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Joined: 7/10/2006

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do men actually exist that date women with kids?? Posted: 10/24/2006 2:14:27 PM
I have a 12 year old son and a 4 year old son... I can ask the same question... My kids dont live with me and I miss them very much. I also raised my ex finance's two other boys for the past 8 years and in my heart they are still my boys too..... Im not opposed to dating women that have children.... As a matter of fact I say bring it on... Im looking for friends and maybe a special someone... If they have kids then thats just more to love.....

Joined: 7/10/2006

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Hey where is all the 30 somethings? Posted: 10/24/2006 1:51:12 PM
Hey, My name is Bill and Im an artist most recently from Salt Lake City... Im looking to meet new people and make some friends up here to pass the time when Im not working. I would love to meet my soul mate up here but lets start with meeting new people first I will find the chemestry when it happens.... So if your into long intellectual conversations and like music, art, poetry, movies,long walks, beer, Anthropology, Ancient history, or just surfing channels on cable.... sounds like we might have something in common..

Joined: 7/10/2006

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Anyone ever thought about quitting? Posted: 8/7/2006 6:50:39 PM
Im sorry I just saw this and It really got me up in arms. I moved back to Alaska in Feb.... I have been gone for over 15 years. I divorced after a bad 5 year marriage and then fell into another 8 year long relationship looking for the family I always wanted. But I did it for the wrong reasons and with the wrong people. I felt that if I couldnt live up to my standards then why would anyone else want me too.. so I let the woman approach me because at least that way I kept a safe distance and couldnt get shot down too badly... hey she approached me ya know.. But I was wrong.. so badly wrong. Thats not the way ya do it. Now Im in a state with 6 men to every 1 woman... trying to make friends and date people is difficult...especially if your looking for Authentic genuine single people. I dont want to find out that I just helped to crush the soul of yet another unsuspecting significant other because thier woman coulndt be faithful or honest. Honestly if anyone wanted to quit it was me for about 2.5 seconds. then I realized ... um who do I turn in my 2 weeks notice to? ummmm well If I have noone to turn in the I quit form then I guess that makes me the boss... so if Im the boss.... its about time to really get to know myself and what I really want out of life because the only one you have to blame about life being what you want it to be is you. So dont settle for the mundane and get out there and get what you want.k Schopenhauer I know its spelled wrong but he said" Pity negates life and in doing so renders it deserving of negation. Profound huh... it took me about 8 years to really understand the whole thing. see if you want to be a martyr or seek pity from others then you are taking away from the quality of your life. and the way you look at it. And anyone who does that on pupose kinda does deserve to have it that way for a bit to shake them outta what ever blues they have. just take this humble pie with a spoon full of sugar shake off the sting of lonelyness and go out there and challenge yourself to say hello to at least 5 new people this week .. see what happens.

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