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 Author Thread: i truly believe a mate for life does not exist
 mjt14
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 98 (view)
 
i truly believe a mate for life does not exist
Posted: 4/29/2008 10:05:43 PM
Finally. someone that made a sensible post, and I agree, it mostly likely doesn't exist. The reason is simply that anyone with an IQ high enough to feed themselves, most likely figured out a long time ago that "everything" ends, be it sooner, or later......
 mjt14
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 118 (view)
 
Devastated AGAIN!!
Posted: 4/29/2008 10:01:30 PM
So tell us, how do you really feel? ......
 mjt14
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
sticky situation
Posted: 4/29/2008 9:33:14 PM
Get new friends, and he wouldn't be considered one of them. You will find in time that there are really three categories for the people you meet, one is aquaintances, another is friends, and last are the people you love, that love you back equally. The majority of the people will fit in the aquaintances bucket, and very few will turn out to be "friends", and even less will be the ones you love where it is mutual.....
 mjt14
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 348 (view)
 
Over 45 Men, How should we dress? OK Ladies fire away!
Posted: 4/18/2008 1:44:55 AM
I can't dress like some of these people suggested.... for God's sake, that why all the very attractive women in their 40's are going after guys in their 20's. I wear things that would be appropriate for guys in their early 30's, so I at least a semblance of a chance!!
 mjt14
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 145 (view)
 
Is this suspicious behavior?
Posted: 3/14/2008 4:19:36 PM
Actually there are three sides to every story, yours, theirs, and the truth.................
 mjt14
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 144 (view)
 
Is this suspicious behavior?
Posted: 3/14/2008 4:18:53 PM
I don't think it is suspicious behavior at all, she should just keep having sex with him every time he calls. I'm sure she will figure out what is going after climbing out for under the brick wall that falls on her....................
 mjt14
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 85 (view)
 
Why did he do it?
Posted: 2/16/2008 7:47:58 AM
I want my click back..............
 mjt14
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 398 (view)
 
Players! What is it like to play? C'mon be honest!
Posted: 12/10/2007 7:08:49 PM
When men do certain things were all players, but when women do they same thing their being choosey. The plain truth is EVERYONE is guilty of being a player at one time or another.

Anytime you have "changed your mind", in someone else's eyes you are playing them and if you think it's anything else, it's time you take a long hard look at yourself. One thing I have definitely found to be true, be it a man or women is, while your busy playing someone, someone is busy playing you............
 MJT14
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Commitment phobic
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:24:14 PM
If your response was to me, not a problem. Seriously though, just go out fun. You have lots of time to get married have children, be miserable........and get divorced
 MJT14
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 108 (view)
 
Plans to meet 6 different times- and 6 times does not show up!
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:09:58 PM
Most likely married
 MJT14
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Commitment phobic
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:04:09 PM
Maybe your into women and just don't want to admit it to yourself....
 MJT14
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 394 (view)
 
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... *
Posted: 9/30/2006 3:07:53 PM
This is an interesting thread, cases can be made on both sides of the fence, just remember, the weeds also grow on both sides.

As far as dating someone more than ten years younger than myself, I personally wouldn't, for one simple reason, life experiences. If someones intent is to just hang out with someone considerably younger than them, maybe, but long term relationships, I wouldn't risk it.

Now as far as the looks aspect, EVERYONE gets old. I wouldn't be so shallow as to think that a women in her 40's is going to look like a girl in her 20's, all things being equal. Now I'm not saying all women over 40 can't look pretty hot, but I'm seeing them with their clothes on, and a women that knows how to wear them the right way, can conceal a lot.

The comment about clothes on a guy holds a lot of truth also, I'm 45 years old, but I don't have to dress like my father, LOL! I regularly get proofed, and I think it has a lot to do with your attire, and the establishments you are going into. At any rate, just my .02$ for what is worth.
 
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