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 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 152 (view)
 
Just looking for friends
Posted: 5/11/2013 7:40:24 AM
Depends on what people are looking for. People are not going to bend down for ya. What are you looking for? relationship or friends? some people want a friendship for there own reasons and others want a relationship.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 159 (view)
 
Is Texting Cheating?
Posted: 5/10/2013 10:03:53 PM
yeah that's out of bounds, dude has a girlfriend and texting, flirting and talking to you. It's not cheating, but it's disrespectful.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Text?
Posted: 5/5/2013 9:10:45 PM
take your time no rush
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 40 (view)
 
I don't want to be the jealous type.
Posted: 5/5/2013 8:33:47 PM
^^
depends... sometimes Jealousy is not healthy, if it is about being in control, shadiness and being possessive.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 602 (view)
 
Why Are Men Over 30 Drama Shy?
Posted: 5/5/2013 7:34:11 PM
Why men hate drama? here's an answer OP, because it's annoying and it's not good to be around people that don't handle there own problems and love bringing other people into them.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 188 (view)
 
Whats it like being single over 30?
Posted: 5/5/2013 7:26:52 PM
drama free, handling my priorities and responsibilities. Keeping busy. It's good when things are not being rushed.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 14 (view)
 
going on 10 months, should I love her or leave her?
Posted: 5/4/2013 12:03:24 PM
Let her go and stay single
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 101 (view)
 
Why do men act like they are always busy?
Posted: 4/29/2013 8:58:43 PM
Why do men act like they are always busy?
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because some of them dudes are not into you
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 771 (view)
 
u can't have a platonic friendship with opposite sex
Posted: 4/29/2013 2:18:14 PM
It is up to a girl to decide if it is going to to be platonic friendship or not. for it is hard for a guy to refuse sex.
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I don't agree with you. There were times I friend zoned females and it goes both ways regardless of gender.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 7 (view)
 
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 4/17/2013 8:24:43 PM
OP,
do you want to settle for that? in the past I went thru this and dumped a female because of the double standard. No more double standard crap for me, and you should do the same.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 15 (view)
 
My guy is showing as being logged on, but he says he hasn't
Posted: 4/14/2013 6:15:03 AM
OP,
both of you should never have to spy on each other,this is games. I was once in this kind of dating situation and both people end up messing up. Unless both of you are in a agreed relationship, don't expect anything from anyone.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Facebook and Women
Posted: 4/9/2013 11:26:28 PM
well then OP,
if she has you on fb and she's not talking to you. You could always delete her off your facebook because she's got nothing to offer. Why waste your time with someone that doesn't want to talk to you?
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 54 (view)
 
First date filled with mutual affection....then POOF!
Posted: 4/7/2013 8:57:39 PM
he's not that into you, he got what he wanted affection and left.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Bacon Hater! Worst/funniest date evah!
Posted: 4/7/2013 10:16:24 AM
- Takes the cheese, smells it and says, "this smells like sh*t"
- Hands the cheese to me and said, "try it"
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??? o_0 that's creepy. There are some people out there that don't like bacon but rude manners is just downright nasty. Or what the dude could have done was just simply take off the bacon and just eat the burger.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 63 (view)
 
If you were the other woman - would you want to know?
Posted: 4/7/2013 10:11:57 AM
yes you do have the right to know
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Is this true:basically men want a sexy woman/women want a successful man?
Posted: 4/7/2013 5:32:57 AM
I want a sexy female that can contribute equally to the relationship and dating, thank you.
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Most women will not date, or marry a man, who is beneath them financially. As an old gf of mine once said "water seeks it's own level."
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yup because some people date within them spending income.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 97 (view)
 
I can hear my roommate and his gf have sex, what should I do?
Posted: 4/7/2013 5:29:47 AM
Kick down the door and give them pizza in the middle of the act
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Be wary of recently divorced train wrecks
Posted: 4/6/2013 5:24:33 AM
nonmedicated,
kudos. Divorce is straight up messy, even when I was a child growing up in a divorced environment, depressing. It's not something children should have to go thru. People going thru Divorce are definitely not ready to date and need A LOT of time to heal and raise their children. Or just heal and get help.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 67 (view)
 
I can hear my roommate and his gf have sex, what should I do?
Posted: 4/4/2013 7:47:22 PM
Lool Sweet_Daniamal,
That is hilarious. My roommate used to bring his girlfriend over to our place but when I had friends over, he also had his girl over and he heard my friends and I laughing our asses off on in the kitchen. He stopped bringing her over when I'm around, instead he goes over and visits her. Guess he learned his lesson. I don't bring dates over to the apartment, unless. The date and I are in a relationship, then I let my roommate know what's up.

When I was intimate with my Ex, we locked the doors and cranked up that RMB music up. After we just cuddled with each other and chilled.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 3 (view)
 
She is not satisfied with what I make. Should I continue this relationship?
Posted: 4/2/2013 8:10:16 PM
Well that's on her she has 2 choices, continue things with you or she can move on with someone that makes more money. Or you can cut things off and move on for yourself OP.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Question for Men! Help...
Posted: 4/1/2013 6:05:02 PM
Talk to him and tell him. You call him and communicate. When you talk to him let him know this, exactly what you just told us.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 84 (view)
 
For women: Why is it so important that the man drive a car?
Posted: 4/1/2013 2:59:16 PM
Import,
Guess I did miss all them opinions, I also drive and I do not mind nor would mind driving people within my local area. Just as you said and others said about people sharing driving responsibility, I'm down for that as long as them others are willing to contribute back like I said and don't demand it.

I made my choice with my car situation and yes I'm sticking to it. I don't know about the OP. But I tend on saving my money for a better car and me without a car for that time being is just temporarily and if the dating pool gets smaller cuz of it so be it.

And Femaleconnection is on point.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 57 (view)
 
For women: Why is it so important that the man drive a car?
Posted: 3/31/2013 10:21:31 PM
I've been in situations where past cars I had and the car that I have right now, have broken down. And it's not easy getting the money to pay for repairs right away. I had to save money and take bus until I had the money to pay for repairs.

I wonder how females are going to handle a man if his car breaks down and he doesn't have the money to fix it right away. What, is she going to break up with him because the car broke down? I would like to picture a marriage. Some women braking up with dudes because their cars break down and don't have the money to easily pay for it. But yet want the princess entitlement of demanding for rides when they themselves are not contributing Sh!t. Ladies the same way you want a man to contribute for you, you better damn well contribute the same for him.

I know I'm taking really negative right now but this kinda crap really pisses me off, Done ranting.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 35 (view)
 
For women: Why is it so important that the man drive a car?
Posted: 3/31/2013 3:24:01 PM
Mordecai,
toss those females in the trash that don't like you for you. They're not mean't for you. A real female that really likes you will make the effort to be with you.

I only have my car for about a year before I have to scrap it, so I'm making the best of it and saving up some cash for another car later. But first I'm moving into the city ( Mississauga ) so I really don't need to depend on a car to get me around and insurance is more expensive in the city so in a sense it's not worth it. I'd rather use the metro pass and save the $100 bucks that I would pay for insurance rather than pay more for repairs plus monthly insurance. If females don't like that, too bad. A few less to worry about.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 97 (view)
 
Guys that shaved their arms and back...what do you think?
Posted: 3/31/2013 10:43:51 AM
I would shave my back but not my arms. Kinda weird to shave arms
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 650 (view)
 
Would you leave the dating sites if you got in a serious relationship?
Posted: 3/29/2013 6:40:21 PM
I would tell my mate as I did with my ex's that I come on here for forums and that's not changing. She can either trust me or move on.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Why is this so offensive
Posted: 3/29/2013 2:17:15 PM
If your having fun send time with the person if not, then just tell them you that you have to go early.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 40 (view)
 
why do men block you ?
Posted: 3/29/2013 1:24:42 PM
More like why do people block you? people who block you choose not to talk to you. It's their own choice.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Can I ask him out?
Posted: 3/26/2013 8:05:27 PM
Of course you can ask him out, go on. Sometimes you just gotta go get it.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 114 (view)
 
Dealing with cigarette smoke
Posted: 3/26/2013 3:36:36 PM
I cannot handle being with someone that smokes. Cant handle cancer stix breath
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Mommy issues
Posted: 3/25/2013 10:06:29 PM
^^^
I like your post. I refuse to date a female that cannot stand up to her parents or let her parents run her life. I can understand a child that's not fully grown up to be run by parents because child is still young. But a grown adult from 19 and up, that says volumes. Exactly like you said there comes a point where a parent has to let go and let their children make their own decisions. Yes parents will always love you but them also have to realize when to let a child fly out the nest for the sake of their mentality and independence.

Just like how some females refuse to date a man that lives with their parents, but that's for another thread, for another time. Ironic
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Insensitive or just trying to help?
Posted: 3/25/2013 9:41:42 PM
Not trying to help, he's rude as ****, Dash this ***hole. Anyone that comes off as disrespectful is not someone that I would want to date or have a relationship with.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Can you really stay friends with an ex?
Posted: 3/25/2013 4:02:05 AM
Unless she's my children's mother. I would keep it civil with her. I have to put my feelings a side and respect that she is the mother of my children. Even tho she was once an wife, for me there's gotta at least be some common ground respect for both ex partners.

With an ex, I would not stay friends with an ex. I'm friends with only 1 of my ex's, and we both broke up mutually. Both of us keep things civil and we're still good friends to this day but VERY DISTANT. ( The way I like it ) I prefer cutting out an Ex out of my life first before working things out with them as friends after, I need time to heal. And I would look at how they treated me in the past to decide whether or not that I should remain friends with them. God says to forgive but forgiveness doesn't always necessary mean a restored relationship.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 91 (view)
 
The dreaded rommate-boyfriend situation - HELP!
Posted: 3/23/2013 1:08:51 PM
The idea of having a roommate is to to help with bills not escape an uncomfortable situation. You will both need to lay ground rules even if you fear coming across like Shelton from The Big Bang Theory. These things really need to be discussed or in time you will have new roommate problems.
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This is on point. My roommate and I discussed ground rules and respect of each others space. Don't **** up my personal space and I won't **** up his. Don't eat my food and I won't eat his. Don't wash laundry while I'm sleeping and I won't wash my laundry while he is sleeping. Take turns cleaning the apartment, or better yet clean as you go ( my style, even tho I'm no neat freak ). Set boundaries on your next move OP.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Dating use to be fun...
Posted: 3/22/2013 3:46:26 PM
Texting pisses me off and it should be left for teenie boppers to do that. But in this day and age when people can't call during work hours. I understand. I still text even tho I would prefer calling and talking. OP at least you know that he was not interested, it's better for them to show that they are not interested, rather than lead you on and find out it was a big lie.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 11 (view)
 
i cheated on my girlfriend once but i apologized and promised to change but she wouldn't come back
Posted: 3/22/2013 3:40:51 PM
You're going to have to accept it OP, she's made her choice and you need to respect that.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 81 (view)
 
The dreaded rommate-boyfriend situation - HELP!
Posted: 3/22/2013 3:26:24 PM
OP, does her boyfriend have his own place? maybe she can stay over night with him and give you some space.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 25 (view)
 
girlfriend acts aloof for a week then asks for space... then texts me
Posted: 3/21/2013 8:05:55 PM
Give her a taste of her own medicine. You back off and tell her that you need to hang with your friends and not talk to her and see how she likes it. So fricken stupid how people say they don't like to play games but yet pull stupid crap like this?? On top of that move on without her OP. You deserve better
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Tell me if i'm wrong, I stormed out of her apartment because she is trying to get a male roommate.
Posted: 3/18/2013 7:33:58 PM
she doesnt have a strong enough interest in seeing me
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Time to pack it up and leave OP, you even said it yourself.

About the male roommate, if you don't like the situation OP, you always have a choice to leave.

we break up every two weeks
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A serious relationship is more solid than breaking up, this should already speak volumes. Both of you are not compatible.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 146 (view)
 
Tired of the same bs... Do real relationships even exist anymore...
Posted: 3/17/2013 6:58:03 PM
relationships, relationsh!ts. Sometimes it does get tiring trying to find a mate. Online and offline dating can get weary at times. Time to take a break.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 44 (view)
 
the look of love...do the eyes say it or not?
Posted: 3/10/2013 5:37:59 PM
yes the eyes can say it,
like when having a fight with an S/O and staring into her eyes in a heated debate. Or that pissed look she give if ya done something wrong ya and the kiss and make up look :-)
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Guys, do you find you attract younger women out than online?
Posted: 3/9/2013 5:38:47 PM
I have attracted younger women and mature women as well and I like both.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 222 (view)
 
Sex on the First Date - Guys - what do you think?
Posted: 3/9/2013 5:33:15 PM
I learned the hard way about pre-martial sex and yes sex is intense and passionate. When dating is based on just lust and sex. It dies out quickly, and it's like there's nothing to look forward to other than just sex.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 22 (view)
 
sex and both virgins
Posted: 3/9/2013 5:23:43 PM
slow your role man, take your time with her and get to know her before jumping in so deep.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Can you really stay friends with an ex?
Posted: 3/8/2013 10:30:38 PM
Sure people can be friends, if both people are in agreement to it. But however if both people are not in agreement, then I don't think so. I tried being friends with my ex's and we both had feelings for each other while we were friends and things were even worse. Some friendship with ex's are not mean't to be.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Emotional men
Posted: 3/7/2013 7:37:45 PM
Some men get pissed off because they put all this effort into loving someone that they wish they could have a future with. Yes it does hurt when things don't work out because some men CARE. Sometimes it's hard to pretend to stay friends with someone that you fell in love with.

For me personally I would move on and cut them out quickly.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 735 (view)
 
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 3/7/2013 7:26:27 PM
of course they can, it's no different for a dude than it is for a female.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Getting someone out of the friend zone ...
Posted: 3/7/2013 7:20:10 PM
OP don't kid yourself if you're not attracted to the guy, you're not attracted to him. Once friend zone has been decided it NEVER changes.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Why do Men Say Mean Things to Women???
Posted: 3/6/2013 8:44:56 PM
cut them out your life, no need for ***hole people to have nothing good to bring to the table.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Friend Zoned
Posted: 3/3/2013 7:22:19 PM
Farscapeprincess,
the fact still remains that he friend zoned you. If you don't want to settle for less, I advise you to move on. Even if the man is kissed you and hugged you, it's still not changing the reality of things.
 
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