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Thread: having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
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having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
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12/13/2008 4:07:20 PM
BTDT! It was not planned, just happened and it was incredibly AWESOME! I was walking on Cloud 9 for a week afterwards. I would definitely do it again and do everything that a MFM combination can do.
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I am really starting to hate dating
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9/21/2008 9:20:44 PM
I just wanna know...how much did she end up charging on your card?
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A crazy sense of urgency and restlessness!!!
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9/19/2008 10:34:21 PM
I believe we go through stages. I've been alone off and on numerous times, so it's old hat for me. But there are times I feel completely satisfied being alone and other times, where I just think I can no longer stand it...those times kinda scare me, which I know is silly. We come into this world alone and leave it alone.
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But I believe it all comes down to the fact that everyone wants to be loved...whether they will admit it or not!
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Unsure about a girl, different upbringing?
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8/31/2008 4:52:38 PM
I think your own gut is giving you the answer. Take it from experience, it's really hard to change people and that's not your job anyway. You should weigh the pros and cons of this "could be" relationship and to me, it looks like the cons outweigh the pros. She may have some attributes you're looking for, but can you live with the ones you don't like? You need to make that decision for yourself. This is a good teaching experience. Hope you make the right decision, and whatever it may be, I hope it works out for you.
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Do Women really avoid Scorpio's???
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8/21/2008 10:52:05 PM
Wow, this post goes back to 2005! But I must agree with this sentence...
Virgo-- Best girl friend is a Virgo
Why....thank you!
I tend to stay away from Gemini's. I'm seriously starting to believe the two personality trait is real!
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Would you date a man if he was unemployed and living with his parents?
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7/5/2008 10:56:12 PM
At my age...ummmm....NO! Unless there was a darn good reason, like taking care of a parent or something like that. And would you believe I have talked to quite a few men in their 40s and 50s living with their parents! Even a few who lied about it. I can more understand with men in their early 20s, because of college and such, but after that...come on, take care of yourself, the whole shabang. I did it ever since I was 17, so can they!
It's not a matter of women being shallow, it's more a matter of not wanting to have to support the man financially AND knowing that he can do other things, like cook/feed himself, do laundry, cleaning, just simply taking care of himself/place without depending on a woman to do it ALL.
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Why do some guys run hot and cold?
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6/16/2008 10:55:32 PM
He's scared! You know how they "run back into their caves" when something scares them, dontcha?!
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Ok my date expierance from last night...
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3/11/2008 9:03:08 PM
It must be an age thing. I see you're only 20 and I'm assuming she's around the same age? I'm glad you at least have some manners, because she certainly doesn't.
I don't text and don't plan on starting to unless it becomes a necessity in the future. I only use my cell for emergencies, since I have a pay ahead plan. I also think cells should be turned off while inside where it's necessary to hear what's going on, duh!
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I'm not attracted to women my age.
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3/6/2008 12:22:16 AM
Women my age seem so young...until the makeup smears and sunlight hits their crinkled faces. Black cars look better in the shade.
Wow, crinkled looking at age 38? They must be doing something wrong!
I'm 54 and I must say that most guys my age look like they're in their 70s, give or take a few with good genes...or is it good jeans?!
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Giving or Asking for soneone's phone number...
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2/16/2008 3:42:39 PM
I don't usually have a problem on my end with this...guys usually give me their phone number to call them. And then once I call them, unless I block them, they then have my phone number. I'm very picky about whom I give my phone number to because, YES, they can find out your address by using your phone number. Did you know that? They can do a "reverse phone lookup" and get your address, last name, relatives names, DOB, etc. They may have to pay $5 or $10 to one of these lookup websites to do so, but if they want your address bad enough, they'll do it. Any, YES, cell phone numbers can also be traced. So be very careful who you give your number to.
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A potential mate and the state of their housing
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1/20/2008 10:29:46 PM
There's one thing of being neat and organized, which I am because Virgo's are naturally so or it more or less drives them craaaaaaazy! But I'm not to the point of being obsessive compulsive about it. Nope, I have a HUGE, white, long-haired cat so I can't be too neat. He has toys, an empty box he loves to play in, his OWN mirror, lol, scratching post and you name it all over my house. What can I say, he's fun to watch!
Now I had a younger man come to my house and tell me everything looked old. Ummm...yeah, I have some antiques and ummm...they are what you call "old" and are made better and worth more than the junk that's made these days. I love antiques and also love primitive looking decor. I think it was his immature age that made that comment, ya know, the age of everything being silver and high tech!
I think it can be taken to extremes either way and that shows trouble somewhere. When I walk into a home and it smells baaaaaaaaaad, nope, let me out! There's a difference in being neat and being clean.
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Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
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1/18/2008 11:16:34 PM
I can understand where you're coming from, but this is something that has been going on since Adam and Eve. It's not only men that do it to women, it can be the other way around.
This would be a very touchy and tricky law. Think about it, how would you prove something like that? If it becomes a law, then I guess all liars would be in jail. There would be no one left, haha! Yep, everyone lies, whether you admit to it or not. It may be those lil white lies, but we all do it.
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Do astrological signs reflect our exes?
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1/18/2008 4:26:03 PM
I'm a Virgo, sign of the Virgin, so that should explain my divorce.
This thread is funny!
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Closing account after replying to your message
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12/23/2007 6:53:22 AM
Geez, it must be going around this week. Some guy contacted me, I replied and he replied giving me his email address and phone number. Then he sends me a second reply saying it's better just to call his number.
Soooooooo...I reply the next day to ask when's a good time to call and his account is gone!
I emailed him, no reply. Tried to email him again and email comes back as undeliverable, hahahahhaaaaaaaaaaaa!
Now, do I dare call the phone number he gave me??? Common sense tells me not to, but just to be a prick (maybe his wife or SO will answer), the lil devil inside me wants to play!!
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Can you miss someone you have never met?
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12/14/2007 2:24:08 PM
Yes, it has happened to me, although we do still talk periodically. He went back with his ex and I miss the phone calls and the sometimes all night IMs we had learning about each other.
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People who just write how are you
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12/6/2007 10:22:08 PM
Doesn't bother me. I'd rather have something simple and to the point rather than a whole pg of someone I don't know telling me their life history, ugh!
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Cleaniness and housework
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10/10/2007 10:29:47 PM
I used to be a cleaning fanatic, but have lightened up over the years, especially since pushing a vacuum and a mop aren't the easiest on my back. But I do like my house to smell good, so stinky messes HAVE to be cleaned up. Only one kitty here, but thank goodness for clumping litter, one or two scoops/day and it's clean. Right now, the guts of my bedrm closet have fallen apart and my washer was on the blink for a few mos, so yep, there are clothes pretty much all over my bedrm, but at least most of them are on hangers.
I used to have a lady who would help me clean the hard stuff once/month, but I do it all myself now.
Speaking of household chores, I need to carry out the trash yet tonight, ugh!
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Dating more than one, and having sex with more than one.
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8/19/2007 9:57:47 PM
Ah, hells yeah! I jump outta one bed, get dressed, undressed and into another bed at least 5 or 6 times a day! It's fun, you ought to try it and good exercise too, all that jumping, jumping, jumping! Sometimes I wonder why I even bother getting dressed again. So I'm looking for a nice summer coat that I can just whip on real quick to make it to my next sexapades real quick like! But that's just the sex part of it. The dating part, well, I can only handle one at a time, unless it's a threesome or group, then the more the merrier!!
Believe that and I'll tell ya another one!
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When your dream man turns out to be a Player!
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8/10/2007 11:39:03 AM
Sometimes they just keep you around until they just *might* find something better. To some of them (and I did say some), *some* sex is better than no sex! When they feel you might be drifting, they gotta get back in there to keep you wondering and/or wanting. Yep, it's a game and all the world's a stage, yada, yada, yada...
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Stranded First date..first impression goes awry
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7/26/2007 3:38:36 PM
Yikes, I did not read all the replies, but I have to say I'm sorry you had to go through this and end up with such a sad opinion of women here at POF from your first date. I'm hoping you have had better ones by now, yes, no?? I do have to say, you have much more patience then most men (and women) I know, including me. My one date was almost a half hr late and I was ready to leave right about the time he showed up, grrrrr! He didn't look much like his...cough-cough...6 yr old picture he had posted here either.
BTW, I love your black kitties!!
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QuirkyAlone?
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7/26/2007 3:26:14 PM
Thanks for posting that, definitely an interesting description. I feel that way most of the time, but not all of the time. I really think it's good for people to spend some time alone, I mean very alone, no roommates, no one around, just you! It gives you plenty of time to think about things you may not bother thinking about if people are around all the time. Definitely gives you a different perspective on life and I think makes you stronger!
Too many people get into the wrong relationships because they are just afraid to be alone.
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Are women marketable after age 30?
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7/25/2007 10:19:41 AM
I can only repeat what an interested 24 yr old male told me when he was trying his best to see for himself how I was...."I guess I like my women aged to perfection!"
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Snuggling: the new Iphone?
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7/14/2007 10:09:06 AM
Hmmm...nice thought...why don't you try to get a patent?!
It's not the man I'd have trouble trusting. Nope, it would be meeeeeeeeeeeee! Just the touch, feel and the smell of a man make me want something more!
...and what does the iphone have to do with any of this...a new idea???
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WTF is up with women using being safeonline as an excuse to play games?
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7/8/2007 1:32:04 PM
Funny how someone truly believes she can divine psychopathy through just a scant amount of contact.
Whatever.
Oh, contrare, DARK angel! Your username says it all. Sorry you've been through so much. I have too, but I still try not to judge everyone.
I found some very good dating advice from someone who knows. This is from a dieting website, thus, the relating to eating, lol. This is long, but so worth the read:
A number of us are reaching the point of dating, or wanting to date for the first time in their lives, and it occurred to me that perhaps some would like some pointers. I used to run a heavily trafficked relationships board for Time Warner, and have read most of the popular and useful relationship guides available. I've counciled a number of people on relationships, both those who were in bad relationships they needed to leave, and those who were trying to figure out how to pick a better class of men.
Not everyone wants advice, and if that's the case, then this is NOT addressed to you. But if you're trying to figure out how to get started, I'd like to share some of the things I've learned.
Finding a relationship is like buying a house - the perfect fit may be unexpected, but you have to let people know you're in the market before you can find it. Don't be afraid to involve an expert or tell people you're looking. And remember - it's WORK, but it's *worth* it.
MOST men online are legit, and are reasonably safe to meet. The worst I've personally come across are the married men who lied. However - there are predators out there. So, when it comes to meeting strangers, it's safety first.
Always meet in familiar territory - that means make them come to you. Don't be afraid to say "for my safety, I'd like to go somewhere I know". If they fight you on it, don't go out with them because any man who respects you will *want* to make you feel safe.
Meet in a public place, and don't be afraid to tell the maitre'd or bartender that you're meeting a blind date, that you're going to have no more than one drink and you are NOT leaving with the gentleman. That gives them the confidence to step in if your date tries to slip you a mickey or tries to haul you out of there claiming you're drunk or ill.
I always left a file on my bed with EVERYTHING I knew about an online suitor - every email, picture, screenshot. If for some reason, I didn't make it home, I had left some clues for the police on where to start. Just as I took a will, a living will and power of attorney to Brazil, I prepared for the worst and hoped for the best.
Men are surprisingly honest and deceitful at the same time. But I have found one thing to be true - men will NEVER lie to make themselves look WORSE. When he says he's a millionaire lawyer with a yacht, take it with a grain of salt. Maybe, maybe not. When he says he's never been faithful, that he's not good enough for you, that he's not ready for a relationship, that he doesn't want to get married - *that* is the god's honest truth. Believe him and walk away.
Now, on to other things.
Put together a "First Date" outfit - something that is feminine, comfortable and makes you feel good. That's your uniform. Keep it clean & ready to go. That eliminates the stress of figuring out what to wear. Don't worry that you wear it a hundred times - the only person who is seeing it 100x is YOU.
Go outside your comfort zone. If you're not meeting single, available men in your usual haunts, then you need to go somewhere outside your normal routine. Take a class in something you've never done before. Go to sporting events, even if you don't like sports. You might meet someone else who's been dragged along and commiserate together.
Remember the phrase "you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your handsome prince"? Dating is a numbers game. The more single men you meet, the more likely you are to meet one you like. Make it a game - meet 5 new men per week. This doesn't mean date. It doesn't mean single. It doesn't mean in your age range. Five octagenarians at the nursing home will do just fine. Just make eye contact, exchange smiles, say 'Hi' to five people of the male persuasion that you've never met before.
You have to put yourself in approachable situations. Go read in a coffee shop. Go hang out in a park. Volunteer to hand out water bottles at the local 10k. Unless you're expecting to fall for the mailman, Mr Right isn't going to come ring your doorbell. You have to put yourself out there. I know a woman who met her husband in a GAY bar. She was there to dance. He was there for his (gay) brother's birthday party. I know another woman who met her life-partner at a tennis match - they BOTH absolutely HATE tennis, which is why they were both in the empty bar when the rest of the club was outside watching the big game.
Tell just about everyone that you're available and looking. You don't have to hound them, but let it be known. Let your great aunt Mabel set you up on a blind date. Go out with the guy that your next door neighbor thinks would be perfect for you. Yes - most of them will be boring, strange, and unsuitable, and leave you wondering what the hell these people think of you......but once again - it only takes ONE. Keep looking.
A date is just a date. It's an opportunity to sit across the table from a stranger, exchange a few words over a beverage or a meal, and see if you'd like to repeat the experience. That's it. It's not rocket science. It's not life-threatening. The skies are not going to open & angels aren't going to sing. It's not complicated. Don't put any more importance into than that.
You don't have to tell everyone your life's history. A first few dates are an opportunity to ENJOY each other's company. It's not dishonest - it's actually burdening someone with intimate information they aren't ready for. When it looks like it's going somewhere, then yes, you can reveal more about yourself. Flowers don't just pop open - they bloom slowly revealing their inner souls to the world.
Go out with EVERYONE who even remotely interests you. As long as they aren't scary or an absolute "NO", go out with them. Remember - it's just a date. Pick a few things that are Instant Rejects, but keep your list short. If you really knew what your type was, you'd have married him by now. And you don't have to justify your Reject list.....if you won't date outside your race or religion, so be it. That's your perogative. Just don't use this as an excuse not to date ANYONE.
The two most important things in any relationship are Character & Compatibility. NOTHING else is as important as these two things. If you always choose these two points first, then it doesn't matter whom you fall in love with, because they will ALL be great guys. But - just because someone is a great guy (good character) does NOT mean you have to date him (incompatible). It is a great kindness to you both to release him back to find a woman who is a better match.
Dating doesn't take place on the phone or in email. Eliminate the fantasy factor as quickly as possible and move it to real life. If you're using online dating services, try to get to the meet & greet as quickly as you are comfortable doing.
And if you have a half-relationship going on, END IT. One of the reasons many of us were never hungry before dieting was that we were constantly eating - we never allowed true hunger to happen, and because of that, we never truly were satiated. The same thing happens with emotional hunger. If you're constant grazing on junky relationships, you won't appreciate the real thing when it comes along.
At the same time, desperation isn't attractive. You have to be fulfilled so that you have something to give a relationship. No man or relationship is going to fill a hole in your life. They are a garnish; not the main dish. Appreciate what they have to offer, and wait to see if they offer more.
Now - will all of this commotion immediately produce the perfect guy? No, of course not. And in many ways, the universe responds like this - you shake the apple tree & get oranges.
So you may go out on a bunch of blind dates, meet guys online, and then suddenly reconnect with your kindergarten boyfriend. These may appear to be unrelated, but I believe they are not. I believe that you put out signals to the world saying "I'm happy & available & looking", and men & the universe respond to that in unexpected ways.
Good luck and have fun
I especially like the idea of leaving info about your "meet" at home just in case!
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Finding love after 50
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7/6/2007 8:58:19 PM
Well...I'm 53 and getting stronger everyday, haha! I'm starting over in a way myself. Your mom may surprise you. This just may be the break she needs to bring out her personality. Maybe you can help her get involved in doing something she likes, hobbies, reading, etc, heck, even shopping, and she just might find some new friends. She just needs to take that first step out the door! Good luck to you all!
If she wants to talk, get her on here and have her send me a mssg. I'd be glad to help anyway I can.
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I figured out the girls on POF
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7/5/2007 4:20:48 PM
oh please ...lets be real. for every woman on any of these sites there are i am guessing what 50 guys. so you figure the odds. at least its free here.
What??????????? Although I don't really check out how many women are here, I always thought there were literally more men in this world than women? Okay, maybe not here, but aren't there always more females born than males? LOL.
Guess I have go google this now, jeez.
I just know that in the area where I live, I think women outnumber men 10 to 1. It's tough, I'm telling ya, tough!
As for the OP, 20 emails/day???????? Wow, these statistics are really off...at least for me anyway. Hmph...I must be doing something wrong.
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older women younger men
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7/4/2007 12:36:15 PM
With me, younger guys tell me they can actually have a decent conversation w/me and don't usually find that in women their age. So it's more of a mental stimulation thing, and, oh, the sex is an added bonus...so I've been told!
I said this earlier and re-read it, and it sounds kind of naive. So just to let you (anyone who really gives a F) know, that I like to mostly talk to the young'ems, but if I'm in the mood for some good fooling around...why not? I don't usually take them up on their offers, but it's always good to know it's there if I wanna, haha! I know we won't end up married and that some will want kids someday and that's not gonna happen here, lol. But it's fun to talk to them and keep up with the young'ems and what's going on in their minds. I've found some young men to have very knowleagble minds and some who are very....ummm....well, you know. Plus, I've made some good friends that way and I love people of ALL ages.
One of my best friends is 79 yrs old!
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WTF is up with women using being safeonline as an excuse to play games?
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7/4/2007 12:22:20 PM
I agree w/fun-in-the-sun64!
I can usually tell after talking to someone a few times if they're safe or not safe, moreso w/phone calls. So far, I have pretty much been right on. Hope it stays that way!
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older women younger men
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7/3/2007 8:59:41 AM
With me, younger guys tell me they can actually have a decent conversation w/me and don't usually find that in women their age. So it's more of a mental stimulation thing, and, oh, the sex is an added bonus...so I've been told!
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Help, why is she contacting me after so long? Back to square one.
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7/2/2007 1:47:16 PM
Sounds to me like she wanted to "try out the waters" and now realizes how good she had it with you and wants you back or maybe just wants to use you until someone else comes along. Sorry, if that sounds harsh, but I don't think I would want to go back with someone who treated me like that in the first place.
You are doing fine now, so don't go and get yourself back into that "mess" again. I wish you much happiness!
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EEWWW!! THE WEIRDEST YET!!!! in 25 years...
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6/30/2007 8:29:57 AM
Hmmm...must be a reeeeeeeeeeeally thirsty guy!!
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TO ALL LADIES W/ PICTURES
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6/7/2007 10:27:33 PM
"And please stop putting up pics that you took yourself! The lighting usually sux and you can see your arm sticking straight out. Action shots people...if you have any friends they should have taken plenty!!"
I guess I don't have any friends!
Seriously, when I'm with friends, we may not think of it or everyone has forgotten their cameras. Plus, these would end up as "too many friends" in the picture. Soooooooooo I have to take pics of myself or I don't have pictures. Plus, the camera I have right now is old and takes lousy pictures. But, hey, if ya wanna buy me a new one, please feel free to do so!
I'll bring it over and let you take the pictures!
There was a post on here a few wks ago about pictures. There should just be portrait type pictures where you can actually "see" the person's face. That would be soooooooo freaking nice!
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When it comes to the opposite sex, what is your weakness?
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5/24/2007 2:01:03 PM
Eyes do it first, then if there's a great smile w/dipples, I get a queasy feeling in my gut. After that, the mentality HAS to be there or forget it. You can have great eyes and the best smile, and if you open your mouth and sound like you didn't pass middle school, well, ugh!
It's the eyes, guys, so please stop putting on those sunglasses in your pictures!
I went out with a guy a few wks ago who had the greatest smile, but had on sunglasses and a hat in his picture. After he took those off, he was completely different looking. I know we all want to put up our bestest pictures, but come on, let's be real!
Did I mention, a hot body doesn't hurt either...but I'm sure you guys look for that too.
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Photo ratings.. I have a question for women..
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5/21/2007 9:35:19 PM
Just wanted to add one more thingy...as for photos, I want to see your face, NOT you in the background, NOT on a fishing boat, NOT on a motorcycle and NOT with a gazillion other people, just YOU, your face, your eyes, your mouth, your honker and if you want to show off your bod, fine. But please don't make me quint to see if you're even human. When I go to meet someone, I wanna know whose face I'm looking for and not your motorcycle.
Getting down off my soap box now. Thank you!
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Photo ratings.. I have a question for women..
Posted:
5/20/2007 9:34:33 PM
"I just wanted to have my picture rated becasue my best friend's girlfriend says that my picture looks like I have aids. I wanted to see if it was true that I was that ugly and; I am. On the other hand there have been some nice ladies that gave me good scores becasue they feel sorry for me."
Ah, contrare, Ihaveaname4you! I just looked at your pictures, and I think you are very handsome and do not look sickly at all to me. Maybe a tad on the thin side, but a lot of guys are thin. I actually prefer that. I also thought you looked younger than your stated age of 33, more like 25-26. From now on, don't believe all that you hear and only half of what you see!
To the OP of this thread, I don't know why women are rated higher. Maybe it's because we have more beauty, lol. OR...maybe it's because most men are natural slobs....ouch!
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What do you do when your vibrator breaks?
Posted:
5/12/2007 10:19:55 PM
ALWAYS have a backup (real or not)!
ALWAYS have extra batteries!
...and if it's not waterproof, make sure not to submerge in water! I found out the Hard way (yes, pun intended!), they will rust...just like old men!
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Would you date yourself?
Posted:
5/10/2007 3:58:15 PM
I would want to date someone with my personality and my qualities, compassion and warm heart such as mine. I often think if only the "right one" knew what is here waiting on him....*sigh* I just need to get out more and maybe he'd find me!!!
Hope that doesn't sound conceited, but, yah, I think I'm a great catch. Got any bait?
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Why do men Stand up Women???
Posted:
5/1/2007 8:47:39 PM
Simply put, he's a game player. But let me ask you something I don't think anyone else has mentioned...you said he was just going through customs, so he was obviously coming from another country, correct? A lot of people (notice I didn't say just men
) from other countries are trying to build fake romances to see what they can get out of that person, and they take it way too far. Just be careful who you're dealing with, as these people are HUGE charmers.
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Why dates generated from POF are cut short!!!!!
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4/19/2007 10:09:08 AM
Chipmunk, I have to say I really thought it was just the opposite as you have stated about the ratio. Maybe it's just my area. I haven't really observed a lot of other areas on here. Not looking for someone 1000 miles from me. I do know there are lots more females in my locale than males, always have been, so maybe I'm used to not having the best choice. It sucks, believe me. But I never give up!!
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Back off the fat girl....OMG!!! I know he didn't!?!?!?!
Posted:
4/11/2007 9:49:12 PM
What a jerk!!
Did ya ever notice it's usually the dumpy, ugly ones that say that kind of stuff too? It must make them feel better about themselves!
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Has anyone emailed someone that they wouldn't date?
Posted:
4/11/2007 9:41:22 PM
Yeah, I just do it just to talk and make friends. Not necessarily because I'm interested in dating that person, but I think "sometimes" they take it that way.
Sometimes it's just to encourage that person. I'd say I only get a reply about half the time. I try not to take it personally, but, jeez, they could at least recognize that they read it and say hey or that's cool or whatever. I can't help I'm a friendly person who likes to talk and get to know people. It doesn't necessarily mean I want to marry them.
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Women too picky
Posted:
4/2/2007 3:40:57 PM
Geeeesh.. get over it. Just keep casting your line........ NOW go play with your worm..... *shakes her head sadly*
"now go play with your worm..."
Obviously, guys don't read my profile before they contact me BECAUSE if they actually did, they would see that I won't reply to someone who doesn't have a picture. If that's shallow, oh, well.
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what do the guys honestly want...
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3/26/2007 10:28:05 PM
Okay, I'm obviously not a guy. But, jeez, I'd just like a guy who actually wants to take me out and do something fun instead of just "hanging out." I believe you have to have fun together and experience things together before you know if it can go any further. There has to be more than just LUST.
although you need that too.
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Women that think men are here JUST FOR SEX!!!
Posted:
2/17/2007 2:29:27 PM
Nah, I also like to cuddle!
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Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted:
2/13/2007 8:57:26 PM
OP, ummm....30????!?!?!?!?!?!!!!!!!!!!! When u cumming over to see me?
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I dated a girl once that pee'ed next to the bed every night.
Posted:
2/4/2007 11:33:27 PM
That's just gross! Are you lying?
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Perhaps Plenty Of Fish has it totally right !
Posted:
2/1/2007 11:38:51 PM
I had fish for dinner this evening!
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Do women enjoy anal sex?
Posted:
1/29/2007 8:50:11 PM
Sure, anal is great!
I also like to take out my strap-on and **** the guy in the ass. If they get to **** my ass, I should get to **** theirs right? Seems fair to me.
Love it!
And 'tis true and most that I know would actually enjoy that a lot!
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What do women think of guys who dont drink??
Posted:
12/30/2006 8:24:25 PM
Ahhh, I'd much rather meet a guy who does NOT drink! I can take it or leave it. For me, it's been easier to leave it.
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Do women enjoyed anal sex?
Posted:
12/29/2006 5:18:01 PM
I agree with Letigra. It can be really hot if wanted, but if not, than it can be oh, not so hot. Depends on how horny I am at the time and how well I know my partner.
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