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Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 38 (view)

Women who aren't ready! Posted: 2/20/2009 3:58:52 PM
To the OP: She's not ready? What about YOU? Take it from someone who knows...You wouldn't even be INTERESTED in someone who doesn't know what they really want...if you really did ...yourself! ...Because you're AWFUL FAST!...Too fast! Birds of a feather...flock 2-gether!!! Remember that!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Settling Posted: 2/20/2009 3:50:52 PM
"Settling"....To tell you the truth...I don't really know if I can...I may have romanced Sweet Lady Freedom...far too long!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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do you have to love yourself before you can love another.. Posted: 2/20/2009 3:39:00 PM
Umm...YES!...Yes you do...It's a MUST!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Would you follow your partner if they wanted to sell it all and join a cult? Posted: 2/20/2009 3:37:03 PM
^^^^Oh yes...I forgot groups led by lethal psychotic religious fanatics...I could pass on that too!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 36 (view)

Women who aren't ready! Posted: 2/20/2009 3:35:10 PM
I like women whom aren't ready! Hell, I haven't been ready most of my life...it doesn't bother me any!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Would you follow your partner if they wanted to sell it all and join a cult? Posted: 2/20/2009 3:31:55 PM
Since I have never been married and have no children, and would prefer a transient, on-the-move lifestyle...it would depend greatly upon the NATURE of the cult or organization involved... An art group...Definitely...I'm an artist! Yoga...Oh yes...I LOVE a flexible body! Goth and Vampires...Umm...NO THANKS!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 61 (view)

Lunatic Magnet Posted: 2/20/2009 3:26:02 PM
Personally...I think you have to be a LUNATIC yourself...in order to be a "Lunatic Magnet" Crazy KNOWS Crazy! ...and we often seek, and stick with...our own kind!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 269 (view)

Do women like men who like Feet? Posted: 12/29/2008 2:20:40 PM
I LOVE a good pair of women's peds!...Better still when you meet a woman whom is enamored by her own feet! They wear sexy shoes and sandals...and they do some foot moves you can't even begin to imagine!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 163 (view)

do men like to be approached first? Posted: 12/29/2008 2:13:37 PM
Excellent thing to happen...Takes you by complete surprise!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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men asking about your fantasies Posted: 12/29/2008 2:12:09 PM
Talking sexual fantasies is cool...Fullfilling them is sheer poetry!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 61 (view)

Anyone else believe experienced women are a bonus? Posted: 12/29/2008 2:07:49 PM
Of course they're a bonus...AND a surprise when you find that out for the first time!!!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 63 (view)

What do you introduce each other as? Posted: 12/29/2008 1:25:16 AM
"Squeeze" works in the low rent district... "Homeboy/Homegirl" works in the 'Hood... "Friend" usually works in a FWB situation... "Lady Friend" might work at political and/or business functions, similar to FWB...but a bit more upscale... "Ho" or "Gig" only works if the situation is authentic... "Old Lady" or "Old Man" is stricly for either second and after wed or common law arrangements... "The Woman" or "The Man" works when neither of you are sure of what you really want, but are looking to the future as a possible relationship or FWB situation... "B/F - G/F" generic terminology... Fiancee spoken for...off limits, until one of you decides to break it, and the other finds out... Wife/Husband taken...forget it...until divorced/separated... "He/She" divorced/separated...and with children... I just use proper names, myself...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Lesbians.. Was it a choice? Posted: 12/29/2008 12:48:58 AM
I've grown up around a household mostly dominated by women (the father figure flew the coop), and my stepmother was bi... I have more female (And NOT on FWB terms...but who's going to believe this?) friends than male, simply because I've been around more females in life...but I don't feel any less a man...Some guys think I'm a "funny boy", but I've always felt straight...What's the big deal?

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Closet lesbian dating for first time -- need advice Posted: 12/29/2008 12:34:01 AM
^^^This one's pretty accurate... Gotta stop all the drama...quit trying to figure s--t out...You'll drive yourself crazy!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Almost a Pretty Woman scenario... Posted: 12/29/2008 12:13:47 AM
Response to MSG # 88 Guys like you are giving us good guys a hard time. Get over yourself and stop messing things up for us. It's the heart and sole that really matters and sounds like you need a transplant... I know I'm going to get rapped in the mouth for this, but...we DON'T get to choose our families, parents, points of origins, or examples set for us in our youth...It just happens, and nobody ever told you the system was fair...or just... Second of all...I get so sick of the "good guy/bad guy" BS...I'd rather be up front with my shortcomings, as I have (and my profile will show this as well)...than claim that I am a so-called "good guy"...Real "good guys" would not be phased by the attitudes and actions of individuals such as myself, as you have demonstrated with your idiotic response (and you spelled "soul" wrong)...If there are so many so-called-self-proclaimed "good guys" out there, why are places like stripteases so filled to capacity on any given weekend? Oh yeah...there are lots of "good guys" there, spreading their "goodness and charity"...right up until the lap dance, or a secret excursion to a nearby motel...Oh please... Give that crap a rest, I'm not into "rescuing" this woman I know...She has to be willing to rescue and improve HERSELF...for HERSELF!! All I can do is give a little encouragement...and maybe inspire her...to a certain degree...I'm not out to play "Daddy" or "hero" (Again, as the so-called "good guys" always do...saving the beautiful damsel (or stripper) in distress...even if she doesn't want to be), I have no time for that...She's got to take the inititave and make the effort on her own... Get over it there, Scooby...Worry about your own yard and the crabgrass growing within it...before you point your condemmning finger at mine!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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just friends Posted: 12/27/2008 2:32:31 AM
An FWB offers you the convenience of sex without being in a relationship...For me, it's fun...but most of the time...It only continues to fuel my non-committal fires...And those burn pretty bright as it is...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 204 (view)

girls with high sex drive Posted: 12/27/2008 2:23:57 AM
Wouldn't a nympho fall under this category?

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 127 (view)

BICURIOUS WOMEN Posted: 12/26/2008 8:25:12 PM
It really gets your second wind back when one is hot, bothered, and doggy style...and the other rummages through her toy box, and assumes the role of "Captain Strap-On"!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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any men out there ever have an erection lasting over four hours?!!! Posted: 12/26/2008 8:17:41 PM
No... but I'd like to meet that kind of guy, however...and learn about what type of aphrodesiac he's using!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 220 (view)

Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT Posted: 12/26/2008 8:11:43 PM
Men can be (and quite a few are) SLUTS too...and quite a few ever say diddly about it...So, why should one use a single-sided label on a woman?

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

Briefs and other silly sexual turn offs Posted: 12/26/2008 8:03:52 PM
Umm...a woman with head full of curlers doesn't really do too much for me...On the other hand, I can't say that I've tried that one...yet!...So I might be game!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 98 (view)

Definition Of A FREAK?? And Who Is Proud To Be One?? Posted: 12/26/2008 8:00:36 PM
I tend to prefer the designation of "OFFBEAT", myself! FREAK is just far too critical...trapeze rings excluded, of course!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 131 (view)

Is this dating site to find love or sex????????? Posted: 12/26/2008 7:55:49 PM
Msg # 127 This and any other site..............you are only going to get out of it what you put in it.......... Bravo, Kirota! That's what it's all about!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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should sex be a privilage,..or a must do for any woman or man.? Posted: 12/26/2008 7:52:58 PM
It's neither one...It just...happens.......

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 135 (view)

Why do so many women like FWB with a guy instead of a relationship? Posted: 12/26/2008 7:47:28 PM
Because a good number of men (including myself) have enjoyed the closeness of a freindship and the sexual interest...without the committment... ...No brainer there...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 53 (view)

if you walked in on a sexy chick wanking.... Posted: 12/26/2008 7:41:32 PM
Oh hell...let her wank all she wants...It's good for the yang!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 143 (view)

How do you stimulate the clitoris? Posted: 12/26/2008 7:37:11 PM
Use imagination...and make art out of it!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 44 (view)

Are Divorced men more likely or less likely to pursue marriage again? Posted: 12/26/2008 7:34:04 PM
I know plenty of chauvanistic men (my ex included) that said they would never get married, until they had to actually do their own grocery shopping, laundry, etc. Nahh...What's so frightening about groceries?...And I think I'D rather be the one who deals with my own dirty clothes, underwear, and socks!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Breaking Up on Christmas Posted: 12/26/2008 6:29:15 PM
On Christmas? Wow! That IS raw!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 63 (view)

Can you be too independent for a relationship? Posted: 12/26/2008 6:25:30 PM
Nahh...no one is an "island"...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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When using a celebrity picture... Posted: 12/26/2008 6:00:15 PM
...Does this mean I can't use an image of Betty Boop standing next to me? DAMN!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Have you ever known anyone admit that a break up was their fault? Posted: 12/26/2008 5:58:51 PM
Yeah...ME...due to non-committal tendencies...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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What are the ingredients to a good relationship? Posted: 12/26/2008 5:57:20 PM
Trust...respect...and always friendship first...I can't really go with the "physical attraction" thing....at least in the "good looks" department...too many "vains" I've met...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Are Divorced men more likely or less likely to pursue marriage again? Posted: 12/26/2008 5:52:46 PM
I would think it would depend upon the caliber of the man...A womanizer, for example treats marriage like a disposable commodity, and really doesn't care...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Almost a Pretty Woman scenario... Posted: 12/26/2008 5:41:06 PM
Response to MSG 84: sounds like it might be fun and a challenge. your family will be the biggest problem along with your work group. a big gap in lifestyle is seldom overcome through LOVE!! tough call here unless she is terribly smart as well. doesn't sound like that and as she didn't have enough sense or drive to pursue education, with encouragement or not, imagine how she'll feel in your crowd. time to move on. Most of my family has passed on...and the ones that remain are a little more open-minded about things and do not interfere with one's choices in life...It's the bad Karma within myself that's the worst enemy...and toughest wall to break through...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Almost a Pretty Woman scenario... Posted: 12/26/2008 6:55:03 AM
Post #78: I have to agree with that. He is full of himself, there is no doubt in that. But that does not make him incapable of a relationship or actually falling in love either. It sounds to me like this is exactly what he has been waiting for all this time. He is a long time poster, so for those of us that have read his posts we probably a little deeper insight into him and what makes him tick. She's right... Yeah...this is kind of why I decided to start a thread instead of always adding (and hiding behind) my normal sarcastic remarks...I really needed opinions and views on this, and knew I'd put myself on the firing line...Good or adverse, I need to know...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Almost a Pretty Woman scenario... Posted: 12/25/2008 12:36:00 PM
...I know I probably derserve all the negative feedback on the thread... I think the reason I gravitate toward this woman...is the fact that she is showing me something that I never had....PEACE ...within myself...There IS more to life than a f**king variety-filled lifestyle...There's no satifaction at all in my life, only this empty feeling...There IS more to life than always looking for something more you haven't seen...or done...The inferiorism is in ME, not HER... I will continue to stay in contact with this miraculous woman and continue to learn more about what I've been hiding behind all these years...It seems that what I really need...is a friend...Maybe she can learn something from me...as well...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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What do you introduce each other as? Posted: 12/24/2008 11:14:21 PM
In the inner city they use "squeeze"...but that really doesn't seem to quite cut it...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 234 (view)

Should we open our marriage? Posted: 12/24/2008 11:10:17 PM
If you're looking for a quick reason for divorce...then sure...go ahead!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

define a friend Posted: 12/24/2008 11:06:49 PM
Someone you trust...and whom likes you...good and bad...and vice versa...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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When is it time to pull profiles ? Posted: 12/24/2008 11:01:19 PM
No brainer...When you find someone worthwhile...and commit to a relationship...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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What are the advantages in a 'shared' relationship? Posted: 12/24/2008 10:58:34 PM
I don't think there are any...If you're going to play the field, why bother with a hollow "committment"?...After all, there really isn't one...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

Is marriage outmoded? Posted: 12/24/2008 10:53:31 PM
I think it's still probably a special bond...People outmode it because they ALLOW it to become that way...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Would we have better relationships if looks REALLY didn't matter? Posted: 12/24/2008 10:48:50 PM
Possibly...You'd have to LOOK into other aspects of the individual...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 45 (view)

Almost a Pretty Woman scenario... Posted: 12/24/2008 3:28:03 PM
Nice outputs...keep 'em coming...I'm really not arrogant...It's just old programming that is very hard to part company with, and a somewhat empty life and very little committment in relationships really doesn't help things along, either...I DO find her outlook on life like a breath of fresh air, however...She probably deserves someone else...I'm not debating that...Maybe she sees something good inside me that I can't...I could ask her...and understand... I'm human too...with plenty of shortcomings, and insecurities...probably more so than her...Just because the financial ends met...doesn't mean everything was roses...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Almost a Pretty Woman scenario... Posted: 12/24/2008 4:40:31 AM
Thank you thus far...for the output! There are many opinions, and probably be many more to read through... I think the best thing right now is to go on keeping things at a friendship level, regardless of what direction life may take the both of us...If things reach a deeper stage in the future, then at least there's been a strong friendship foundation to build upon...and isn't that what a relationship is about?

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Romantic Comedies Ruin Your Love Life.... Posted: 12/23/2008 5:55:23 PM
Wow...and I thought HSN could only do such a respectable job!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 107 (view)

I cheated Posted: 12/23/2008 5:53:22 PM
OP: Hey...If she's got a spot here on POF...you're already toast!

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

Msg: 102 (view)

Are men the true romantics? Posted: 12/23/2008 5:49:57 PM
...I think it's romantic to be with an urban girl, sit on a rooftop, drink wine...and watch the evening debauchery unfold on the street corner below...but Hey...that's me...

Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006

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Am i selfish? Posted: 12/23/2008 5:25:53 PM
This sounds like a job for SUPER MAURY (Povich)...He'll draw lots from a hat...He'll "find the fibber"...He'll set it all straight!

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