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rod-iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 18 (view)

No Luck Posted: 6/14/2009 1:40:19 PM
Face it dude when comes to this on line dating thing.... it's THEIR world! For every woman there are a million dudes trying to get her attention, not to mention other women trying their luck too. Then you have to realize most women pick the WRONG guy so you can just keep trying or look else where.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 58 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/27/2008 11:30:28 PM
I'm done you folks enjoy...... GOOD NIGHT NOW!

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 56 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/27/2008 9:03:44 PM
Thank you whoissue! See people it really ISN'T that hard to use your brain and just answer the friggin question.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 55 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/27/2008 9:01:48 PM
You come on here like some hot to trot douchebag posting on a thread asking for women's advice and then have the audacity to catagorize us as whores, skanks and ****es who spread our legs for anything that moves. And a lot of women say all men are dogs and that they only want one thing. I think you get where I'm going with this. Oh one more thing SUCK MY BALL BIATCH!

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 54 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/27/2008 8:57:31 PM
I just don't get how you can't see they are one of the same...who you are on your profile, is who you should be in the forums. So, as far as I'm concerned, ONE of them is a misrepresentation, which makes you a phony, which should be enough for no one to trust you...let alone a young lady in her 20's...but, that's only IMHO... Simple because THEY ARE NOT!!!! A blind man could see but you supposed know it all's can't!! I'll make one last attempt to clear your vision read carefully. What is written here.... on POF.... is just for F U N! Entertainment purposes only! The lady in question doesn't know this site exists! My attempts to win the heart of the young lady in question is R E A L I T Y!!!! Completely DIFFERENT than what my profile says. Now since you claim to know it all then surely you'd know a playa would not waste this amount of time trying to get into the pants of ONE LADY! At least none that I know would and since I'm not even why would I???? All I asked was for some insight into the female mind. And I got stomped for it because SOME here can't deal with the fact that SOMETIMES I just want to have some adult fun. Hey until a woman comes along and makes me feel like walking thru hell in a gasoline suit just for the privilage of standing next to her.... (oh wait one did come along but all she can say is "I DON'T KNOW") then every now and then I'm gonna get my freak on. Sometime ya feel like a nut..... sometimes ya don't!

rod-iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/27/2008 12:34:50 PM
The point was the profile is irrelevant to this question. Just because I wrote something here doesn't mean it affected my attempted relationship with her.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 45 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/27/2008 12:39:14 AM
Hahaha..... how funny. Oh well.....

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 43 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 11:32:51 PM
No the story is actually different but you can't see it.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 40 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 10:15:32 PM
To those that actually focused on the question thanks, you've given me something to think about even though it all hurts badly. To those that only wanted to focus on irrelevant $#@! well thank you too.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 39 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 10:10:15 PM
Thank you for your imput and opinions. I see you cannot give me any actual insight on this matter though.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 36 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 9:20:53 PM
Thanks anyway... even though I don't think you get it but that's OK.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 9:09:01 PM
Ohhhh I see so I should just sit, wait and take cold showers till she comes along right kyn? How is that right? Really?? I don't see why I should sit on my hands and do nothing but wait for someone to come along. I have no problem committing and being faithful to a woman but if no woman is interested then why should I sit at home?

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 9:01:50 PM
Why did you not change your profile ? It is easy to do . You also knew that folks would read the profile as soon as you started this thread, which is why you warned us not to do so. You also knew that the profile would bring some ...well, some less than wonderful responses to this question. You asked to get folks opinions. You got them. You knew your profile was going to PO some folks. It did. You know this girl has no interest in you and you know why. Why ask ? Why should I change my profile? I'm single she and I are NOT dating. I hoped people would read the question and answer but I see looking at the profile and getting the WRONG idea is all some could do. Only PO'd the ones that have a problem with booty calls. If I knew what she was really thinking then I would be here asking this question now would I?

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 31 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 8:52:22 PM
Nothing worse in life...than when the abused become the abusers. You have a choice not to be. Your right for a while I had every intention to be a lying cheating man-ho but fortunately I realized that's not me. But like I said right now I'm single so what have I done wrong? The lady in question has chosen not to go out with me so it's not like I'm cheating on her. If I was dating her I wouldn't even be thinking of any other woman I feel that strongly about her.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 8:16:08 PM
But I'm curious, how was it a "waste of time" for you??? It doesn't sound like she's really led you on, to be honest, it sounds more like she was trying to politely let you down. I never said trying to get to know her was a waste of time. I was simply saying if I was a player would I waste all that time trying to get one girl and the answer is no. Has she led me on? I dunno. If she wanted to let me down or reject me then all she had to do was say it months ago when I asked her out. Yet everytime the answer is "I don't know"

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 8:12:07 PM
I call it as I see it... I'm not going to sugar coat it either. Bad behavior will not be rewarded. If you can't understand what was mean't then oh well.......

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 24 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 7:47:06 PM
Well...... well......well......... aren't you god's gift to man kyn! Let me tell you for most of my life I've been a one woman kinda guy. I'd rather be happily married with kids but since every woman I meet is a cheating whore I'm beginning to think its not gonna happen. I was engaged once, she went away to school I remained faithful even though everyone was trying to hook me up with every skank they knew. I later found out she on the other hand was spreading for every guy that came along. This has happened with other women I've dated so now that I'm single I want to play. Which is why I came here and created that profile. When I met her everything changed! I knew exactly what I wanted and who I wanted but she hasn't/won't commit to anything so why should I change/delete the profile? Has she seen it? I'm 99% sure she hasn't but who knows. Like I said I'm always honest about it there's no need to lie like some people do. I guess I was wrong when I thought that people could understand the difference between what was written in a profile and what I was writting here. Oh yeah... If I was a player do you REALLY think I'd waste 9 months of my life just to get in one girls pants?????? HELL NO!!!!

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 20 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 7:18:20 PM
Without that tidbit if info, it's rather difficult to give you any advice. Lets just say she did hurt my feelings once before and I'd say she knew it. How old is this woman? She's in her 20's Like I said she's childish but can get serious when she needs to. I never said I know how she feels about me that's the problem! I said that two people that know her have told me she's interested in me.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 15 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 6:53:47 PM
I've never yelled when I asked her out before and she said "I don't know" If she said no I'd be broken hearted but I wouldn't yell... what good would that do?

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 11 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 6:47:29 PM
I said don't look at the profile because what's HERE is about here not about how I feel about her!! So everynow and then I want an intimate encounter. Does that make me a bad person? I'm single.... I'm being honest about it...... but I can want to be serious too ya know!

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 8 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 6:42:52 PM
Yes Tina I have her number and we talk online as well as on the phone. A mutual friend has suggested that she may be scared due to some things that are going on in her life but damn it's been several months and I've been completely cool with her. As for taking her anywhere I feel at one point she was close to saying yes but then the big wierd change happened and since then I haven't tried until now.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 1 (view)

Why can't she say what's on her mind? Posted: 5/26/2008 6:28:25 PM
DON'T BOTHER LOOKING AT THE PROFILE! It will tell you NOTHING about the question I am asking. Just focus on the question period! OK here we go.... I met her at work about nearly a year ago. We seem to get along great, I can always get her to smile/laugh. She's known from the start that I'm interested in her and I've had two people tell me she's interested in me.... but when I ask her out she says "I don't know" and she acts like she's doesn't want to talk about it. At one point it seemed like we were really getting close but all of a sudden she morphed into this different person and acted like she wanted nothing to do with me. So I stopped talking to her and tried to just forget her. What happens next? She starts talking to me! I ask her "what's your deal?" she says sometimes she's wierd, moody, etc.... Since then we have been cool, back to talking and such. I got a new job and asked her out again but I told her to think about it and let me know later, she said OK. My last day came and other than saying she would miss me she wouldn't tell me yes or no. And she was acting all bashful about the whold situation as usual. She is childish and crazy most of the time (this is one of the reasons I like her so much) but she can get serious too. Most people say forget her she's an airhead and immature. But most that know her say yeah she's kinda out there but she's really a good girl don't give up on her. At this point I don't know what to do. She says she wants to stay in touch but I just don't understand why she acts so wierd everytime I try to get serious about us going out. Why the hell won't she say something other than I DON'T KNOW!!!! I'd rather not say why but I know it's not because she's afraid of hurting my feelings.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 206 (view)

men and oral sex... Posted: 3/11/2008 7:23:17 AM
Noooooooo! That's not true at all... I had two points. 1. I don't expect a woman to bite the sausage but I won't have a problem asking her to. 2. Smokin pole seems cleaner than lickin the mixing bowl. Get it?

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 302 (view)

Do Christian Women Scare You Off ??? Posted: 3/10/2008 10:10:47 PM
"Do you equate "christian " with someone who is cold and religious; no fun and no passion!?" Yep!! Not trying to put you down or anything but a christian woman just doesn't seem compatible with what I've got on my mind. Then again I could be missing something good.... Who knows!

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 9 (view)

Being led on... Posted: 3/10/2008 9:27:46 PM
I have to say I've recently had someone "suddenly back off" too and it sucks! The agument that your a lot of work doesn't really fly (even though you are a lot of work) because he knew that BEFORE he made a date with you. What I'm saying is... I don't have an answer! I can't even figure out what happened to me. Sometimes that's just the way it is I guess.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 204 (view)

men and oral sex... Posted: 3/10/2008 9:21:36 PM
"Why do men automatically think that if a woman wants to have sex with him, that she wants to put his "Rooster" in her mouth? " I don't automatically think a woman wants to kiss my Rooster! But I do enjoy it and we are having sex so why shouldn't I ask her too? "Why do men think that if a womans interested in him, that he'll get his "Rooster" sucked?" See answer above! "Think about it guys, would YOU want to suck "Rooster"? " If women HAD Roosters and if I liked her enough then yeah I would! "It's disgusting and let's face it, not all men are clean down there. " Maybe it's disgusting to YOU and thats OK but some women do enjoy it. If you look at it sucking Rooster seems a lot more clean than kissing Kitty now don't it?

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 106 (view)

Why do men not ask a woman out in person? Posted: 3/10/2008 8:59:27 PM
Hmmm, been there done that recently. I spent several weeks chatting her up.... We seemed to hit it off... I always made her smile and laugh everytime I talked to her.... When I told her I had to go she would ask me to stay and talk to her.... Yet when I asked her out.... OOOOOH NO! REJECTED!!!!! I will ALWAYS believe it's easier for a woman to persue a man than it is for a man to persue a woman but as you can see reading a woman isn't easy!

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 156 (view)

Do Men liked 2 be chased? Posted: 10/15/2007 6:39:42 PM
There is nothing wrong with a woman chasing a man. Infact I wish more women would!!! I think that maybe the guys your going after just aren't interested, had to accept sometimes but true. It also could be how your doing it. I've often read that women are very subtle when they flirt and I know that I never pick up on that subtle stuff. Basically I'd say just keep trying you'll get lucky eventually.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 54 (view)

Is it rude not to respond to every email? Posted: 10/1/2007 10:25:27 PM
Yes it's rude! How would you feel if you took the time to write people and nobody bothered to respond? Are you a female dog for not for not answering? No I wouldn't go that far but it just isn't nice. What they need is a one button "Sorry not interested" in every message you get, one click your done and everyone is happy.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 5 (view)

I'd love to be seen with you Posted: 10/1/2007 10:17:15 PM
I'd take it as a compliment and let it go at that.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 18 (view)

Asking a guy about STD's before sex Posted: 10/1/2007 10:15:21 PM
I've never been asked to take a STD test before sex but I wouldn't be opposed to it as long as she was willing to do the same. I guess it's a good thing in more ways than one!

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 6 (view)

Eye Contact at work Posted: 10/1/2007 10:02:14 PM
There are 3 possibilities: 1. maybe he's not interested in you (sorry but it's true) or 2. he doesn't know how to ask you (hey some of us don't) or 3. he's interested but isn't going to ask because he doesn't want to "f#&* where he makes a buck!" LOL Anyway I'm sort of in the same situation (or at least I was, I've decided to stop chasing her) the best thing I'd say you can do is to just ask him out, either way you'll know.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 56 (view)

Do nice GIRLS finish last? Posted: 10/1/2007 9:46:25 PM
Personally I think men that enjoy the "chase" are idiots! And women that intentionally deny interest are immature. I see zero point to any of it. If your interested in someone then be an adult about it and get on with it ya know? So don't worry there are guys out there that don't want to play games.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 31 (view)

Do men think that women don't have a sex drive? Posted: 10/1/2007 9:13:28 PM
Well because a lot of women say things like "It's not important" and "I won't have sex until..." Then yes I think most guys think women don't have much of a sex drive. Now I think men have a lot to do with why women want to wait and why they wonder about what is "slutty" behavior when most men don't care. I've talked to my guy friends and they all want sex but if a woman shows any interest in a hook up she's labled a HO! How the hell do you lable a woman a HO for doing the same damn thing your wanting to do? But that's another discussion. I think it really depends on what a guy is looking for. If your looking for a booty call and you lie to get into a womans pants then yeah your gonna bail after you get what you want. If your impatient then yes your gonna bail because you think she's not interested if she won't give it up.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 10 (view)

How soon do you ask a girl to come over? Posted: 10/1/2007 8:51:56 PM
On the one hand it could be completely innocent. They could be just saying hey come by we'll have some dinner, conversation, watch a movie... etc..... On the other hand they could be thinking of getting you in the sack quick fast and in a hurry!!!! I personally would not invite a woman to my place until I felt I really knew her.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 23 (view)

why is it so hard to find men? Posted: 10/1/2007 8:41:02 PM
Don't feel too bad it's the same on this side of the street. I'd say just figure out what it is that you want and keep looking. Even if you find someone they may not be interested in you ya know? It's all a crap shoot!

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 19 (view)

is being too neat & tidy a turn off ? Posted: 10/1/2007 8:24:21 PM
You got up at 4:30 AM to clean??? Yeah I'd say you need to let that go. You may even be doing something that your not even aware of.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 4 (view)

Guys and communication Posted: 10/1/2007 8:20:15 PM
If your actually going out with them then I can see keeping in touch several times a week but if haven't gone out with them then a guy starts to wonder.... where is this going? Another thing could be that they are what I call "counter-talkers" on their own they don't have much to say but if you take the lead they can keep up.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 14 (view)

OK I need help Posted: 10/1/2007 8:06:53 PM
"Is she from a different culture?" - Yes she is. I guess I've always thought she wasn't interested but was just hoping there was another reason. Would have been better if she had just said that to begin with.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 9 (view)

OK I need help Posted: 10/1/2007 7:00:26 PM
"Yeah I'm in there!" - It's from an old tv show and it's just something I say because it's funny to me! Part of my strange sense of humor I guess. And as I said I'm NOT looking for sex with this person. I'd like to have an actual relationship with her! Am I speaking in tongues or something? "I said don't give me that, you don't do anything but sit at home." - Yes I did say that but in a playful way not mean. But maybe I shouldn't have.... Maybe she really doesn't get my crazy sense of humor. "... asked her why she asked if I was mad..." - I asked because I didn't understand why she asked that.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 7 (view)

OK I need help Posted: 10/1/2007 6:42:03 PM
Hahahahaha! Yeah...... the internet and real life are two different things! When I think of her sex is NOT the first thing on my mind. Don't judge a book by it's cover my friend.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 3 (view)

OK I need help Posted: 10/1/2007 6:20:27 PM
1. I never thought I would date someone from work but hey sometime stuff happens 2. You could be right but dating a guy that has zero control over anything seems pretty safe to me. Thanks anyway.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

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OK I need help Posted: 10/1/2007 5:56:37 PM
Here's the story.... There's this new girl at work and from the moment I saw her I was like "WOW!" Her friends say she just moved into town and recently and she doesn't do anything but sit at home. So I'm thinking "Yeah I'm in there!" so I start chatting her up. Things seem to be going well everytime I come around she's smiling and we're laughing and joking. There are a few problems... she doesn't talk much! Mostly it's me talking to her otherwise she doesn't say much. Is she shy???? She knows I'm interested in her (her friends have told her & I've mentioned it too) yet she hasn't really asked me anything about myself. I've tossed some conversation starting questions out and still she doesn't say much. Sort of yes, no, not really. Still I figured since she hasn't told me to get lost I'd go ahead and ask her out. The first time I did she said..... "I don't know" and then changed the subject. I just let it go because I had to leave and I thought well I'll let her think about it. Next day I came over and after a while I asked her again. I got the same answer.... "I don't know" I said don't give me that you don't do anything but sit at home, come on I won't bite you! Same reply..... "Oh I don't know" I stood there speechless and shaking my head. I said how are we supposed to get to know each other if we don't ever see each other outside of work? She said.... "I don't know" Now here's something that I really didn't get... after a few minutes she asks if I was mad. I wasn't mad if anything I was confused (still am) so I just said no and walked away for a bit. I came back and asked her why she asked if I was mad and she just sort of brushed it off and didn't really answer. At this point my mind just wasn't there anymore so I told her again that I wasn't mad and that I had to go. Ladies please help me understand what the hell is going on here! This is driving me crazy if she's not interested then why didn't she just say so in the beginning? If she doesn't want to go out with me why didn't she just say "thanks but no thanks!" ????

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

Too strange? Wierd sexual fettish? Just not normal and gone too far! Posted: 5/14/2007 12:31:28 AM
I can't say why people do the strange stuff they do but I'm cool with it as long as everyone involved OK with it.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 54 (view)

Don't use that on me!! Posted: 5/14/2007 12:23:11 AM
Been there done that with no problems. These things are washable so it's no big deal. If a woman had a problem with it I'd tell her to bring her own.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 205 (view)

do women want 2 men? would many men be willing??? Posted: 5/14/2007 12:13:42 AM
My ex wanted two guys to go down one her at the same time. Being the wonderful loving guy that I am I considered making it reality for her but just couldn't do it. I would have been too jealous.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 43 (view)

The Male Experiment ! Posted: 5/14/2007 12:10:00 AM
Put up some pics of your ass and see what happens. I suspect the guys that were responding to that other profile were just looking for a booty call.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 336 (view)

can we men say no to sex? Posted: 5/14/2007 12:03:47 AM
I imagine it does happen but I suspect most men wouldn't turn don't a piece of ass.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 74 (view)

Ever been intimidated by looks? Posted: 5/13/2007 11:56:16 PM
Wow! Never heard of a woman being intimidated by looks. I've heard it happens all the time with guys. They say you should just go for it because the person your interested is usually single due to everyone being afraid to ask them out.

Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006

Msg: 52 (view)

Women stalkers Posted: 5/13/2007 11:45:47 PM
Simple... don't answer her and forget it. Probably a porno spammer anyway.

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