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just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

Msg: 143 (view)

If you could have, a free holiday where would you go? Posted: 11/5/2007 5:50:49 PM
Ireland!! To look up family members I haven't met yet.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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what does this mean when a woman says Posted: 8/28/2006 4:48:11 AM
Can mean many things. Perhaps she is just a very giving person. Takes many kinds to run a world. I know many people that way, usually female, sometimes guys. I myself am a very energetic person, seeing the larger picture and not much on details. Someone who notices the details more may see someone in need sooner than other types. I am very compassionate and love to defend...just don't always see the trees. I tend toward seeing the entire forest.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Hairy Chest vs Shaved Chest Posted: 8/28/2006 4:44:36 AM
Ok, give me shaved AND bald ANYtime. Ooooooooo yeah!!

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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I'll bet any of you girls that... Posted: 8/28/2006 4:40:33 AM
So was this post just to start an argument? I see no LOGICAL purpose in the broaching of this subject. Seems rather rhetorical.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? Posted: 8/26/2006 10:37:50 PM
What's RIGHT with it: 1. loving the dark hair 2. great mysterious look going on 3. short answer

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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women with a lot of male friends Posted: 8/20/2006 6:11:58 PM
Eman is right. I get asked by guys all the time am I single (yes), and then they ask why, and I have no clue. Prolly fear of committment.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Do people have less sex in the hot months? Posted: 8/20/2006 5:41:21 PM
Maybe something about the heat zapping their energy? It's my theory anyway.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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What type of traveller are you? Posted: 8/20/2006 4:24:27 PM
Less developed, southern, medium budget. Less developed: I just hate fake things, and things less-developed areas are more down-to-earth. Southern: I like warm weather. Medium Budget: I like the challenge of seeing what accomodations I can come up with that are a little off the beaten path. Once in Mexico, stayed in a REALLY cheap, older motel for about $10 one night, in the state of Nayarit. Looked JUST like something from a Clint Eastwood movie, I kid you not. Stone walls, stone floors, stone shower, stone toilet, HUGE wooden door with some kind of ring clasp. TOO totally cool. No hot water, and I did my laundry with a mexican lady in the enclosed courtyard on a stone washstand BY HAND, lol!! And hung it out on lines, still there in the courtyard. I was euphoric. LOVED loved loved that place.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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What foods do you hate? Posted: 8/20/2006 4:10:58 PM
Weird. All my life, the only things I really haven't liked are greasy food, cream of wheat, and grits.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Red Velvet Cake Posted: 8/20/2006 4:08:41 PM
Anyone have a recipe for it? My mom used to make it, and I know she used cream cheese for the frosting and that the cake was red, but other than that, I have no clue.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Best break-up lines Posted: 8/20/2006 1:34:39 PM
Lol!!!! I like the one about "I want to get married and have your children", lol!! That's good. I never actually used a line. I just left. No drama, no fights. Just one day he came home from work and I was SOOO gone. I'm better at the disappearing act.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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best ways to get even with your ex Posted: 8/20/2006 1:29:38 PM
Um, life has this weird way of evening things out. I was married to someone who used to lock me in rooms, disable my vehicle, all kinds of fun things. The last thing he did was sleep around with some cow (sorry big girls...not a general slur...this was a skuzz female), and then leave. About 10 years later, I hear through the grape vine that he has an accident at work and loses a nut and almost his life. Life is weird that way. I would never wish it on him in a million years, but it's almost scary how karma bites ya in th azz.....be careful mean people.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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When an ex-girl friend gets raped... what would you do? Posted: 8/20/2006 1:21:35 PM
Dude, do the compassionate thing and don't give a rat's azz what cynics say. Burn-outs who don't care about other human beings. Just do the right thing. You'll know what that is. XOXO

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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women with a lot of male friends Posted: 8/20/2006 9:53:28 AM
I'm used to guys from growing up with brothers, so most of my friends are guys. Now, if I meet another chick and she likes to do things like fishing, camping, working on her own vehicle, riding horses, riding motorcycles, rollerblading, can laugh at stupid stuff and herself, is genuine AND we can have each other's backs? We'll be buds. If not, hang what people think. Get 'er done!!

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 8/20/2006 9:37:31 AM
Never happen. I read a person's face to tell what kind of person they are. They don't have to be perfect, but I gotta have the pic.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Signs that a woman is single? Posted: 8/20/2006 9:32:00 AM
One load of laundry at the laundry mat, small sizes of food at the grocery store, seeing her alone at PetSmart on Sunday. With her dog. Seeing her at the park with her dog on Sunday, alone. Only buying female clothes at the store, hair and makeup done to go to the grocery store, seeing her sitting at a club sipping her drink alone, seeing her LEAVE the club alone (probably works the next day), her eating in a restaurant alone, ad infinitim......

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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NEED VIEWPOINTS ON IM ON HERE... Posted: 8/20/2006 9:23:02 AM
Some of us HATE im's from strangers. I consider it an intrusion unless he's already been invited to IM me. And the biggest blunder? Trying to add me w/o even having chatted. Where DO they get their chutzpah....

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Best hiking in Virginia? Posted: 8/20/2006 9:15:20 AM
Thanks guys. And with Fall coming on, best time of year to go camping/hiking.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Do men get off on crazy women? Posted: 8/20/2006 9:04:21 AM
I don't know if guys "like" crazy women, as much as they find it hard to break away after already having become involved. Sex is powerful.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Why don't you age? Posted: 8/20/2006 9:00:38 AM
Be happy to give away trade secrets. Never smoked, never got into drugs, don't eat a lot of fat, don't eat much meat, run, play sports, THINK young (HATE that "I'm so damn old and tired" mentality), never was a club type person, do what feels right for ME. Don't listen to societal stereotypes and expectations about what I'm supposed to be like. I'LL decide. I do have 2 bad habits. Sleeping habits suck and I love caffeine.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Dating Older Men Posted: 8/20/2006 8:56:28 AM
I HAVE, but it's an exceptional man when I do, 'cuz I ain't dead yet, and I get on some guys' nerves because of the energy level. I'm no child (34), but done been blessed with a lot of adrenalin (cop ran a drug test on me once on a traffic stop, lol...said I was too hyper....he was 45). My cousin married a guy about 15 years older and they had a baby together. Sweet little boy, but my cousin is SOOOO much more calm.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Holy crap... my first honest to goodness nutcase Posted: 8/20/2006 7:59:28 AM
Was prolly a guy posing as a female and got pissed when you figured it out accidentally.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Fake Pictures Posted: 8/20/2006 7:39:01 AM
I have a good one. Posted an ad on Craigs looking for a roommate, and this guy answers, says he's around 45 and looks it, no pic, says he had black hair, 6', 180, would be wearing a dark green polo shirt and khaki pants. So we agree to meet, I show up early so I can watch the door of anyone coming/going in that place so as not to miss who I was supposed to meet (I am anal about being places on time). A dude pulls up with GREY hair, black shirt, oh but there are the khaki pants, lol! So I sit, watching him, he goes in to have coffee, acts like he's waiting also, so I cowboy up, bite the bullet and walk in and ask him. Are you James (name changed to protect the weird)? He says no. So I leave. I get back home, check my email, GUY IS RANTING!! I'm like waaaaa???? Says he hopes I had fun at his expense, because HE showed up and where the hell was I? He talked just like that too. I'm shaking my head, and tell him, look. You obviously have issues and I suggest you take it up with your psychologist, because you do NOT have black hair (was completely grey), you are NOT 6' (around 5'7", pot belly), and you most certainly are not 45 (looked around 60). Not even the color of his stupid SHIRT was right!!! The only thing that was right in his description was the color of his khaki pants. Oh please. I woudn't have cared were he 61, if he was grey, and I SURELY don't care what color shirt a man wears, lol!! And THEN to yell at me when he emails me again for not showing UP? I wasn't looking for a BF. Just a roommate. So much for olders guys being more mature. Not always. Do do do do do do do do.....just be careful to meet people in public for the first time. I get creepy feelings though every time I pass a Starbucks....

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Nigerian Scams Posted: 8/20/2006 7:25:23 AM
What IS it about Nigeria that breeds such disgusting behavior??? I live in Virginia Beach, and was down by the water one day and got a flat tire. Going rate for a used tire around here is $30. Nigerian dude charged me $60!!!!!!!!! Didn't have a choice. Rolled in there with my radial juuuuust about to peel off. Could see it starting. So I wasn't in a position to price compare. Then he had the nerve to give me his business card and suggested I tell my friends. Oh, believe me, I have been. Just for all you locals, he's in the 17th St. area somewhere. Can't remember the exact addy or name of the shop, but you'll recognize the place when you hear the guy talk. STAY AWAY FROM THIS PLACE!! Rip-off!!

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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What's the most memorable thing a man's ever done for you Posted: 8/19/2006 6:02:11 PM
Got something out of my truck I REALLY needed once and wasn't one bit embarrassed............

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Wild and crazy travel stories Posted: 8/18/2006 5:18:01 PM
Getting stranded in the middle of Mexico City and having to hitchhike out.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Best city in the US? Posted: 8/18/2006 5:10:11 PM
You know there is no Eutopia, right? Ok. I live in Virginia, but am from Austin. Austin is very cool, VERY fun place to street party (6th st.). But don't argue with the police. Austin City Police DO not play and their attitudes are NOT good, lol!! Love the police officers here in Virginia. So polite.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Best hiking in Virginia? Posted: 8/18/2006 5:07:40 PM
I live here, but not from here, and keep telling myself I'm going hiking.....I WANT to!!!

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Worst place you ever been? Posted: 8/18/2006 5:03:32 PM
Parts of Acapulco most tourists probably have never seen. Got lost.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Strangest thing you've eaten? Posted: 8/18/2006 5:01:58 PM
Not too strange: shark.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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best and worst beer in the world Posted: 8/18/2006 5:00:05 PM
Ok, in my experience, the Irish beer I tasted sucks. Tastes like sewer water. I like Mexican beer.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Wierd sandwiches we ate as kids or anything else! Posted: 8/18/2006 4:35:35 PM
Ok, didn't read all the posts, but maybe this one has been mentioned? Tuna fish with potato chips. I think it was my brother's idea. I SO cannot stand tuna fish as an adult.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Making your stew thicker Posted: 8/18/2006 4:32:27 PM
I HAVE your answer, lol!! And I stumbled on this one on my own one Saturday night when I didn't have any of those aforementionables. Potato flakes. Yep. PERFECT for stew.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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What makes a woman feel most empowered? Posted: 8/18/2006 4:20:19 PM
I LIKE men, so I don't want to become TOO independent (hear me roar, lol), but what feels powerful is having been through some really serious shyt and am still able to come out with a positive attitude, no chip on shoulder (no patience for negativity anyway :D). THAT is when I know God loves me and no one can keep me down. And it's called, I get to spread that good stuff around.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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what personality trait do you hate in a man? Posted: 8/18/2006 4:14:37 PM
Arrogance. LOVE it when someone makes a lame attempt at condescencion.....can I Andy, can I huh, huh?? Just let me at him, just one time, just one little time, lol!!

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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What makes a guy stand out, to you? Posted: 8/18/2006 4:08:25 PM
I know this will suck, but most females are picky about how things are worded, and can the man SPELL? HUGE huge turn-off to get something like this: Hey. It's me. Call me. (actual email once and it was his first email...zzzzzzz) And I'm like, WTF??? ROFL!! "Um, no?" Or this: So, like, what are you into and what are you looking for? And I might answer, "uh, not marriage? please??" Start off with maybe a couple of sentences about yourself. Someone emailed me once with an entire thesis on the wonder of them. I read about the first 2 sentences. Maybe some women like long letters, but I'm not so long on patience.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Favourite drinks.... Posted: 8/18/2006 4:00:21 PM
Mostly longneck Budweiser, and the occasional Corona or Tequila shot. Guess where I'm from, lol!!

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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finishing before starting the race Posted: 8/18/2006 3:52:41 PM
Starting to turn into porn in here.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Is it appropriate to approach a woman at a grocery store? Posted: 8/18/2006 3:43:12 PM
Ok, I SO know we're all getting written up er ****ed out for "chatting" on the board, but girl (Momini), that was FUNNY!! So let me get a blurb in on the topic so I don't get in trouble. Dude, some of us LIKE being approached in the store. Someone else was saying it really well. It feels like a non-threatening environment. And some of us jes don' DO clubs.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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What does it mean if a woman buys a man clothes....just friends? Posted: 8/18/2006 11:37:38 AM
I've done things for guys twice in my life. One I was involved with and it was clothes. The other one had no car to go visit his kids, so I hooked him up with a cheapie. For the kids. The car thing was probably a dumb move, but I felt sorry for the kids.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Would you ever consider carrying a child for money? Posted: 8/18/2006 11:20:20 AM
Oh hell no. I get attached too easily, especially to kids. Na, couldna do it.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Is it appropriate to approach a woman at a grocery store? Posted: 8/18/2006 11:16:29 AM
ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!! Too entirely COOL!! Perfect answer, lol!! Well, my mouth worked that time. That and the officer escort to my vehicle....dude was STILL mouthing off as I'm walking with the cop......thoughts of women being kidnapped come to mind...

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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I'm not attractive? Hey, you're know beauty either Posted: 8/18/2006 11:08:02 AM
I'm sure it's not you. I am SO not attracted to Brad Pitt types, but think more in terms of Mel Gibson, etc. He's not typically good-looking, but LOOOOVE me an aggressive man (NOT an ass...2 diff types of guys, lol). She DID have a right to be attracted to whomever, even if she's only average. She owes you nada, and you owe HER nada. Especially not at first. It's called, next.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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telling your expectations in the beginning Posted: 8/18/2006 10:58:30 AM
Na, huge turn-off for me. I hate that question, "so what are you looking for", like they're doing a job interview or something. SOME damn things are not supposed to be corporate. Just let it flow, and if it goes further, cool. If not, prolly made a friend. Geeeeeeezzzzz.........

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Too much info on first dates. What has scared you off? Posted: 8/18/2006 7:56:58 AM
When a guy gets too serious too fast, I run.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Anemia->Can anyone relate? Posted: 8/18/2006 6:50:13 AM
Never knew about shots.....food for thought. Been fighting it all my adult life. It even makes my period a real burden. 7 days and I always feel like I'm about to die (drama for effect :D).

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Is it appropriate to approach a woman at a grocery store? Posted: 8/18/2006 6:38:07 AM
Sorry for the second post....this is a cool thread.....the direct and HONEST approach does work sometimes. I was up in Richmond (I live in VA :D) once, and was in a store, and this one guy and I had the eye thing going on, it was too obviously mutual, and finally, I probably just broke the ice with some off the wall comment like, "dude, are you following me, lol!!" Cracked him up, lol!! So we ended up exchanging info, but nothing ever came of it. I live like 2 hours from him.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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Is it appropriate to approach a woman at a grocery store? Posted: 8/18/2006 6:31:33 AM
I do it, so why not?? I talk to all kinds of people, just about anywhere. Grocery store, Wally World, post office, car wash, library....some of them are probably thinking, who IS this chick, ROLF!! 'Cuz that's just me. I "exude" enthusiasm, and just a joi d'vivre (Miss Happy Face, a.k.a., Sunshine ) :D. So why not. And when guys do it to me, usually I'm cool with it. Ok, there WAS that one dude who kept following me around in Wally World, but I'm pretty much not shy and the whole store knew it when he wouldn't stop.....BUT other than him....

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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finishing before starting the race Posted: 8/18/2006 6:23:53 AM
It was about 50% of what caused my ex and me to split.

just_call_me_sunshine2003

Joined: 7/23/2006

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How do you know when she's interested in you? Posted: 8/18/2006 6:17:22 AM
For me, basically, if I'm looking, I'm interested. Unless, of course, I have one of those looks on my face like WTF (only used on guys who don't get the hint when I'm NOT interested)????

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