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Joined: 8/2/2006

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How come people don't get your kids come 1st? Posted: 9/2/2009 2:42:41 PM
he was running a fever and yakking. so trying to keep his medicine down and his fever down by wet towels & baths.

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How come people don't get your kids come 1st? Posted: 9/2/2009 2:39:00 PM
Didn't want to make the very 1st call to her to be "hi, how are you, gotta go my kids sick" Honestly for a 1st call to be real short like that wouldn't of made a stitch of difference because of all the men/women that snub dates or calls.

Joined: 8/2/2006

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How come people don't get your kids come 1st? Posted: 9/1/2009 9:23:31 PM
Been raising my boys for 8years now, they spend a night or 2 a week with thier mom, she's been pretty good lately. I'm just in awwh how many women just don't "get it". I've had the bait & switch done too. Women tend to get pissy when they play that and lose, & they get the "C------YA!!!!"

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How come people don't get your kids come 1st? Posted: 9/1/2009 5:15:22 PM
ya I know "S.O.S" at some point ya think they'll catch on, after enough guys kick them to the curb because of it.

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How come people don't get your kids come 1st? Posted: 9/1/2009 3:46:02 PM
I was talking to a woman, we exchanged #'s left it as "I'll try to call you tonite" my son got sick so I spent night tending to him. I wrote her the next day telling her that, she left nasty replies, so I told her my sick kid comes 1st, C--YA!

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Female Serial Cheaters - Strong Personality? Posted: 6/6/2009 8:00:50 PM
I want to say they get into an unhappy state of mind with existing partner, whether it be tiny minor nonsense between them or more serious issues & seek attention from others which leads to to be unfaithful. Or just flat out needy for attention!

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Ladies, Want to know what happened to all the Nice Guys? Posted: 6/6/2009 7:56:01 PM
OK I really hate to say it, but your post is dead on balls accurate, alot of women don't want that nice guy that is readily available to her, they rather the guys who are more of a challenge, which usually leads to her eventually figuring out that these "challenging guys are douchebags, she gets dumped on, used, abused & reused. Then she can't find the nice readily available guy, & asks "what happened to all the nice guys" answer is "YOU DID"

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full-time single dads Posted: 4/6/2009 7:10:28 PM
I'm glad to hear women pay us fulltime single dad's respect, I know we have more respect for fulltime single mom's than men w/o kids or "at own convience dads", we know what it takes on a daily basis.

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what is everyones opin on tattoos? Posted: 4/6/2009 7:02:01 PM
I don't think it's a big deal either having them or not having them, they can be a extension of one's beauty. If you have them, I feel you should have a tattoo of something meaningful in your life or about yourself. I have 2 tattoo's both have meaning to me.

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Dead beat mothers....yes mothers Posted: 8/19/2008 2:52:59 PM
Well I've been in that situation, she'll be in or out of the kids life, as she pleases, but if she choose everything else over her kids, the kids are smarter then we can give them credit for, they will make thier own decision about her. She may come around later for them, the kids will take it slow w/her on thier own. It is her loss if she doesn't choose them 1st.

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How to be single on Valentines day Posted: 2/14/2008 8:14:11 PM
thank you, that is truly what it is, I actually think Hallmark invented it!!

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Why are most men looking for Friends with Benefits? Posted: 12/28/2007 12:54:07 PM
excuse me there is alot of women that are out there, that are the same way. Why does it always haveto be the guys with the bad rap??? This subject isn't the most healthy of situations but it still takes two and both parties maybe don't want thier heart kicked around like a soccerball. Friends are at least are safe or trustworthy.

Joined: 8/2/2006

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Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 12/27/2007 6:28:46 PM
There are women that want it all, the steady guy and date others. BBD that steady guy might be about 90% of what she wants, but will keep looking for that 100%, and keep the steady guy as fallback crutch(family, friend functions, handyman,and the 2/3am booty calls). IT is pretty sad, cause guys usually get the blame for various things!

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CHEATING as a self defense, protection tool.... Posted: 12/27/2007 6:07:38 PM
Basically the situation at that point is a mess, everybody invoved is getting sh** on, and everybody becomes miserable. These situations actually ruin good people that were out there. some people are afraid of being alone and need to jump from person to person. It is pretty freakin sad that this can be justified by some people!!

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Are men more attracted to women that play hard to get? Posted: 12/27/2007 5:38:27 PM
I agree!! Women "playing hard to get" operative word playing, IT'S A GAME, the only men that will play are players, most men with depth look at hard get as she's playing, and can't be bothered! In the words of Donald Trump "You're Fired" Not to be calice but it is what it is!

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Why do some guy's run from Love? Posted: 12/27/2007 8:21:56 AM
Well women play that game too, they want that fall back crutch while they seek others to satisfy thier need for attention from others! Or they want that "trophy" girlfriend/boyfriend to bring around friends or family. They call when it seems to be thier leisure, but it's really when something falls apart, or they're alone(fallback crutch). So my advice to anyone it this situation is bail, because you can't keep going for more rounds in a boxing match, that's all it ends up being!!! Trust me!! Hopefully there are women/men that are "sane" and don't thrive on drama.

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Broken hearted need some advice . Posted: 2/12/2007 5:01:00 PM
Did you contacting her drop off, like you were letting her make the 1st contact daily, it sounds similar to what I just went thru or going thru. She wants to be the center of attention and she's not she looks for it, thus the 3 month mark you said. Trust me if that's the case you're better off without that's what all my friends are telling me, ya it's easy to say. Let her go a little everyday, don't drink too much, enough to let you sleep, try to keep your focus on work and your kids, like I said it's easy to say. later

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so not true Posted: 2/8/2007 2:06:49 PM
well some people are cold, and get into relationships wihout there being chemistry, and that becomes short lived. But if you're questioning if he loved you, you have to think about the times you seen each other the 1st time on any given day(maybe back to the 1st couple of monthes) his facial expression will tell you if he did love at 1 time.

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