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 Author Thread: Why do guys ignore girls they like?
 jaded_49
Joined: 7/10/2006
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/28/2007 12:08:12 PM
In all truth and honest when something like this happens you don't call him, there is a reason why he is doing what he's doing...maybe its like other people have said here in your thread...he may very well have something to hide...(mostly likely) another woman. He may not like you but not know how to tell you. Whatever his reason(s) is/are you shouldn't wait for him and you should give him the benefit of thinking/knowing that you will be there waiting for him to pick you.

Your life is your life, and no one should decide for you what you should be doing with your life. Move on, there are bigger and better choices out there awaiting you. So forget about him, move on with your life, live like everyday is your last and when you least expect it, you'll find a guy that will appreciate you for you and everything you have to offer.

Best of luck to you.
 jaded_49
Joined: 7/10/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Why is it that guys will not delete their profiles?
Posted: 8/12/2006 11:59:13 AM
Two weeks of dating means NOTHING, It is ONLY two weeks, you may have talked online for months, and months but that doesn't mean that you know each other well enough for you to ask him to delete his profile. When he is ready he will do that on his own free will, think of it is way, should it be any other situation, and he was to ask you to do something, for example, stop talking to your friends because it made him uncomfortable, would you do it?.

For you to ask him to delete his profile on POF is crazy, and controlling, dating for two weeks means you're just still testing the waters and seeing if this person is all that they seem or say they are, and with this being said, its just a comparison to when two people chat online. (Personality of the person you chatted with online versus the personality of the person you chat with in person). When you ask a guy to delete his profile, after two weeks just goes to show them that you don't trust them, and he is right, especially if the only reason he is here now is to just read the forums.
 jaded_49
Joined: 7/10/2006
Msg: 73 (view)
 
After 4 dates he closed his account on here
Posted: 8/12/2006 11:25:44 AM
In my experience, when it comes to a situation like this, I'd say let him go and move on, never let a guy know that you're sitting around waiting for him. His statement to you already should tell you that... (I don't mean to offend you if ever I do)

1. He saw you as the type of person to only want a one night stand, and that wasn't his style

2. He saw you as a nice person and he may have been after the one night stand but didn't want to hurt your feelings so he told you a lie to avoid hurting your feelings

3. It's his way of running because he doesn't have balls to tell you the truth

For a guy to know that you have nothing better to do except sit at home and wait for him to call you, means you give him the upper hand and the idea that he can control you, and he will expect that should he do this again, you'll still be there waiting.

You have better things to do with your time than pine over some guy who doesn't see the value in you, regardless of what he has said to you, those are just words and they mean nothing until he acts on them. For all you know, he could have been on so many dates, since the first day he met you. He could've said the same things to all the other women.

For him to delete his profile from POF could mean a number of things:

1. He had other dates prior to you and maybe after you that he found more worthwhile in pursuing.
2. He may have had the wrong impression about POF.
3. Maybe the people he met off POF were not what he thought they were.
4. He may have already had someone "selected" but wasn't going to hurt your feelings by cancelling your date

I do hope this helps,

~Jaded~
 
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