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Joined: 7/28/2006

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I need some help or advice please!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 3/18/2009 1:09:44 AM
hello,hes a player nothing more,your vunerable for him.you have feelings he doesnt.as long as you keep in touch he will use you.getting in touch after weeks or months keeps you on your toes.if you dont think your worth anything then keep waiting for him,he wont commit to you because your not for him.hel keep playing you because you want to be played.no one on here will tell you to stick around.if you want to here that then ask him.theres many nice loving men out there go find one that wants you.dote on some one that dotes back.your statement is confusing but ive worked it out,cos im clever.is he a mammies boy?just asking lol.

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May Bank Holiday Get-Together 2nd May 2009 Posted: 3/16/2009 6:05:17 AM
hello,why dont you get in touch with southcoast lad.he does loads of these michael

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ladies, how much older would you date? Posted: 3/14/2009 3:05:20 AM
thats true enjoy life,enjoy more the good bits that are thrown at you

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ladies, how much older would you date? Posted: 3/14/2009 3:02:43 AM
keep away unless yous are serious

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she is thinking of ex boyfriend Posted: 3/14/2009 3:01:33 AM
i would be worried aswell

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she is thinking of ex boyfriend Posted: 3/14/2009 3:00:34 AM
must be willing to move

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ladies, how much older would you date? Posted: 3/14/2009 2:58:54 AM
thats true 95% of the time.when it comes to commitment they run away haha

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ladies, how much older would you date? Posted: 2/25/2009 12:32:40 AM
theres better things to worry about than age difference.i dated a younger lady,im 48 she was 25,6years on off.she changed and said goodbye haha.i loved every minute of it,she loved being with me.but people change.my work mate is my age,and his wife is 25,they very happy.my other mate is 53 his wife is 27,they very happy.these adore each other.i dont care about age as long as people are happy,my daughter dated a man in his 40s,marreid a man late 30s she very happy.and as a parent thats what i want for my kids,a big smile tells me shes ok.so if your happy stay with it.bigots will and do come out of the woodwork,very sad people dont have a life.we dont know who we are going to fall in love with do we?age isnt a barrier when that happens,nor does height.good luck

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she is thinking of ex boyfriend Posted: 10/28/2008 8:08:39 PM
move on mate.shes playing with your head.if you move closer you will get paranoid.your already doubting yourself.

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Do I tell my friend.... Posted: 10/28/2008 7:58:06 PM
been together a year?dont waste your time.shes already controlled.sweeping her off her feet was the first control.meeting kids,was another,lookim a good dad,so im a good man.hes totaly drew her in.i bet shes not allowed out,has to tell him what she does every day.hes now moved in and parasiting off her.thats the ultimate control.you have no chance getting her away from him,hes having his cake and eating it.but its up to you,do what you thinks right.you havnt said if hes got rid of you???or is trying?my daughter has just married some one like him,i tried to get her away from him.hence they have just got married.

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Is it really that hard? Posted: 10/28/2008 7:43:40 PM
in a word yes.your worth more than hes offering.im sorry but i doubt your the only woman here.not meeting your family was the first alarm bell.you were being used as a matress.long term or marriage kept you focusing on him,you got savvi and ended it.good for you,now find a man that wants more than sex.great sex is just that, great sex.

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Playing mind games or not? Posted: 10/28/2008 7:32:24 PM
shes where she wants to be.she may miss you as a friend.if she wanted you she would be with you,but she might go back to her ex if you do get her back.me id walk and find some one that wants me 100%

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I Need Some Advice, Please Posted: 10/28/2008 7:23:01 PM
he didnt say he was in love with you,if he did you would have been back together.hes playing mind games with you,hes making sure you dont date any one.dont reply back.if you do he will start controling you.why did you break up?your living in dream world if you think he wants you back.but you will do what you want to do.2 weeks to get back in touch?if he said sorry then said i want you back,then arranged a meeting and turned up then maybe.you did the right thing ignoring him.change your number and move on,i know its hard if your in love with him.its up to you,do whats right for you

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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman? Posted: 10/28/2008 4:05:18 AM
theres no hunt left for a man,the women just give in straight away,an older woman can be a challenge.playing hard to get is fab.what you have wrote is vertualy spot on.

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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman? Posted: 10/28/2008 3:56:03 AM
lots of answers for this ?.they learn better techniques.how to treat a woman.just prefer older women.and lets be honest most older ladies look fantastic.and they do attract the younger men,and some love it.so it works both ways.my last girlfriend was 25.that doesnt make me an expert.it was 6 years on off,so i must have done some thing right haha.im finding it hard to get some one my age.because the ladies now,that are divorced are attracting the youthful men.so im in limbo,and with having a younger girlfriend,its had to get some one my age.we all find love in all ages.live and let live i say

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how can you tell when you've had good sex ? Posted: 10/28/2008 3:39:17 AM
spot on cindy,i think he has a lot to learn.sex is sex,making love is the ultimate.mixing the both is good,thats the spice.

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how can you tell when you've had good sex ? Posted: 10/28/2008 3:33:43 AM
bad sex.one gets up and leaves.turn your backs on each other.dont talk afterwards.il phone you line.if you see me out cross to the other side.you might say next time we will get it right,thats admitting you got it wrong.thats a man.first time sex is the hardest,most people try to get it right first time.selfish men are the two minute wonders.women arnt two minute wonders.good sex,always go in with the view to make love.take your time,see what makes her tick,or gasp if you like.kiss like you mean it,get the tingle going.a good woman will tell you where to kiss,lick or touch.thats her way of telling you your not touching her best bits,and believe me they can go nuts on any part of her body.same as men.after sex,she will cuddle into you,kiss you talk to you.looking forward to next time.put your number in her phone in front of you,txt you on way home.full of romance.learn a woman and your half way there.maybe next time,you can mix love making with sex.dont confuse the two.a woman will tell you,you made love to me,they know the differance believe me.

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helping each other get over domestic violence and sexual abuse Posted: 10/15/2008 3:06:05 AM
she started with little kicks,then it got worse.the drinking the mental abuse.the way she tret our four kids.the lies all hurt towards me and our kids.i didnt find out about my children until i left her.two live with me,my eldest son never sees her,his son doesnt know her.i got grief when i left her and thats 6 years ago.she hounded me through the csa,she lied to them,they believed her,i was well robbed.i had 15years of torture,was married 21 years.you will never get over it.but you will live with it,and move on.i put it behind me,it reared last week at my daughters wedding,so it gets fresh in your mind when a do comes up.her family was there and she crawled all over me,it was elm street,my hole body crawled.so nice in front of her family,like before i married her.im on this dating site and i dnt know how to talk to women,im ok face to face.i found it very helpful to talk about it,it will deminish in time.its hard for me because my kids got it as well.bury your life in your kids and grandkids.some one will swipe you off your feet,and turn pain into joy.my ex wants me back,in her dreams,in her case night mares.good luck and take care...x

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CSA Arrears -Is there any to beat it? Posted: 10/8/2008 7:26:13 AM
if hes self employed your goosed.thats where the system fails,if you have evidence he has more than he says,then submit it.men only go to prison if they pack thier jobs in to avoid paying.but a warning,they build the arrears up,and when you get a job you have to pay itback,if you owe the goverment.ive took the csa on in all departments,and il tell you this they have tons of them.we men get well bamboozled by it all.i was allowed £110 a week rent and that,then csa took a portion of my remainder.which was £49 a week.with me having my son 104 days a year it was £29 a week,she lied i was paying £60 a week.i paid her cash in hand,big mistake.i had lots of arreares.i ended up paying £89 a week for 5 years.csa asked me if i can pay more cos she needed it.told me to sell my car and walk to work,so i could pay her more.stop all my enjoyments to give more.when my son moved in with me i got £5 a week off her.for 1 year it stopped september how i miss that fiver.she got about £20,000 off me over 6years,i got £260.00 off her for 1 year.and to beat it all she wants me back,im having my money to myself,do you think thats it ????

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CSA Arrears -Is there any to beat it? Posted: 10/8/2008 7:03:16 AM
it doesnt matter if you have proof,they will believe your ex.my son and daughter wrote csa a letter.my ex said they were lying.my ex found out i was working over time,they got all my pay notes from my works and hit me for more cash.the csa work only for the woman.you have no rights whatso ever.if your under the new rules your goosed.i was paying as much as £120 a week.i had arrears because she lied,keeping reciepts is usless,unless its stated on there thats it maintenance,she can tell csa its for debt.the csa and my ex have stopped me buying a house,and the houses were cheap now im like every one cnt afford to buy now.you want to know anything about csa im the man for you to ask.my son moved in with me,shes self employed,i got £5 a week off her,YOU CANNOT MAKE IT UP.

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Betrayal of Your loved one with your sister Posted: 9/15/2006 12:33:33 PM
id forgive her,she done you a favour.he slept with your sis,no respect for you.he must be good looking,an a charmer.do you know what he said to your sis to bed her?men do an say anything to bed a woman.women do the same we arnt all saints.your sister messed up,shes most problies feeling as bad as you.talk to her like the adult you are.shes there for ever,time heals.you stand by your sis an it will pull the family back together.your anger,rage and feeling realy let down,will destroy your life.if they still together,then you know he didnt love you,he didnt anyway.hel cheat on her,when he goes out she starts worring,thats what would have been like for you.i wouldnt give them the satisfaction of knowing it bothered me.do what you have to do michael

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