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Have you ever waited for a love? Posted: 9/8/2007 12:05:38 AM
I did wait for someone. I chose to be there and available because he said he was struggling with his commitment never to commit. After awhile he thought he was over that idea. Well needless to say he jumps back and forth from commit, don't commit. So I realize I can't wait forever for something which isn't going to happen

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Have you ever clicked on a profile, only to find.... Posted: 9/7/2007 11:58:10 PM
Never seen my ex on here or any other site, would be shocked if I did, he makes such a big deal out of things like this.

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Now that we are over 45 let's look back... Posted: 9/7/2007 11:48:42 PM
Five years ago I was living in a bigger town working at a job I loved....I was driving limousines, catering to the "STARS". I thought I was finally doing what I was meant to do and having fun doing it. Never dreamed things would change and I would need to move back to my hometown due to my Father's illness. But life twist and turns put us where we need to be, sometimes when we thought it would never happen. Although I miss my home there and my job there, I am happy to be home again in a bittersweet way.

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proposal has shaken me, is that normal? Posted: 9/28/2005 8:24:44 PM
Thanks to all of you for your comments and well wishes.....it is very nice to hear.

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proposal has shaken me, is that normal? Posted: 9/27/2005 8:30:46 PM
Most all the time I am elated, just from time to time

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proposal has shaken me, is that normal? Posted: 9/27/2005 8:28:35 PM
He has not been pressured, I knew from the start how he felt, so I accepted it. He says he realizes that every bit of his life has me in it somehow. We used to live together, but I had to return to my hometown due to my father's illness, at this point he went out on the road with his business and comes he as often as possible. He misses me as I do him and this got him to thinking he did not want to lose me and what we have. I am very happy and excited, just nervous.

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proposal has shaken me, is that normal? Posted: 9/27/2005 8:10:01 PM
My love proposed to me this weekend. I have been in love with this man for over 3 years, and have wished many times we were married, I feel he is my soul mate. He has always said he would never want to marry again, but that he loved me. Now that my dream is coming true, I am very scared, guess you could say it seems too good to be true. I love him so much and am shocked at myself for being so nervous about it. I have been married before and was burned badly, could this be why I feel this way?

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Has anyone else been suspended and/or banned from plenty of fish Posted: 9/12/2005 6:49:37 PM
I began a forum awhile back and had several more people respond, but the next day it was completely gone, I still don't understand why....wish I knew.

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Are there lotsa good chicks out there? Posted: 5/3/2005 8:21:45 PM
Like these ladies have already said, good chicks are out here, just most roosters don't want to check us out.

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re-review for Wlydone and Baldone Posted: 5/3/2005 8:09:27 PM
guess my ad is too bad to even review......pretty sad......lol......thanks anyway

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he wants me and other women on the side Posted: 5/2/2005 8:40:19 PM
Well I did dump the guy, still miss him in a weird way, but I know I did the right thing. I am still alone, with no change in sight, but that is okay too I guess. Just wanted to thank everyone again.

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do me do me Posted: 5/2/2005 8:33:55 PM
Would like to have you check out my profile also. Need all the help you can offer.

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Let ME analyze your profile for you Posted: 3/22/2005 8:40:37 PM
Well, guess I am gonna jump in too....analyze me too. Thanks.

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A soft place to fall Posted: 3/2/2005 9:27:42 PM
No one can ever know what you feel at this moment, even those of us who have had a loss. It is different for everyone. But my heart goes out to you and all your family. I lost a little girl at 19 months and to this day, 23 years later I have a hole in my heart. Do know that the pain may never go away but you will learn to cope with it. Hugs from deep down to you. If ever you needed it, you do now.

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Older women for younger men... OPINIONS Posted: 3/1/2005 5:04:49 PM
I enjoy younger men very much. They are much more fun and not sticks in the mud like some guys my age. I know that sounded really bad and I am not saying they are all that way. Maybe it is the learning thing, young guys like to learn all they can, guess I like to teach.

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Bad News Posted: 2/28/2005 8:21:59 PM
Just wondering if anyone knows how Georgie is doing? She has been in my prayers,but would like to know how she is.

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Bowling Green, Ky FORUM Posted: 2/17/2005 8:20:15 PM
Although I grew up here, I have been gone several years and would also love to know about any kind of group that is around making it easier to meet others.

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True Love Posted: 2/14/2005 5:39:27 PM
Hi, I am Gail. So far everyone has seemed so far away on here, so I am very excited about this new forum. I would like to meet someone close to me with the possibily of at least a close friendship if nothing else. I miss having friends male and female. Of course I would like to find real love also.

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why do they never love back Posted: 12/22/2004 9:47:14 PM
I know what you mean and I wonder myself why I let this relationship go on for so long. Maybe because he was the first guy who treated me special in so many ways. And yet not wanting to make a commitment is not treating me so well. I am learning and I am alone now, guess that is how I am meant to be.

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why do they never love back Posted: 12/21/2004 10:04:09 PM
Thanks for the replys....I know I need to give him up and I am trying very hard to. I hope someday I will be surprised and finally meet someone who can love me. I don't feel like I am such a terrible person that I don't deserve love.

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If there's no love there should you make it work for the kids? Posted: 12/20/2004 8:41:46 PM
When I was growing up, my parents fought so much we would beg them to divorce. But they stayid together. I married and thought it would be for life. When I turned 30 and he was 35, he decided I was too old to be married to, but I kept thinking I needed to stay married to him for the kids sake, no matter what he feels for me or how he treats me...........He would make the kids meet his girlfriends, tell them how great it was to have a beautiful woman on his arm instead of me...lots of things that really hurt me. Finally one day my 8y/o came to me and said "why do you stay with Daddy and let him hurt you like that. We need to leave here and make our life a good one without him". What words of wisdom from a child.

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My heart is empty! Posted: 12/20/2004 8:30:09 PM
I have been on that road before, and believe me, when they say they are just on the site messing around, they are probably on many more sites and it is messing around they want to do............in another woman's bed. You are there making life convenient for him....get rid of him, the sooner the better. I know that seems hard to do, it took me awhile, but glad I did, being alone is better than feeling alone while someone else is there.

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WEBDATE Posted: 12/16/2004 7:42:38 PM
I have an ad there also, but it is like most and I never receive messages from anyone. Guess it is me and not the site.

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ooh ooh that smell Posted: 12/13/2004 9:31:42 PM
I love the natural smell of a clean man, it is the BEST. As long as the cologne is not too strong, I like Joop or obsession also. I wear Amber Romance, from Victoria Secret and get many compliments on it.

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How do you deal with it if your one has been or is being unfaithful to you? Posted: 12/12/2004 9:01:20 PM
I am so tired of hearing people who are married trying to make it sound good that they are cheating. If you really love someone, then you work things out with them, running off with someone else as an "activities partner" is not the answer. Sex is very important to most women too. Me especially........but cheating is cheating.

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why do they never love back Posted: 11/18/2004 8:11:50 PM
Thanks to all of you for your advice. I hope that someday I will be fortunate enough to have a real love, haven't had much luck so far. And it is true, I seem to give my heart too freely and easily. Guess I need to toughen up. Hope to hear more from you all later.

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How do you deal with it if your one has been or is being unfaithful to you? Posted: 11/18/2004 7:35:27 PM
I agree that it is over, but that is also easier said than done. We always want to think we can do something to make it not happen again, but more than likely it will. I have been involved with someone for awhile who has told me upfront that although he "loves" me, he can never be monogamous. I thought that I could accept that and still be with him, but I know now it is only draining me of all emotion. So I guess we both should jump out of the relationship and move on.

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it's hard to date with children still at home Posted: 11/14/2004 8:43:10 PM
I guess what I meant was, I feel guilty for leaving my son to date, we just moved to another state and although it is where I grew up, he is just beginning to get used to it. Before, I had other children, who are married around and they enjoyed having him if I needed a sitter. It was different, now I am even more alone in being the one around for him and he gets upset if I have to be gone at night. And men who are interested in dating don't always understand that he has to be first for now and my personal life is second.

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it's hard to date with children still at home Posted: 11/14/2004 7:09:31 PM
Although I am in my 40s, I have a nine year old at home. This makes it difficult to date when asked. I keep hoping to find that someone special, but need to be here for my son, any suggestions on how to balance these two?

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he wants me and other women on the side Posted: 11/7/2004 8:26:27 AM
thanks to all of you for the advice....i know this is what i have to do, just so hard to. but i will take the advice given and hope someday i will meet someone who can be fair, honest and sincere as i am with them.

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why do they never love back Posted: 11/6/2004 8:10:25 PM
I have been married twice, and now am in a relationship with a man I love very much. But he has told me all along that there will never be a commitment between us. Yet I love him so much that I don't want to lose him. I always seem to love the ones who do not love me back. For the first time, I have a man who treats me decent, yet he will never love me. All I have ever wanted to do is love someone and be loved back. Why do you think is it no one can love me?

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he wants me and other women on the side Posted: 11/6/2004 7:58:13 PM
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. He treats me better than anyone before. We get along great most of the time and have alot in common. But the thing I can not seem to handle is the fact that he says he has to have other women for sex. He claims he only has feelings for me, but can not be monogamous. This means either I let him have his time with these others and not get upset, or he leaves. Well a couple of times I have asked him to leave, which he does, but he always comes back and tells me he is sorry he hurts me, but this is something he has to do. He also tries to encourage me to have sex with other guys, claims he would like to hear the stories if I do. When I have gotten to the point of feeling I can no longer take this and ask him to leave, I miss him so much. At times he talks of us being together for good someday. We did live together, but he moved out when I told him how much all this was hurting me. But whenever he is not working, he is usually here. Except for when he has to meet one of his women for sex, and expects me not to feel bad about it. What should I do, give up completely and just be alone always, or take what time I can with him?

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