about who they were or relating to certain things in my local area got the greatest responses. Then I would try to find at least 3-4 forum posts that I could comment on to express who I was inside as well as my views on things. It seemed to work for me. Though quite a few people have had some really rotten luck.

papajay

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Marry Me Posted: 7/25/2006 7:00:33 PM
I Like rad22263's answer the best..... It had character and added a nice punchline. KUDOS!

papajay

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Dating Posted: 7/25/2006 6:54:32 PM
Do: Everything you are aching to do. Don't: Do anything you'll regret Do: Make up your mind if there's going to be a second date Don't: Hide your feelings about a second date Do: Be Yourself Don't: Bring up your Mother Do: Be in a positive mood Don't: Bring your problems with you Miniature Golf Dating Rules: Men: Don't let her play with your putter all night without clearing the holes. Women: Don't play with is putter all night without letting him play a couple holes. Bowling Dating Rules: Men: Make certain you get your fingers in the right holes and your palm placement correct, Women always appreciate good form. Women: Once he's knocked down all the pins, secured a couple Strikes and some spares be nice and hand him back his Ball clean. Don't tell him the score for each round.

papajay

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Longterm??? Posted: 7/25/2006 5:40:51 PM
COMPLETEKAOS had the best answer to this in another forum once. I agreed with the post then.... Dating should be the only choice on here. I personally do not care what it says in someone's profile about what they are looking for. DATING is where it all starts and why we are all here. Possibly the only other check box should be for Forums Only.

papajay

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sex so soon after...wtf boys??? Posted: 7/25/2006 5:36:04 PM
Why should it matter? There is an answer to this question... but giving it up is Secret Guy Society information, and I really don't want to spend another week in the ask a girl forum answering questions again. That Secret Guy Society is shameless with their punishments. However after reviewing the above question intently from the poster, we collectively as "The Secret Guy Society" are willing to cut and paste your original answer.... .....I don't believe they do at all, everyone is obviously very different

papajay

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What do you think about this....Is he cheap? Posted: 7/25/2006 5:26:57 PM
I'm going with Drew's answer.... IS HE CHEAP...or what?? does he not think??? Yes he's cheap and as for the does he not think... Actually I think he was thinking just fine...lol Silly Girl, check once again on Drew's answer.

papajay

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dating a virgin when you aren't one Posted: 7/25/2006 2:37:15 PM
Holy Crap! THey still make those? It must be a Canadien thing. They don't make virgins over the age of 17 here in Arizona (US). It would be weird at my age, but as ubkobalt pointed out I don't think you'll have a problem. You may however have a problem with a guy believing you, that you are in fact a virgin. It's refreshing to see that still happens. All the women here in Arizona, they all have that fresh glow to them. I used to attribute that to our weather and the sun and all.... Naaa... i figured it out. There's a lot of horny people here in AZ. That glow has nothing to do with the sun....

papajay

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Mental Disorders Posted: 7/24/2006 4:32:34 PM
I'm probably going to get beat up for this, but I lived with it for 9 years with someone. I wouldn't do it. The Biggest turn-off a woman can do for me is mention that she is either Bi-Polar or Manic Depressive. I have been on the Bad side of that and I won't do it anymore. She was not a bad person, but when she wasn't medicated she was evil. Getting her back on meds once she was off of it was a pain.

papajay

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Ok Guys, Please Help Me Out on This One..... Posted: 7/24/2006 4:25:12 PM
Find out if he is single, or If he is dating someone first. Ask him that quetions, here's why. As a guy, if someone we know (Female Prefereably lol) asks us if we are single or dating someone we may give you the answer right there. Something like this... Hey Jay are you seeing someone right now? No why, are you interested? Go on from there... or Hey Jay are you seeing someone right now? Yes, I've been seeing blank for awhile, you know we've been friends, you should meet her. THen you have your answer. Yes he's seeing someone, and yes you are only friend material. or Hey jay are you seeing someone right now? I'm dating why? Then you ask, "Well why didn't we ever go out?" Go on from there, if he mentions friend then you know, if not there you have it. Either way, no harm done, at least until you go out with him!

papajay

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Being Needy Posted: 7/24/2006 4:00:27 PM
Needy about what? "Old mother hubbard who lived in the cubbard and wants me to pay all her bills?" or "Little Miss-Muffet who wants me to fill her tuffet and never take away my bone?" All depends on what you need?

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