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She hasn't had sex with me for over a year Posted: 3/4/2010 11:16:47 AM
If your relationship's broken to the point that you're getting on the internet trying to find someone else then GET OUT of the relationship!!! You aren't going to do anyone any good dragging things out. WHY bring a third person in to the situation? That will only breed resentment for your current girlfriend.

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Am I being selfish? Posted: 2/23/2010 2:34:58 AM
And you’ve been here since 2007. You’ve been fishing while with her. This is 2010. Just because he has been here since 2007 doesn't mean squat. About a year ago was the end of 2008 or the beginning of 2009. How do you know he was on the site when he was back with his ex? I've been here since 2006, but when I was in a relationship I forgot all about this site. Didn't even think about coming back to delete my profile. It was months after the relationship ended before I even remembered I had a profile here. Don't judge the man just because he's had a profile since 2007. You aren't in his shoes so you don't know what he's done in that time. OP, I know exactly how you feel. The relationship I spoke of was with a former boyfriend from my High School days. For seven months I tried to deal with his drinking, while he promised that he would quit. As a former alcoholic myself I just couldn't deal with it anymore and had to walk away when i realized the alcohol meant more to him than I did. You are not being selfish. WHY should two people's lives be ruined?

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does the sex scale go down Posted: 2/18/2010 1:40:06 PM
If you aint askin, he probably thinks you don't like it that much. The same can be said if HE ain't asking. My ex always left it up to me to be the one to initiate. That gets old and makes a person feel undesired. BOTH need to do the initiating.

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Oh man.. where Do I start Posted: 2/13/2010 11:19:57 PM
I have a question for you OP. IF you care so much about this young lady, WHY does your profile state that your here looking for a long term relationship? Yeah, I know, I know, the profile was put up BEFORE your relationship with this girl started. Well, even if that were the case it should have been changed after you became involved with her. JMO

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She wants this lifestyle, but i cant handle it... Posted: 2/12/2010 9:07:04 PM
her sign says she's divorce but im here to say we're not just seprated But yet YOUR profile says your divorced.

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Naughty Dancing = Cheating? Posted: 2/8/2010 11:17:20 AM
I'm kind of on the fence as to whether I'd consider it cheating or not. If the man I'm in a committed relationship with is grinding with some other female and becomes aroused while doing so, I'd be very concerned. If on the other hand he was detached while dancing and I could tell he wasn't getting in to being with her, then maybe I'd be ok with it. I'd prefer that any grinding he's doing be done with me.

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First week. What do you think? Posted: 1/17/2010 11:33:58 PM
You've only been on here 5 days and are already getting ready to go on your 3rd date? I'd say your profile is obviously "working" for you. If those dates have been HUGE disappointments then maybe it's your screening process that's not working.

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Need a review of my profile. Posted: 1/17/2010 11:28:54 PM
I've made a few changes to the profile. I'll have to work on getting pics taken. That's the hard part as I HATE having my pic taken. Even as a child I hid from the camera. Ron, don't feel sorry for Rod. He brought everything on himself. I always say Karma's a b*tch, He ticked Karma off when he jerked WVU around the way he did, lied to the young men in that football program and then deserted them at a very crucial time in the season. Shame on him. I feel sorry for Michigan. They got duped by a money hungry skunk. Hope ya'll have tons of tomato juice to get the smell out of your state.

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Need a review of my profile. Posted: 1/17/2010 2:19:40 PM
Sorry about Rod ruining your football program in Michigan. We didn't send him to ya, he just high tailed it out of here like the skunk he is. Left a foul odor around for awhile too. LoL Thanks for the help all.

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Need a review of my profile. Posted: 1/16/2010 10:54:55 PM
Thanks Ron. That's pretty much what I have done in the past when I've sent an initial email. I guess my problem is that I feel awkward initiating contact with someone I'm interested in and it probably comes across in the email.

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Need a review of my profile. Posted: 1/16/2010 10:52:20 PM
Thanks for the advice. I've made a few changes. BTW, my favorite teams are the Mountaineers and anyone who beats Pitt. J/K

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religion Posted: 1/16/2010 10:03:50 PM
As a person who is NOT religious I would run simply because I don't like being preached at. I had religion forced on me in my younger years and as an adult I don't want to deal with the same thing.

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Need a review of my profile. Posted: 1/16/2010 4:36:56 PM
Thank you so much for your reply. I am not one who likes having her picture taken, but I will work on getting some more. I have a couple hidden on my profile that were taken last year. Perhaps I will make them public for now. As for sending the initial email, I have tried this a few times. I usually just mention something about the person's profile to show that I have actually read it as it seems many people don't even bother to read profiles. This doesn't seem to work for me. What type of initial emails are people looking to receive to show that someone is interested in them?

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Need a review of my profile. Posted: 1/16/2010 3:28:32 PM
I would appreciate an honest review of my profile. I don't seem to be getting a lot of views. Perhaps I'm too boring. LoL I realize there are thousands of people on here so that could have something to do with this. Any help is appreciated. Thank you.

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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it? Posted: 1/7/2010 9:49:16 AM
When I figured out my ex was cheating on me and then he left me for his mistress I thought about doing something to get revenge. I didn't do anything but Karma started biting him in the a$$ before long. He had a very important position in our community but lost it within several months because of his affair. The best part though is that I can retire and enjoy the rest of my life in 9 1/2 years. He won't have that luxury because he'll have to work until he's dead to pay for the kids him and his tramp now have.

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What do you think her interest level is? Posted: 12/13/2009 8:40:52 PM
OP your profile says that you are 25. She's in high school...so I'm guessing she might very well be a minor. Granted, you are only "pen pal" status at this time, doesn't the age differences bother you a bit? I mean, she's jail bait bud. If I were a 25 year old guy texting a high school girl.....I'd be v-e-r-y careful what I text. I was just getting ready to post the same thing.

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How do YOU stop loving someone Posted: 11/23/2009 2:01:47 PM
It's different for each and every person. For me when all the lies I was told over the last several years of my marriage kept slapping me in the face that was it. Now whatever happens to the POS happens. Karma's a b*tch and I figure the way he treated me, Karma will bite him in the end.

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are women ok with a man who does not orgasm, yet still enjoys every moment? Posted: 11/23/2009 12:47:25 PM
Having to work sucks, but at least you have a job at a time when so many others don't. Vacation is great!!! I love getting to stay in bed all damn day long if I want to. LoL HOW on Earth could she not know??? What about the wet spot?

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Your two cents worth...... Posted: 11/8/2009 11:13:36 PM
I have that quote attached to my email. Only it's "Any man who can't handle me at my worst damn sure don't deserve me at my best." LoL

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A Plugged up Toilet, so she packed up and left?! Should I let it go? Posted: 11/8/2009 11:20:07 AM
What should you do? You should change the locks, that's what you should do!!!

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'I love you' during sex Posted: 10/12/2009 1:59:30 AM
Maybe it's not you she loves, but the sex.

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I don't do separated... Posted: 8/16/2009 8:30:26 PM
In my opinion NO you aren't wrong!!! Several months after my divorce I was in a relationship with a man who claimed he was separated. One of the worst mistakes I ever made in my life. Several months in to the relationship I found out that he wasn't separated and had no intentions of ever being separated from his wife. Relationship OVER!!! Lesson learned for me. I WON'T go down that road again. I know the heartache that can be caused when your spouse cheats on you, I don't ever want to be the cause of someone else going through that heartache. If a man isn't 100% single then he's wasting his time with me. I don't need the turmoil.

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IF Posted: 7/19/2009 8:31:00 PM
If you're not sexually attracted to him then tell him the truth. To do anything but that makes you a player in my mind.

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High Maintenance versus Being Realistic Posted: 4/26/2009 9:56:08 PM
I don't consider myself high maintenance. As far as I'm concerned the finer things in life are free. Love and respect don't cost a dime. While you have to earn respect it doesn't cost you one thin dime. All I want is someone to share life with, not someone to cater to my every whim.

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Sex with the ex.. Posted: 3/16/2009 5:53:32 AM
Although, most will never admit to it, I'd bet most people at one time or another have had sex with an Ex.... Sex with an ex boyfriend, yes. Sex with the ex husband, not unless hell freezes over. That's why they make batteries!!!

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Sex with the ex.. Posted: 3/15/2009 8:35:23 PM
Not if he was the last man on Earth. Who knows where that cheating d*ck has been.

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Never had a One Night Stand Posted: 3/15/2009 8:18:39 PM
I don't think it's odd. Many of us just aren't in to that sort of thing.

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Physical attraction progresses as age does? Posted: 2/12/2009 2:12:46 AM
I understand what you're saying OP. When I was in my teens I would have dated someone several years older than me or someone a few years younger than me. Now that I'm in my mid forties I am more attracted to people closer to my own age. People in their thirties or younger don't appeal to me. In my younger days the age gap could have gone anywhere from 2 years younger to 6 or 7 years older, now I prefer it to be about two years either way.

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Husband of 26 yrs. Left for a girlfriend 15 yrs younger Posted: 2/7/2009 1:23:34 AM
Shady Lady52 I can feel your pain. My husband of over 23 years walked out on me for someone who he supervised. She is 16 years younger than him. He wouldn't even go to counseling to attempt to save our marriage. I don't think I could do what you are doing. I couldn't still live with him knowing he's going off to his girlfriend's on the weekends. I'd tell him he could move in with her while at the same time still supporting you. If she wants him so bad then let her support his sorry a$$ until the mortgage on your home is paid off.

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Vagina Sensitivity or Lack Thereof and Solutions Posted: 2/5/2009 9:54:23 PM
I didn't know there were g-spot creams. That's interesting. As far as cremes for the clitoris goes try vigel.

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Have you ever been in a relationship with someone you did not find attractive physically? Posted: 2/3/2009 10:17:44 AM
I dated one guy when I was in High School that I didn't find attractive at all. I married a guy who I didn't find attractive. We were married for over 23 years.

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Coming up on Valentines day # 3 alone Posted: 2/3/2009 12:52:46 AM
OP, this will also be my 3rd Valentine's Day alone. It will also be the third anniversary of the divorce that the ex filed for. Ironic that it became official on V Day. Since then, I look at V Day as just another day. It's day 45 of a new year. I'm actually looking forward to it this year because it will be the first Saturday I haven't had to work since going back to work after the holidays. LOL

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multiple positions during 1sex session, hows it possible Posted: 2/3/2009 12:17:07 AM
If you want to really have fun: Try not using steps #1 & #3 . . . That's always a good time. Kinda like playin nekkid twister. LOL Fun times, fun times!!!

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Can't get off during sex Posted: 2/1/2009 11:51:53 PM
Has any one ever needed to be more or less in love with someone to even be able to get off with them. I think the majority of my problem is a comfort issue. You just answered your own question. When you find someone who cares about you as much as you care about her, you're in for one amazing experience! I've never really been emotionally involved with any one, and thats something I want more than anything even sex. Op, there's nothing wrong with you!!! Take pride in the fact that you are someone who has to care about the person he's with.

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are you vocal in bed?? Posted: 2/1/2009 6:21:58 PM
I've never been vocal. That just wasn't something my ex and I did in our 24 years together. Probably because most of that time there were children in the house. I've been in a couple of relationships since my divorce. Both of them were vocal in bed and wanted the same from me, however, both of them chose to talk about our sex life with their buddies. That shut me down pretty damn quick. If I know I can't trust someone to keep what happens between us between us, then I can't let go. It's probably a mental block, but that's just the way I am.

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What is it exactly about pulling hair?? Posted: 2/1/2009 2:17:43 PM
Hmmm, while I like someone to brush my hair or run their hands through my hair, that relaxes me, if someone tried to pull my hair I think that would be the end of that. I'd pack up my toys and go home, or if I was already home he'd be heading out the door. Notice, I said "I think". No one has ever tried that on me, so I can't say for sure, but I don't see it as being a turn on for me.

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multiple positions during 1sex session, hows it possible Posted: 2/1/2009 1:26:41 PM
Hmmm, sounds like you only know one position. Before you go from doggy to anal you'd better make sure the woman you're with is ok with that. If you choose to go from anal back to the vagina you'd better clean your penis first. If you don't want to have to stop and go wash, then keep some wet wipes by the bed. The brief intermission is far better than the infection that's a possibility when going from the back door to the front without cleaning up.

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Panties Posted: 2/1/2009 1:15:13 PM
yea sepia77 the op said the word panties made him think of little girls ...but then he sugested underoos . The op is a she, not a he. Sorry, just had to point that out. OT I don't care what anyone calls their panties, knickers, whatever. To each their own.

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Cuddling Posted: 2/1/2009 3:02:07 AM
I love to cuddle!!! I fall in to a much deeper and more refreshing sleep when I have someone to cuddle with. I do tend to roll over at some point during the night or have to move due to achy bones but as long as I'm still able to touch it's all good. Cuddling, it's the thing I miss the most about being married or in a relationship.

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Choosing not to have children Posted: 2/1/2009 2:28:30 AM
So, what do you think of people choosing not to have children? I think that's an individual's right!!! No one should be forced to have children if they don't want to. One poster suggested using the "Prefer not to say" option. My question is why??? If you don't want children, you don't want children. It's that simple. If someone can't handle that then that's their problem, not yours. Just my opinion.

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Which is HARDER for you.. to give away your body or your heart First Posted: 2/1/2009 2:20:53 AM
The trick is to find someone who wants both my heart and my body. Now that is the best! My sentiments exactly!!!

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which do you consider to be the lesser of two evils? Posted: 2/1/2009 2:11:22 AM
The other woman or man in the scenario is NOT to blame. I have to disagree with that!!! I could agree if the man or woman didn't know that the other person was married or in a relationship, but when they do know and they go ahead and screw around with that person anyway, then hell yes, they get to be blamed too!!!

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How Do You Know When You Are Being String Along ? Posted: 1/31/2009 2:47:42 AM
He won't introduce you to his family or friends? I smell a married man here. Cut the cord and don't walk, RUN!!!

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Are poker-playing skills relevant to dating? Posted: 1/31/2009 2:34:11 AM
Ummm, I think perhaps the better place for this question would be in the relationships section since you're asking about dating.

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discussing sex in the forums Posted: 1/31/2009 2:32:13 AM
Due to the nature of this thread, and some very shady people acting in cowardice, MsMicki was handed a ban of 23 days from posting. WTH??? To me the only possible reason for banning someone would be if that person threatened someone else. Oh, wait, never mind. Since MsMicki is open and honest, she is a threat. I forgot, liars and cowards don't like people like her.

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embarrassing question re: feminine products Posted: 1/31/2009 1:50:45 AM
There must have been plumbing problems already. The problem comes when you are on a septic system, not a sewer system. While tampons won't, or shouldn't clog a toilet, over time they will create problems with a septic system.

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Women's Sustenance and Men Done In Moments Posted: 1/29/2009 9:50:31 PM
willsniffurundies said Once you have soaked my face with your satisfaction it really doesn't matter how long or how brief the actual act of intercourse is. I say WRONG!!! I can't speak for all women, but for me personally, just because I may have gotten mine prior to intercourse doesn't mean I want intercourse to be wham bam, thank you mam. It doesn't have to go on for hours, but at least 10 to 15 minutes would be nice.

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Is something wrong with me or is this a common problem? Posted: 1/29/2009 12:58:19 AM
docmegaman said: What the hell kind of a comment was that? This woman has not negated the pain and agony of someone going through cervical cancer. This is not some contest on "who has more pain". I know this is an old post but I believe the point that Diceman68 was making was that by refusing to have a papsmear the OP ran the risk of having cervical cancer and not finding out until it was well in the advanced stages or too late for treatment. Thankfully, the OP has begun medical treatment for her condition.

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is this odd women Posted: 1/27/2009 1:38:21 AM
Harry Pitts don't bother me. I don't know him. As for the question about shaving. I shave my underarms when I feel they need shaved. I probably don't do it as often as a lot of women, but I tend to get a rash if I shave too often.

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Does anyone forget what it's like? Posted: 1/26/2009 11:07:09 PM
What's a sex life? Yep, it's been awhile. Like you there's times when I think it may never happen again and that makes me sad. BUT, IF it does happen again I want it to be with someone who I plan to spend the rest of my life with. I'm not in to one night stands or casual sex.

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