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Joined: 7/6/2006

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Do older men stay away from women in their 30's? Posted: 3/7/2007 10:19:09 AM
Wenlex: I think that it would be flattering to be propositioned by younger women myself.. but speaking as a 34 year old male myself.. i can state that i find myself attracted to older women.. for many reasons. But lets face facts.. at 21-28 any straight Male would bang a hole in the wall if it had a pulse, some hair and was warm. Albeit, its not what you are looking for.. i'd chalk it up to the 'Flattered' category and pleasantly either dismiss them or ignore them. Some of these kids can be real 'pigs' if u know what i mean.. also.. they could be LYINg simply to try and appeal more desirable. Myself.. i steer clear of anything under 30 yrs old basically because at 30, most women have everything going on in their lives.. peak everything adult-wise.. and whether women know it or not.. men can almost see the sexuality emmitting from women even in pictures. Myself included.. your picture is of someone who is very beautiful and happy. aahh to be in my 20's again.. see for a 20 yr old male.. its tough as heck.. girls/women your own age tend to have more fleeting interests.. in my case, the girls my age wanted that 'older man, sugar daddy' thing going on.. and these same older sugardaddies.. want a women under 25.. some get really disgusting tho.. there should be NO connection between a 15 uear old and a 49 year old.. ever.. male OR female.. but thats my opinion. to sum it up.. you deserve the flattery.. soak it up.. enjoy it.. theres no need to respond or even reply if you dont have any interest. These people ALL know that's part of the game we all play here.. Trial and error. Heck.. if u lived nearby, id wanna knock on your door myself.. sadly, distance is the romantic killer most of the time.

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 7/10/2006 6:55:02 AM
Can't always believe a picture either... who says that the picture they show IS them anyways? Personally, i do like a pretty woman.. who wouldnt like their partner to be attractive? but the profile. now there's where the REAL person comes out. I dont like a short profile because it IN ITSELF, is showing that someone is not willing to actually be selective in what they want.. opting to just 'wait for the bundles to flow in' and filter them as their leisure. Is that fair to those who are sending? And yes.. what IF one of those is that 'Man or woman you have been searching for' but he is unable to express himself without comming across as just wanting one thing when in actuality.. thats what pictures tend to do..and some people also use seductive picturing in their profiles, then complain that people are horn-dogging them. Theres really only one rule here: Work it at your own pace. There no need to reply to someone if u do not have any interest ..and noone should feel let down over it. We're all actively searching.. some of us dont know what we really want yet... but to assume ALL men just look at a profile with a picture is fascicious and Labelling. Im more than certain some of you ladies wont look at a profile unless IT has a pic too.. and YOU are just as horned up as us guys too. There is no law stating u MUST reply or ecen consider a rude or indecent message. Aint life wonderful? Instead of the negatives.. look at the positives.. least your profile interested SOMEONE...

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