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 Author Thread: Cell Phones On a Date,Do You Really Need It?
 FEATHERS
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 610 (view)
 
Cell Phones On a Date,Do You Really Need It?
Posted: 2/28/2008 9:03:54 AM
I also have to have my cell phone with me all the time because of business and i have child in the airfirce and i would take her call while i was in church if she wrang me. If a date couldnt understand that , well then..........
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
what makes you call an ex
Posted: 11/29/2007 9:04:38 AM
no dialing while intoxicated!
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 49 (view)
 
What do you think about getting flowers from your better half?
Posted: 5/12/2007 12:16:42 PM
I think getting them and giving them is fabulous! Love daisy's
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
what would u do
Posted: 5/5/2007 9:59:33 AM
hmmmmmmmmmmmm,
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
why do men when they have every thing ,want more ?
Posted: 4/29/2007 4:29:07 AM
Hey hotfunstuff, sounds like you got the last guy i dated from this sight i think of it this way ,we will find true happiness before they do , because there surch for the more improved model never ends.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Single again
Posted: 4/25/2007 10:25:06 PM
fishbill . im just wondering if your are a total ***hole or you were just born with out a sensitve bone in your body. you should be a priest so you can tell every one how ****ed up there lives are and get off the dating site
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Single again
Posted: 4/25/2007 2:09:53 AM
If you feel that way about your self , your looking to get hurt and abused and used, you need some help in self awareness and self pity. Love your self before you can love any one else. Your going to bring a child into this world, which at times is a difficult enough place, with out haveing self asteem issues and feeling no self worth. Since you are having a child focus on that and making your self the best role model, mother, and human being you can be. love will find you. Your young beautiful and have a bright future in front of you.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Why do we hurt the ones we love?
Posted: 4/25/2007 2:03:02 AM
Though its very annoying to get involved with some one who isnt sure of there own emotions, the best thing to do is walk away. Most people dont want to be alone and try to fill that void with what ever they can . Getting upset is a normal reaction. those people that arent emotional ready and arent honest enough with them selves are never going to be honest with any one else .Good luck too you
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
I have a honest qustion and you cant laugh k
Posted: 4/14/2007 12:58:01 PM
I think its wonderful and the first guy i slept with was my husband as well, i didnt wait till i got married but i knew he was mine ( well mine till i left him years later)
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
I have been on here for literally years...
Posted: 3/26/2007 4:57:33 PM
so far im with tiny dancer .as far as the men i have met
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
If u only had the forums post to use to find a date, what would u be looking for in those posts.
Posted: 3/25/2007 10:03:19 AM
I think the forums are a very good way to learn and gain information that isnt a in a profile. Alot of people never post in a forum at all. I also have checked out profiles because of what i have read . Some fairly intelligent people out there , also some that are rude and have no compassion. I enjoy this site the way it is for the most part.
I dont like to read those giving up forums how ever. whats to give up you came here to find something you didnt have , you have nothing to give up if you havent achieved your goal. So you keep looking and coming back and maybe one day you find what you desire. Dont make it your lifes only mission, just a small one in your hopefully other wise fullfilled life. Things happen when you least expect them. Have a great day every one
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 3/24/2007 10:36:03 AM
sane very sane here! lol
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Online relationship - cheating??
Posted: 3/24/2007 10:31:09 AM
ITS A BETRAYAL! THE INTENT IS THERE. UNLESS YOUR PARTNER IS AWARE AND IT DOESNT BOTHER HIM OR HER, ITS BEING DISHONEST ABOUT YOUR NEEDS ,DESIRES, IF YOUR PARTNER CANT FILL THOSE NEEDS OR ISNT AWARE YOU HAVE THEM AND HE FINDS OUT, WILL HE WILL OR SHE BE HURT BY YOUR ACTIONS? IF THE ANSWER IS YES, THEN WHAT YOUR DOING IS WRONG.

SORRY FOR THE CAPS BEFORE YOU YELL AT ME
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 52 (view)
 
A guy changes his attitude after the first meeting
Posted: 3/21/2007 4:47:29 AM
sounds wacky wacky wacky,
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 122 (view)
 
WHEN WILL I FIND A FAITHFULL MAN??????????????
Posted: 3/21/2007 4:24:49 AM
when you find one see if he any brothers!
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 125 (view)
 
Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder)
Posted: 3/21/2007 4:24:04 AM
i think i did , i think i did, told him to seek help!
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
suggestions on how to move on?
Posted: 3/21/2007 4:22:03 AM
family and friends, hugs and love from those you know really care about you. get busy living life and it really does help. move on find more friends. go out alone you always find new friends that way.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 121 (view)
 
WHEN WILL I FIND A FAITHFULL MAN??????????????
Posted: 3/21/2007 4:15:05 AM
i have said this before the internet makes playing the field so easy , that so many take full advantage of the need we say we have to have some one in our lives. if im sleeping in your bed that means we are in a commited relationship , and that man would know it, and if he wanted to be just dating some one then he would need to date some one else. men and women alike can chat with lots of attractive potential dates on a daily basis, the man i was living with from this sight was emailing women all the time. telling them he was home alone crying in his wine. missed them and wished he was with them while he and i were out having a good time. you hope you weed the losers out early and move on. he said he was doing it to make them feel good, he was full of bologna!
hope you feel better soon. i know i do.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
why woldn t she listen to me
Posted: 3/20/2007 6:42:14 AM
you are the left alone and unhappy and it has happened to many of us and will happen to many more. (im sorry to say) all we can do is suck it up to life experience and hope we dont run into more losers. we move on ,smile and hope life , love and happiness come our way again. im sorry your hurting .
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 255 (view)
 
What have you learned from having your heart broken?
Posted: 3/19/2007 9:03:17 AM
i have learned to go with your gut feelings .
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Your Coolest Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 6:47:46 AM
i think the people who are actual seriously interested in the other will use this feature. those who dont want others to be in there business will not use it. i have been here i think 7 months and i have no one on my favorite list at this time.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
How do you tell if the guy your dating is no longer interested?
Posted: 3/16/2007 8:48:03 PM
i agree , been there move on
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
The Code or Golden Rule...Do you adhere to it?
Posted: 3/16/2007 6:34:51 PM
rule keeper for me!
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 42 (view)
 
How Much Body Hair is Too Much on a Woman?
Posted: 3/16/2007 4:20:29 PM
does she work for geico
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 3/16/2007 3:33:03 PM
yes there are men where do you think they get the word gigalo from
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 3/16/2007 2:52:12 PM
they are available to be used for many many years and will still be after we are all dead and buried. most men or women that use them dont go around telling there dates , about there other sexual encounters and that they have bought sex. so many women and men are sleeping with people that have had sex with hookers or escorts, i dont belive it matters if your a beauty queen or the women people find unappealing.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
how long to meet?
Posted: 3/16/2007 2:14:26 PM
well fisrt of all you meet in a public place !!!!!! you drive your self!!!!!!! you pick the place!!!!!!!! and you drive your self home!!!!!! the time you chat is up to each individual. if there a killer does the time you wait to meet make a differcnce?????
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Can someone help me to understand men?
Posted: 3/16/2007 2:04:45 PM
weed weed weed, this place should be called garden of plenty lol
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Some advice please.......
Posted: 3/16/2007 8:52:57 AM
i just think you should be straight forwrd with him and that you want him in your life and let him make his choice.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
what to do !!
Posted: 3/15/2007 4:42:16 PM
very thoughtful!
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 600 (view)
 
Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 3/15/2007 10:04:47 AM
Its the trust factor, once some one betrays you it hard to get back to the same place and does take work and comminication. Most of all honesty about why it happened what would prevent it from happening again, should we be together in the first place , but if you can get over it because you truly love each other , thats fabulous! Because some times the second time around with a partner can be ten times better then it ever was before.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Would your former partner or best friend agree with how you portray yourself in your profile
Posted: 3/15/2007 9:34:30 AM
They would would agree that is who i am ,what i desire for sure
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 598 (view)
 
Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 3/15/2007 7:36:50 AM
to forgive is the easy part ,to forget much more difficult.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Places you go to reflect.
Posted: 3/15/2007 6:18:10 AM
i walk along the beach listening to the water late in evening when i need to reflect and be alone.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Suppose you were stuck single forever...
Posted: 3/14/2007 4:48:45 AM
I would survive
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Fish Personalities.....
Posted: 3/14/2007 4:46:59 AM
well feathers the sea horse doesnt really sound that appealing for a first look at a profile, but what ever.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
My crush has a B/F
Posted: 3/13/2007 3:37:09 PM
let her leave her man before you make any moves and if she doesnt keep moving on
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Why do guys do this??
Posted: 3/13/2007 10:55:27 AM
because its polite. and thats why some people do it. others do it so you will sit around and wait for the call. some because they dont have the courage to say thank you very much, but i dont think the interest is there, thank you for meeting and good luck in your search.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 48 (view)
 
A question, is she flirting or not?
Posted: 3/13/2007 5:38:04 AM
i wasnt making fun of him , was the comments about his forum i found amusing.. always a nice feeling while your out and about to think that some one you were just passing by had an interset in you one way or another.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 42 (view)
 
A question, is she flirting or not?
Posted: 3/12/2007 6:34:20 PM
reading this made my night , thanks
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
From casual to committed.... can it be done?
Posted: 3/12/2007 4:14:12 PM
a natural occurance is what it should be when it happens , if something needs to be done to make it go that way, maybe there is a problem already
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Is It Possible?
Posted: 3/12/2007 1:26:45 PM
if its love, it will be there in a few weeks a few months dont rush it
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Advice....Please
Posted: 3/12/2007 11:08:46 AM
let him go to jail , let him get the help he needs. walk away maybe one day when he is stable you will find each other again , if that day ever comes. best of luck dont be any ones punching bag
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Broken and lost
Posted: 3/11/2007 7:07:43 PM
im so sorry your going through a rough time! let him go for now , and most of the time men say they dont know to avoid hurting you in there minds. they dont want to tell you they found some one else or they have cheated. if you love him and want him back let him go for now. if you can get over him let him go for ever. trying to figure out how people fall out of and in love every other day is a mystery to me as well. life is amazing. i wish you good luck
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Knowing When To Trust the Recently Separated
Posted: 3/11/2007 8:58:22 AM
take it one day at a time and dont allow him to move faster then you are comfotable with. some people just cant stand being alone and will fill there void with others ,with out taking into concideration the other persons emotions. good luck
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Did she show her true colors?
Posted: 3/11/2007 8:55:08 AM
hey i know a guy just like her may be we can fix them up and they can use each other to death sucks to be taken for a fool, but god willing we learn from our mistakes
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
mind/heart games
Posted: 3/10/2007 10:44:32 AM
so many women so easy to play
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
How do I get over my anger towards a cheater?
Posted: 3/7/2007 2:30:44 PM
you dont get closure from a player , they cant be honest enougn or considerate enough to give that to either. there just selfish people.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
falling for a playa
Posted: 3/7/2007 4:39:45 AM
the internet makes it easy to have options as far as a date long term or just incounter, some feel they can just play with others emotions , because there is always some one else to play with. decisions, decisions, i dated one , and he never stopped playing on here and other sites. some people are just concerned with there own emotional needs no matter how it affects some one elses life. he was telling women he was sitting home aone drinking wine wishing he was with them, when i was at work or in the other room or laying in his bed. he just cancelled his account here. i dated someone else like him once a long time and he and i spoke about that reltionship and his comment was i cant believe a guy would do that while he was with another women. while he was doing it the whole time. one of his girl friends from the past contacted me and told me he has been doing it for years and years. very sad the shame is he is a single father of 3 young women . and they are aware of what he does.
 feathers
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
are you shallow? if so help me with this one...
Posted: 3/6/2007 1:19:32 PM
how about just saying i dont find the need to be your friend or socialize with you in way because of your attitude towrds life in general, so would you please refrain from contacting me in any way, shape or form from this time forward. im sorry to have to say this too you but it has been bothering me for a while and dont think that i should have to change the standards of how i choose my friends. Have a nice day and thank you, i do apologise for having to say theses things, but not for how ifeel about them being said.
 
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