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Thread: Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
freedome
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Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted:
4/10/2007 8:46:33 PM
Definately got a bad rap man. Don't blame yourself man. Don't take it so personally.
Chicks are Fked all over the place. James Dean is on. Think about it. Hay just be gratefull you didn't end up taking her out. God knows what she would have done to you if you'all didn't click. People come and go. No big shit. Be well.
freedome
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The Sex Mistake
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3/20/2007 8:05:24 PM
You went to alot of trouble making yourself politicaly correct. You did well. What's your point? We do what we do. We are only sexual beings. Damm we need it too.
Listen... don't think we don't put you out of our minds. It's a game really. Survial of the fittist. R
freedome
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Friends with Benefits
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3/14/2007 2:20:30 PM
Hun. I have come upon a time in my life whare I choose to do what I want when I want. With much thought out anticipation. If I ignore my gut I am prepaired and reep the consiquences . But the one thing I can live with is knowing I made the choice. That is the power. No regrets, they'll chalk years off your life. It is easier to walk into a relationship never expecting anything more then he/she is willing to give. It is just easier letting them set the pace and taking your cues from that.
freedome
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moving on!!!!! not ready but soooo lonely
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12/29/2006 8:45:35 AM
So far it sounds like you are responsible. You are thinking of your girl. Most importantly. But you need to be happy. A happy mom is best for all. Let someone fall into your arms. When you least expect it, it will come. True, don't let your girl see you go through many men. She will respect you in more ways then you know and it will be so rewarding in the end.
I hope you find a great love. Lonely sucks.
freedome
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added me to msn again
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12/29/2006 8:34:19 AM
Hi. kitkat02: Yes this has happened to me. I think if you did not change your profile he would have picked you out. So to speek. He knows who you are so he has hunted you down. Definately block him out. If you do not wish any contact. Keep deleating him from MSN. I guess the best you can do is keep blocking and hopefully he will get the hint. Or. Quite simply. Write him a "dear John" letter and tell him to buzz off.
Happy New Year. Feels a little spookie ah? Things that make you go hummmm!
freedome
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ALONE FOR THE HOLIDAYS? how are you dealing with it?
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12/24/2006 8:31:25 PM
dguy4u247: That's not funny...
Merry C
freedome
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ALONE FOR THE HOLIDAYS? how are you dealing with it?
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12/24/2006 8:21:12 PM
I pretty much care later. Work through the holidays. No big deal. Great to make money. Get together with friends a couple weeks later. When the Hype is down..
Merry Crhistmas all... and to all a great night...
freedome
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What a year...
Posted:
12/21/2006 8:44:28 PM
The end all to end all... just when the year seemed peaceafull.. Rosie and Donald...
Oh MY GOD! Whoo hoo Rosie!!
A whole lotta Rosie....
freedome
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What do any of you consider a lie ?
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12/21/2006 7:43:33 PM
I Cant Lie: Can you? wreath:
freedome
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Thank You Plenty Of Fish
Posted:
12/21/2006 7:39:55 PM
UrbanX: Send some of that snow this way! It's been a greeeeen greeeeen Christmassss.?????
freedome
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The problem with online dating....
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12/21/2006 7:28:11 PM
lotslove68: Beautifully said! Lovely! Thankkyou...
freedome
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The problem with online dating....
Posted:
12/21/2006 6:13:04 PM
In the beginning, it was fun. Checking people out, seeing that no one has really changed. Actually getting into men's/womens minds, maybe there was something I could learn I didn't know. I think on line dating has made some angrier. Also some more open (which can be quite carthartic). There are plus's and minus's with every new medium. I feel, on line dating can be a handy tool for those who work many long hours and need an "out." I think for the most of us who have regular jobs (9-5) and are a tad board of television, the computer can help us in many ways. Writing skills are developed which enhances cognative abilities. And the such.
As far as dating goes. We should be out there. Bars are not such a great place to meet sometimes. Though one should give everyone a chance and be gracious. One should be very carefull and cautious. I haven't quite decided whether it is good or bad. I think one should take every date with a grane of salt.
It is only between the two who meet whether it works out or not. If ya each love each other. Then there is no question, "what a bonus". Who knew! would encoumpas each of you. But one must be able to brush off the negatives that come with bad dates and bad come on's in this line chatting. There is nothing wrong with acquiring a "tough skin" here. I always say what doesen't break you only makes you stronger. There are so many oppertunities in life to expand your mind.
One question. Is this healthy? I can see many ways in which different types of personalities can be shattered. If they don't know what to expect for lack of education or people skills. I absloutely think it is better to do what you feel in your gut and not feel preasured. I think everyone is different of course and it is easier to be pressured in person. Then on line. Though some who are of good heart can easily be conned here on line. So here I go again. It is the individule who makes it and breaks it.
Thank god we have a choice.
Merry Christmas too all. And to all a great life.
freedome
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What not to do on a first date!!!!
Posted:
12/11/2006 9:28:53 AM
Definately up with Irish Eyes. Pay back's a biotch. Too rude. Thank god this happened hours into the date, not days.
freedome
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This girl at work on my first day.
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12/11/2006 8:33:38 AM
Hi shorter: If she picked you it could be one of two things. Your safe and she is not interested. Or she is intrested. If it is the latter of the too. Stay away. Think of your job. Either way. Be careful. All I can say is people come and go. $$ rocks. Never sacrafice "priorities" for anyone. Another thing, these types of jobs come and go also. So. Evaluate your situation. Which would be worth it? What do you need more? Woman/money?
Your probably saying "both." If she is new also, and you are the type who can help her, she might be "using" you. Look at the picture as a 3rd party. Then what would you do? If you half to think about it to much, then go with the gut. Wait. Your not a woman. lol. Just be happy. Never regret. Think of it as another stepping stone in life.
P.S. Don't forget chicks at work; friendship would be the better way to go.
freedome
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What makes a man want/need a woman???????
Posted:
12/10/2006 9:25:06 PM
halfevI333 You are lucky!
freedome
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What makes a man want/need a woman???????
Posted:
12/10/2006 9:10:34 PM
Hi
Someone to watch over you! Isn't there a song that goes something like that?
freedome
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Girlfriend Honks
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12/6/2006 3:52:13 PM
Thanks dude, I really needed a laugh tonight. Humm, ask her if it hurts when she blows. The laughing thing could be as simple is an old habbit from childhood. I would laugh with her or immitate her. Sometimes people don't even realize how often they do things that could be less then socially gracefull until they see it on someone else. Don't keep it in if it annoys you it will build to a point you'll want her gone.
freedome
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What is fair to expect financially, when your girlfriend moves in?
Posted:
12/6/2006 3:34:24 PM
What's her's is her's and what yours is her's. After a while you'll laugh about it. But if she is making half of what you do; have her pay half the food and half the bills. Let her offer to pay something towards the rent. Did you ask her in or did she invite herself? I think it comes down to her income. Most women wind up getting alot of other things in the home that make themselves and your life easier and fun. Like the toiletries/plants/sm. appliances/common fish/the mutual cat/lamps/gas/gardening and pick up food on the way home. That sort of thing. Good luck and never ask her "what's wrong" you are supposed to know. Lol.
freedome
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Autism and SB 3 - Stops reporting Mercury in Vaccines
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11/30/2006 9:56:10 PM
One last comment. I believe the human body is able to fight off just about anything in the Western world. Except the bad ones like C and Aids and the big ones. However I rase my family in the "no vaccines" type world. We do not run to the doctor for any cold remedy any flu remedy any psychological (psychiatriac) remedy. Pills, shots. Etc. Not. Holestic. Is the way we go. Only if, all else fails will we resort to Western Medicine. Autusm can be helped with Western Med. For Sure. It can also be helped Holestically. I have seen it both ways. Total change of atmosphere. Behavioural siences all the way. Mind over matter. Just think, what would happen if there was an Aids Virus Immunity Shot; would everyone go out and not think again. Like it was in the old days. Listen to their bodies not their minds? God help us. I do not know what my point is here. I could go on about this forever. But are vaccines good or bad?
freedome
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Autism and SB 3 - Stops reporting Mercury in Vaccines
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11/30/2006 9:35:34 PM
Sounds like typical American "coverup" to me. Really I don't understand your point? This is a very interesting topic. Are you saying there is a vaccine against autism? Do you really expect FDA to tell you about everything? It has always been my phylosophy to disect everything. Are you talking about schools? Professional buildings? Mercury is bad. We know this. Is this still realy happening? Are you trying to say that this vaccine is an attempt to inhibbit autism? Or causes it? Major research on that one. I don't think mercury is an affect of autusm? Good thought though. This sounds dated. What is your question?
freedome
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how do you get over the wrong guy????
Posted:
11/30/2006 8:53:12 PM
Yes, honey, advice. Get a lawyer, get child support and move on. It will be ok. Be honest with yourself. Don't "try" and get him back. He will come (maybe/hopefully) one day. To say hi to baby. One thing, never trash the a hole in front of the child. No matter what you think, he will never be an a hole till he/she is much older. Give them that. k. Time heals. Forsure. Sometime it's a long time. But you will heal. Get a job or volunteer whatever little time you can; for youself. Do whatever makes you happy; and don't forget about the hot baths at night. Trust me. It will help. Love your child and forget him for now. Your little one will pick up on your tension. Yes, you have to put on a "happy face". But, when baby smiles you smile.
Best wishes.
Rose
Just going back a tad. ]'The only misleading the child will have will come with you Dont let it happen. Do not mislead your child. Truth will heal even the blackest heart. Don't be mad.
Luv. Someone who cares.
freedome
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THE PILL (now for men)
Posted:
11/24/2006 9:37:27 PM
Pay back's a b$ich!
freedome
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Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted:
11/22/2006 7:26:30 PM
Yeha. Absloutely.
freedome
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holidays and parents
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11/22/2006 3:34:45 PM
A whole lotta notta! No stay overs, 1/2 a day is enough. Get in and get out, social graces and thankyou's. Bring a dish. Take pictures and hug goodbye.
freedome
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Way To Go Canada! (Uhm...NOT!)
Posted:
11/14/2006 8:22:09 AM
Climate change is more then just environmental. It's a livelihood issue when crops fail from unnatural droughts. It's a survival issue when natural animals are dieing and moving into cities. It is a sovereignty issue when melting sea opens up to the Northwest Passage. When outdoor rivers and ponds cannot freeze for communities to skate on it is a cultural issue. Lastely it is a economic issue when people loose their jobs because industry refuses to adapt to a changing world.
Indigenous cultures, people and animals are being destroyed due to global warming. Super storms are raging through out the world. Small islands are disappearing into the sea.
It is no longer the day when people can say, "don't worry about it, you won't be around to see the disaster." We are living it and contributing to it.
I cannot look my children in the eye and tell them this is a safe planet. Now all I can say is you will be around to see the horror. In fact they may actually die from it. Sugar coat the reality. I think not. This is half the problem. Denial.
A world where the inherent value of all life is respected and our interdependence with the natural world acknowledged; where resources and oppertunities are distributed equitably; and where communities are healthy, connected, concerned and educated in the safety of our planet is my goal in life.
If your going to fight and make a difference If you want to. Fight the right fight.
Deep emission reductions that meet and exceed our international obligations. Implement renueable energy strategies.
A comprehensive adaptation strategy for the communities already affected by climate change.
If all you can do is your best to contribuite the 3 R's and set an example for your children, then thankyou. Love your planet like you would your children.
Can you immagian the extreem anxiety our youth have knowing and living in a place whare no one cares. Our children are more angry thies days, and rightly so. Maybe this is a good thing in a way, maybe just one in the bunch will be angry enough to educate themselves to make the change and get the power to change someone else.
Our future our funeral.
freedome
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advice plz....someone
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11/7/2006 7:46:32 AM
You were prepaired to open your legs to the fifth guy. Play rushion roulette with your body. Sure accedents happen, condoms break, missed pills. Or lack of prevention. Which I think is your case. Now get your act together. You have 2 choices. Be a door mat never get support. Rase your children on Welfare which is obviously what you are doing. Or go to Social Services and get Legal Aid. Have them track down your dead beats and get child support.
You are obviously anti abortion. For this, you and your children now will pay the price. You should have thought more clearly about your future with the first child after the first guy. How were you going to support that child and yourself. Did you think by having child after child you could just keep on with Welfare. Never bring children into this world unless you alone can support them, never rely on the other. You never know what the future holds. I am sickened with you and your lack of responsibility. Why doesn't your family help you? I wonder. You will always be alone, you made your bed. You live in a fantasy world. Oh, he loves me, once the baby comes he'll come back. You need help. If it wasn't for people like you social services and related child care facilities wouldn't exist. For that I thank you and I will always have a job. Saddened though, for I go home with tears for the burdened child.
freedome
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300+ US dead at Falcon ammo dump,Bagdad Iraq.
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10/27/2006 6:56:32 PM
Thanks martharose: I just found my self speechless with his comment. As an active peace protestor. My group would only be crying tears in the street not parting. We take our work very seriously, you sir are not welcome within the true freedomfighters.
freedome
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Child in a sex store
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10/27/2006 6:41:45 PM
Maybe you could start your own web page! Gather votes copy and take to your MP's office. It would be a start. Gather them from across the globe. Get their e-mails to varify their credentials and ask them to send a short personal reason accompaning their name. Along with your write up they are agreeing with. You can ask for their phone # too; but of course that is up to the voter, alot of people would rather just vote.
Are you saying CPS will not get involved on a legal level? I hope you are taking the name of the worker and are assured a "note has been documented". You have the right to go into the office and review the notes with them along with getting copies. Make an apoitment to do this and try to remain calm and civil.
Count me in.
freedome
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Commit to a pot smoker?
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10/27/2006 5:47:00 PM
You won't know this yet but he has you in the web of co-dependency. When you start over looking the fact he does dope, for sayings such as "I know we'd be great together if/but". Your done in. Take a little history search with your self and become more aware of the times you catch youself saying things like this. Start a journal and date the times you do. Take a look at it one day and you might be shocked at all the negative emotions that follow. Hopefully this can black and white it for you. I am thinking of you alone in this twisted lifestyle. Not of him. He is dirt in my eyes and my words are of concern for you alone. Be you a stranger it does not matter. This crap(co-dep) runns ramped in the lives of family survivors. Often co-depnts'. will not even listen to others until they themselves have hit bottom. If you are a strong woman. It will take a lot to bring you down. But when you fall you will fall hard. You will be so emotionally drained a typical day with him/without will be exhausting. You should talk to your Dr. about refirrals to support councillors for yourself. When you can educate youself it will be easier to talk to him without comming of as an interventionalist or preacher. He wont like either. Fact is if you don't do dope then he is not perfect for you. You cannot work through this with him. But support his decission to quit and only that. He and only he can quit at his own accord. Pot can and does lead to harder drugs with addicts mainly because the dealers do not limit their supplys to pot alone. Dealers will bait and hook ya when you least expect it. At best, do not get pregnant. Don't kid yourself by saying he'd put you or a child first.
Any pot smokers out there, will of course argue this with me and I'm prepaired for the typical Denial Bashing. Bring on the Denial. I stand strong and clean. Wooo Hoo!
freedome
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Testimonials New Feature - Question
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10/27/2006 3:01:35 PM
Yes, Yes, Yes, etc. Unzipped all of the above. I believe I should have the right to agree with someones testimonial before it is on my profile. My profile is my profile and not for anyone to tamper with. I used to use the fav. list as a quick reference (like a phone book) to contacts on many different topics; personal and friendship. Now most of them are gone as the basic question arises. Who can you trust? There is no set in stone rule how we should use the fav. list, therefor we should use it to our individule needs. Hence, the uncanny lengthy threads of questions about the "fav. list". I think testimonials are a bad addition.
freedome
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Im Getting Harassed
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10/27/2006 2:32:53 PM
What if someone is bi? There is no in between. Ultimately one is left with an open profile and left to block report deleat. Etc. Understandibly so.
On another note. I am sorry you were threatened and harassed. What he wrote is lame compared to two I had, because I decided we shouldn't meet after all. It seems some "control type" men take rejection worse on line then in person.
Wow, did she ever change her profile....hummmmm, good luck now this shield won't let god through.
freedome
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Trouble finding closure!
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10/23/2006 10:39:48 AM
If you were each others soul mates she never would have left you.
freedome
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Seeing someone with Anxiety Disorder
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10/23/2006 9:25:35 AM
Ultimately only you know if you have the patience for this or not. It might be to much work. When he's up he's up and when he's down he's down. Just the way it is. Sometimes you have to just show up and be a little forceful. If he spends to much time thinking about the situation the anxiety gets worse. Short notice might help you to just get him out. However the pain for him could be debilitating and he might lash out. No means no, if he is feeling anxious. Really depends how extreem his case is. It's an individule thing. Asking him what works for him is the best start. He should know.
freedome
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One Tear
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10/11/2006 11:26:57 AM
It was a sickening monstrous laugh building from within
Nothing could be more absurd then some of the souls lost here
Not worthy of him
It's no mistake, they are truely sad
All very ill-defined words crept up my throat
swelling inside, the burning desire to cast you aside
My eyes fixed on the pitty you seek
Death, only for the weak.
Come on then, you can't just take a peak
Come enter the shadow chappel
Take her hand, she will gide you there
Becareful of what you think, for I'll creep behind your eyes
Your wanting eyes that lead you astray
I am the General of your dismay
I welcome and awate your lust for freedom
For it is you who has kept me alive
I will give you the endless ocean you so desire
with just that one tear
freedome
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I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... *
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10/11/2006 10:41:20 AM
Me either. I won't date anyone 5 years my senior or younger.
freedome
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What do you fear
Posted:
10/11/2006 10:17:06 AM
WAR
My leg wrapping around the back of a tubing rope and being draged.
Growing tollerance among our youth regarding fire arms, gangs and drugs.
The 80's fads/style comming back.
Ability for convicted offenders allowed to use the internet.
freedome
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Beyond death
Posted:
10/6/2006 9:41:39 AM
Beside the lake outspread
are lone waters shallow and dead
By the woods, by the swamp
whare the snakes and bugs encamp
By the dismal pools
lurk witches and gouls
Into seas without shores
deeper and deeper evermore
Shreaded froms encumber the sky
this is whare their freedom lies
freedome
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Tolerance ??
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10/5/2006 11:37:57 AM
Ok Cavalier. Ya got me a tad. (giggle) I do think because fire arms are legal in the states there is a more easy going attudite towards them. Yet I did not judge anyone. You are making this personal,and rightly so to have pride in your pride of your country.
I will let you believe what you will and assume anything you want in my questions.
Teens are not a group of children by the way that is why there is degrees of seperation in the justice system.
I would stop refirring to my question as being directed at POF it is not. Though you seem to think so. (another assumption)
Bye Bye. Have fun with your self and the wonderful world of Forums only. LOL
freedome
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Tolerance ??
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10/5/2006 10:59:01 AM
Never implied nor named any sites. Just an obversation I have seen around the net.
Never implied all Americans own guns and tollerate it. I have no pre concieved notion of how Americans or Canadians would view this topic. I am completely nutral on that one. Of course I have my own beliefs as all do. I Clearely stated I was seeking the "feelings" of someone holding a gun at a camera. Your first reaction/gut feeling.
Of course the violence will esclate with public tollerence. Of course you cannot raise your children in a "sheltered" environment. Yes it is all over the news and video games. Yes many parents censor what their children watch and participate in when they can.
I am mainly refiring to young teens (hense, Youth) or I would have said Children.
Yes I here you Cavalier. My question does not intend to begin personal attacks or assumptions. I tried to word it as open as I could without offending or accusing anyone of doing the wrong thing.
Censorship begins in the home for sure. I am just sensitive about the pain others inflict on others without even thinking how far down the ladder if affects people. Sue me for having a sensitive side. I care deeply about the human race. I am by no means nieve about the hate and prejudices that go on in the world.
This is why people are social workers, teachers,activists,care givers,doctors and criminals. Everyone has a given personality and strenght they should work with. Some people care and some dont. Go with what you are good at I always say.
I figured this might not be the site to plant such a question as there are far to many insensitive vultures mixed in with the doves. I took a chance.
freedome
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Tolerance ??
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10/5/2006 10:03:30 AM
First off, I expect very different views from Americans vs. Canadians.
What I am looking for, are the immediate reactions people "feel" when they see someone holding a fire arm in their pic aiming it at the camera.
Whether you are in the army/peace core are a collector or just have one.
What does this say about the persons' underlieing nature or unritten motives?
Do you want to scare people in to beleaving you are "tough" and will not tollerate crap from them? Fine use it with read deleate. Or be assertive with the written word. But be a decent individule and keep your weapons behind closed doors.
Web pages should not permit those who do this to intimidate the average population who share their site.
How do you feel as a viewer seeing someone in this state?
There are many personals and forums across the net I have come across that have people holding guns/grenades etc. in front of them or in the face of the camera.
Truely I understand pictures of those in army fatigues (being they are real army) with their weapon along side of them. With that, I have never seen them aim it at the camera. (Tact) Thankyou.
I feel if this is permitted by moderators of sites across the web they are inadvertantly aiding in the desensitizing of gun crime and death. There are to many young addolescent innocent eyes outthere who might take this acceptance and run with it. Literally. Hence, hightened gun
crime between them and their peers.
I AM CANADIAN
Do you think moderators should have a moral/ethical code of conduct on this issue. If they won't tollerate "flame wars" etc. shouldn't they be a "big brother/sister", and (black out) the weapon?
freedome
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Ever get an email like this....???
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10/3/2006 9:04:49 AM
I haven't met anyone who is truely ill, use it in a dear Jane letter. Yet if it is true. I would't see them explaining themselves in the third person either. Usually "it's all about me."
Though if it is terminal and fresh news he is in shock. You would know all about the stages.
This is a tough one. I would let him come to you. People need empathy not sympathy. Just let him know you are there for him if he needs a chat. I wouldn't take it to seriously as you only met once. He will come to you when he is ready and you can put your trade to work. He will want strength and companionship. It may be better to keep your distance and play it safe then to fall victum to a ploy.
freedome
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3 Years - Never Seen My Girlfriend Naked
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10/3/2006 8:46:22 AM
Scrap the psychiatry this is for the chemically challenged. She might have some trust issues. Don't try to coax her into therapy. Seek it out your self beginning with your doctor leading to sex therapist. Take the tools you learn and apply. In time introduce her to the idea of couples councilling. They do not throw you in the room together in the beginning. (as some think)
Try arousing her in a place she/ you have not tried befor. Park for instance. A thrill in the middle of the day. Take it to a point whare you are all over each other as soon as you walk in the door.
freedome
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Is anyone else dreading the upcoming holidays?
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10/3/2006 8:28:11 AM
Maybe it is to soon to surround yourself with the memories. I packed my memoribellia (?) away for many years. Took them out later when the pain wasn't so fresh. Now when I look at them I "see" the good times. The love that engulfed us then. I't ok to feel and have some remmorse. Blocking is the killer.
freedome
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Two illegals..What would you do?
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10/3/2006 8:11:48 AM
Without hesitation. Call it in. We need to take back the streets (land) so to speek. I'm in Canada. But no matter. It is even more heartbreaking here as people use our country as a safe house. Turning a blind eye and assuming someone else will take care of it is not an option for me. I take pride in the ability to censor, picket, petitions and bugging my MP's ass when I do feel the outrage. Being in the education field I have many outlets for such injustices. I am a Proud Irish Canadian and take the old ways to heart.
freedome
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Waiting
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10/3/2006 7:35:00 AM
I stand amidst the shore
the tremmors and the thundering roar
I look beneath my feet as the sand turns to glass
I spread my arms to you know
for god I cannot grasp
The clouds darken and close in above me
the glass shatters and down I fall
whare the bells of hell roar
Here he encompasses me
Our encounter, my soul to keep
just him and I
the slumber not for the weak
freedome
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Clouser
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10/3/2006 7:08:22 AM
FAITH
The ringing in my head
Satans jewels on the land
As we beckon his command
My lord he loves me
when I first devowered his vow
For the bells rang in hell
and all the people fell
in the battlefield
He spoke to assure me
He kissed my breath
while reverie came over me
So the words were spoken
on the verge of faith broken
freedome
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the ability to read persons eyes
Posted:
9/29/2006 5:16:21 PM
squirrly 1: Thanks for the quackwatch.
freedome
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are the pay sites scamming us
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9/29/2006 8:34:07 AM
Edit: Cotter
I have a few to many stories to tell you girl. A couple of friends have done this type of thing and vice verss whare the man moved in. DON"T MOVE. Bad bad bad. I definately do not know your story and the history here between you two. But nothing good has ever come out of moving to the others home. Forinstance have you spent time visiting each other, have you even met. This strikes a high level of warning. There must be someone else within a closer range you could meet. Of course living in Hawaii is a wonderful dream. But I would keep it as that or just move into your own place.
Ill cross my fingers
freedome
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the ability to read persons eyes
Posted:
9/29/2006 7:47:32 AM
OP I will say this one more time Ireology. Check it out. It has valid theories. Also, arn't you glad you wern't looking into these peoples eyes.
freedome
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No Games? Bullshit.
Posted:
9/28/2006 10:35:25 AM
Sorry for ya dude. Happened to me once. Guy put up a pic of his brother then stalked me while on my way to the meet. Once bitten on that one. No chance.
Plus, one should always call befor leaving. I make it clear I don't like to be stood up.
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