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Joined: 7/13/2006

Msg: 404 (view)

I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age Posted: 10/1/2006 10:27:39 AM
Well unless I am mistaken, the original post doesnt seem like a trap its more a statement that men of a certain age dont care what they come off like. Purely physical in the comment so, in any event, it wouldnt have made a very effective trap so to speak. It began with generalized statements and I see it continues on with the same. I care not what comes to pass after this for my part I will not help this thread sustain life. Even the one who started it doesnt revisit this subject. Enjoy if you must go on.

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Msg: 399 (view)

I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age Posted: 10/1/2006 6:58:45 AM
there is no set and percribed age for when women go through this stage in thier lives. Maybe you were just trying to be cute. And let me give you a nightmare you can take home are you contemplating your own, to use your words,freshman year into man-my estrogen is going up-pause here and cry? the physiological and chemical changes we all go through is a forming science one should never make a hard and fast factual comment on human physiology.The variables involved are too numerous to make a rational or cognitive statement about the subject. Sophomoric observation filters should be offered here. note to moderator. And just friendly advice careful with the quotes that one doesnt hold water. I apologize for this digress I usually wont tilt at someone but i have. Be objective and dont take offense people they didnt mean to hurt your feelings so you would have to strike back.

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Msg: 19 (view)

Why are some men still 'little boys'? Posted: 9/30/2006 9:26:32 PM
Give up we all have to concede its over now. Ha, I told a funny. O damn if the barrel and apple conversation doesnt creep its ugly head up here again. People will play games as i'm sure you all have seen and heard. Some may say they dont play games and that in itself is exactly that. Maybe its a defense mechanism sad and true. Just take one breath in, make it a deep one, and with a single exhale, (much more effort than they deserve i assure you) give a little laugh, sigh then move on. Oh and dont forget the e-mail filters. Boyish I will always be, because lives forever one inside of me. I didnt write that dont shoot the messenger. But its true.

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A guy who likes me for me?!?! Posted: 9/30/2006 9:06:20 PM
I'm going to argue with her one day, I know i will. The sneaky guys will attempt to portray it as almost a social burden. Dont let them in. Be strong and steadfast in your commitments and your values. The virtues you hold dear will attract those in kind. Like attracts like in cases of science maybe not, but in virtue always. I'm old enough to know trust me. Hold your course and the missing half of your soul( i had to edit i typoed soul as coul daggit ) will be drawn through the universe. no force in existance can prevent it. BUt never let another person's opinion make you reflect badly on any aspect of who you truely are deep inside. Women, I have noticed have a much more refined intuition if they just let themselves believe they are right and be guided by their inner feelings. I keep thinking someone said: think with your head, feel with your heart but decide with both. 20 or 90 if they cant abide by your choice to heck with them move on knowing they were not the one for you. And smile as you pass them by.

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Msg: 176 (view)

A lil nookie in tampa bay area Posted: 9/30/2006 8:52:36 PM
This was the most disappointing and good lord, continuing posting to a thread I have read yet. Everyone has jokes, you know what he meant it was a speculative question about the struture and for him the effectiveness of this website and good lord its gone astray. Yeah he paid alright. since it was at his exspense you should all thank him by the way. Any clarification on the intonations woven within my words, feel more than free to reply to it. In those immortal words....I'll be back.

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Msg: 26 (view)

Photos,,,Why do you post 10 yr old photos of yourself???? Posted: 9/30/2006 8:30:16 PM
Wait people read the posts here.I'm stopping immediately. Hey now does interesting mean what in this case? (ok whoever reads this can laugh here) And bellydancer ya silly goose i hope you didnt think i meant you. and as to they should be true and honest. People know what they do and the ones who view the pics do also. True a pic cant capture a personality (thank god my pic would look like salvadore did it). Accept people do it, take it as it comes, contact them for more than that and the best may yet to be. And dancer you know fashion boy do i need a makeover.

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Msg: 396 (view)

I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age Posted: 9/30/2006 8:21:28 PM
OK this goes out to the avenging heroes out there. Dont defend someone or a gender in general from a comment its a falsehood for one and you are only doing it to garner favor. Remain neutral there is the trick. someone says something stupid be strong enough to let it float on by like any twig in a river would. You comment on what they say it becomes a dam against the forum continuing on it's flow. As to my earlier comment. it was more towards any generalizations made that, at any point in time. you all need to be nice, finish it up and then put it to bed.

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Msg: 366 (view)

I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... * Posted: 9/29/2006 4:10:42 PM
Ok this one....holy smokes. i will only comment on one of the generalizations made. "After a man hits 35 they seem to just give up on everything....gain weight, have hair growing odd places, develop jowls...just let themselves go completely" Oh my. The press I would get if i started a forum flipping the gender to female. I thik i would be the bill clinton of POF. Come down to florida I know plenty of guys at the gym that would love to meet you. I just started back in the gym at 41 because of my age i go 7 days a week (cant make gains like a young guy anymore). When a number becomes a significant factor in someone's life. Start looking elsewhere because something deeper is wrong. I think people see others exactly as they wish to see them. I could say the same about women my age and say thats why i date younger. It would be a completely false statement but i could still say it and make it believable( i play texas hold'em i can bluff). In the end darlin we are all human we make sacrifices towards our goals. With some that may be a better body while others pursue financial gain with the same zeal. Bill gates isnt a buff bugger is he..bet ya wouldnt kick him out for crumbs in the bed( place laugh my ass off here).

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Msg: 21 (view)

Photos,,,Why do you post 10 yr old photos of yourself???? Posted: 9/29/2006 3:55:26 PM
wait didnt you say above you keep your photos recent. I'm kidding and haircuts dont really indicate a thing,,everything old can become new again. Ok cut some people a little slack if you know they are old photos move on. they could be conducting a study. See what all of us out here are made of. They could only have a scanner not a dig camera. Their dog could have eaten all their recent photos. Flash fire in the photoalbum drawer. Bottom line is we cant fix something like this by throwing comments at it. It may be fun in the short run but still. I'm sure the people who contact them take all of this into consideration. There are many glamourshots spread throughout which is another "hook" if you want to put it that way. A proffesional photographer can make me look good. But you arent waking up to it in the morning. so i will not post them here as a matter of course. I choose the darkened pic for my own reasons.

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Msg: 45 (view)

People attracted by pictures Posted: 9/29/2006 3:43:52 PM
Ok we can all be honest (men and women) because i've emailed back a few and gotten their takes on just this subject. Im the kind of guy that will chase the truth just for truth's sake. All of us initially go by the picture. We can decieve by words but its that old "worth a thousand words thing". there are no laws of attraction in my bood, general rules maybe even after some of the studies they have done. The key to al lthis is if someone , male or female, fails you just on your picture you dont want to deal with them anyway. A person who is ruled solely by their appetites ( for looks or anything else) fails to see the need to nourish thier soul. I've never seen these people stand the test of time until their outlooks changed. So value and hope for those who will go beyond the initial to whats below the surface. Never lose faith they are out there.

Joined: 7/13/2006

Msg: 53 (view)

Should I give up on her? Posted: 9/28/2006 8:07:39 PM
First dont let gorgeous blind you. We seem to have forgotten what intuition is, I'm talking the whole human race. Find a quiet moment when she isnt on your mind and think about not talking to her and really feel what it does to you and why. Is it a dammit she was hot and liked me thats why i liked her. Or could you possibly have feelings for her. If the later is true, then trust to your instincts. Let tht distance be between you and maybe just maybe ask her how she would feel comfortable being contacted durring this time, If no specific reply is forthcomming. My take from a distance is something has profoundly changed. But with all of our opinions expressed here, we are doing so froma distance so take that into account. dont forget to have a few spare grains of salt about.

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