There are some clubs mostly in Orange County that have dances every week for BBW's. If you Google it you shall see.

- She lives four hours away (another STATE, actually) and you don't have a phone number for her??? WHY??? Have you even met this girl? Did you drive to AZ, or has she come to Cali? Have you done the horizontal mambo??? You may just be a booty call, cyber sex friend, etc. ... don't know, but its just ODD you are in a relationship but don't have her number.

If you wanted to date one and decided it would be best not to see each other, what would hold you back?

I am much more interested in being with a man who loves me and who I love.

A woman IS a resource, if you want to perpetuate your genetic code, and no, it is not equal between men and women.

^^^now, now, Ace. you just painted all men as the sex-fueled gender!

The PBS documentary series has done a really great job of covering it, in "Sex-Unknown." If you get a chance, it's worth a look see.

I posted this on another site and someone brought up a good point: how about those born with both genitalia (hermaphroditism)?

What if an Heir is to the first born male of a line.... And a woman had a sex change and changed her birth certificate to create that heir? If it was worth billions... ????? Just saying.

And he'd always felt more like a woman than a man. Hearing someone like that talk openly about their life, you can't help but appreciate the personal difficulties they face.

But what's with the XYZ I read about? There was even a picture of the result--and it wasn't pretty. I remember the caption very clearly--it was "Jojo, the dog-faced boy."

Be that as it may, in the absence of the testosterone bath, we would all come out with female characteristics, regardless of our chromosomes.

Her message makes her out to be bitter and lonely and friendless.

These ladies are behind me (I'm usually a decade ahead in major trends) with their old-fashioned thinking about women, the dichotomy about good girls don't and bad girls do (madonna/whore complex).

to get any benefit from this site you have to be a white male awkward nerd

I've spent my life trying to throw off the yoke of nerdism and I think that is a GOOD thing.

A better idea would be to express interest in the kinds of things a man you are attracted to is interested in and hope that he chooses you based on many aspects of who you are both mental and physical if is his prerogative.

I get this strange feeling that the creator of this site is jealous of all other men and in a way this site is designed to try and make men look bad.

If it was up to me I would change the colors of this site or something because it is designed to appeal to women assuming women know what they want. Do women know what they want?

I have experimented and I can get plenty of responses when I have a nice picture posted, but that is not the way a dating site should be run.

In the last three years the nation's voters as a whole, and California's in particular have resoundingly rejected the Republican Party's message.

i have regular casual sex with this one girl, but there is no emotional attachment or commitment.

i am looking to find a long-term partner and will try online dating.

i do consider myself single and will stop having the casual sex as soon as i find a partner.

how would you feel if a guy said they were single in their profile but then you found out they had a ****buddy, but are willing to do away with it for a long-term relationship?

I still have the prowess of a late 30-early 40 man, and I do not intend to slow down, or decrease my prowess.

I need some advice on whether to lie on my profile, or just, well, patience is not one of my strongpoints (sic).

I am 57 years old, but I do not look or act like my age. I have not, nor do I expect to find a woman in my age group who can keep up with me.

I am looking for a woman who is able to keep up, not poke along and expect me to push her wheelchair.

I guess, if she were my "soulmate", that she would love good food, real food, steak and taters, not buying into the govt propaganda about nutrition, knowing that everything in moderation is fine. Activity uses calories, nuff said.

Very active socially and sexually

There are many studies that single sex is better for children to learn, especially girls... because its less likely to occur that gender stereotypes about girls not being good at math or science are instilled in a same-sex environment. They showed that the girls would often perform better and have more self-confidence in a same-sex environment.

Sorry to burst your bubble but the good men that you speak of have the morals to not treat you like that and you can't have both... Pick one.

But in the past 9 years I have done more and seen more than most will see in a single life time yet you want to right from the start judge and persecute me for a question... Swing that judgmental pendulum back the other way and look at yourselves before judging me. If you look at it I was asking a question to better my understanding, not openly attacking anyone... You want to attack me then attack me... But don't hide behind false pretenses to do so.