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 Author Thread: Sending messages to me, but she's blocked me
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
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Sending messages to me, but she's blocked me
Posted: 4/20/2013 3:08:18 PM
Ok, so a member here on Pof, just sent me a message. She had blocked me previously, but I tried to reply and get a message saying she's blocked me. How can she still be sending me messages, if she's blocked me?
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Someone explain this please
Posted: 4/14/2013 6:32:07 AM
I can't see her on my favourites.
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Someone explain this please
Posted: 4/14/2013 5:47:48 AM
I'm not sure, but what I find weird is she blocked me before adding me to her favourites. Is that even possible?
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Someone explain this please
Posted: 4/14/2013 3:40:59 AM
Turns out she blocked me, but I then receive an email saying she added me to her favourites. WTH?
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
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Someone explain this please
Posted: 4/13/2013 11:27:06 PM
Why would they have done that, if they seemed interested? Seems odd to me
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
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Someone explain this please
Posted: 4/13/2013 11:08:16 PM
Had someone contact me last night. Exchanged a few messages, talked via the site chat, I logged in this morning to find those messages gone. Did this person delete their account? Or aren't they who they said they were?

Thanks
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 75 (view)
 
All I want is good conversation...
Posted: 4/11/2013 9:31:41 PM
Yep that's pretty much standard, I got a message yesterday with ff and that was it. When you reply, you get noting back. I came onto this site looking to date, but most of the girls I seems to send messages to, either aren't interested or cannot come up with good conversation and thus put hi u ok
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Incorrect Location
Posted: 4/1/2013 2:40:38 AM
I would think you have probably already tried this, but clear your cache and temporary Internet files.

Hope this helps
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 345 (view)
 
What puts you off messaging someone?
Posted: 3/22/2013 1:56:30 PM
I have many that I could list, but what irritates me is people who use text talk when they supposedly have a degree/PhD etc. can't they be bothered or is it just laziness ?
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Would you Date Someone with a Disability?
Posted: 3/22/2013 1:39:10 PM
Bell0na, I have type 2 diabeties, and manage mine with tablets, diet and exercise, so dating someone with diabeties or indeed any disability wouldn't bother. In fact I'd quite like the idea of being in a relationship with a disabled person as then we would share something in common :)
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Messaging
Posted: 3/16/2013 2:58:31 PM
OP you are very attractive in my opinion, if I lived a lot closer I would date you. :) this may not matter and I may be clutching at straws here, but what was your profile like last time you were here?
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
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Would you Date Someone with a Disability?
Posted: 3/16/2013 2:50:48 PM
I'd date someone with a disability as I suffer from a physical disability myself
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Do men on these sites actually want a relationship or just sex?
Posted: 2/18/2013 1:13:11 PM
I'm here to find a relationship. Sure sex will come, but not straight away, and I want to respect my future partner, and not rush it
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Longest Relationship
Posted: 2/16/2013 3:14:00 PM
The longest relationship I've had is a year. It doesn't put me off other people that have had short term relationships, but does it make me undateable?
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 131 (view)
 
Celebrity Crush?
Posted: 2/16/2013 2:11:11 PM
Eva Longoria is another crush of mine
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Any increase in messages?
Posted: 2/14/2013 2:50:31 PM
My inbox has been silent for the past god knows how long
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 114 (view)
 
Celebrity Crush?
Posted: 2/14/2013 12:00:14 PM
Eva Longoria, Katy Perry & Pixie Lott all do it for me
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 107 (view)
 
What really makes you feel good?
Posted: 2/9/2013 5:34:12 AM
The fact I have an amazing friend :)
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Having a nightmare on here
Posted: 2/3/2013 12:19:18 AM
As people have said its 50/50 on here, some will like you some wont, but you need to have confidence in Yourself, Women love confidence in a man. I personally don't get many replies on here and I'm not ashamed to admit that, but when I do, it's usually from the people that give one word replies and make me do all the work or people that just say something like hello gorgeous, in the hope that ill reply. So have confidence in yourself and you will succeed as it works IRL too in any situation
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 75 (view)
 
tattoos a turn on ? or turn off ?
Posted: 2/3/2013 12:07:32 AM
It's a personal choice, but I don't like them on a man or woman . Especially if they are covered in then.
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 40 (view)
 
The Undateables C4 Tuesday 3rd April 9.00
Posted: 2/2/2013 1:10:54 PM
I missed it :(

While I have a disability, I don't let it affect me one bit, ok I might not be able to drive and I have a sight impairment among other things but I don't let this get in the way and there are ways round it. But the question is does this make me undateable? I think we are judged because we are and I feel it's wrong as you have potentially missed an opportunity to get to know a great person.
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Describe your personality in one word
Posted: 2/2/2013 7:43:38 AM
Hopeless romantic - which is why I'm here
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Do only attractive women deserve love/sex?
Posted: 2/2/2013 7:38:12 AM
Oh of course all men do too, I don't disagree, but I didn't want to come across as a creep lol
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Do only attractive women deserve love/sex?
Posted: 2/2/2013 7:31:54 AM
Everyone is attractive in their own way, it's not all about looks. All women deserve love and attention in my opinion :)
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Disabled Dating?
Posted: 2/1/2013 12:59:01 PM
I also am disabled, but don't let this get in the way. Trust me op, if somebody judges you because of your disability, are they really worth your time and effort? I don't think so.
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 134 (view)
 
Is there anything about yourself that annoys you?
Posted: 1/20/2013 8:31:59 AM
My disability is the thing that annoys me most, although I consider it to be mild, I think this is what puts people off of me, and they judge me on this and my looks without getting to know me first. This is why I find it difficult to meet people.
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Are you put off by a Disability
Posted: 1/6/2013 8:57:09 AM
I have cerebral palsy, (what I consider to be mild), I'm very short sighted and walk with a slight limp on my left leg, but I hope that in the future I meet someone who will look past this and accept me for who I am
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Guys with glasses?
Posted: 1/5/2013 3:34:00 PM
I wear glasses, due to being very short sighted. I think glasses provide a great talking point too.
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Is it ok to chat you up in a supermarket?
Posted: 12/31/2012 7:39:41 AM
Don't mind if someone chats me up in the supermarket, just as long as they don't ask about the flavour of the pot of Pringles in my basket lol
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Contact History - what's yours?
Posted: 12/27/2012 1:33:55 PM
I have been here since 2010 and had one date, which led to nothing. Also only had a few replies to initial messages, and I don't even send out the boring hi how are you's either. I try to make my messages relate to content on the woman's profile.
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Contact History - what's yours?
Posted: 12/27/2012 11:56:20 AM
I made contact: 172 times
They made contact: 6 times
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 16 (view)
 
What inspires you to message someone?
Posted: 12/22/2012 11:23:15 AM
I'm only really here for the forums too, as I haven't had much success on the site, and also 90% of my messages don't get replied to (at the end of the day it's their loss, as they have lost the chance to get to know someone). But it also makes me think, actually I don't really know what they want, is it maybe just an ego boost?
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 214 (view)
 
What puts you off messaging someone?
Posted: 12/17/2012 2:46:44 PM

profiles that state in advance that you're not going to get a reply


I hate this, puts me off instantly. Also profiles that say, if you and a message, they will respond, and then they don't. Women who say they've been hurt in the past, why bother stating this when it potentially is going to put men off you?

I don't know what to write, well why did you sign up here?

Blank profiles

Not up for one night stands, not every man is thinking about sex you know, well I'm not straight away
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 114 (view)
 
How persistent are you?
Posted: 12/13/2012 2:02:52 PM
I send one message, and if I don't get a reply, then that means they aren't interested. It's their loss at the end of the day, because they could have just lost a potential friend or date.
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 115 (view)
 
What puts you off messaging someone?i
Posted: 12/8/2012 8:25:28 AM
People who say I am shy or I will get to know you better once I come out of my shell. You are a person not a sea creature.

Women who say hi how are you messages or be original will be deleted or ignored. How do you expect to get to know someone in the real world if you don't say hi, or introduce yourself?

People who say, I don't know what to write, if you don't know what to write then why are you here?

Text talk is another pet hate too
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 34 (view)
 
What puts you off messaging someone?
Posted: 11/29/2012 1:33:29 PM

Mainly the "shy at first" or "just ask" or "message me you never know". I just cba trying to get information, probably one sentence at a time, from someone else who obviously cba either.


@ Jacknher, I get tired of this too, its not only that we cant be asked to get info, but when we message them, in my case they get deleted or just read, so it seems like a waste of time.
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What puts you off messaging someone?
Posted: 11/29/2012 8:30:51 AM
People who go clubbing all the time
People who use text talk on profiles
I don't know what to write
Don't message me with Hi (how are you supposed to get to know someone without saying hi or hello then?)
Anything else you wanna know message me
Accept me for who I am. (I'm a non judgemental person, but this still gets ignored)
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 3 (view)
 
3D HDMI Cable
Posted: 11/28/2012 11:40:54 PM
Ok thank you, so are these purpose manufactured 3D cables a gimmick?
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 1 (view)
 
3D HDMI Cable
Posted: 11/28/2012 1:44:49 PM
Hi all, I have just purchased a Samsung UE40ES8000 which came as a package and includes a 3D Blu Ray Player. My question is, do I need 3D hdmi cable to be able to view 3D or will any non 3D cable work?
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Musical guilty pleasures
Posted: 11/20/2012 11:55:30 AM
Pet Shop Boys for me. Saw them in concert back in 09 and they certainly know how to put on a show for their fans.
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 581 (view)
 
how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 11/13/2012 2:38:50 PM
Me too, currently 24
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 20 (view)
 
AGE and who tells the biggest lies men or women!!
Posted: 11/9/2012 3:42:48 PM
I've never lied about my age, don't see the point. What does it achieve at the end of the day? My height on the other hand, I'm not actually sure about, so I have put 5ft 6" on my profile as I am pretty sure that's accurate
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 28 (view)
 
What do you LIKE to see in profiles?
Posted: 11/8/2012 2:22:23 PM
I look for
spelling,
similar interests
Whether they have children or not
Whether they are romantic
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Just had my first sex message
Posted: 11/6/2012 3:36:38 AM
@ffrin, I hardly get messages either, so not counting on much success from the site, but I hang around in the forums and there are generally some great people that post here :)
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 17 (view)
 
have you found someone
Posted: 11/4/2012 12:11:44 PM
Have only met one person, as I don't get hardly any replies on here. Sufficed to say we didn't purse after the first meet.
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 8 (view)
 
if you this or that then don't message me; seriously???
Posted: 10/29/2012 11:29:11 PM

Not really... most women are fully aware that a lot of the men don't read the profiles. If it makes it less irritating for you, a large number of the men's profiles do the exact same thing...

The worst I have is "if you want kids, move on" Even THAT doesn't seem to penetrate some thick skulls.


To be honest women shouldn't even need to state if you want kids move on, as it shows on the profile anyway. But I understand where you are coming from.
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Feeling alone
Posted: 10/27/2012 12:51:42 PM
Forums are the best place, and there are loads of them about. See if there's one for an interest or hobbie you have :)
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 25 (view)
 
my profile review - Re worked, opinions needed please
Posted: 10/27/2012 11:46:16 AM
Done, uploaded some more pics I had on my laptop as well :)
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 323 (view)
 
What words should be banned from profiles?
Posted: 10/27/2012 11:22:14 AM
Text Talk
Looking for a nice guy to treat me right
I dont judge (yeah right, absolute rubbish)
Its all about personality (same as above)
Make me laugh (this is kind of difficult to put across in text form)
If you want to know more send me a message (you dont need to state the obvious)
I hate talking about myself
People who are obsessed with tatto's and piercings
 Wayne1988
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Does 'basic' membership allow you to reply
Posted: 10/27/2012 11:16:54 AM
Like Terry, although I have sent quite a few messages, I never get any reply back. Makes me think, the girls im messaging, aren't worth knowing in my opinion, if they completely dis regard the message in the first place. just my two pence worth :)
 
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