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mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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If you could know how and when you're going to die..would you want to? Posted: 8/20/2006 12:37:29 PM
I don't think I would want to know. I would be worried that I would forget to live my life and just worry about that day. I'll just have to try to live my life as if this was my last day but that I will live through tomorrow.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Would this creep you out? Posted: 8/13/2006 2:30:17 PM
Nope, I think you should go for it!!

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

Msg: 42 (view)

Girls just want to have fun, but.... Posted: 8/9/2006 10:35:59 AM
unrealistic to say you want to have a life filled with adventures and travels? How is that unrealistic, that's the lifestyle I lead, and a lifestyle I want my boyfriend to enjoy as well. How is it unrealistic to want a guy that will make you smile and laugh, have a positive outlook on life. You live your life the way you want to live it. If you start your morning thinking it'll be just another "boring" day, that's what you'll get. If you start your day thinking what new fun things will come your way that day, then that's what will happen. I only live once, and I try to make the most out of my days. I don't want to end up being stuck with someone who's negative towards doing something different, and expect me to stick within the "standard" lines of how to lead your life. Thinking it's unrealistic to have a different, but FUN, lifestyle, just shows that you're the kind of guy that wouldn't work for me!

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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How much do your friends or family influence who you date? Posted: 8/8/2006 2:12:44 PM
I do whatever I want to do, however I also listen to advice if I ask for it. Sometimes there's things that you need to discuss to figure out how you feel about someone or a specific dating situation. Just talking about things out loud sometimes makes the solution seem easy! Usually though, if I really like someone my friens or family will never be able to change my mind / feelings for that person.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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In reference to : prefer not to say Posted: 8/8/2006 2:09:59 PM
If people have "prefer not to say" in their profile I start wonder what they're hiding... You do drugs even if you only smoke pot. Personally I wouldn't start a relationship with someone that was doing drugs, even if that meant "only" smoking pot.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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How do you take your picture for POF Posted: 8/8/2006 2:05:08 PM
I take most of my pictures with a digital, some I take with a timer and some other people take. I just got a new webcam so now I use that one too. It all depends I guess.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Non-Religious: Posted: 8/7/2006 2:37:32 PM
non-religious means there's no or little religious inpact in your life!

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Do you represent the height on your profile? Posted: 8/6/2006 3:49:01 PM
I'm 5'7, which is what I put in my profile as well!

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Tattoos and blood Posted: 8/6/2006 3:46:22 PM
I don't think it would work, seeing that while you get a tattoo you bleed, but your tattoo never turns out red.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Drinking raw eggs Posted: 8/6/2006 3:12:39 PM
Ewww, I could never do it

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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What do you consider disturbing music ?? Posted: 8/6/2006 2:00:17 PM
Paris Hilton is definitely concidered disturbing music if you ask me

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash? Posted: 8/6/2006 1:58:49 PM
Not gold diggers, just making sure you can take care of yourself. I have my own job and car and want my boyfriend to have the same. It just shows he can take on responsibility and he won't depend on me.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Why are you on here? Posted: 8/6/2006 1:51:40 PM
I signed up to find some people to hang out with while I was over in the US visiting, now I'm back in Norway and just here for the forums...

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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can you be friends with a ex Posted: 8/6/2006 1:23:18 PM
I'm not friends with any of my x's, it just wasn't important for me to keep me in their lives, and I think they felt the same way. And like some people pointed out already, they're an x for a reason. If I had a good friend and we tried dating, and that didn't work out, I would want to stay friends still!

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Doing it Blindfolded.. Posted: 8/6/2006 1:19:24 PM
Never tried it but always something I wanted to try ;)

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Man Crying in a relationsphip? Posted: 8/4/2006 2:04:52 PM
Depends why he's crying. . I feel that if I man can cry infront of me it means he's comfortable enough/close enough with me to let his emotions show. Exactly! Well put, I agree.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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can't have anymore children.... does this REALLY matter? Posted: 8/4/2006 10:06:39 AM
I'm not that age yet, but I know it would be a deal breaker for me in a serious relationship, if my boyfriend didn't want to have kids.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

Msg: 132 (view)

Holding Hands Posted: 8/4/2006 9:54:00 AM
bad? No way, I love holding hands if the connection is there

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Does your profile allow Instant Messaging? Why? Posted: 8/4/2006 9:47:37 AM
I allow it for people that I have on my favorite list, which is only one at this point I think the IM feature is okay, but it just gets too much for me to want it activated for everyone to IM me whenever they feel like it.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Okay, what would you think if you saw a guy with an Iguana as a pet? Posted: 8/3/2006 2:01:26 PM
I wouldn't mind at all, as long as he leaves my cat alone. He could have a snake for all I care, as long as he's capable of handling it and keeps it secure our of reach of other people/pets. Also, I would NOT want a snake lose in my house, but yeah... pets doesn't bother me as long as he's a responsible owner.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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lying about living arrangement Posted: 8/3/2006 1:59:46 PM
I live with my mom and love coming home for dinner everyday

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Are you European … or what? Posted: 8/3/2006 1:56:31 PM
I wouldn't concider it European as long as he wasn't born there I guess... I put European on my profile cuz I was born and raised in Norway by Norwegian father and both parents had European roots.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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If you met the man of your dreams but had to share him could you? Posted: 8/3/2006 1:43:54 PM
Nope, he wouldn't be the man of my dreams if it meant having to share, now would he?

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Why is my roomate being like this Posted: 8/3/2006 1:40:59 PM
why are you letting this affect you as much as it does? It's your life, and no matter what she says shouldn't matter. Sounds to me she just wants you to be around for her convenience, and therefor just tells you not to date. Then she might have to share your time and your living space with another girl and it might not be something she wants to do?

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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kittens Posted: 8/3/2006 12:23:56 PM
He'll settle down in a while, what about getting some toys for you to hold for him to play with? That way your wiggling toes doesn't look so temtping!

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Is separated single? Posted: 8/3/2006 10:34:21 AM
As long as the person is "seperated" I automatically back off a little... I see seperated as still working with a relationship, whether it be fixing or leaving. About living together... I could understand why they would do that, and would try to be as supportive as possible. I can only imagine how hard it must be getting a divorce and have children involved and getting all those things straightened out. If he was seperated and living together with his ex, I would never want to get involved! There could be too much drama in the picture!

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Have You Ever Been Mistaken For Another Race Or Ethnicity? Posted: 8/1/2006 2:32:20 PM
When I was living in the US (I'm Norwegian) people wouldn't believe me that I wasn't American Because of my mom growing up in the US, I've always managed the language pretty well and some people said they couldn't hear an accent.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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What are some good movies that my fiance & I can see? Posted: 8/1/2006 2:30:25 PM
I just saw you, me & dupree which was funny and cute. Also, Click was kind of a fun movie, with some "after thought" to it. The Break up was really good too

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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How do you deal with distance? Posted: 7/31/2006 2:52:46 PM
I hate distance, and I'd do anything to make it dissapear! I think it's so frustrating, and hard when there's someone you want to be around and get to know better, and can't. No way to touch him or see him move or just feel his presence... Nothing! UGH!!! It's driving me insane **edited; was suppose to be a cry smilie ^^

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Do you girls find it rude when guys check out cleavages while you are bending ? Posted: 7/31/2006 2:26:06 PM
If the guys just keep staring it's rude, but I don't mind anyone looking. I agree with the other girls if I wouldn't feel comfortable with that I would wear turtlenecks...

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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I LOVE MY TELEVISION!!! Posted: 7/30/2006 2:24:43 PM
Lucky you, can I come over for a movie night?

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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men and porn Posted: 7/30/2006 12:12:30 PM
It's just a porn, I doubt there's feelings involved from his part. Besides it might not technically be that he is fantasizing about other women, but come on, if you watch porn yourself, you get turned on, without that meaning you want another man in bed! I wouldn't worry about it at all.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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CSI, the TV series Posted: 7/27/2006 3:29:27 PM
yup, don't like the Miami as much, but it's a great show!

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Naughty in a movie theater Posted: 7/26/2006 3:39:12 PM
I would love to try it

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Ladies, is being into God a turn off? Posted: 7/26/2006 12:59:49 PM
For me, it's a turn off because of what your religion stands for. I don't mind people believing in God, but if the religion is a big part of your life I wouldn't be able to be a part of it.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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EROTIC FICTION............would you try? Posted: 7/26/2006 12:57:30 PM
I've never tried it, but sounds like fun

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Interracial Dating.... Posted: 7/26/2006 12:54:42 PM
I don't see anything wrong with it, in fact I used to date both an asian guy and a biracial(b/w) guy.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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should it always be up to the man to make the first call? Posted: 7/26/2006 12:51:40 PM
If I go on a date with someone, I'll leave it up to him to call me again. Maybe I have to change that?

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Dating a Guy with Badly Behaved Kids Posted: 7/25/2006 1:07:29 PM
I'm not a guy but wanted to reply anyway... I think you should talk to him... and also spend time together, like you mentioned, keep it between the two of you for now. If you feel like the two of you are working out, and ready to take the next step give it a try. It might be hard for everyone to adjust to a new situation, but maybe it's just the change they don't handle very well. They might be scared to get close to you since their mom left them. Showing that they're voulnerable might be a big no no for these kids. If they're still acting up when you've gotten to know them better I would definitely talk to him about it. Telling someone what to do with their kids are difficult, but if you guys are gonna work out as a couple it's important that parenting issues can be discussed openly between the two of you. Especially since you both have kids. You might do things differently, but say that you at one point move in together, you have to coordinate a lot of issues, and parenting being a huge part of it. HTH! And good luck.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Come Join this PITY PARTY...a place to complain about not finding anyone. Posted: 7/24/2006 5:16:58 PM
Pours a glass of vodka for everyone I'll pour a glass of vodka everyday

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Do You Prefer A Mystery Man or Full Disclosure? Posted: 7/24/2006 5:15:20 PM
Mystery can definitly keep me on my toes and want to know more.. maybe try a little harder to get to know him. However, if he keeps being stuck up about it and won't tell me anything, then he goes to far if you ask me. I'm not gonna beg on my knees to get to know someone.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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seat belts and littering... TURN ON or TURN OFF? Posted: 7/24/2006 3:48:28 PM
There's no reason not to put on your seat belt, there's tons of reasons to do so. If you're in my car you wear your seat belt, or you walk Also, there's trash cans everywhere, if someone just throws it on the ground they're lazy. Why would I want to date a lazy guy who doesn't care about the environment or doesn't think how it looks for other people to walk around in his trash? No thank you.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Ladies, do you want brutal honesty on your profile?? Posted: 7/24/2006 3:41:27 PM
Shoot I'm too late lol

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Women and video games Posted: 7/24/2006 3:17:12 PM
Me Me Me I enjoy video games, I have PS2 and my computer that I play on. However, I don't have that many games to play, I think I got a couple for my computer and then like 5 for my PS2, 2 of them that I play (Prince of Persia & Need For Speed, Most Wanted).

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Pregnant and drinks alot Posted: 7/24/2006 2:58:00 PM
^^^ what she said!!!

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Having a baby with a woman Posted: 7/24/2006 2:54:13 PM
You know, I've seen beautiful parents and not so beautiful babies... If you have a kid by a beautiful partner doesn't mean your kid will come out looking like a model... And I've seen ugly parents and beautiful kids, so really... depends on what the two of you look like, some ugly person can have gorgeous eyes and the other might have a nice nose and pretty lips... there you go, overall parents are ugly but kid got the best treats from both and look gorgeous! Anyway, I don't think 7 yrs of age difference is too much. I don't think 20 is too young for having a baby either, however... I think life situation should be settled before having a baby, no matter age!

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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Oral or Intercourse? Only one for the rest of your life.....what would you pick? Posted: 7/24/2006 12:52:17 PM
I would say intercourse

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

Msg: 171 (view)

Much Older People Seeking Younger People. Posted: 7/24/2006 12:49:57 PM
I receive a lot of messages from people 10+ yrs older than me. I just don't have anything in common with a guy that's well into his 30s...

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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How Long? Posted: 7/24/2006 12:21:54 PM
It takes me about 20 minutes, if I need to include a shower and make up it'll take about 45 minutes.

mizzjulia

Joined: 7/11/2006

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My Husband is Ok with my boyfriend ... thoughts? Posted: 7/23/2006 2:46:32 PM
You know, I would never want to have any kind of intimate relationship with someone other than my boyfriend/husband. It would only lead to difficulties...and what about STD? And if he gives you the green light, does he automatically think he got the green light too? Are you comfortable with him doing other women? Seriously, I think situations like those are doomed if you enter them.

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