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cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

Teen Haircut frequency. Posted: 7/16/2009 8:34:42 AM
Thanks for your input Iconoclast. I wouldn't be too worried about 6 weeks/2 months. The fact is, her last haircut was 3 weeks ago. Sorry, we're not going there ! And actually I insist that she bathe daily, and use all the necessary hygiene products too.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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Teen Haircut frequency. Posted: 7/16/2009 8:28:50 AM
Lmao, thanks boloteee. I cut my hair at least once a week! Of course I'm not sure my daughter wants to resemble a cue - ball.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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Teen Haircut frequency. Posted: 7/15/2009 6:24:16 PM
Thanks to all who've posted. I have suggested that it's time for her to start looking for another source of income instead of me. Until she's 14 job opportunities are small and hard to come by. For now her idea is on hold, however, I am approachable. I also suggested she go to her Nana for every second cut. (Her Nana was a hairstylist, I'm not just sending her to an older lady with a pair of scissors). I'm sure it'll blow over till the next time she has a sleep over with 2 friends. lol

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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Teen Haircut frequency. Posted: 7/15/2009 4:36:33 PM
My 13 yr old daughter is trying to convince me that she should be getting her hair cut at a Salon once a month. I'm thinking once every 3 months (or more) should be sufficient. Am I wayyyy out to lunch?

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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full-time single dads Posted: 11/16/2008 6:48:50 PM
I'm a full time single Dad and love it. My daughters are 12 and 13. Just getting into THOSE years. I'm sure we're all up to the challenge.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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Should I allow 12yr old daughter to pierce navel? Posted: 11/16/2008 4:28:42 PM
Thanks for all your opinions. It feels good to have my beliefs on this validated.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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Should I allow 12yr old daughter to pierce navel? Posted: 11/16/2008 4:13:37 PM
I'm a single parent, raising my two daughters alone. My ex wife has been mostly out of the girls lives for the last 5 years. my oldest girl is turning 13 and wants to have her navel pierced. I'm personally against the idea. My main concerns are that I don't think a 13 year old should believe that she should make these decisions, and that if I allow her to start at this age, where does it go from here? I hope I don't sound like an insecure paranoid parent. I also don't want to be overbearing. My daughter believes that I'm forcing my will on her, and in effect, I am. I have to admit it. My stand is that she's not yet old enough to make all of her own decisions. As her parent, I believe it is my responsibility to make these decisions for her. I know that in the next few years this will change , hopefully on a floating schedule.I'm just not ready to hand over the reins at this time. To throw a third dimension into the mix, my ex has started to "see" the girls once again. She has told my daughter that she'll take her to have it done since there's no way that I will. What happened to consulting each other about issues concerning the childs welfare? Am I wrong? Wayyyyy out to lunch? Or ? Your suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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Zipping....along at 150 feet up Posted: 7/29/2008 3:34:42 PM
Hope they don't delete my profile....this pic doesn't show my face.lol

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

Zipping....along at 150 feet up Posted: 7/29/2008 3:28:33 PM
Yes, they do "Zip" in the winter. A little side story, I was in the first "paid" group to use this facility. I'll post a pic to my profile. They may have taken care of it, BUT...... their engineering doesn't seem up to snuff. Two in our group didn't make it all the way across and had to be "hauled in". I came in too fast, crashing through their "braking" system and breaking the supporting structure. Another of our group also came in too fast on the last line. He didn't break anything, however we both swung up with enough force to hit the Zip line with our shoulders. Still, I really enjoyed it. Even though we did have a couple of issues. I'm sure they've had enough time to work out the kinks by now. In any event, it would be prudent to ensure you have some medical insurance. I do plan on going again , perhaps in B.C.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 1930 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 6/16/2008 10:47:01 PM
I met a lady who had no photo posted. Something I don't often do. I was pleasantly surprised. She had really understated evrything about herself. Body type - average, yeah for a supermodel! She was a very attractive lady, well versed, great sense of humour. Unfortunately, we weren't a match.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 52 (view)

Would you marry someone who wants just to get out their (poor) country ??? Posted: 3/6/2008 5:48:27 PM
Sounds likea scam to me. A neighbour just went through something similar. Then she needed HELP paying for travel papers....then HELP paying for travel...then, she had landed in our country and needed money......then, had never made it to our country, but was detained by the authorities in her country for not declaring a gift for him....you guessed it....could he please send money?lol

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 251 (view)

I don't do separated... Posted: 11/18/2007 4:05:56 PM
Hey Red_N_Blue. You're so totally right. there are exceptions to the rule. I just hope that I'm the kind of exception that I am, and not the kind of exception that Liz. Taylor has so obviously been. Come on. Divorced by no means is a guarantee that you are, or ever were emotionally available. I have a very good friend who simply is not used to being on her own. The result, she's in and out of several semi-long term relationships. Does it mean she's dedicated to her man? Or dedicated to having a man?

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 250 (view)

I don't do separated... Posted: 11/18/2007 3:56:47 PM
Hey egmegalith, having been there done that, I can't see your opinion. If you really need to be re-married, you know it's not out of the realm of possibility. Ohhh wait a minute, being re-married doesn't mean you've forgotten your ex. My 11 year old (at the time) told me something that needs consideration. I really don't know if it's based on FACT. She said her teacher told her," in this whole world, there are two PERFECT matches for everyone". In this whole world!! IF your first wife was the right one, what are the chances you'll find the OTHER " right one". If she wasn't the right one, aren't you emotionally available for the right one? or shouldn't you be? Hang on, maybe while you were separated the RIGHT one passed you by because you were "unavailable". Tragic for both of you. Shouldn't we just take one another at face value and see where it goes? I hate to think I've lost the love of my life because I'm not "divorced". Then again, if she thinks that way, she's probably not the one. I'm terribly picky on who'll be my next partner. I continue to date, but having met, I normally decide quickly if there's chemistry. I don't take it to the next level unless I feel that way. Personally, I don't really care if she's divorced or separated. At my age, she's not likely single, but let's not forget the many who choose common law.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 154 (view)

Single vs. Divorced...what should my relationship status be? Posted: 11/18/2007 3:23:20 PM
If you're divorced, be honest and say so. If you're separated, be honest and and say so. If you're single @ my age....it's kinda a red flag....what the He** is the matter with you? When it all boils down to it,and this is only my opinion, if someone is shallow enough to think that having loved and lost in ANY terms means you're unavailable, they aren't a match for anyone who's been in a previous relationship. Eg. 1) Liz Taylor has been "legally divorced" how many times? Is she emotionally secure, or has she been at any time? Eg. 2) If I was "shacked up" with my ex. for ten years instead of being married to her for ten years. I could put "single" in my profile. You'd probably read this as being a dog who's afraid of commitment. You'd probably be right, though I know several couples who live common law by the female partner's choice.. Having been married should show that commitment isn't out of the realm of possibility. In my case "separated" is a term that was "easier" on my kids. This isn't just my opinion, but also that of several professional councillors. My "legal separation" spells out the terms for my imminent divorce. I can get a divorce at anytime. When I do meet the right person for me, I'll go through that silly legal step that stops me from being re-married. I really don't care if it makes a mockery out of my original vows. If I feel it's the right thing to do..it's done. Those of you who consider me unworthy of you, you're right. Of course, rest assured, I feel the same way.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 137 (view)

Single vs. Divorced...what should my relationship status be? Posted: 11/4/2007 9:26:03 PM
I'd put "Divorced". It's all about honesty. As far as I'm concerned anybody who's narrow minded enough to think it's a red flag is really limiting themselves from meeting potentially "the ONE". At my age, everyone's lived a little and had some life experiences. I think categorizing them into acceptable and non-acceptable is an individuals perogative. If you're honest and it's not good enough for them....they're not likely a match.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 143 (view)

I don't do separated... Posted: 11/4/2007 4:43:52 PM
"Flowers from the Fire". Well said ,all of your postings. You can put things in words much better than I. Personally I loathe someone who hasn't even met me telling me how I "can't possibly be ready for a relationship" and that I'm more likely to return to my ex than anyone else. You're absolutely right, a piece of paper is meaningless. Many people who are currently married yet unfaithful can attest to that. I suppose it's too much to ask for someone to take you at face value and find out for themselves. I also don't feel the need to explain my personal circumstances to anyone other than a person I'm involved with. In which case, all they have to do is ask.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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I don't do separated... Posted: 11/3/2007 1:51:36 AM
To put a different slant on things. I'm "separated". Meaning my ex and I have Legal separation papers drawn up,and notarized. The only difference between a legal separation and a divorce is the fact that neither of us can legally re-marry without a divorce. The terms for our divorce are spelled out in our separation agreement and are identicle and cannot be altered by a divorce. Having said that, here are some points to ponder. 1) The main and possibly sole purpose of us getting a "separation" rather than a divorce was the viewpoint of our children. Being young and relatively naieve at the time, they may have been under the impression that there was a chance we'd re-unite. There is absolutely no chance of that and I'll not even ask you to believe me. 2) We can easily get a divorce at anytime, however the fact that we have to go through that consideration keeps us from JUMPING into another doomed marraige without valid consideration. 3) Is anybody really silly enough to think that two people who've been legally DIVORCED can never re-marry? Come on, we've all seen it happen, if not to someone we know, then at least in the news. What's the point in restricting yourself from meeting a previously "owned" individual. Remove the blinders and live your life. Be free to meet the right person.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 121 (view)

so sad Posted: 8/30/2007 4:50:30 PM
You've rec'd some very good advice. Personally I'm not even comfortable going to a lady's house on the first "date". I prefer to meet in public having both taken our own vehicles. I'm not saying that I won't pick up a date at home, nor that I won't go back to a dates home if we both feel we should. The point is we decide how the night is going to continue, or not, only after we have met in person. I'm truly embarrassed that there are men out there that act like this. I'm equally embarrassed that there are people like Edward1224 that can think like : "There are still men out there who act and think this way? He must have been an older man then I take it." It's so sad Edward, you age on a daily basis like the rest of us. It beats the heck out of the alternative. But tell me, when do you think you'll cross the line from knight in shining armour to discusting, disrespectful ***hole. I don't see how it's an age thing.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 384 (view)

Am I crossing the line doing background checks on a suspicious date? Posted: 8/29/2007 5:39:47 PM
Personally, I'd say if you feel the need to do a background check, you're a very suspicious person. Maybe your suspicions are founded. I have to say though, If I was to find out a person did a background check on me, I'd feel violated. Ask me, I'll tell you. In fact ask me, and I'll give you permission to do a background check on me. Do it without my knowledge??? Unacceptable. Like any other kind of spying.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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Hairloss and dating Posted: 8/26/2007 8:01:29 AM
I always said, I'd shave my head before doing a comb-over. That's exactly what I did ....and it works for me. I did try the Rogaine thing to be perfectly honest. It wasn't for me. So basically if someones looking for a man with a full head of hair, they need not look my way. I have to say though that my looks are my preferance, I did it for me . Anyone else can either accept it or not.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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Re-heating meat Posted: 8/21/2007 8:54:44 PM
Re-heating meat, or anything is O.K. This depends on how your intended meal was stored. Warm, moist conditions for storing AND heating are a no-no. Bacteria thrive under warm moist conditions. Let's say for instance the left over meat came from a camping trip. You were out of ice, but threw it in your "warm" cooler anyhow. Several days later, you're sober and hungry. You remember your meat. Still in the "cooler" in your car. Take it out, throw it in the "wave" and voila.....intestinal hell. Most often people only suffer an upset stomach and/or the runs. It's amazing how this gets blamed on a stomach flu and not mis- treated meat, or anything else where bacteria can grow.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 162 (view)

hot girls - would you date them? Posted: 8/21/2007 8:43:22 PM
Of course.....but not because of their external beauty, honest.lol. Quite seriously, I've met a few knockouts who are very nice people with big hearts. I would think a persons physical appearance has a lt to do with genes. Maybe even a little creative surgery sometimes. Their true beauty usually has more to do with upbringing and values.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 50 (view)

Maybe POF should list income level as the first thing seen on a profile. Posted: 8/19/2007 7:59:12 PM
This is just about as rediculous as it gets. Sure there are some people looking for a free ride. I'd like to think that it's no different than meeting that same person anywhere else. I'd venture to guess though that in this day and age many people are more concerned about having to support someone else. To go a step further, try this.....Someone (m/f) posts that they make $100,000.00/yr. They're telling the absolute truth. Due to circumstances, divorce, child support, health expenses, poor investments, etc. the potential "Mr./Mrs. Moneybags can't afford to buy a burger never mind the steak you expect.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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How often do you update your picture. Posted: 8/19/2007 7:39:11 PM
I haven't changed much in the last couple of years. I do have photos as current as a few months old normally. I'm a photographer and take tons of photos.....just not of me.lol. You know....a plumber doesn't fix his own sink kinda thing. I do appreciate photos being current enough to resemble your present likeness. I've met several people whose photos do not resemble them anymore. It's pretty sad because that meeting has just gone down the drain. If they'd at least prepared me somewhere along the way in our communcations, it may be acceptable.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 68 (view)

Dating Vs. Longterm Posted: 8/9/2007 9:11:04 AM
I explain in my profile that I put "dating" rather than "long term" because I'm not looking for long term in the immediate future. Some people seem to have an agenda. I'm not about jump into anything, however my goal is still to find "the one".

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 226 (view)

He Says Lose 30 lbs and He Will Give you an Engagement Ring.....Would Ya???? Posted: 7/27/2007 5:44:17 PM
The man is a playing her. He has no intention of marrying her. Two conditions? You're joking. It doesn't matter is she does lose 30 lbs. He's got a back up plan." Ohhh my cold feet"!!!lol. "I'm sorry honey, I just don't feel like getting my marriage annulled". Why is this guy divorced? She should tell him if his penis grows 3 inches she'll consider it.lol. Just my opinion. Of course as many have suggested, lose the weight, take the ring and walk.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 52 (view)

I want what i want, so why do i feel guilty? Posted: 7/27/2007 7:20:20 AM
The first response (by third edition) hit the nail on the head. Don't feel guilty if it just isn't there. If there is no attraction, I don't know how you'll force one. If there is an attaction, there should be a second date. That still doesn't mean he's "the one". My daughter (11 yrs. old and much wiser than me) tells me often," you know Dad, in this world there are two perfect matches for everyone". I'm not looking for a "perfect" match. That would be setting the bar incredibly high. I would like to find someone however, that as soon as we part I want to see her again. Then there's something to build on.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 60 (view)

Where's the most rageous place you made love Posted: 7/24/2007 1:28:30 PM
Top level of a parkade. As it turned out, directly in front of a security camera. There's more but not for sharing.lol

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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Gun violence Vs. Drunk Driving Posted: 7/24/2007 12:04:52 PM
Check out all the Canadian Laws available already . You'll soon see that what we need is NOT more gun control, but JUDGE control. Laws have been on the books for decades making any offence committed with a gun, punishable by up to 15 years. Any offence, not just murders. Between plea bargaining and over crowded prisons, most violators see very little if any jail time. Judges need to learn, when someone uses a gun in the commission of a crime.....introduce them to their new Bunk mate. Sorry,can't just let you go, shoulda thought of that before robbing the liquor store.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 169 (view)

How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet? Posted: 7/11/2007 10:50:15 PM
I don't expect sex on the first date. However when I started dating again, a good friend of mine (female) told me," well when you date, you've got to be prepared to have sex. that's what people do on a first date these days. If you're good, you'll get a second" So, I guess it really just depends on who you're talking to.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 100 (view)

Separated or Single Posted: 6/19/2007 9:41:12 PM
I agree, it's horrendous. I don't think it would have happened that way had your friend had a will. It doesn't matter what your marital status, not having a will leaves you and yours open for a bad time.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 93 (view)

Separated or Single Posted: 6/17/2007 9:47:07 PM
"Music Man Canada". I'm assuming that you're a Lawyer. One who totally diagrees with the Legally binding separation agreement that my ex and I both signed. She has no claim whatsoever in the future towards any of my estate. When we do finally get a divorce, it will not override any of the separation agreement. It's simply just to allow us to re-marry. I have to wonder how many of the people who've responded negatively may have friends who've lived happily for years in a "commonlaw" relationship? barb556, I agree with you 100%

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 83 (view)

Separated or Single Posted: 6/12/2007 9:21:48 PM
I'm separated. I'm also not afraid of committment. When my marriage failed, we decided to "separate". Not because there's any chance we'll get back togather, believe me, there isn't. Our daughters were 7 yrs.old at the time . Also very impressionable and fragile. Our daughters are adopted. We were counseled to go through a separation as opposed to a divorce because it sounds less "final" to the kids. I guess it sounds less final to a lot of people. In my situation, we didn't want the girls to feel they were unworthy and were being abandoned by another mom. I'll never renew my relationship with my ex. I have no problem aquiring a divorce, when the right person comes along. I don't feel it's a pre- requisite to dating.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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Your Summer Wish ... Posted: 6/5/2007 9:00:01 PM
My summer wish is to get my reno's done. Absolutely no chance of that happening. I'm going white-water rafting in B.C. I'll probably go to the cabin waayyyy too much also. It really isn't easy having five weeks holidays in the summer. You always think you can start your projects tommorrow. Then " poof" back to reality.lol

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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New sex signs Posted: 5/15/2007 8:31:27 PM
Libra....and not even close.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 266 (view)

What Would Your T-Shirt Say?? Posted: 5/12/2007 6:36:11 AM
"There's a place for all God's creatures right next to the potatoes and gravy!" My neighbour bought it for me.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 25 (view)

Best Pickup Lines for Women to Use Posted: 4/21/2007 7:11:49 AM
Beginning of the night, lots of empty chairs. Walk up and ask if the seat beside him is taken.......worked on me.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 30 (view)

SO if you thought about it, if you looked at your new gf or bf do they actually resemble your ex. Posted: 4/16/2007 10:38:03 PM
There's something that'll never happen. If a date resembles my ex in any way it's bound to be the last date. It's happened a few times. Though I do get along with my ex, I'm not about to go down that road again. It's a long story.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 57 (view)

Should women stop wearing sexy underwear at age 35 ? Posted: 3/27/2007 6:44:09 AM
If a woman feels good about her body, she should wear whatever she's comfortable in. Heck even if she doesn't like the shape she's in....if it feels good do it. I've got a close personal friend who is over 45. Her choice of lingerie is nothing short of SEXY. Do what you feel like girls. I can't believe this came from Cosmo..... but then again some of those articles they have about men come up a little short of reality in my opinion.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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OK guys,,, what the heck!?!?! Posted: 2/9/2007 5:14:33 PM
So... Three stikes you're out right? Give him the opportunity to tell you his side of the story. Tell him you want to hear it on the phone. I can't believe anyone would think that something can come up twice, in this the year of the cell phone that would absolutely stop a guy from calling someone they think there's a connection with. Definately a red flag, but if he has all the right answers, why abandon the one connection you've found without just one last chance???/

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 149 (view)

New Years Eve 2006 Posted: 12/31/2006 1:18:44 AM
I hope to make it. At this time things are a little unclear.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 43 (view)

SHOULD I GIVE UP ON HIM Posted: 12/28/2006 6:58:47 PM
Good decision. In my opininion this jerk was around way too long. I wouldn't expect a woman to put up with me for two seconds if I tried pulling his tricks. You're better off without him. Have a Happy New Year. Make that a Happy Jerkless New Year. Hope things get better for you.

Cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 24 (view)

Worst gift? Posted: 9/12/2006 8:56:31 PM
The gifts themselves were great. They had to be. My ex used to ask me to get my own gift. Apparently men are too hard to shop for. The only part that I really didn't appreciate was having to pay for it and never receiving anything back, whether money or a thank-you.

Cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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Anyone ever lose somebody to crack? Posted: 9/2/2006 7:42:52 AM
I've been through this. Don't just change the locks. You've got to cut ALL ties. Don't even bother trying to locate her. She knows where you are.Hang onto anything you still have and realize what little you've got could have also been gone. Anyone who was her crack friend, forget about. Nothing to do with that world should have anything to do with yours, trust me on this one. The few who get and stay clean will need friends, that's a given. But if you happen to be that friend, they will find you. These aren't dumb people, they just have a BAD BAD habit. Or rather it has them. A wise man once said (after being busted and losing everything)" NO GOOD EVER CAME FROM COCAINE". I've lost a wife, who was a wonderful person and many friends to crack. Some are still friends. They got clean first and all know that if they have a "slip", they have to stay a long, long way from me for a long time. I'm re-building my life , and couldn't be happier. The only thing missing is a special person. I'll find her though and all will be well again. Do the right thing ; look after yourself.

Cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

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Okay guys I need an opinion or answer Posted: 8/28/2006 7:14:20 PM
If you even think you gave him your number for legal advice, you probably have to ask yourself if you're being honest.......with yourself. I'm thinking the Wild passionate sex was the first, second and only thing on your mind. Of course I've been wrong before. Call him, who knows when the grinding stops he might forget he needs advice.

Cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 39 (view)

Lets See Who Will Be Honest........... Posted: 8/23/2006 11:03:47 PM
If you're attracted to someone, do you need to have a half dozen dates to go where it'll go anyway? Doesn't mean I expect to sleep with everyone I meet when I meet them, but I sure don't think less of them if we do. Who said a woman that sleeps with a man on the first date is any less than a man who does? Just my opinion.

Cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 49 (view)

What's In Your Trunk ...... ? Posted: 8/23/2006 12:22:03 AM
a seven piece bedroom suite, a Blanket and 6 condoms. Just kidding of course. lol

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

A voice....................... Posted: 8/16/2006 8:43:31 PM
RAM, do the tape. Also your voice, you never know what the people you love are going to miss. As for me, I hate my voice on the phone. Though I've never heard it. I've heard my recorded voice on answering machines, tapes, etc. .....Yuch!!! I just hope I don't always sound like that to others. Then again, there's not much I can do about it is there?

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

Why Do Women Say One Thing When They Mean Another? Posted: 8/14/2006 6:31:31 PM
If you've been friends for over 7 years, I think the question you're asking is; "can our friendship survive?" That's a tough one. I've been in this situation more than once and all are still friends. The clincher is, in all cases though we had brief relationships we didn't have long enduring "exclusive" relationships. Having said this, I'd prefer to stay just friends and leave it at that. If it hasn't gone to the next level in 7 years the chemistry is probably not there even though the question may be. Just my opinion.

cabindude

Joined: 7/27/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

Herpes? Posted: 8/7/2006 10:11:50 PM
Male/ female it doesn't matter. Always be prepared and use them. My hats off to this guy for his honesty.

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